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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I didn't know she was accused of assaulting her boyfriend until tonight.

When I heard about it months ago it was written online that she assaulted a m_mber of the public, but I guess that was fake news trying to get a quick story.

Anyways I just googled this and I see her boyfriend sent her a valentines message yesterday.. So how come he didn't just drop the charges?

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By *stellaWoman  over a year ago

London


"I didn't know she was accused of assaulting her boyfriend until tonight.

When I heard about it months ago it was written online that she assaulted a m_mber of the public, but I guess that was fake news trying to get a quick story.

Anyways I just googled this and I see her boyfriend sent her a valentines message yesterday.. So how come he didn't just drop the charges? "

He did.

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By *hedevilKTWoman  over a year ago

milton keynes


"I didn't know she was accused of assaulting her boyfriend until tonight.

When I heard about it months ago it was written online that she assaulted a m_mber of the public, but I guess that was fake news trying to get a quick story.

Anyways I just googled this and I see her boyfriend sent her a valentines message yesterday.. So how come he didn't just drop the charges? "

He did not make complaint but police saw it

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I didn't know she was accused of assaulting her boyfriend until tonight.

When I heard about it months ago it was written online that she assaulted a m_mber of the public, but I guess that was fake news trying to get a quick story.

Anyways I just googled this and I see her boyfriend sent her a valentines message yesterday.. So how come he didn't just drop the charges?

He did."

But she was still going on court about it

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds

He did want to drop the charges but the Police refused to allow it and wanted to take it to court and they put a restraining order on her, forbidding her to contact him.

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By *UNKIEMan  over a year ago

south east

He did ..the CPS refused to drop them

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley

It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges.

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North


"I didn't know she was accused of assaulting her boyfriend until tonight.

When I heard about it months ago it was written online that she assaulted a m_mber of the public, but I guess that was fake news trying to get a quick story.

Anyways I just googled this and I see her boyfriend sent her a valentines message yesterday.. So how come he didn't just drop the charges?

He did.

But she was still going on court about it "

CPS continued to pursue. It’s a tragic story.

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By *itty9899Man  over a year ago

Craggy Island


"He did ..the CPS refused to drop them "

Perhaps the CPS should only prosecute men for domestic abuse and just let the women off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges. "

Ffs sake how serious could it be

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"He did ..the CPS refused to drop them

Perhaps the CPS should only prosecute men for domestic abuse and just let the women off."

Why?

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By *itty9899Man  over a year ago

Craggy Island


"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges.

Ffs sake how serious could it be "

She cracked his head open with a lamp

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"He did ..the CPS refused to drop them

Perhaps the CPS should only prosecute men for domestic abuse and just let the women off.

Why? "

I think he's being sarcastic!

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By *itty9899Man  over a year ago

Craggy Island


"He did ..the CPS refused to drop them

Perhaps the CPS should only prosecute men for domestic abuse and just let the women off.

Why? "

Sarcasm passes you by I see.

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By *candiumWoman  over a year ago

oban

I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say.

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. "

So people should have no right to privacy ?

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By *itty9899Man  over a year ago

Craggy Island


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. "

My guess would be a overdose.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. "

Cause of death yet to be legally establish I suspect.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges.

Ffs sake how serious could it be "

She hit him hard enough for him to need medical treatment.

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. "

The coroner will do his job, then it will come out.

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By *candiumWoman  over a year ago

oban


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say.

So people should have no right to privacy ?"

Cause of death isn't something I see that anyone would feel the need to keep private? Anyway once someone's dead?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say.

So people should have no right to privacy ?

Cause of death isn't something I see that anyone would feel the need to keep private? Anyway once someone's dead?"

Urm she has family!

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford


"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges. "

The boyfriend said it wasn't a serious injury.

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By *ilth500Man  over a year ago

Merseyside


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. "

wow.

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By *candiumWoman  over a year ago

oban


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say.

Cause of death yet to be legally establish I suspect. "

True but you can tell the difference between overdose/drowing/slit wrists etc without a full autopsy

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By *ickDastardlyMan  over a year ago

North East

Tragic.

What really irks my turkey, is the high profile people on the twittersphere who claim to be her friend or are associated with her, arguing with other 'famous' people to validate their own opinions and points.

It's tiresome.

But theres definitely lessons to be learnt from this I'm sure.

But sadly, I don't think that happen.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say.

Cause of death yet to be legally establish I suspect.

True but you can tell the difference between overdose/drowing/slit wrists etc without a full autopsy "

Does it really matter!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say.

So people should have no right to privacy ?

Cause of death isn't something I see that anyone would feel the need to keep private? Anyway once someone's dead?

Urm she has family! "

Tragic situation. 41 is no age. Wish the press was governed in some way so that some things stay private.

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By *candiumWoman  over a year ago

oban


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say.

So people should have no right to privacy ?

Cause of death isn't something I see that anyone would feel the need to keep private? Anyway once someone's dead?

Urm she has family! "

I have had family die and we put the cause of death in the obit? Don't get that's something to hide.

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By *asmeenTV/TS  over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

R I P Caroline x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say.

So people should have no right to privacy ?

Cause of death isn't something I see that anyone would feel the need to keep private? Anyway once someone's dead?

Urm she has family!

