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Inspired by the earlier thread on whether female fab members could orgasm from oral, I thought that rather than hi-jack that thread I would start a new one.
So, for the men in fab land:
Can you orgasm from oral, does a bj make you cum or not?
And to answer my own question, I’ve never had an orgasm from oral sex, I don’t know why but I can get almost there but never actual reach that climax. |
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"I never knew this was a problem for people until I saw it on FAB. Probably a link with overuse of porn maybe.
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I do know there is research that over use or addiction to porn can lead to men being unable to orgasm as easily.
Which if it affected orgasm in all circumstances, masturbation, oral and penetrative sex, would be a possible explanation.
However, in my case, coming from an era where teenage porn was the lingerie section of the Littlewoods catalogue or a battered copy of fiesta it wouldn’t explain being able to orgasm from all other sexual acts just not oral. |
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Yep no problems cuming from a blow job. Its about the technique though more than anything. Mrs says she is able to read my reactions so she know when shes hitting the spot |
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It’s all about the technique of the person sucking...
I think a lot of women get blowjobs wrong or at least have in my experience. But then how often do guys tactfully tell them what feels good. Maybe they’re in a rush to get down to fucking?
For me it’s all about a relaxed mouth, plenty of saliva (messier the better) and lots of bobbing back and forth.
Too much tongue and actual sucking do nothing for me.
If done right a blowjob can be utterly dreamy!!!
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"  I never knew this, is it rare that they do then?! "
Not in my life experience.
I too am surprised how many guys say they can’t.
As previously mentioned it’s all in the technique and eagerness of the sucker...
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I've only ever came once from nothing more than a blow job....but it was a proper face fucking blow job. A normal blow job is ace but not enough to warrant a load. |
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"It’s all about the technique of the person sucking...
I think a lot of women get blowjobs wrong or at least have in my experience. But then how often do guys tactfully tell them what feels good. Maybe they’re in a rush to get down to fucking?
For me it’s all about a relaxed mouth, plenty of saliva (messier the better) and lots of bobbing back and forth.
Too much tongue and actual sucking do nothing for me.
If done right a blowjob can be utterly dreamy!!!
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So more the sensation of the lips moving over you?
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Hmmmm
I have recently found a fwb and he pleasures me to orgasm... many times.. so I’d like to try my bestest for him.
Any secret tips from guys I could try??
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"Hmmmm
I have recently found a fwb and he pleasures me to orgasm... many times.. so I’d like to try my bestest for him.
Any secret tips from guys I could try??
Thanks "
Stick a finger up his ass at the same time  |
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I think technique and style have a lot to do with it. If 100% effort is truly given and the man is sexually stimulated it will happen. Lots of bad techniques out there from both males and females. |
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2-3 times to my memory and always by a gf/fwb.
For me, it’s the holy grail. It takes me a while to cum anyway and most women aren’t interested in persisting, which is a shame as I surely return the favour. |
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"Hmmmm
I have recently found a fwb and he pleasures me to orgasm... many times.. so I’d like to try my bestest for him.
Any secret tips from guys I could try??
Thanks
Stick a finger up his ass at the same time "
Done that |
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"I think technique and style have a lot to do with it. If 100% effort is truly given and the man is sexually stimulated it will happen. Lots of bad techniques out there from both males and females. "
I'm not 100% in agreement here. On several occasions I have been over stimulated and remained teetering on the edge of cumming for ages but failed to actually deliver the goods. Sometimes the absolute best blow job can be that bit over stimulating and do this in my case. |
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"Yep no problems cuming from a blow job. Its about the technique though more than anything. Mrs says she is able to read my reactions so she know when shes hitting the spot"
This I would have to agree with if you focus completely on the task in hand or rather mouth, in this instance, then you can actually feel the reactions and adjust your technique accordingly. |
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"So more the sensation of the lips moving over you?
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Yeah, certainly so for me. The up and down action should be firm but not tight. Teeth well out of the way, plenty salvia too as I mentioned.
Also get a hand involved, a nice wanking as you suck helps...
Anal stimulation is ALWAYS a winner too (for me at least!!)
