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"I didn't know she was accused of assaulting her boyfriend until tonight. When I heard about it months ago it was written online that she assaulted a m_mber of the public, but I guess that was fake news trying to get a quick story. Anyways I just googled this and I see her boyfriend sent her a valentines message yesterday.. So how come he didn't just drop the charges? " He did. | |||
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"I didn't know she was accused of assaulting her boyfriend until tonight. When I heard about it months ago it was written online that she assaulted a m_mber of the public, but I guess that was fake news trying to get a quick story. Anyways I just googled this and I see her boyfriend sent her a valentines message yesterday.. So how come he didn't just drop the charges? " He did not make complaint but police saw it | |||
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"I didn't know she was accused of assaulting her boyfriend until tonight. When I heard about it months ago it was written online that she assaulted a m_mber of the public, but I guess that was fake news trying to get a quick story. Anyways I just googled this and I see her boyfriend sent her a valentines message yesterday.. So how come he didn't just drop the charges? He did." But she was still going on court about it | |||
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"I didn't know she was accused of assaulting her boyfriend until tonight. When I heard about it months ago it was written online that she assaulted a m_mber of the public, but I guess that was fake news trying to get a quick story. Anyways I just googled this and I see her boyfriend sent her a valentines message yesterday.. So how come he didn't just drop the charges? He did. But she was still going on court about it " CPS continued to pursue. It’s a tragic story. | |||
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"He did ..the CPS refused to drop them " Perhaps the CPS should only prosecute men for domestic abuse and just let the women off. | |||
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"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges. " Ffs sake how serious could it be | |||
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"He did ..the CPS refused to drop them Perhaps the CPS should only prosecute men for domestic abuse and just let the women off." Why? | |||
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"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges. Ffs sake how serious could it be " She cracked his head open with a lamp | |||
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"He did ..the CPS refused to drop them Perhaps the CPS should only prosecute men for domestic abuse and just let the women off. Why? " I think he's being sarcastic! | |||
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"He did ..the CPS refused to drop them Perhaps the CPS should only prosecute men for domestic abuse and just let the women off. Why? " Sarcasm passes you by I see. | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. " So people should have no right to privacy ? | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. " My guess would be a overdose. | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. " Cause of death yet to be legally establish I suspect. | |||
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"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges. Ffs sake how serious could it be " She hit him hard enough for him to need medical treatment. | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. " The coroner will do his job, then it will come out. | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. So people should have no right to privacy ?" Cause of death isn't something I see that anyone would feel the need to keep private? Anyway once someone's dead? | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. So people should have no right to privacy ? Cause of death isn't something I see that anyone would feel the need to keep private? Anyway once someone's dead?" Urm she has family! | |||
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"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges. " The boyfriend said it wasn't a serious injury. | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. " wow. | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. Cause of death yet to be legally establish I suspect. " True but you can tell the difference between overdose/drowing/slit wrists etc without a full autopsy | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. Cause of death yet to be legally establish I suspect. True but you can tell the difference between overdose/drowing/slit wrists etc without a full autopsy " Does it really matter! | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. So people should have no right to privacy ? Cause of death isn't something I see that anyone would feel the need to keep private? Anyway once someone's dead? Urm she has family! " Tragic situation. 41 is no age. Wish the press was governed in some way so that some things stay private. | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. So people should have no right to privacy ? Cause of death isn't something I see that anyone would feel the need to keep private? Anyway once someone's dead? Urm she has family! " I have had family die and we put the cause of death in the obit? Don't get that's something to hide. | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. So people should have no right to privacy ? Cause of death isn't something I see that anyone would feel the need to keep private? Anyway once someone's dead? Urm she has family! I have had family die and we put the cause of death in the obit? Don't get that's something to hide." Yes just because that's what you did doesn't mean everyone should or would want to. | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. " They will not until a cause of death has been established.... Leaves them open to legal action from the families I should think. | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. Cause of death yet to be legally establish I suspect. True but you can tell the difference between overdose/drowing/slit wrists etc without a full autopsy " ill take a ban for this. really annoying that your way of thinking is disgusting and heartless!!!!!! | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. Cause of death yet to be legally establish I suspect. True but you can tell the difference between overdose/drowing/slit wrists etc without a full autopsy Does it really matter! " Does to me. But I find illness fascinating | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. " Think that’s quite sad really.. why do you need to know? | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. So people should have no right to privacy ? Cause of death isn't something I see that anyone would feel the need to keep private? Anyway once someone's dead? Urm she has family! I have had family die and we put the cause of death in the obit? Don't get that's something to hide." Then you should know that people react differently | |||