I have had family die and we put the cause of death in the obit? Don't get that's something to hide."

Yes just because that's what you did doesn't mean everyone should or would want to.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. "

They will not until a cause of death has been established.... Leaves them open to legal action from the families I should think.

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By *ilth500Man  over a year ago

Merseyside


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say.

Cause of death yet to be legally establish I suspect.

True but you can tell the difference between overdose/drowing/slit wrists etc without a full autopsy "

ill take a ban for this. really annoying that your way of thinking is disgusting and heartless!!!!!!

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By *candiumWoman  over a year ago

oban


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say.

Cause of death yet to be legally establish I suspect.

True but you can tell the difference between overdose/drowing/slit wrists etc without a full autopsy

Does it really matter!

"

Does to me. But I find illness fascinating

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. "

Think that’s quite sad really.. why do you need to know?

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say.

So people should have no right to privacy ?

Cause of death isn't something I see that anyone would feel the need to keep private? Anyway once someone's dead?

Urm she has family!

I have had family die and we put the cause of death in the obit? Don't get that's something to hide."

Then you should know that people react differently

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By *itty9899Man  over a year ago

Craggy Island


"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges.

The boyfriend said it wasn't a serious injury."

Did you see the pics of the blood soaked bed sheets and the blood splatter up her front door.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Such a shame the press etc chased yet another person to the desperation to take their own life X she was so hot and I was planning to marry her xx

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By *hickennchipsWoman  over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

Ffs this is tragic and highlights how far we still have to go with mental health awareness. Poor girl

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say.

So people should have no right to privacy ?

Cause of death isn't something I see that anyone would feel the need to keep private? Anyway once someone's dead?"

Just because a person dies it does not mean that person deserves less respect

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By *ilth500Man  over a year ago

Merseyside


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say.

Cause of death yet to be legally establish I suspect.

True but you can tell the difference between overdose/drowing/slit wrists etc without a full autopsy

Does it really matter!

Does to me. But I find illness fascinating "

WOW WOW WOW WOW

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say.

Cause of death yet to be legally establish I suspect.

True but you can tell the difference between overdose/drowing/slit wrists etc without a full autopsy

Does it really matter!

Does to me. But I find illness fascinating "

Wow!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ffs this is tragic and highlights how far we still have to go with mental health awareness. Poor girl "

I couldn't agree more.

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By *candiumWoman  over a year ago

oban


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ill take a ban for this. really annoying that your way of thinking is disgusting and heartless!!!!!!"

Really bizzare reaction that... why? Seems completely logical to me that you include the cause. Don't see/get that it's in any way wrong?

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By *ilth500Man  over a year ago

Merseyside

can this thread be removed please???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges.

The boyfriend said it wasn't a serious injury.

Did you see the pics of the blood soaked bed sheets and the blood splatter up her front door."

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley


"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges.

The boyfriend said it wasn't a serious injury."

But the police and CPS thought it was serious enough to warrant charges and a restraining order against her. CPS wouldn't charge her if they didn't think she would be found guilty.

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges.

The boyfriend said it wasn't a serious injury.

Did you see the pics of the blood soaked bed sheets and the blood splatter up her front door."

Yes, I saw that. It had been reported that it was a fake pic. That's the sort of stuff she had to put up with.

Poor woman.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This thread folks

Is why social media will end in tears

Have some bloody respect people

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By *candiumWoman  over a year ago

oban


"

Just because a person dies it does not mean that person deserves less respect

"

And how is wanting to know how they died disrespectful?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"can this thread be removed please??? "

Agree totally

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds


"you can tell the difference between overdose/drowing/slit wrists etc without a full autopsy

Does it really matter!

Does to me. But I find illness fascinating "

Do you think, for example, you have the right to know why Prince Philip was in hospital for four nights before Christmas ?

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By *ilth500Man  over a year ago

Merseyside


"This thread folks

Is why social media will end in tears

Have some bloody respect people"

HERE HERE!!!

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By *hickennchipsWoman  over a year ago

up above the streets and houses


"

ill take a ban for this. really annoying that your way of thinking is disgusting and heartless!!!!!!

Really bizzare reaction that... why? Seems completely logical to me that you include the cause. Don't see/get that it's in any way wrong?"

However it happened, it happened. If you were close family you would be told, you aren’t so why do you need to know how the poor girl died? Your comments are inflammatory and unnecessary, you can’t be surprised at the reaction you are getting? It’s all a bit macabre

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say.

Cause of death yet to be legally establish I suspect.

True but you can tell the difference between overdose/drowing/slit wrists etc without a full autopsy

Does it really matter!

Does to me. But I find illness fascinating "

Want to know all about my condition?? You'll be even more fascinated to know mine could kill me at 50... Don't worry, I'll be sure to leave you the details if I die....Wouldn't want you missing out now would we

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges.

The boyfriend said it wasn't a serious injury.

Did you see the pics of the blood soaked bed sheets and the blood splatter up her front door.

Yes, I saw that. It had been reported that it was a fake pic. That's the sort of stuff she had to put up with.

Poor woman. "

Ok I think we need to rem_mber that people make mistakes but domestic violence is serious.

She clearly had serious issues and has paid the ultimate price.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges.

The boyfriend said it wasn't a serious injury.

