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By *mber OP Woman
over a year ago
Preston |
When I look on the looked at me section. It only ever shows couples and females.
According to the list, not a single man has ever looked at my profile.
I know they have because I've had messages and I don't believe they're all hidden.
Any ideas why?
In the grand scheme of things it doesn't really matter but I'm curious. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"When I look on the looked at me section. It only ever shows couples and females.
According to the list, not a single man has ever looked at my profile.
I know they have because I've had messages and I don't believe they're all hidden.
Any ideas why?
In the grand scheme of things it doesn't really matter but I'm curious."
If single men can't message you due to filters they won't appear on your who's looked at me section.
Don't feel bad Op. Women can message me and virtually no one looks. Still having fun   |
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By *mber OP Woman
over a year ago
Preston |
"Because you're not looking for single guys on your looking for list, I don't think it shows up."
Oh well that's even weirder because that's the reason I'm here  and the box is ticked. 
And the text says "Not looking for single guys, looking for men ages 35-49" ha ha ha which made me chuckle. Guys....nope, men...come to me
I've no idea what's going on. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Because you're not looking for single guys on your looking for list, I don't think it shows up.
Oh well that's even weirder because that's the reason I'm here and the box is ticked.
And the text says "Not looking for single guys, looking for men ages 35-49" ha ha ha which made me chuckle. Guys....nope, men...come to me
I've no idea what's going on."
Looking for men but none can message...quite the pickle! |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Which section do I go into to change it?
I've gone into the "looking for" section and 'men' is ticked. Is there another bit that I need to go into?"
Message filters. Men should be ticked green. |
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By *mber OP Woman
over a year ago
Preston |
"Which section do I go into to change it?
I've gone into the "looking for" section and 'men' is ticked. Is there another bit that I need to go into?
Message filters. Men should be ticked green."
I've got it set so that nobody can message ATM. Just because I'm busy but I don't know got to change it to say that I am looking for men (for when I lift the message thing) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I look on the looked at me section. It only ever shows couples and females.
According to the list, not a single man has ever looked at my profile.
I know they have because I've had messages and I don't believe they're all hidden.
Any ideas why?
In the grand scheme of things it doesn't really matter but I'm curious."
youve blocked all men in your filters so men won't show   |
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"When I look on the looked at me section. It only ever shows couples and females.
According to the list, not a single man has ever looked at my profile.
I know they have because I've had messages and I don't believe they're all hidden.
Any ideas why?
In the grand scheme of things it doesn't really matter but I'm curious."
I've just looked on your profile, and very nice it is too, but your preferences state 'not looking for single guys' i'm guessing that's why!?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go into your account, message filters and adjust accordingly. If you block a particular group from messaging you, they not only won't be able to send you a message, they also won't show on your 'looked at me' section. |
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By *mber OP Woman
over a year ago
Preston |
"Go into your account, message filters and adjust accordingly. If you block a particular group from messaging you, they not only won't be able to send you a message, they also won't show on your 'looked at me' section. "
Thanks.
It must be how the system is set up because I took all the blocks off and it said looking for men. But with all the blocks on it only stops info from men being shown the couples, women and TVS all
still show up.
That explains it, even though I don't really understand it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I look on the looked at me section. It only ever shows couples and females.
According to the list, not a single man has ever looked at my profile.
I know they have because I've had messages and I don't believe they're all hidden.
Any ideas why?
In the grand scheme of things it doesn't really matter but I'm curious."
I've looked at you,quite a lot! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah as others have said, cos you have “not looking for single men” they won’t appear on who’s looked at me.
I can’t see couples or women and I’m sure there’s at least a few couples profiles and women that look at mine.
I wonder if it will still show the amount of views without the actual individuals.
Only asking cos I’ve had over 14 thousand views today and I know that in the past any verifications I’ve had public they’ve said their views take a hammering when I’ve had a lot of views. |
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By *mber OP Woman
over a year ago
Preston |
"Yeah as others have said, cos you have “not looking for single men” they won’t appear on who’s looked at me.
I can’t see couples or women and I’m sure there’s at least a few couples profiles and women that look at mine.
I wonder if it will still show the amount of views without the actual individuals.
