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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why is it so hard to find couples with bi or bi curious males, contacted a few over the past few weeks but when you talk to them it seems to be more fantasy than reality  |
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Well for one the open shaming of bi men by straighter couples is all too obvious too see, so easy to have men hiding their true (and typically wholly optional) orientation.
It's also clearly hard as it's less likely to choose to play with other men vs other women.
Remember though, men are far more likely to be deemed to be unattractive than women, so merely finding one is no guarantee they'd want to do anything, o you with them. |
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"Well for one the open shaming of bi men by straighter couples is all too obvious too see, so easy to have men hiding their true (and typically wholly optional) orientation.
It's also clearly hard as it's less likely to choose to play with other men vs other women.
Remember though, men are far more likely to be deemed to be unattractive than women, so merely finding one is no guarantee they'd want to do anything, o you with them."
Agree so many message but have straight on their profile for that reason and yes not all appeal to us or us to them bit of a lottery really |
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We aren't hard to find, do a search for bi couples 
Our main problems are that a lot of guys appear to only be bi if they play with F, have straight on their profile or don't attend VA. Which leads to the biggest problem. They simply haven't bothered to read our profile. Make the effort and you may be rewarded with what you're looking for.
But remember, just finding a bi couple doesn't guarantee any play. If we don't feel an attraction or get along we're not going to be interested. Obviously this will differ and some will just be interested in the sexual acts.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We aren't hard to find, do a search for bi couples
Our main problems are that a lot of guys appear to only be bi if they play with F, have straight on their profile or don't attend VA. Which leads to the biggest problem. They simply haven't bothered to read our profile. Make the effort and you may be rewarded with what you're looking for.
But remember, just finding a bi couple doesn't guarantee any play. If we don't feel an attraction or get along we're not going to be interested. Obviously this will differ and some will just be interested in the sexual acts.
Good luck "
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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago
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I've only had interest from bi couples who live miles from me. Been wanting to get involved in bi socials but they seem to be dominated by bi women and single bi men, makes it more of a meat market. |
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By *estivalMan
over a year ago
borehamwood |
bi couples are out there but like others have said a lot of guys say there bi just to play with the wife. personaly i love nothing better than jumping in bed with the hubby and wife and just getting hot and horny with both.also like someone else has pointed out there are plenty of str8 cpls about who shame guys for being bi.have had some vile messages just for fabbing someones pics lol.some are not as open minded as they like to think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Biggest problem I always find is that when there is a bi male in a couple they're always a bottom"
most blokes on here or on fabguys are bottom and each to their own and is not a problem at all.I would not expect anyone to change what they like just to suit us |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Why is it so hard to find couples with bi or bi curious males, contacted a few over the past few weeks but when you talk to them it seems to be more fantasy than reality "
It isn't.
But like most people they have their preferences so simply being Male and bi/curious doesn't guarantee interest.
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