Did you see the pics of the blood soaked bed sheets and the blood splatter up her front door."

And you had all the evidence presented to u by the prosecutor and the defendant and made a reasonable conclusion

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges.

The boyfriend said it wasn't a serious injury."

Early reports described it not serious.. Seems like it's been blown out of preportion.

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By *candiumWoman  over a year ago

oban


"you can tell the difference between overdose/drowing/slit wrists etc without a full autopsy

Does it really matter!

Does to me. But I find illness fascinating

Do you think, for example, you have the right to know why Prince Philip was in hospital for four nights before Christmas ?"

Given he's paid for by us, then yes.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Just because a person dies it does not mean that person deserves less respect

And how is wanting to know how they died disrespectful?"

Why do you need to know though? It is disrespectful because it's none of your business

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I find this thread rather tasteless....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"you can tell the difference between overdose/drowing/slit wrists etc without a full autopsy

Does it really matter!

Does to me. But I find illness fascinating

Do you think, for example, you have the right to know why Prince Philip was in hospital for four nights before Christmas ?

Given he's paid for by us, then yes."

You really need help

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By *ilth500Man  over a year ago

Merseyside


"

Just because a person dies it does not mean that person deserves less respect

And how is wanting to know how they died disrespectful?

Why do you need to know though? It is disrespectful because it's none of your business"

perfect!!

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By *asmeenTV/TS  over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I find this thread rather tasteless....

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By *ilth500Man  over a year ago

Merseyside


"I find this thread rather tasteless....

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iv and others want it removed for some people are vile.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"you can tell the difference between overdose/drowing/slit wrists etc without a full autopsy

Does it really matter!

Does to me. But I find illness fascinating

Do you think, for example, you have the right to know why Prince Philip was in hospital for four nights before Christmas ?

Given he's paid for by us, then yes."

Most people admitted into hospital are paid for by the NHS. Wanna go round and ask everyone why they’re there?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find this thread rather tasteless....

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As do I.

There is no reasoning with some people.

My thread earlier went the same way.

It's so sad.

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By *inkywife1981Couple  over a year ago

A town near you


"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges.

Ffs sake how serious could it be

She cracked his head open with a lamp "

At the time of this domestic incident I believe an ex boyfriend made some remark about not only men being aggressors in domestic violence, suggesting a pattern of behaviour.

Regardless it's a tragic loss of life of a young woman

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find this thread rather tasteless....

iv and others want it removed for some people are vile. "

Reiterate my previous post in support.

Anyone know how to remove it ?

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By *candiumWoman  over a year ago

oban


"

Your comments are inflammatory and unnecessary, you can’t be surprised at the reaction you are getting? It’s all a bit macabre "

I am surprised. I don't understand why if they are going to make it public that someone has died that they can't include what from. It seems a perfectly natural thing to include in an obit.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find this thread rather tasteless....

iv and others want it removed for some people are vile.

Reiterate my previous post in support.

Anyone know how to remove it ?"

Only mods can.

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford


"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges.

The boyfriend said it wasn't a serious injury.

Did you see the pics of the blood soaked bed sheets and the blood splatter up her front door."

No, I'm saying the boyfriend said it wasn't a serious injury....It obviously was..

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling

Oh fab forums, never change! You never fail to provide me with the bar that I will dedicate the rest of my life (however long or short that may be, and no you won't find out) to never dropping below and becoming such a being.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find this thread rather tasteless....

iv and others want it removed for some people are vile.

Reiterate my previous post in support.

Anyone know how to remove it ?

Only mods can. "

Ok.

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges.

The boyfriend said it wasn't a serious injury.

Did you see the pics of the blood soaked bed sheets and the blood splatter up her front door.

Yes, I saw that. It had been reported that it was a fake pic. That's the sort of stuff she had to put up with.

Poor woman.

Ok I think we need to rem_mber that people make mistakes but domestic violence is serious.

She clearly had serious issues and has paid the ultimate price. "

Yes of course domestic violence is serious.

It's very sad that someone thinks that killing themselves is the answer.

No one will ever know the facts. The bf got over it, it's a shame the media didn't.

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By *candiumWoman  over a year ago

oban


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Why do you need to know though? It is disrespectful because it's none of your business"

Why do I need to know they've died then?

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By *heorgasmaddictMan  over a year ago

Liverpool


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say.

Cause of death yet to be legally establish I suspect.

True but you can tell the difference between overdose/drowing/slit wrists etc without a full autopsy

Does it really matter!

Does to me. But I find illness fascinating "

Her body's still warm give it rest.

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By *evil_u_knowMan  over a year ago

city


"Anyways I just googled this and I see her boyfriend sent her a valentines message yesterday.. So how come he didn't just drop the charges? "

You cant just drop a domestic assault claim anymore.

They police game, his head was split open, a comment was made that it happened in his sleep, so it would go to court.

The days of bullying your partner and them being to weak to press charges are gone, the cops will proceed anyway

But dont fret, they only get prosecution in like 8% of cases.

Finally she has NDA and gag orders on other ex boyfriends, so expect more assualt claims to come forward.

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By *candiumWoman  over a year ago

oban


"I find this thread rather tasteless....

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Why? Because some people are interested in the science behind death?

