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over a year ago
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"Generally larger girls, who feel they need to justify it."
huh? So men aren't using those now? It's always the women? Why should a woman need to justify their size? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Generally larger girls, who feel they need to justify it.
Why the need to justify?
They don't, but they do."
Political reply but I just don't get all this defensive stance some have on size its not as though people can't find someone who like them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Generally larger girls, who feel they need to justify it.
Not justify, far more sexy than any skinny lady."
Thats not very nice, im a slimmer lady! We can be very sexy too! Positive discrimination  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Generally larger girls, who feel they need to justify it.
Why the need to justify?
They don't, but they do."
so if your a big girl and you put large on your profile thats them justifying their size?
just out of interest which option do you think they should choose athletic? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Generally larger girls, who feel they need to justify it.
Why the need to justify?
They don't, but they do.
Political reply but I just don't get all this defensive stance some have on size its not as though people can't find someone who like them."
Not a political reply, my own preference is BBW. Love 18+ figure, but most see themselves as overweight, and use these terms to describe themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Generally larger girls, who feel they need to justify it.
Why the need to justify?
They don't, but they do.
Political reply but I just don't get all this defensive stance some have on size its not as though people can't find someone who like them.
Not a political reply, my own preference is BBW. Love 18+ figure, but most see themselves as overweight, and use these terms to describe themselves."
a size 18+ is over weight, dont mean they are justifying themselves tho because they know they cary weight, and BBW isnt an option when selecting body size on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What the craic here?
Fabulous! Ha Ha Ha what does it mean?  "
same as curvy 
think is you put what you think you are
i have looked at many profile and thought their pic didnt match what they classed their body size to be, but hey its their profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're picking an argument that isn't there Nympho. Everyone has an opinion of their own size, & generally are more genorous than others would be. I love women with fuller figures, large breasts, curvy thighs etc., Almost all the women I have ever had a relationship with, would be described as large, but that is my preference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You're picking an argument that isn't there Nympho. Everyone has an opinion of their own size, & generally are more genorous than others would be. I love women with fuller figures, large breasts, curvy thighs etc., Almost all the women I have ever had a relationship with, would be described as large, but that is my preference. "
actually i have no intentions of arguing with you, its a internet site not real life
I class myself as ample built but i dont justify my size to anyone, thats all i was saying, knowing your over weight and letting other know that too does not mean your justifying yourself it just means your honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You're picking an argument that isn't there Nympho. Everyone has an opinion of their own size, & generally are more genorous than others would be. I love women with fuller figures, large breasts, curvy thighs etc., Almost all the women I have ever had a relationship with, would be described as large, but that is my preference.
actually i have no intentions of arguing with you, its a internet site not real life
I class myself as ample built but i dont justify my size to anyone, thats all i was saying, knowing your over weight and letting other know that too does not mean your justifying yourself it just means your honest"
I'm not saying that you do, (or need to). Many women do though, they have an idea of what they think they should be, and act with that mentality. Looking at your pictures, I would describe you as average, or slightly below average build. Certainly not ample.
My point is, that women who consider themselves overweight, tend to describe themselves as curvy/fabulous/bbw, rather than large or fat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh for the love of whatever!!!!!!!!!!
Is there anything other than size threads today 
Who bloody cares pick what u want and go for it we r all fecking different! Men women those who haven't decided! Who cares 
Put a naked body pic on and show it, if u don't want to be with it and it makes u vomit move on
If it makes u wet horny or hard go for it
Whoops I had a rant
Forgive me my darling fabsters  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh for the love of whatever!!!!!!!!!!
Is there anything other than size threads today
Who bloody cares pick what u want and go for it we r all fecking different! Men women those who haven't decided! Who cares
Put a naked body pic on and show it, if u don't want to be with it and it makes u vomit move on
If it makes u wet horny or hard go for it
Whoops I had a rant
Forgive me my darling fabsters "
You are right.  |
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"Oh for the love of whatever!!!!!!!!!!
Is there anything other than size threads today
Who bloody cares pick what u want and go for it we r all fecking different! Men women those who haven't decided! Who cares
Put a naked body pic on and show it, if u don't want to be with it and it makes u vomit move on
If it makes u wet horny or hard go for it
Whoops I had a rant
Forgive me my darling fabsters "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with you Abbie, I don't understand why other peoples size and the way they describe themselves is such an issue to others.
All this competition between each other is silly. Does it matter what others look like.
I am curvy, I'm not a slim girl but neither am I very very large either. I say curvy because I do have that shape, bigger boobs, slimmer waist, bigger hips. Now I don't give a fig what other people want to call me, I don't have the slightest interest in their description of me because my opinion and how I view myself is the only opinion that counts in relation to myself.