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"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges. The boyfriend said it wasn't a serious injury." Did you see the pics of the blood soaked bed sheets and the blood splatter up her front door. | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. So people should have no right to privacy ? Cause of death isn't something I see that anyone would feel the need to keep private? Anyway once someone's dead?" Just because a person dies it does not mean that person deserves less respect | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. Cause of death yet to be legally establish I suspect. True but you can tell the difference between overdose/drowing/slit wrists etc without a full autopsy Does it really matter! Does to me. But I find illness fascinating " WOW WOW WOW WOW | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. Cause of death yet to be legally establish I suspect. True but you can tell the difference between overdose/drowing/slit wrists etc without a full autopsy Does it really matter! Does to me. But I find illness fascinating " Wow! | |||
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"Ffs this is tragic and highlights how far we still have to go with mental health awareness. Poor girl " I couldn't agree more. | |||
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" ill take a ban for this. really annoying that your way of thinking is disgusting and heartless!!!!!!" Really bizzare reaction that... why? Seems completely logical to me that you include the cause. Don't see/get that it's in any way wrong? | |||
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"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges. The boyfriend said it wasn't a serious injury. Did you see the pics of the blood soaked bed sheets and the blood splatter up her front door." | |||
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"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges. The boyfriend said it wasn't a serious injury." But the police and CPS thought it was serious enough to warrant charges and a restraining order against her. CPS wouldn't charge her if they didn't think she would be found guilty. | |||
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"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges. The boyfriend said it wasn't a serious injury. Did you see the pics of the blood soaked bed sheets and the blood splatter up her front door." Yes, I saw that. It had been reported that it was a fake pic. That's the sort of stuff she had to put up with. Poor woman. | |||
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" Just because a person dies it does not mean that person deserves less respect " And how is wanting to know how they died disrespectful? | |||
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"can this thread be removed please??? " Agree totally | |||
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"you can tell the difference between overdose/drowing/slit wrists etc without a full autopsy Does it really matter! Does to me. But I find illness fascinating " Do you think, for example, you have the right to know why Prince Philip was in hospital for four nights before Christmas ? | |||
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"This thread folks Is why social media will end in tears Have some bloody respect people" HERE HERE!!! | |||
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" ill take a ban for this. really annoying that your way of thinking is disgusting and heartless!!!!!! Really bizzare reaction that... why? Seems completely logical to me that you include the cause. Don't see/get that it's in any way wrong?" However it happened, it happened. If you were close family you would be told, you aren’t so why do you need to know how the poor girl died? Your comments are inflammatory and unnecessary, you can’t be surprised at the reaction you are getting? It’s all a bit macabre | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. Cause of death yet to be legally establish I suspect. True but you can tell the difference between overdose/drowing/slit wrists etc without a full autopsy Does it really matter! Does to me. But I find illness fascinating " Want to know all about my condition?? You'll be even more fascinated to know mine could kill me at 50... Don't worry, I'll be sure to leave you the details if I die....Wouldn't want you missing out now would we | |||
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"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges. The boyfriend said it wasn't a serious injury. Did you see the pics of the blood soaked bed sheets and the blood splatter up her front door. Yes, I saw that. It had been reported that it was a fake pic. That's the sort of stuff she had to put up with. Poor woman. " Ok I think we need to rem_mber that people make mistakes but domestic violence is serious. She clearly had serious issues and has paid the ultimate price. | |||
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"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges. The boyfriend said it wasn't a serious injury. Did you see the pics of the blood soaked bed sheets and the blood splatter up her front door." And you had all the evidence presented to u by the prosecutor and the defendant and made a reasonable conclusion | |||
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"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges. The boyfriend said it wasn't a serious injury." Early reports described it not serious.. Seems like it's been blown out of preportion. | |||
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"you can tell the difference between overdose/drowing/slit wrists etc without a full autopsy Does it really matter! Does to me. But I find illness fascinating Do you think, for example, you have the right to know why Prince Philip was in hospital for four nights before Christmas ?" Given he's paid for by us, then yes. | |||
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" Just because a person dies it does not mean that person deserves less respect And how is wanting to know how they died disrespectful?" Why do you need to know though? It is disrespectful because it's none of your business | |||