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By *moothCriminal_xMan  over a year ago

Redditch

His 999 call said she was trying to kill him. Her ex signed an NDA but has said he was abused by her and would have died if he hadnt got out. She was unhinged. Obv a tragic sad story but she was an abusive partner and her self pity is entirely her own creation

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find this thread rather tasteless....

Why? Because some people are interested in the science behind death?"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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Why do you need to know though? It is disrespectful because it's none of your business

Why do I need to know they've died then?"

Well you don't NEED to know really though do you. The media reports itn you read it... Or should they run all reports by you first?

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By *affron40Woman  over a year ago

manchester

The lack of humanity in this place frequently astounds me.

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By *ilth500Man  over a year ago

Merseyside

any know any moderators???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"any know any moderators??? "

You have to report posts and a mod will look at them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Leave the poor woman alone FFS, she's dead. She should be given the right to privacy and decency, like all of us would wish if it were a family m_mber of ours.

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By *evil_u_knowMan  over a year ago

city


"any know any moderators??? "

Out of curiosity, why?

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"The lack of humanity in this place frequently astounds me. "

Ditto!! Some of the comments on this thread are sickening - the poor woman is being raked over when she obviously wasn't without her problems - can it not just be left alone?

What the flying f*** does it matter what the cause of death was? Sick and perverse springs to mind

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By *ilth500Man  over a year ago

Merseyside


"any know any moderators???

Out of curiosity, why?"

for this tasteless thread to be closed down

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By *asmeenTV/TS  over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"any know any moderators???

Out of curiosity, why?"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"any know any moderators???

Out of curiosity, why?

for this tasteless thread to be closed down "

Agree

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By *asmeenTV/TS  over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"any know any moderators???

Out of curiosity, why?

for this tasteless thread to be closed down "

Don't add to it

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By *evil_u_knowMan  over a year ago

city


"any know any moderators???

Out of curiosity, why?

for this tasteless thread to be closed down "

Oh right yeah.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"any know any moderators???

Out of curiosity, why?

for this tasteless thread to be closed down

Don't add to it

"

But it gets it closed quicker.

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By *candiumWoman  over a year ago

oban

Genuinely don't get why wanting to know the cause of death of people is in anyway inhumane, tasteless, sickening, etc. They report the favourite colour, birthday, food preference...alsorts of other personal details...

Wasn't trying to offend at all...Had no idea that it would.

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By *asmeenTV/TS  over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"any know any moderators???

Out of curiosity, why?

for this tasteless thread to be closed down

Don't add to it

But it gets it closed quicker. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Genuinely don't get why wanting to know the cause of death of people is in anyway inhumane, tasteless, sickening, etc. They report the favourite colour, birthday, food preference...alsorts of other personal details...

Wasn't trying to offend at all...Had no idea that it would."

You had a clue after the first post.

I get that it matters to you but surely you can understand why many find it distasteful.

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling


"Genuinely don't get why wanting to know the cause of death of people is in anyway inhumane, tasteless, sickening, etc. They report the favourite colour, birthday, food preference...alsorts of other personal details...

Wasn't trying to offend at all...Had no idea that it would."

For somebody that claims to be so fascinated by death and things around it, the fact you didn't think such a comment would cause such a reaction says quite a bit and I suggest you expand your interest to the realm of respecting death to go along with it.

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By *candiumWoman  over a year ago

oban


"

I get that it matters to you but surely you can understand why many find it distasteful. "

Not at all. Don't get that at all

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By *eneral HysteriaMan  over a year ago

Newcastle


"

Why do you need to know though? It is disrespectful because it's none of your business

Why do I need to know they've died then?"

It's a shame you can't see it but, as someone has already said, you might need help. Being a celebrity title-tattle chasing FOMO C#nt looking for every scrag-end of someone else's demise that doesn't concern you is extremely distasteful.

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By *candiumWoman  over a year ago

oban


"

It's a shame you can't see it but, as someone has already said, you might need help. Being a celebrity title-tattle chasing FOMO C#nt looking for every scrag-end of someone else's demise that doesn't concern you is extremely distasteful."

I generally have very little interest in the lives of celebrities, most of it is just tittle-tattle. Just so happens for me that cause of death is the one interesting thing.

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By *uffnsmovCouple  over a year ago

Leeds/Wakefield


"

Just because a person dies it does not mean that person deserves less respect

And how is wanting to know how they died disrespectful?"

You're just a ghoul

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By *candiumWoman  over a year ago

oban


"

Have you ever suffered a bereavement?

Yes

Or sat with the dying?

Yes

Watched someone pass away?

Yes

Life is value and each and every person in this world had an impact on someone else in some way shape or form. Many people have sentiments in some way shape or form. I have been around death enough to value life, all life has a value.

Humility, respect and common decency cost nothing.

"

I agree with all of that.

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"

I get that it matters to you but surely you can understand why many find it distasteful.

Not at all. Don't get that at all

you are a moron

Because I don't get why people are sentimental about death? Don't that makes any difference to my IQ..."

It doesn't make the slightest difference to your IQ and those throwing insults around have no right to, although I can understand why they may resort to that.

I think what you're missing here though is it's no sentimentality over death, but the fact the poor woman (whatever you may think of her) only died a matter of hours ago and yet you seem to *need* to know the gory details - it's about respect and consideration and the way it seems to be a *must have* for you.