So if people have issues over why bigger girls get more attention, why should BBWs be allowed the second B, whether real women are big or slim, then quite frankly the issue is your own to resolve  |
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"I agree with you Abbie, I don't understand why other peoples size and the way they describe themselves is such an issue to others.
All this competition between each other is silly. Does it matter what others look like.
I am curvy, I'm not a slim girl but neither am I very very large either. I say curvy because I do have that shape, bigger boobs, slimmer waist, bigger hips. Now I don't give a fig what other people want to call me, I don't have the slightest interest in their description of me because my opinion and how I view myself is the only opinion that counts in relation to myself.
So if people have issues over why bigger girls get more attention, why should BBWs be allowed the second B, whether real women are big or slim, then quite frankly the issue is your own to resolve "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree with you Abbie, I don't understand why other peoples size and the way they describe themselves is such an issue to others.
All this competition between each other is silly. Does it matter what others look like.
I am curvy, I'm not a slim girl but neither am I very very large either. I say curvy because I do have that shape, bigger boobs, slimmer waist, bigger hips. Now I don't give a fig what other people want to call me, I don't have the slightest interest in their description of me because my opinion and how I view myself is the only opinion that counts in relation to myself.
So if people have issues over why bigger girls get more attention, why should BBWs be allowed the second B, whether real women are big or slim, then quite frankly the issue is your own to resolve "
Well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i get confused with fabulous? Some use it as very big and proud..others use it as very toned? Me personally judge by the pics i see. Auds.x  "
I just thought it was either what people put if they didn't want to say or it was how they felt about themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought fabulous was the biggest option - which is why I use it!
But I also have my size on my profile so there's no doubt that I'm a big girl.
I quite like the term BBW, and I've been flattered enough recently by some very nice gentlemen that perhaps I do qualify for the second B.  |
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"Generally larger girls, who feel they need to justify it.
Not justify, far more sexy than any skinny lady.Thats not very nice, im a slimmer lady! We can be very sexy too! Positive discrimination "
you mean you can be definitely SEXIER! |
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"Generally larger girls, who feel they need to justify it.
Why the need to justify?
They don't, but they do.
so if your a big girl and you put large on your profile thats them justifying their size?
just out of interest which option do you think they should choose athletic? "
Very good sensible point. |
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
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"Generally larger girls, who feel they need to justify it."
I'm a size 18 & have plenty of meets so size don't really matter, we find the shallow & insecure people have hang ups with larger people lol!
We meet old,young,small,large & any colour & always have a fantastic time, people are people & its the personalities we find sexy xx. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont describe myself as any of those.. I am me.. I put plenty of recent photos up so people that like me can contact me.. the others can do what they like lol
I am fat.. no ifs or buts.. and I know that and am working for myself to improve that.. but I love sex when I am a size 10 or a size 32..
I dont see why any woman has to justify themselves.
Cali |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Large, Ample, Fabulous, along with slim, average, athletic and curvy are the boxes that are given to you by the site as the option to best describe your body size when you fill out your profile
When I first joined I was a size 18 and ticked the curvy box, now at a size 20 I tick the large box (I don't like the word ample) I also say on my profile that I am a size 20 and yes that means I am fat, I have BBW on my profile for the people who do not read as far as the descriptors so at least they know roughly what they are getting, I do not class my self as being the second B but BBW has become the generic term for larger women and most people understand it to be so, I do not feel the need to try to justify or make apologies for my size and I am happy in my skin, I have plenty of photos showing what I look like and if I'm not to someones taste, they can move on to someone who is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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people could just put their size and measurements. Eg 5'8" size 14, would be quite different from 5'2 size 14. Some might be 16 on tope 14 on the bottom. We have shape as well as size.
Or maybe FAB could provide some outline drawings to select for our profiles? That might be fun. |
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"people could just put their size and measurements. Eg 5'8" size 14, would be quite different from 5'2 size 14. Some might be 16 on tope 14 on the bottom. We have shape as well as size.
Or maybe FAB could provide some outline drawings to select for our profiles? That might be fun."
I'd be the bowling ball shape ... they have three holes too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i just put large on mine, when i first joined this site i put my size and weight, one of my friends on here said he didnt think i looked that big and he said the first thing he noticed about me was how tall i was, i am 5ft10, also i have plenty of pictures so people can tell what i look like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What the craic here?"
Some of the crack is tight and others are as slack as a builders bucket of slippery mackerel you just don't know till the bomb bay doors open |
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