Only asking cos I’ve had over 14 thousand views today and I know that in the past any verifications I’ve had public they’ve said their views take a hammering when I’ve had a lot of views. "
But I can see couples and females and I'm not looking for them either! Although when I lifted the message block the looked at me number jumped up and men appeared on the list. But I've put the block back on and the men have gone and the couples and women have stayed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah as others have said, cos you have “not looking for single men” they won’t appear on who’s looked at me.
I can’t see couples or women and I’m sure there’s at least a few couples profiles and women that look at mine.
I wonder if it will still show the amount of views without the actual individuals.
Only asking cos I’ve had over 14 thousand views today and I know that in the past any verifications I’ve had public they’ve said their views take a hammering when I’ve had a lot of views.
But I can see couples and females and I'm not looking for them either! Although when I lifted the message block the looked at me number jumped up and men appeared on the list. But I've put the block back on and the men have gone and the couples and women have stayed."
Ahh so any body that has not looking for single men wouldn’t even see the total number of views. |
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By *mber OP Woman
over a year ago
Preston |
"When I look on the looked at me section. It only ever shows couples and females.
According to the list, not a single man has ever looked at my profile.
I know they have because I've had messages and I don't believe they're all hidden.
Any ideas why?
In the grand scheme of things it doesn't really matter but I'm curious.
I've looked at you,quite a lot!"
Have you? 
Well, if you don't tell anyone, nobody will know because it doesn't show up your secret is safe. |
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By *mber OP Woman
over a year ago
Preston |
"Yeah as others have said, cos you have “not looking for single men” they won’t appear on who’s looked at me.
I can’t see couples or women and I’m sure there’s at least a few couples profiles and women that look at mine.
I wonder if it will still show the amount of views without the actual individuals.
Only asking cos I’ve had over 14 thousand views today and I know that in the past any verifications I’ve had public they’ve said their views take a hammering when I’ve had a lot of views.
But I can see couples and females and I'm not looking for them either! Although when I lifted the message block the looked at me number jumped up and men appeared on the list. But I've put the block back on and the men have gone and the couples and women have stayed.
Ahh so any body that has not looking for single men wouldn’t even see the total number of views. "
Exactly. So mine was at 50 ish but when I lifted the block it went to 300 ish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah as others have said, cos you have “not looking for single men” they won’t appear on who’s looked at me.
I can’t see couples or women and I’m sure there’s at least a few couples profiles and women that look at mine.
I wonder if it will still show the amount of views without the actual individuals.
Only asking cos I’ve had over 14 thousand views today and I know that in the past any verifications I’ve had public they’ve said their views take a hammering when I’ve had a lot of views.
But I can see couples and females and I'm not looking for them either! Although when I lifted the message block the looked at me number jumped up and men appeared on the list. But I've put the block back on and the men have gone and the couples and women have stayed.
Ahh so any body that has not looking for single men wouldn’t even see the total number of views.
Exactly. So mine was at 50 ish but when I lifted the block it went to 300 ish. "
Ahh, I didn’t know that. Nice one. |
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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago
Biddulph |
My looked at me shows everyone who has looked at me (except stealth modes), despite me only looking for single men.
No idea what is going on with others, but mine shows men/women/couples/tv/ts of all ages, regardless of filters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don’t tick the meet single guy box but can see they looked at us?? Is it because we don’t block them? Confused 
Whaaaaaat? That's even more confusing. Give me my men back "
are you saying you have not blocked men in your filters if so go into filters and make a definite change of your filter settings if that doesn't work go to admin |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hold onto the feeling,
streetlights, people  "
Knew you would follow me on my madness !
Mind you that sentence could easily be applied to everythreads, a bit like follow your heart op  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hold onto the feeling,
streetlights, people
Knew you would follow me on my madness !
Mind you that sentence could easily be applied to everythreads, a bit like follow your heart op "
shes just after our attention give it to her lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hold onto the feeling,
streetlights, people
Knew you would follow me on my madness !
Mind you that sentence could easily be applied to everythreads, a bit like follow your heart op shes just after our attention give it to her lol "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I look on the looked at me section. It only ever shows couples and females.
According to the list, not a single man has ever looked at my profile.
I know they have because I've had messages and I don't believe they're all hidden.
Any ideas why?
In the grand scheme of things it doesn't really matter but I'm curious."
Looked and fabbed x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hold onto the feeling,
streetlights, people
Knew you would follow me on my madness !
Mind you that sentence could easily be applied to everythreads, a bit like follow your heart op shes just after our attention give it to her lol
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my fav records on now............ where did i go where did i come from |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hold onto the feeling,
streetlights, people
Knew you would follow me on my madness !