You don't *need* that information, you don't even have a *right* to it - yet you seem to be raking over it as if you do.

*If* those details are released in the fullness of time then so be it - but to actively ask the question, and then try to defend why it's ok to ask it, is incredibly insensitive at best.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I didn't know she was accused of assaulting her boyfriend until tonight.

When I heard about it months ago it was written online that she assaulted a m_mber of the public, but I guess that was fake news trying to get a quick story.

Anyways I just googled this and I see her boyfriend sent her a valentines message yesterday.. So how come he didn't just drop the charges? "

He asked for the charges to be dropped. The CPS refused to drop the charges.

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By *ilverfox2936Man  over a year ago

Prescot


"

It's a shame you can't see it but, as someone has already said, you might need help. Being a celebrity title-tattle chasing FOMO C#nt looking for every scrag-end of someone else's demise that doesn't concern you is extremely distasteful.

I generally have very little interest in the lives of celebrities, most of it is just tittle-tattle. Just so happens for me that cause of death is the one interesting thing."

Once a full investigation has been carried out to determine the cause of death, and whether anyone else inflicted it, whether it was deliberate or accidental, your curiosity will be sated.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

It's a shame you can't see it but, as someone has already said, you might need help. Being a celebrity title-tattle chasing FOMO C#nt looking for every scrag-end of someone else's demise that doesn't concern you is extremely distasteful.

I generally have very little interest in the lives of celebrities, most of it is just tittle-tattle. Just so happens for me that cause of death is the one interesting thing."

From experience no matter what it looks like at the time of death she will need an autopsy where they will take various pieces of tissue and test them for substances etc. They will then contact the family and tell them this information adding a whole world of pain onto an already distraught family. Then said family will have to sign to say they agree to the little bits of tissue being cremated etc. Then they will sit at the funeral knowing the body has been through this and probably have to attend a coroner's court where every aspect will be analysed for the whole world to hear. At that point the press will release it all over the world.

I hope that's enough information for you. If you want to know more then feel free to message me and I can discuss my mums suicide with you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This post brings out some real ignorance. It’s not really a topic that should be discussed here.

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By *candiumWoman  over a year ago

oban


"

I get that it matters to you but

I think what you're missing here though is it's no sentimentality over death, but the fact the poor woman (whatever you may think of her) only died a matter of hours ago and yet you seem to *need* to know the gory details - it's about respect and consideration and the way it seems to be a *must have* for you.

You don't *need* that information, you don't even have a *right* to it - yet you seem to be raking over it as if you do.

*If* those details are released in the fullness of time then so be it - but to actively ask the question, and then try to defend why it's ok to ask it, is incredibly insensitive at best."

I agree at this stage in this case it's speculation, although as I said above, probably obvious. And it's actually not as important to me as it people are making out about. It's more of an irritation, like people who put the milk in 1st, when I see a death report that doesn't include the cause of death as I can't understand why you wouldn't include it. Mind you there's a lot of things I don't understand about the world that annoy me

I object to you calling it gory details though. Its a simple science fact, not pictures.

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By *affron40Woman  over a year ago

manchester


"

It's a shame you can't see it but, as someone has already said, you might need help. Being a celebrity title-tattle chasing FOMO C#nt looking for every scrag-end of someone else's demise that doesn't concern you is extremely distasteful.

I generally have very little interest in the lives of celebrities, most of it is just tittle-tattle. Just so happens for me that cause of death is the one interesting thing.

From experience no matter what it looks like at the time of death she will need an autopsy where they will take various pieces of tissue and test them for substances etc. They will then contact the family and tell them this information adding a whole world of pain onto an already distraught family. Then said family will have to sign to say they agree to the little bits of tissue being cremated etc. Then they will sit at the funeral knowing the body has been through this and probably have to attend a coroner's court where every aspect will be analysed for the whole world to hear. At that point the press will release it all over the world.

I hope that's enough information for you. If you want to know more then feel free to message me and I can discuss my mums suicide with you. "

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"

I get that it matters to you but

I think what you're missing here though is it's no sentimentality over death, but the fact the poor woman (whatever you may think of her) only died a matter of hours ago and yet you seem to *need* to know the gory details - it's about respect and consideration and the way it seems to be a *must have* for you.

You don't *need* that information, you don't even have a *right* to it - yet you seem to be raking over it as if you do.

*If* those details are released in the fullness of time then so be it - but to actively ask the question, and then try to defend why it's ok to ask it, is incredibly insensitive at best.

I agree at this stage in this case it's speculation, although as I said above, probably obvious. And it's actually not as important to me as it people are making out about. It's more of an irritation, like people who put the milk in 1st, when I see a death report that doesn't include the cause of death as I can't understand why you wouldn't include it. Mind you there's a lot of things I don't understand about the world that annoy me

I object to you calling it gory details though. Its a simple science fact, not pictures. "

You're equating the insensitivity of your frustration at not knowing the cause of death of someone who died a matter of hours ago with whether the milk goes in first or not?!

That tells me all I need to know!!

And your frustration as well as being insensitive will continue, as has been explained there are any number of processes that need to be gone through before those details are released *if* they are released.

You can object all you like but what you are asking for are in effect the gory details, which they would be whether they were pictures or a simple cause of death statement at this stage - it's actually quite ghoulish that you want to know.

