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So ... PP has made me think
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There’s a first time for everything
Are you crap at reading signals? Signs?
I need blatant information - I’m not good with any signs, I can’t even direct in my home town when I know the way!! - that’s a true story.
Wouldn’t it be easier to be up front and say it how it is - without the cliche innuendoes cloaked in cheese ??
I need to be told - Allo Alloisms are no good for me
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I'm not subtle. I don't pick up hints at all well, and I'm rubbish at giving hints too. I'm too blunt to flirt and I don't pick up when someone is flirting with me.
I need clear direction and information, not veiled innuendo and cheesy bants. |
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"I overthink everything so I'm my own worst enemy. I could see the signs and think them away quite easily!
We need people to be clear
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The problem is that so many are not clear, I tend to doubt those who are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To answer properly. I'm terrible at picking up hints.
If a woman came up to me, pulled my trousers down and rode be for hours, I still wouldn't be sure if she was into me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not subtle. I don't pick up hints at all well, and I'm rubbish at giving hints too. I'm too blunt to flirt and I don't pick up when someone is flirting with me.
I need clear direction and information, not veiled innuendo and cheesy bants."
Same here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To answer properly. I'm terrible at picking up hints.
If a woman came up to me, pulled my trousers down and rode be for hours, I still wouldn't be sure if she was into me"
Surely she’d be in to you if she was in that position |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To answer properly. I'm terrible at picking up hints.
If a woman came up to me, pulled my trousers down and rode be for hours, I still wouldn't be sure if she was into me
Surely she’d be in to you if she was in that position"
Unless she explicitly tells me she is, I can't be sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m guilty of getting things wrong when I pick up and misread signs
I once thought I was on a date with a guy I worked with.
It wasn’t a date, he had a boyfriend it was just as friends |
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"I’m guilty of getting things wrong when I pick up and misread signs
I once thought I was on a date with a guy I worked with.
It wasn’t a date, he had a boyfriend it was just as friends "
Bless you! But |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To answer properly. I'm terrible at picking up hints.
If a woman came up to me, pulled my trousers down and rode be for hours, I still wouldn't be sure if she was into me
Surely she’d be in to you if she was in that position
Unless she explicitly tells me she is, I can't be sure"
Strangely enough ... I get this |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I read the signs very, very wrong once ... it was super embarassing and has made me doubt my reading skills! So, yeah, sometimes direct is best "
So ... we’re basically all crap at telling if someone is actually into us
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"I read the signs very, very wrong once ... it was super embarassing and has made me doubt my reading skills! So, yeah, sometimes direct is best
So ... we’re basically all crap at telling if someone is actually into us
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It does appear that way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I read the signs very, very wrong once ... it was super embarassing and has made me doubt my reading skills! So, yeah, sometimes direct is best
So ... we’re basically all crap at telling if someone is actually into us
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Pretty much
...so...
anything you'd like to tell me? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I read the signs very, very wrong once ... it was super embarassing and has made me doubt my reading skills! So, yeah, sometimes direct is best
So ... we’re basically all crap at telling if someone is actually into us
It does appear that way! "
I’m going to start a club |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I read the signs very, very wrong once ... it was super embarassing and has made me doubt my reading skills! So, yeah, sometimes direct is best
So ... we’re basically all crap at telling if someone is actually into us
Pretty much
...so...
anything you'd like to tell me?"
I’m not interested in you , but I think you’re dead funny |
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"I read the signs very, very wrong once ... it was super embarassing and has made me doubt my reading skills! So, yeah, sometimes direct is best
So ... we’re basically all crap at telling if someone is actually into us
It does appear that way!
I’m going to start a club "
Yes! I do love a good club |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
Basingstoke |
"To answer properly. I'm terrible at picking up hints.
If a woman came up to me, pulled my trousers down and rode be for hours, I still wouldn't be sure if she was into me
Surely she’d be in to you if she was in that position
Unless she explicitly tells me she is, I can't be sure"
Check your WhatsApp |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like the direct approach so I know where I am but then 2 days later I could doubt them again, never ending circle "
I think it’s the nature of the beast on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I read the signs very, very wrong once ... it was super embarassing and has made me doubt my reading skills! So, yeah, sometimes direct is best
So ... we’re basically all crap at telling if someone is actually into us
Pretty much
...so...
anything you'd like to tell me?
I’m not interested in you , but I think you’re dead funny "
I feel like you're hinting at something, but I'm not quite sure what |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I read the signs very, very wrong once ... it was super embarassing and has made me doubt my reading skills! So, yeah, sometimes direct is best
So ... we’re basically all crap at telling if someone is actually into us
It does appear that way!
I’m going to start a club
Yes! I do love a good club "
Excellent |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I read the signs very, very wrong once ... it was super embarassing and has made me doubt my reading skills! So, yeah, sometimes direct is best
So ... we’re basically all crap at telling if someone is actually into us
Pretty much
...so...
anything you'd like to tell me?
