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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Bit of an odd question...
What do woman look for in face pics? I dont think im a bad looking guy but i do get a lot of rejections on this site... I cant post a public pic due to my job but always send them when messaging.
Happy to send you one and maybe you can tell me where im going wrong? Thanks!  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Or perhaps it's not your face pic that is leading to the rejections?
Attraction goes beyond just the face for a lot of people, they will look at your profile and pics, and the content of your message as deciding factors too.
And even if it were just purely based on your face, the way I think of it is this way, of the people I pass in the street, I maybe find 5% attractive enough to have an interest in them - of those 5% maybe 5% will have a similar interest in me - so the actual "match" rate is very low - it's no different here, you can't expect to be attracted to everyone, nor expect everyone to be attracted to you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Or perhaps it's not your face pic that is leading to the rejections?
Attraction goes beyond just the face for a lot of people, they will look at your profile and pics, and the content of your message as deciding factors too.
And even if it were just purely based on your face, the way I think of it is this way, of the people I pass in the street, I maybe find 5% attractive enough to have an interest in them - of those 5% maybe 5% will have a similar interest in me - so the actual "match" rate is very low - it's no different here, you can't expect to be attracted to everyone, nor expect everyone to be attracted to you."
Very true. Just frustrating tbh! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Or perhaps it's not your face pic that is leading to the rejections?
Attraction goes beyond just the face for a lot of people, they will look at your profile and pics, and the content of your message as deciding factors too.
And even if it were just purely based on your face, the way I think of it is this way, of the people I pass in the street, I maybe find 5% attractive enough to have an interest in them - of those 5% maybe 5% will have a similar interest in me - so the actual "match" rate is very low - it's no different here, you can't expect to be attracted to everyone, nor expect everyone to be attracted to you."
I may change some of my bio! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s mostly the guys jawline and chin for me, and I like a decent sized set of eyebrows. Then it’s around the eyes, not too close together but it’s usually the guys jawline and chin that make him handsome. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Or perhaps it's not your face pic that is leading to the rejections?
Attraction goes beyond just the face for a lot of people, they will look at your profile and pics, and the content of your message as deciding factors too.
And even if it were just purely based on your face, the way I think of it is this way, of the people I pass in the street, I maybe find 5% attractive enough to have an interest in them - of those 5% maybe 5% will have a similar interest in me - so the actual "match" rate is very low - it's no different here, you can't expect to be attracted to everyone, nor expect everyone to be attracted to you.
Very true. Just frustrating tbh! "
It's only frustrating if you allow it to be or have your expectations incorrectly set - why would you expect it to be any different here than out in the real world when it comes to attraction? |
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"It’s mostly the guys jawline and chin for me, and I like a decent sized set of eyebrows. Then it’s around the eyes, not too close together but it’s usually the guys jawline and chin that make him handsome. "
Other than the jawline im pretty close! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Or perhaps it's not your face pic that is leading to the rejections?
Attraction goes beyond just the face for a lot of people, they will look at your profile and pics, and the content of your message as deciding factors too.
And even if it were just purely based on your face, the way I think of it is this way, of the people I pass in the street, I maybe find 5% attractive enough to have an interest in them - of those 5% maybe 5% will have a similar interest in me - so the actual "match" rate is very low - it's no different here, you can't expect to be attracted to everyone, nor expect everyone to be attracted to you.
Very true. Just frustrating tbh!
It's only frustrating if you allow it to be or have your expectations incorrectly set - why would you expect it to be any different here than out in the real world when it comes to attraction?"
Good question! I dont have bad luck in person, and i do much better on dating websites but here... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You actually do have a nice chin and mouth from what I can see.
Ask for profile and picture feedback and I can give a more detailed response. "
Can i send you over a pic? |
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"You actually do have a nice chin and mouth from what I can see.
Ask for profile and picture feedback and I can give a more detailed response.
Can i send you over a pic? "
No cos it’s another person I’ll have to answer and I have 2,371 messages as it is.
Just ask for profile feedback. Can’t give it unless you ask for it you see. |
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