Mind you that sentence could easily be applied to everythreads, a bit like follow your heart op shes just after our attention give it to her lol
my fav records on now............ where did i go where did i come from "
Behind Aldi ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hold onto the feeling,
streetlights, people
Knew you would follow me on my madness !
Mind you that sentence could easily be applied to everythreads, a bit like follow your heart op shes just after our attention give it to her lol
my fav records on now............ where did i go where did i come from
Behind Aldi ? "
as good a place as any was there last night |
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By *mber OP Woman
over a year ago
Preston |
"hold onto the feeling,
streetlights, people
Knew you would follow me on my madness !
Mind you that sentence could easily be applied to everythreads, a bit like follow your heart op shes just after our attention give it to her lol "
How very rude I will accept attention that comes my way but I'm not fishing for it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because you're not looking for single guys on your looking for list, I don't think it shows up.
Oh well that's even weirder because that's the reason I'm here and the box is ticked.
And the text says "Not looking for single guys, looking for men ages 35-49" ha ha ha which made me chuckle. Guys....nope, men...come to me
I've no idea what's going on."
Also you have blocked nen from messaging you |
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By *mber OP Woman
over a year ago
Preston |
"Because you're not looking for single guys on your looking for list, I don't think it shows up.
Oh well that's even weirder because that's the reason I'm here and the box is ticked.
And the text says "Not looking for single guys, looking for men ages 35-49" ha ha ha which made me chuckle. Guys....nope, men...come to me
I've no idea what's going on.
Also you have blocked nen from messaging you"
I know, I've blocked everyone from messaging me. I'm just busy and don't want people to waste their time on me when I can't give the same back.
Because being rejected is crap. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm confused....not for the first time on fab.
I went I looked and found....
Not looking for single males...
Single males are blocked from messaging you...
Perhaps I missed something? Or perhaps your profile brings the responses or absence thereof that you have created for yourself? |
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"When I look on the looked at me section. It only ever shows couples and females.
According to the list, not a single man has ever looked at my profile.
I know they have because I've had messages and I don't believe they're all hidden.
Any ideas why?
In the grand scheme of things it doesn't really matter but I'm curious."
Soon to be snowed under the volume of messages, winks and friends requests!!!
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By *mber OP Woman
over a year ago
Preston |
"I'm confused....not for the first time on fab.
I went I looked and found....
Not looking for single males...
Single males are blocked from messaging you...
Perhaps I missed something? Or perhaps your profile brings the responses or absence thereof that you have created for yourself?"
Here's the thing. I'm looking for men (technically) but I've turned all of my message filters on so that nobody can message ATM.
But....my profile says 'not looking for men' it doesn't say 'not looking for anyone' and the looked at me bit shows me everyone apart from men.
I'd get it if it didn't show anyone at all.
It just seems odd. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I look on the looked at me section. It only ever shows couples and females.
According to the list, not a single man has ever looked at my profile.
I know they have because I've had messages and I don't believe they're all hidden.
Any ideas why?
In the grand scheme of things it doesn't really matter but I'm curious."
I just did. Fab gallery |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I look on the looked at me section. It only ever shows couples and females.
According to the list, not a single man has ever looked at my profile.
I know they have because I've had messages and I don't believe they're all hidden.
Any ideas why?
In the grand scheme of things it doesn't really matter but I'm curious."
I just looked and very much enjoyed it. Nice glass of gin at your toes! |
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"It's only single men, who when message filtered, will not show on looked at me.
With the exception of those who opt to not show.
Same here. Must be the way the site is set up."
It is the way the site works, for everyone
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"We don’t tick the meet single guy box but can see they looked at us?? Is it because we don’t block them? Confused
Whaaaaaat? That's even more confusing. Give me my men back are you saying you have not blocked men in your filters if so go into filters and make a definite change of your filter settings if that doesn't work go to admin "
We don’t want to block single men as we do meet occasionally, we just don’t tick the box in looking for section as it keeps messages down but can see the guys who looked at us. |
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"When I look on the looked at me section. It only ever shows couples and females.
According to the list, not a single man has ever looked at my profile.
I know they have because I've had messages and I don't believe they're all hidden.
Any ideas why?
In the grand scheme of things it doesn't really matter but I'm curious."
When I have a look at your profile it says profile not available so you must have us bloked |
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