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"you can tell the difference between overdose/drowing/slit wrists etc without a full autopsy Does it really matter! Does to me. But I find illness fascinating Do you think, for example, you have the right to know why Prince Philip was in hospital for four nights before Christmas ? Given he's paid for by us, then yes." You really need help | |||
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" Just because a person dies it does not mean that person deserves less respect And how is wanting to know how they died disrespectful? Why do you need to know though? It is disrespectful because it's none of your business" perfect!! | |||
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"I find this thread rather tasteless.... " | |||
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"I find this thread rather tasteless.... " iv and others want it removed for some people are vile. | |||
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"you can tell the difference between overdose/drowing/slit wrists etc without a full autopsy Does it really matter! Does to me. But I find illness fascinating Do you think, for example, you have the right to know why Prince Philip was in hospital for four nights before Christmas ? Given he's paid for by us, then yes." Most people admitted into hospital are paid for by the NHS. Wanna go round and ask everyone why they’re there? | |||
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"I find this thread rather tasteless.... " As do I. There is no reasoning with some people. My thread earlier went the same way. It's so sad. | |||
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"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges. Ffs sake how serious could it be She cracked his head open with a lamp " At the time of this domestic incident I believe an ex boyfriend made some remark about not only men being aggressors in domestic violence, suggesting a pattern of behaviour. Regardless it's a tragic loss of life of a young woman | |||
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"I find this thread rather tasteless.... iv and others want it removed for some people are vile. " Reiterate my previous post in support. Anyone know how to remove it ? | |||
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" Your comments are inflammatory and unnecessary, you can’t be surprised at the reaction you are getting? It’s all a bit macabre " I am surprised. I don't understand why if they are going to make it public that someone has died that they can't include what from. It seems a perfectly natural thing to include in an obit. | |||
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"I find this thread rather tasteless.... iv and others want it removed for some people are vile. Reiterate my previous post in support. Anyone know how to remove it ?" Only mods can. | |||
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"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges. The boyfriend said it wasn't a serious injury. Did you see the pics of the blood soaked bed sheets and the blood splatter up her front door." No, I'm saying the boyfriend said it wasn't a serious injury....It obviously was.. | |||
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"I find this thread rather tasteless.... iv and others want it removed for some people are vile. Reiterate my previous post in support. Anyone know how to remove it ? Only mods can. " Ok. | |||
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"It was serious enough for the CPS to press charges. The boyfriend said it wasn't a serious injury. Did you see the pics of the blood soaked bed sheets and the blood splatter up her front door. Yes, I saw that. It had been reported that it was a fake pic. That's the sort of stuff she had to put up with. Poor woman. Ok I think we need to rem_mber that people make mistakes but domestic violence is serious. She clearly had serious issues and has paid the ultimate price. " Yes of course domestic violence is serious. It's very sad that someone thinks that killing themselves is the answer. No one will ever know the facts. The bf got over it, it's a shame the media didn't. | |||
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" Why do you need to know though? It is disrespectful because it's none of your business" Why do I need to know they've died then? | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. Cause of death yet to be legally establish I suspect. True but you can tell the difference between overdose/drowing/slit wrists etc without a full autopsy Does it really matter! Does to me. But I find illness fascinating " Her body's still warm give it rest. | |||
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"Anyways I just googled this and I see her boyfriend sent her a valentines message yesterday.. So how come he didn't just drop the charges? " You cant just drop a domestic assault claim anymore. They police game, his head was split open, a comment was made that it happened in his sleep, so it would go to court. The days of bullying your partner and them being to weak to press charges are gone, the cops will proceed anyway But dont fret, they only get prosecution in like 8% of cases. Finally she has NDA and gag orders on other ex boyfriends, so expect more assualt claims to come forward. | |||
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"I find this thread rather tasteless.... " Why? Because some people are interested in the science behind death? | |||
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"I find this thread rather tasteless.... Why? Because some people are interested in the science behind death?" | |||
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" Why do you need to know though? It is disrespectful because it's none of your business Why do I need to know they've died then?" Well you don't NEED to know really though do you. The media reports itn you read it... Or should they run all reports by you first? | |||
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"any know any moderators??? " You have to report posts and a mod will look at them. | |||
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"any know any moderators??? " Out of curiosity, why? | |||
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"The lack of humanity in this place frequently astounds me. " Ditto!! Some of the comments on this thread are sickening - the poor woman is being raked over when she obviously wasn't without her problems - can it not just be left alone? What the flying f*** does it matter what the cause of death was? Sick and perverse springs to mind | |||