And if it really isn't that important to you calling it an "irritation" and other similar things totally goes against that.

Show some respect for the poor woman and quit with the insensitivity and trying to justify it!!

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By *candiumWoman  over a year ago

oban

I'm not trying to justify it. I'm asking for help to understand why everyone doesn't want to know the cause of death when someone dies. That's what I find bizzare. To me it's my instinctive reaction when I hear a death report..."I wonder what they died of" I simply don't get why that's wrong.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"I'm not trying to justify it. I'm asking for help to understand why everyone doesn't want to know the cause of death when someone dies. That's what I find bizzare. To me it's my instinctive reaction when I hear a death report..."I wonder what they died of" I simply don't get why that's wrong. "

Simple .... it’s none of my business

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Travelling


"I'm not trying to justify it. I'm asking for help to understand why everyone doesn't want to know the cause of death when someone dies. That's what I find bizzare. To me it's my instinctive reaction when I hear a death report..."I wonder what they died of" I simply don't get why that's wrong. "

I can assure you, you are the minority in wanting to know what the cause of death is. Curiosity is natural but the fact you are unable to grasp how se things have a line drawn when it comes to being curious in such a nature is an issue.

So I suggest you look in to why you need to know it when being told somebody has died instead of the majority having to explain why (which has been done I might add)

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By *essiCouple  over a year ago

suffolk

So very Sad.. a vibrant bubbly young woman who made the Love island what it was, yes she had her demons( don't we all) but it just Shows us yet again that you don't know what goes on behind closed doors..

Trial by media on every level and they were still at it yesterday bringing her down...

Compassion is a lost cause nowadays it really is.

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By *mberWoman  over a year ago

Preston


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say.

So people should have no right to privacy ?

Cause of death isn't something I see that anyone would feel the need to keep private? Anyway once someone's dead?

Urm she has family!

I have had family die and we put the cause of death in the obit? Don't get that's something to hide."

The cause of death in suicide is always treated delicately to prevent others from getting ideas on how to do it. It's standard practice across the board.

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By *essie.Woman  over a year ago

Serendipity

This thread should be removed. Some of the comments are so tasteless.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"He did ..the CPS refused to drop them

Perhaps the CPS should only prosecute men for domestic abuse and just let the women off."

Well Said!!!

If she had been a male who had bettered his girlfriend with a lamp then people would be say lots of different things right now..... and it’s Mrs G here

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By *dward_TeagueMan  over a year ago

wolverhampton

I don’t know too much about her and I’ve never watched anything that she was in, she wasn’t someone that I had any interest in.

Her death is desperately sad, we don’t know what she went through and maybe we should stop distasteful speculation and let her rest in peace.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say.

Cause of death yet to be legally establish I suspect. "

Exactly this. There is no cause of death until after a post mortem and even then when the inquest is opened it may not be known

It will come out when the inquest is heard and if the family's solicitors (who have already asked the media to respect the family's right to privacy and neither contact or photograph them) pursue the human rights angle of a right to a private life I hope the tabloids get the mauling they deserve

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By *candiumWoman  over a year ago

oban


"

The cause of death in suicide is always treated delicately to prevent others from getting ideas on how to do it. It's standard practice across the board."

I know. Bloody nanny state.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Also the cause of death is always in the public domain either via the registrar's office or coroner's inquest. Although it really is no one else's business

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say.

So people should have no right to privacy ?

Cause of death isn't something I see that anyone would feel the need to keep private? Anyway once someone's dead?

Urm she has family!

I have had family die and we put the cause of death in the obit? Don't get that's something to hide.

The cause of death in suicide is always treated delicately to prevent others from getting ideas on how to do it. It's standard practice across the board."

That literally couldn't be any more wrong

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land

Well I thought I'd seen it all on fab, and unfortunately I haven't. The lack of respect and empathy on here is completely shocking.

We do not know the facts of the incident, but some have decided they knew she was guilty (my stance on this would be the same regardless of gender), I believe in innocent before proven guilty.

And knowing the cause of death isn't a science, unless you want to understand the biological and chemical pathways involved in their cause of death. Unfortunately for me I do understand such pathways and am fully aware of the suffering my friend went through when she took her own life.

Guess there are always people in society to take pleasure in these things. I thought we'd moved on from the public spectacle of watching hangings and death masks etc, maybe this is the modern version

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By *candiumWoman  over a year ago

oban

News is saying that ITV might have to cancel Love Island. Her death will not be in vain.

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"News is saying that ITV might have to cancel Love Island. Her death will not be in vain."

Just when I thought you couldn't get any lower - you're using someone's death to celebrate the end of a TV programme?!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I find the whole situation very strange.

Blood turns brown when it oxygenates outside the body, so why was the blood on the bed bright red still??

The court said no contact so why has her bf gone against this by commenting on her friends posts with her in and declaring his love?.

It’s documented she had mental health issues so would be an ideal target for someone manipulative who wanted the limelight and let’s face it she was popular

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales

The cause of death is always made public (eventually). But by that time the morbid interest in that person has cleared up and nobody cares. Except the folk who genuinely cared about that person who are left with nothing but grief.

She was a person. Not just a story. The public’s interest will wane. Her friends and family’s grief will go on.

Leave her be.

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I find the whole situation very strange.