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"I think technique and style have a lot to do with it. If 100% effort is truly given and the man is sexually stimulated it will happen. Lots of bad techniques out there from both males and females. "
Technique and style definitely has a lot to do with it...some women don't understand that a great blowjob involves more than sticking it in their mouth and sucking hard as possible...the same way that some guys don't understand there's more to eating pussy than frantic aimless tonguing. Unfortunately too many people just do it rather than treating it as a skill and art to be mastered...and that everyone needs a different approach |
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"I think technique and style have a lot to do with it. If 100% effort is truly given and the man is sexually stimulated it will happen. Lots of bad techniques out there from both males and females.
I'm not 100% in agreement here. On several occasions I have been over stimulated and remained teetering on the edge of cumming for ages but failed to actually deliver the goods. Sometimes the absolute best blow job can be that bit over stimulating and do this in my case."
Is that actually a thing? My wife often says she's too tired to sleep, and I don't get that either. But I'm a simple soul... |
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"It’s all about the technique of the person sucking...
I think a lot of women get blowjobs wrong or at least have in my experience. But then how often do guys tactfully tell them what feels good. Maybe they’re in a rush to get down to fucking?
For me it’s all about a relaxed mouth, plenty of saliva (messier the better) and lots of bobbing back and forth.
Too much tongue and actual sucking do nothing for me.
If done right a blowjob can be utterly dreamy!!!
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I love it when guys tell you what they like. It saves a lot of guessing and trial and error. |
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over a year ago
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"Inspired by the earlier thread on whether female fab members could orgasm from oral, I thought that rather than hi-jack that thread I would start a new one.
So, for the men in fab land:
Can you orgasm from oral, does a bj make you cum or not?
And to answer my own question, I’ve never had an orgasm from oral sex, I don’t know why but I can get almost there but never actual reach that climax."
Yes.
Unless they really dont know what they're doing.
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"I think technique and style have a lot to do with it. If 100% effort is truly given and the man is sexually stimulated it will happen. Lots of bad techniques out there from both males and females.
Technique and style definitely has a lot to do with it...some women don't understand that a great blowjob involves more than sticking it in their mouth and sucking hard as possible...the same way that some guys don't understand there's more to eating pussy than frantic aimless tonguing. Unfortunately too many people just do it rather than treating it as a skill and art to be mastered...and that everyone needs a different approach"
Couldn’t agree more. Hot breath and the touch of soft lips against the cock, the tongue teasing out the pre cum juices. Then the mouth and hands come out to play......... |
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No ive found it very hard too... the only ones that have managed it are the ones that read my reactions take it nice and slow... the ones that just go all pornstar on it deep throaring and rough tend to make me flop |
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I've cum from a blowjob once, when I was 27 or so.
Weeks before the event, this lady said to me; "You'll cum if I do it". I was like "Yeah ok, I've heard that before". This particular lady happened to be right!
She basically edged me for 20 minutes or so. I tried grabbing her to fuck her, I tried to resolve it, but she refused and carried on sucking. I remember thinking to myself; "It's not going to work, I'm going to end up going soft soon". I never did though! I got rock solid, my dick was pulsating, and in the end, after her doing her thing, I felt as though I was losing my mind. I remember begging her to let me finish! Yes, begging!!!
She would go fast and deep, then slow right down. Then repeat... it was driving me crazy.
In the end, she let me cum after driving me crazy with it. The orgasm was the most powerful I've ever had in my life. So much so that my body was shaking after it. I had about 10 squirts, my body was jolting uncontrollably as I did each squirt. After it, I could barely move, like as if my muscles were dead or something.
It was amazing... I never had anything like that before it or after it.
But to the guys who can't cum from bj - I believe you can, but you just need extra attention. |
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I had a horny guy cumin my mouth he had given me an unexpectedly sound thrashing and i was feeling really submissive and excited.
I was massaging his balls and probing his bottom; he was controlling my head quite ruthlessly while looking at pictures of my wife topless
His cum was hot and salty s it hit the roof of my mouth he pulled my head off as i gasped for air and the sweet manly still on his cock
He immediately told me to put my shirt and jeans on and leave I was shocked but incredibly excited as i went down in the lift still wearing the bra under my thin shirt and my cock was still twitching in the panties, as some guys joined me in the lift I was terrified that thy could see my bra and my stockings at the ankle but really so excited I was shaking |
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i didnt even know that is possible not to cum from blowjobs! i love blowjobs! blowjobs make me cum quicker and harder! i had a girl who made me cum 3 times in a row just by sucking my cock! |
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"For all the guys saying they can't or have never cum from a blowjob....