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"any know any moderators??? Out of curiosity, why?" for this tasteless thread to be closed down | |||
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"any know any moderators??? Out of curiosity, why?" | |||
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"any know any moderators??? Out of curiosity, why? for this tasteless thread to be closed down " Agree | |||
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"any know any moderators??? Out of curiosity, why? for this tasteless thread to be closed down " Don't add to it | |||
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"any know any moderators??? Out of curiosity, why? for this tasteless thread to be closed down " Oh right yeah. | |||
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"any know any moderators??? Out of curiosity, why? for this tasteless thread to be closed down Don't add to it " But it gets it closed quicker. | |||
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"any know any moderators??? Out of curiosity, why? for this tasteless thread to be closed down Don't add to it But it gets it closed quicker. " | |||
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"Genuinely don't get why wanting to know the cause of death of people is in anyway inhumane, tasteless, sickening, etc. They report the favourite colour, birthday, food preference...alsorts of other personal details... Wasn't trying to offend at all...Had no idea that it would." You had a clue after the first post. I get that it matters to you but surely you can understand why many find it distasteful. | |||
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"Genuinely don't get why wanting to know the cause of death of people is in anyway inhumane, tasteless, sickening, etc. They report the favourite colour, birthday, food preference...alsorts of other personal details... Wasn't trying to offend at all...Had no idea that it would." For somebody that claims to be so fascinated by death and things around it, the fact you didn't think such a comment would cause such a reaction says quite a bit and I suggest you expand your interest to the realm of respecting death to go along with it. | |||
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" I get that it matters to you but surely you can understand why many find it distasteful. " Not at all. Don't get that at all | |||
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" Why do you need to know though? It is disrespectful because it's none of your business Why do I need to know they've died then?" It's a shame you can't see it but, as someone has already said, you might need help. Being a celebrity title-tattle chasing FOMO C#nt looking for every scrag-end of someone else's demise that doesn't concern you is extremely distasteful. | |||
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" It's a shame you can't see it but, as someone has already said, you might need help. Being a celebrity title-tattle chasing FOMO C#nt looking for every scrag-end of someone else's demise that doesn't concern you is extremely distasteful." I generally have very little interest in the lives of celebrities, most of it is just tittle-tattle. Just so happens for me that cause of death is the one interesting thing. | |||
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" Just because a person dies it does not mean that person deserves less respect And how is wanting to know how they died disrespectful?" You're just a ghoul | |||
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" Have you ever suffered a bereavement? Yes Or sat with the dying? Yes Watched someone pass away? Yes Life is value and each and every person in this world had an impact on someone else in some way shape or form. Many people have sentiments in some way shape or form. I have been around death enough to value life, all life has a value. Humility, respect and common decency cost nothing. " I agree with all of that. | |||
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" I get that it matters to you but surely you can understand why many find it distasteful. Not at all. Don't get that at all you are a moron Because I don't get why people are sentimental about death? Don't that makes any difference to my IQ..." It doesn't make the slightest difference to your IQ and those throwing insults around have no right to, although I can understand why they may resort to that. I think what you're missing here though is it's no sentimentality over death, but the fact the poor woman (whatever you may think of her) only died a matter of hours ago and yet you seem to *need* to know the gory details - it's about respect and consideration and the way it seems to be a *must have* for you. You don't *need* that information, you don't even have a *right* to it - yet you seem to be raking over it as if you do. *If* those details are released in the fullness of time then so be it - but to actively ask the question, and then try to defend why it's ok to ask it, is incredibly insensitive at best. | |||
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"I didn't know she was accused of assaulting her boyfriend until tonight. When I heard about it months ago it was written online that she assaulted a m_mber of the public, but I guess that was fake news trying to get a quick story. Anyways I just googled this and I see her boyfriend sent her a valentines message yesterday.. So how come he didn't just drop the charges? " He asked for the charges to be dropped. The CPS refused to drop the charges. | |||
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" It's a shame you can't see it but, as someone has already said, you might need help. Being a celebrity title-tattle chasing FOMO C#nt looking for every scrag-end of someone else's demise that doesn't concern you is extremely distasteful. I generally have very little interest in the lives of celebrities, most of it is just tittle-tattle. Just so happens for me that cause of death is the one interesting thing." Once a full investigation has been carried out to determine the cause of death, and whether anyone else inflicted it, whether it was deliberate or accidental, your curiosity will be sated. | |||