Blood turns brown when it oxygenates outside the body, so why was the blood on the bed bright red still??

The court said no contact so why has her bf gone against this by commenting on her friends posts with her in and declaring his love?.

It’s documented she had mental health issues so would be an ideal target for someone manipulative who wanted the limelight and let’s face it she was popular "

Does it really need to be speculated on and raked over though? A woman has died in very sad circumstances is all that really matters or needs to be acknowledged now - anything else is both irrelevant and insensitive

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By *he riverdeep69Couple  over a year ago

North west ish


"News is saying that ITV might have to cancel Love Island. Her death will not be in vain.

Just when I thought you couldn't get any lower - you're using someone's death to celebrate the end of a TV programme?! "

Don't feed the troll. They get off on it. Vile behaviour.

RIP Caroline. Thoughts and prayers to her family and friends.

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By *elshkinkyMan  over a year ago

south wales


"News is saying that ITV might have to cancel Love Island. Her death will not be in vain."

Wow... really

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"News is saying that ITV might have to cancel Love Island. Her death will not be in vain."

Obvious troll is obvious

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By *elshkinkyMan  over a year ago

south wales


"I'm not trying to justify it. I'm asking for help to understand why everyone doesn't want to know the cause of death when someone dies. That's what I find bizzare. To me it's my instinctive reaction when I hear a death report..."I wonder what they died of" I simply don't get why that's wrong. "

Unless you’re a Coroner your instinctive reaction should sit in a room...

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By *evaquitCouple  over a year ago

Catthorpe


"News is saying that ITV might have to cancel Love Island. Her death will not be in vain."

Trollish behaviour! Enjoy your little giggle as no doubt you have been doing throughout this thread. Pfft!

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By *onderstuff73mMan  over a year ago

Brum


"This thread folks

Is why social media will end in tears

Have some bloody respect people"

Agreed!

Just when you think social media may wake up and smell the coffee...some comments on a thread like this highlight all that’s gone wrong.

Sadly, not just social media...media...people...society in general...the masses.

There’s not enough love and thought in the world anymore...

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By *elshkinkyMan  over a year ago

south wales

If I shake my head anymore than I am right now I swear to god it will detach from the rest of my body. And at the risk of another visit to forum prison I’ll say no more

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By *candiumWoman  over a year ago

oban


"

Well I thought I'd seen it all on fab, and unfortunately I haven't. The lack of respect and empathy on here is completely shocking.

"

So I'm told. Don't understand that but apparently I'm a freak

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And knowing the cause of death isn't a science, unless you want to understand the biological and chemical pathways involved in their cause of death.

[/Quote]

I do want to understand them but for me it's about the pursuit of knowledge in of itself

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Unfortunately for me I do understand such pathways and am fully aware of the suffering my friend went through when she took her own life.

[/Quote]

My boyfriend killed himself and I know his suffering in death was nothing compared to his suffering in life.


"

Guess there are always people in society to take pleasure in these things. I thought we'd moved on from the public spectacle of watching hangings and death masks etc, maybe this is the modern version

"

For me it's nothing to do with pleasure.

I do think society in the West deals badly with death. However I don't support capital punishment so public hanging isn't my thing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When you do get an autopsy report it's simply very clinical. Lots of Latin. But it's not pleasant to think your loved ones have been cut apart. Theres just far too much of it these days. And theres little or no dignity at the end of ones life.

It's an area of life where we seem to have no say in the level at which these things are routinely practised.

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By *candiumWoman  over a year ago

oban


"News is saying that ITV might have to cancel Love Island. Her death will not be in vain.

Trollish behaviour! Enjoy your little giggle as no doubt you have been doing throughout this thread. Pfft!"

I'm not giggling. I'm not a troll.

I don't understand that's all

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"News is saying that ITV might have to cancel Love Island. Her death will not be in vain.

Trollish behaviour! Enjoy your little giggle as no doubt you have been doing throughout this thread. Pfft!

I'm not giggling. I'm not a troll.

I don't understand that's all"

Fair enough. When you can see your comments are upsetting people maybe it's time to step away from this particular thread though?

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By *candiumWoman  over a year ago

oban


"

Fair enough. When you can see your comments are upsetting people maybe it's time to step away from this particular thread though? "

Maybe but I'm trying to understand why they are upset.

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By *essie.Woman  over a year ago

Serendipity

The sooner this thread gets to 175 the better.

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land


"The sooner this thread gets to 175 the better.

"

Totally agree

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By *moothCriminal_xMan  over a year ago

Redditch


"The sooner this thread gets to 175 the better.

"

Bump

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"News is saying that ITV might have to cancel Love Island. Her death will not be in vain.

Trollish behaviour! Enjoy your little giggle as no doubt you have been doing throughout this thread. Pfft!

I'm not giggling. I'm not a troll.

I don't understand that's all"

The *only* thing you *need* to understand is that a woman in the public eye has died - anything beyond that is insensitive speculation and rather sick fascination.

Now please do as I suggested a number of hours ago and show some respect and quit with what *is* effectively trolling, it may not be deliberate (although I very much suspect it is - it's been made clear a number of times why what you are saying and asking is not right and yet you carry on) but it is trolling.

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By *emorefridaCouple  over a year ago

La la land


"The sooner this thread gets to 175 the better.