Just ask her to slip a cheeky finger up your chuff mid gobble.
Problem solved. 
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Any ladies reading this, help a man out! |
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"I never knew this was a problem for people until I saw it on FAB. Probably a link with overuse of porn maybe.
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Probably or maybe? Not judgemental at all  
Prusumably a woman who says she doesn't orgasm easily or can't orgasm from intercourse or perhaps oral must be at fault in a similar way? Or is it just that men are simple creatures who all orgasm at the flash of a table leg and any failure to behave like this must be due to their over indulgence in the sin of pornography?
I have come from oral but it is rare, find it very difficult to relax enough to let go. Often the sensation is more like edging and I end up so tensed I get cramp in my calves. I do still enjoy oral as a part of foreplay though. |
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"I never knew this was a problem for people until I saw it on FAB. Probably a link with overuse of porn maybe.
Probably or maybe? Not judgemental at all
Prusumably a woman who says she doesn't orgasm easily or can't orgasm from intercourse or perhaps oral must be at fault in a similar way? Or is it just that men are simple creatures who all orgasm at the flash of a table leg and any failure to behave like this must be due to their over indulgence in the sin of pornography?
I have come from oral but it is rare, find it very difficult to relax enough to let go. Often the sensation is more like edging and I end up so tensed I get cramp in my calves. I do still enjoy oral as a part of foreplay though. "
I was reading recently that men who were brought up on or rely on easily accessible internet porn and are that used to wanking off(they actually termed it the"death grip" in the article I read) can't come through vaginal or oral sex as it doesn't feel the same. Was quite eye opening.
Nowt to do with me being judgemental darling.
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"I never knew this was a problem for people until I saw it on FAB. Probably a link with overuse of porn maybe.
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Not for me, I've always struggled to cum from oral alone. Feels great but just doesn't tip me over the edge.
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"Inspired by the earlier thread on whether female fab members could orgasm from oral, I thought that rather than hi-jack that thread I would start a new one.
So, for the men in fab land:
Can you orgasm from oral, does a bj make you cum or not?
And to answer my own question, I’ve never had an orgasm from oral sex, I don’t know why but I can get almost there but never actual reach that climax."
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If it hits the mark then I’m done |
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Only one of my ex’s made me orgasm from oral and literally she had to stop me from doing anything to her, but she wouldn’t let me. And that is the only time I ever have. It took ages though. |
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I rarely reach a climax from a BJ & it’s nothing to do with the quality of the BJ, I’ve had some amazing BJ’s in my time & the only time I can really let go is when I’m in control of the action rather than laying back...with say a nice round bum in my face, sorry, slightly off track but you know |
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I've only known one woman who could consistently bring me to orgasm through oral stimulation only.
I do wank off to porn, I enjoy a good edging for a couple of hours before letting fly, and love the huge volume of cum I produce this way!
I cum quite easily through vaginal or anal (women only, don't get excited boys) penetration, sometimes TOO easily, and other times very controlled, it just depends on the mood at the time, person I'm with etc. I quite often cum three times......
But bj's? I guess I just need someone to 'reset' my mind or something..... |
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"I never knew this was a problem for people until I saw it on FAB. Probably a link with overuse of porn maybe.
Probably or maybe? Not judgemental at all
Prusumably a woman who says she doesn't orgasm easily or can't orgasm from intercourse or perhaps oral must be at fault in a similar way? Or is it just that men are simple creatures who all orgasm at the flash of a table leg and any failure to behave like this must be due to their over indulgence in the sin of pornography?
I have come from oral but it is rare, find it very difficult to relax enough to let go. Often the sensation is more like edging and I end up so tensed I get cramp in my calves. I do still enjoy oral as a part of foreplay though.
I was reading recently that men who were brought up on or rely on easily accessible internet porn and are that used to wanking off(they actually termed it the"death grip" in the article I read) can't come through vaginal or oral sex as it doesn't feel the same. Was quite eye opening.
Nowt to do with me being judgemental darling.
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And because it was in an article it must be true and must apply to everyone?
I'm struggling to understand how your comment can be anything other than judgemental. You have a similar issue yourself - and I assume you don't believe porn is the cause of it 'not feeling the same' for you, yet you know the probable cause of the issue for others without even speaking to them?
'Judgemental - tending to form opinions too quickly, esp. when disapproving of someone or something' |
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