I’m not interested in you , but I think you’re dead funny
I feel like you're hinting at something, but I'm not quite sure what "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m guilty of getting things wrong when I pick up and misread signs
I once thought I was on a date with a guy I worked with.
It wasn’t a date, he had a boyfriend it was just as friends
Bless you! But "
I’m sure the same thing happens to everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find going in full flirt with the presumption they do fancy me then styling it out with a 'oh look over there...' and doing a runner when it's clear they just think I'm insane seems to work..ish
Peach x |
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"I read the signs very, very wrong once ... it was super embarassing and has made me doubt my reading skills! So, yeah, sometimes direct is best
So ... we’re basically all crap at telling if someone is actually into us
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Yep, but in fairness even if someone tells me straight out he fancies me I laugh it off because I assume he's joking.
I guess there's just no hope for me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I read the signs very, very wrong once ... it was super embarassing and has made me doubt my reading skills! So, yeah, sometimes direct is best
So ... we’re basically all crap at telling if someone is actually into us
Pretty much
...so...
anything you'd like to tell me?
I’m not interested in you , but I think you’re dead funny
I feel like you're hinting at something, but I'm not quite sure what
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Ok now the heart is definitely a fucking mixed signal! |
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"I read the signs very, very wrong once ... it was super embarassing and has made me doubt my reading skills! So, yeah, sometimes direct is best
So ... we’re basically all crap at telling if someone is actually into us
It does appear that way!
I’m going to start a club "
I'd really like to be part of your club, but could you please tell me really directly if you want me in or out because if its an open invite I'll assume it's meant for everyone else and not me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I overthink everything so I'm my own worst enemy. I could see the signs and think them away quite easily!"
This is me to a t. Being an overthinker really hinders meeting people on here too, as I put people off.
I'm a very analytical person; in more ways than one! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I overthink everything so I'm my own worst enemy. I could see the signs and think them away quite easily!
This is me to a t. Being an overthinker really hinders meeting people on here too, as I put people off.
I'm a very analytical person; in more ways than one! "
I’m very good at putting people off |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What a fucked up bunch we are
totally but that's what keeps us fun
Speak for yourself ... I’m positively dreary
Knew I'd get the blame "
Took you long enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I'm okay at reading signals
If someone invests their time in you and appears to be genuinely interested in getting to know you, I think that's a pretty good sign |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think I'm okay at reading signals
If someone invests their time in you and appears to be genuinely interested in getting to know you, I think that's a pretty good sign "
True
I’m the eternal cynic though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I never know if I'm misreading signals or they're really just not there at all.
I much prefer being told upfront."
You and most of us do it seems
I’m just going to put it out there from now on |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I'm terrible at reading signals but sometimes when things are just meant to be, signals aren't needed and it all just falls neatly into place naturally.
So maybe it's not so much a case of needing to read signals as both people being invested in one another enough for signals not to be needed? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm terrible at reading signals but sometimes when things are just meant to be, signals aren't needed and it all just falls neatly into place naturally.
So maybe it's not so much a case of needing to read signals as both people being invested in one another enough for signals not to be needed? "
Mind fuck
True enough ... |
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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago
Walking down the only road I've ever known! |
"What a fucked up bunch we are
totally but that's what keeps us fun
Speak for yourself ... I’m positively dreary
Knew I'd get the blame
Took you long enough"
I've been busy flirting and having my tea |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What a fucked up bunch we are
totally but that's what keeps us fun
Speak for yourself ... I’m positively dreary
Knew I'd get the blame
Took you long enough
I've been busy flirting and having my tea "
Your dinner you mean |
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"There’s a first time for everything
Are you crap at reading signals? Signs?
I need blatant information - I’m not good with any signs, I can’t even direct in my home town when I know the way!! - that’s a true story.
Wouldn’t it be easier to be up front and say it how it is - without the cliche innuendoes cloaked in cheese ??
I need to be told - Allo Alloisms are no good for me
"
Sorry - couldn’t read the full post. Still reeling from the news that PP made someone think! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There’s a first time for everything
Are you crap at reading signals? Signs?
I need blatant information - I’m not good with any signs, I can’t even direct in my home town when I know the way!! - that’s a true story.
Wouldn’t it be easier to be up front and say it how it is - without the cliche innuendoes cloaked in cheese ??
I need to be told - Allo Alloisms are no good for me
Sorry - couldn’t read the full post. Still reeling from the news that PP made someone think! "
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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago
Walking down the only road I've ever known! |
"What a fucked up bunch we are
totally but that's what keeps us fun
Speak for yourself ... I’m positively dreary
Knew I'd get the blame
Took you long enough
I've been busy flirting and having my tea
Your dinner you mean "
No tea! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What a fucked up bunch we are
totally but that's what keeps us fun
Speak for yourself ... I’m positively dreary
Knew I'd get the blame
Took you long enough
I've been busy flirting and having my tea
Your dinner you mean
No tea! "
Bloody northerners |
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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago
Walking down the only road I've ever known! |
"There’s a first time for everything
Are you crap at reading signals? Signs?