Bump "

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By *dward_TeagueMan  over a year ago

wolverhampton


"The sooner this thread gets to 175 the better.

Bump

"

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman  over a year ago

On a mooch

Can’t believe this is still going on !

8 threads since this lady past, all with insensitive comments, just let it go people !!

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By *he riverdeep69Couple  over a year ago

North west ish


"News is saying that ITV might have to cancel Love Island. Her death will not be in vain.

Trollish behaviour! Enjoy your little giggle as no doubt you have been doing throughout this thread. Pfft!

I'm not giggling. I'm not a troll.

I don't understand that's all

The *only* thing you *need* to understand is that a woman in the public eye has died - anything beyond that is insensitive speculation and rather sick fascination.

Now please do as I suggested a number of hours ago and show some respect and quit with what *is* effectively trolling, it may not be deliberate (although I very much suspect it is - it's been made clear a number of times why what you are saying and asking is not right and yet you carry on) but it is trolling."

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"

Fair enough. When you can see your comments are upsetting people maybe it's time to step away from this particular thread though?

Maybe but I'm trying to understand why they are upset."

Can I suggest you go back and read through the thread from the top - it's been explained a number of times - if you still can't understand why having done so, then just accept that you have been nothing but insensitive throughout this thread and quit.

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan  over a year ago

here


"The sooner this thread gets to 175 the better.

Bump

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By *dward_TeagueMan  over a year ago

wolverhampton

Only about 20 posts to go

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan  over a year ago

here


"

Fair enough. When you can see your comments are upsetting people maybe it's time to step away from this particular thread though?

Maybe but I'm trying to understand why they are upset.

Can I suggest you go back and read through the thread from the top - it's been explained a number of times - if you still can't understand why having done so, then just accept that you have been nothing but insensitive throughout this thread and quit."

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By *essie.Woman  over a year ago

Serendipity

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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Fair enough. When you can see your comments are upsetting people maybe it's time to step away from this particular thread though?

Maybe but I'm trying to understand why they are upset.

Can I suggest you go back and read through the thread from the top - it's been explained a number of times - if you still can't understand why having done so, then just accept that you have been nothing but insensitive throughout this thread and quit."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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Fair enough. When you can see your comments are upsetting people maybe it's time to step away from this particular thread though?

Maybe but I'm trying to understand why they are upset."

But your "her death will not be in vain" post really contradicts that ckaim doesn't it?

And people are upset because your posts show a lack of respect for someone that died yesterday. Most people allow the dead at least some dignity

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan  over a year ago

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Fair enough. When you can see your comments are upsetting people maybe it's time to step away from this particular thread though?

Maybe but I'm trying to understand why they are upset.

But your "her death will not be in vain" post really contradicts that ckaim doesn't it?

And people are upset because your posts show a lack of respect for someone that died yesterday. Most people allow the dead at least some dignity "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The sooner this thread gets to 175 the better.

Bump "

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London

Sadly some people lack empathy and everything is up for scrutiny and public gawking. I'm at a lose to understand why someone thinks the cause of death of a stranger is their entitled right to know.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham


"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say.

So people should have no right to privacy ?

Cause of death isn't something I see that anyone would feel the need to keep private? Anyway once someone's dead?"

Really? So if you die by sexual misadventure you'd be happy for all your friends and family to find out because....you know ....it's not private or anything? It could be posted in your obituary in the local press for all to see?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman  over a year ago

On a mooch

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By *dward_TeagueMan  over a year ago

wolverhampton

Not long now......

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By *essie.Woman  over a year ago

Serendipity

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan  over a year ago

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"The sooner this thread gets to 175 the better.

Bump

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham


"News is saying that ITV might have to cancel Love Island. Her death will not be in vain.

Trollish behaviour! Enjoy your little giggle as no doubt you have been doing throughout this thread. Pfft!

I'm not giggling. I'm not a troll.

I don't understand that's all"

Why don't you understand exactly?

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By *dward_TeagueMan  over a year ago

wolverhampton

Maybe this will be the last post

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By *elshkinkyMan  over a year ago

south wales

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman  over a year ago

On a mooch

Rest in peace

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By *ntrigued32Couple  over a year ago

Nottingham

Closed 'nuff said!!

Jo.Xx

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By *onderstuff73mMan  over a year ago

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham


"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges.

The boyfriend said it wasn't a serious injury.

Did you see the pics of the blood soaked bed sheets and the blood splatter up her front door."

To be fair head injuries bleed a lot. Just a small cut can look horrific.

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By *occerstar579Man  over a year ago

Harrogate

Bump let's get to 175

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

At the end of the day a beautiful young woman has died in such a tragic way.

Her family and friends will never recover from this. Wanting answers they will never get and always thinking that they could of done more and maybe if they had done things differently she might still be here.

Just spare a thought for them xXx

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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Ok a few points. Individual people don't decide what people write on the forum. The OP didn't post an RIP thread, he asked a question that can open up a discussion.

If you find some of the discussion not your liking, obviously you can call people out on it but don't abuse people when doing that.

If you think a person is breaking rules then report the post rather than call them names.

If you try and fill up a thread with your own posts to max the thread out you are in danger of triggering a flooding ban which is automatic and normally can't be overturned as the site thinks you are a spammer.

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