I need blatant information - I’m not good with any signs, I can’t even direct in my home town when I know the way!! - that’s a true story.
Wouldn’t it be easier to be up front and say it how it is - without the cliche innuendoes cloaked in cheese ??
I need to be told - Allo Alloisms are no good for me
Sorry - couldn’t read the full post. Still reeling from the news that PP made someone think! "
You need an arse slap lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm terrible at reading signals but sometimes when things are just meant to be, signals aren't needed and it all just falls neatly into place naturally.
So maybe it's not so much a case of needing to read signals as both people being invested in one another enough for signals not to be needed? "
Smart arse.
I'm terrible at reading signals that someone may be into me, yet any slight flirtation towards B and I automatically think they wanna bone/date/marry him, especially if or has been used so yeah, I'm a huge over thinker.
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I'm very crap too. Always surprised when someone has a go at me as I'm just being myself(witty, ahem, an encyclopedic knowledge of useless facts,being random. rambling..) albeit within the parameters(sorry about the wordiness) of not being presumptuous of what they want, or assuming I'm 'on' to something,or not wanting to offend. Sometimes being more direct would be helpful certainly!
But then again, that swings both ways.
If it was in real life it'd be different.
Although they'd have to basically grab my hand, kiss me, or ask me if I wanted to do something with them.
Signs..
Grr.
Damn my need for tactile signs/Unambiguous language/over thinking /not wishing to assume! |
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"There’s a first time for everything
Are you crap at reading signals? Signs?
I need blatant information - I’m not good with any signs, I can’t even direct in my home town when I know the way!! - that’s a true story.
Wouldn’t it be easier to be up front and say it how it is - without the cliche innuendoes cloaked in cheese ??
I need to be told - Allo Alloisms are no good for me
Sorry - couldn’t read the full post. Still reeling from the news that PP made someone think!
You need an arse slap lady "
Absolutely! You volunteering? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm very crap too. Always surprised when someone has a go at me as I'm just being myself(witty, ahem, an encyclopedic knowledge of useless facts,being random. rambling..) albeit within the parameters(sorry about the wordiness) of not being presumptuous of what they want, or assuming I'm 'on' to something,or not wanting to offend. Sometimes being more direct would be helpful certainly!
But then again, that swings both ways.
If it was in real life it'd be different.
Although they'd have to basically grab my hand, kiss me, or ask me if I wanted to do something with them.
Signs..
Grr.
Damn my need for tactile signs/Unambiguous language/over thinking /not wishing to assume! "
Join our club |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If it's a guy, and hes breathing, hes pretty much already thought about having sex with you.
If he goes out of his way to say anything nice to you, like "how are you" or "can I buy you a drink" he has pretty much indicated hes in hot pursuit and is setting up camp.
Men get mistaken as simple because of this; they aren't - they just don't much like the nonsense. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If it's a guy, and hes breathing, hes pretty much already thought about having sex with you.
If he goes out of his way to say anything nice to you, like "how are you" or "can I buy you a drink" he has pretty much indicated hes in hot pursuit and is setting up camp.
Men get mistaken as simple because of this; they aren't - they just don't much like the nonsense. "
I’m bloody popular then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There’s a first time for everything
Are you crap at reading signals? Signs?
I need blatant information - I’m not good with any signs, I can’t even direct in my home town when I know the way!! - that’s a true story.
Wouldn’t it be easier to be up front and say it how it is - without the cliche innuendoes cloaked in cheese ??
I need to be told - Allo Alloisms are no good for me
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I wish someone would point the signs out to me so I wouldn’t make such an idiot of myself, but when someone just says “I like you” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm quite good with signals on a face to face basis. Not so much on a text basis. I'm usually blunt, especially if I can see the signs. On here, I'm quite reserved tbh, because quite frankly signals on fab are reeeaaally hard to decipher.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There’s a first time for everything
Are you crap at reading signals? Signs?
I need blatant information - I’m not good with any signs, I can’t even direct in my home town when I know the way!! - that’s a true story.
Wouldn’t it be easier to be up front and say it how it is - without the cliche innuendoes cloaked in cheese ??
I need to be told - Allo Alloisms are no good for me
I wish someone would point the signs out to me so I wouldn’t make such an idiot of myself, but when someone just says “I like you” "
I’m learning so much today |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ll let you suck my willy. Is that blatant enough for you?
Great
Thanks
Is this a yes as I’m not great with signals?
It’s a no
But thanks
I’ll be round in 5 "
I’m not home |
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"I’ll let you suck my willy. Is that blatant enough for you?
Great
Thanks
Is this a yes as I’m not great with signals?
It’s a no
But thanks
I’ll be round in 5
I’m not home "
I know, I’m following you |
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