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" It's a shame you can't see it but, as someone has already said, you might need help. Being a celebrity title-tattle chasing FOMO C#nt looking for every scrag-end of someone else's demise that doesn't concern you is extremely distasteful. I generally have very little interest in the lives of celebrities, most of it is just tittle-tattle. Just so happens for me that cause of death is the one interesting thing." From experience no matter what it looks like at the time of death she will need an autopsy where they will take various pieces of tissue and test them for substances etc. They will then contact the family and tell them this information adding a whole world of pain onto an already distraught family. Then said family will have to sign to say they agree to the little bits of tissue being cremated etc. Then they will sit at the funeral knowing the body has been through this and probably have to attend a coroner's court where every aspect will be analysed for the whole world to hear. At that point the press will release it all over the world. I hope that's enough information for you. If you want to know more then feel free to message me and I can discuss my mums suicide with you. | |||
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" I get that it matters to you but I think what you're missing here though is it's no sentimentality over death, but the fact the poor woman (whatever you may think of her) only died a matter of hours ago and yet you seem to *need* to know the gory details - it's about respect and consideration and the way it seems to be a *must have* for you. You don't *need* that information, you don't even have a *right* to it - yet you seem to be raking over it as if you do. *If* those details are released in the fullness of time then so be it - but to actively ask the question, and then try to defend why it's ok to ask it, is incredibly insensitive at best." I agree at this stage in this case it's speculation, although as I said above, probably obvious. And it's actually not as important to me as it people are making out about. It's more of an irritation, like people who put the milk in 1st, when I see a death report that doesn't include the cause of death as I can't understand why you wouldn't include it. Mind you there's a lot of things I don't understand about the world that annoy me I object to you calling it gory details though. Its a simple science fact, not pictures. | |||
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" It's a shame you can't see it but, as someone has already said, you might need help. Being a celebrity title-tattle chasing FOMO C#nt looking for every scrag-end of someone else's demise that doesn't concern you is extremely distasteful. I generally have very little interest in the lives of celebrities, most of it is just tittle-tattle. Just so happens for me that cause of death is the one interesting thing. From experience no matter what it looks like at the time of death she will need an autopsy where they will take various pieces of tissue and test them for substances etc. They will then contact the family and tell them this information adding a whole world of pain onto an already distraught family. Then said family will have to sign to say they agree to the little bits of tissue being cremated etc. Then they will sit at the funeral knowing the body has been through this and probably have to attend a coroner's court where every aspect will be analysed for the whole world to hear. At that point the press will release it all over the world. I hope that's enough information for you. If you want to know more then feel free to message me and I can discuss my mums suicide with you. " | |||
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" I get that it matters to you but I think what you're missing here though is it's no sentimentality over death, but the fact the poor woman (whatever you may think of her) only died a matter of hours ago and yet you seem to *need* to know the gory details - it's about respect and consideration and the way it seems to be a *must have* for you. You don't *need* that information, you don't even have a *right* to it - yet you seem to be raking over it as if you do. *If* those details are released in the fullness of time then so be it - but to actively ask the question, and then try to defend why it's ok to ask it, is incredibly insensitive at best. I agree at this stage in this case it's speculation, although as I said above, probably obvious. And it's actually not as important to me as it people are making out about. It's more of an irritation, like people who put the milk in 1st, when I see a death report that doesn't include the cause of death as I can't understand why you wouldn't include it. Mind you there's a lot of things I don't understand about the world that annoy me I object to you calling it gory details though. Its a simple science fact, not pictures. " You're equating the insensitivity of your frustration at not knowing the cause of death of someone who died a matter of hours ago with whether the milk goes in first or not?! That tells me all I need to know!! And your frustration as well as being insensitive will continue, as has been explained there are any number of processes that need to be gone through before those details are released *if* they are released. You can object all you like but what you are asking for are in effect the gory details, which they would be whether they were pictures or a simple cause of death statement at this stage - it's actually quite ghoulish that you want to know. And if it really isn't that important to you calling it an "irritation" and other similar things totally goes against that. Show some respect for the poor woman and quit with the insensitivity and trying to justify it!! | |||
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"I'm not trying to justify it. I'm asking for help to understand why everyone doesn't want to know the cause of death when someone dies. That's what I find bizzare. To me it's my instinctive reaction when I hear a death report..."I wonder what they died of" I simply don't get why that's wrong. " Simple .... it’s none of my business | |||
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"I'm not trying to justify it. I'm asking for help to understand why everyone doesn't want to know the cause of death when someone dies. That's what I find bizzare. To me it's my instinctive reaction when I hear a death report..."I wonder what they died of" I simply don't get why that's wrong. " I can assure you, you are the minority in wanting to know what the cause of death is. Curiosity is natural but the fact you are unable to grasp how se things have a line drawn when it comes to being curious in such a nature is an issue. So I suggest you look in to why you need to know it when being told somebody has died instead of the majority having to explain why (which has been done I might add) | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. So people should have no right to privacy ? Cause of death isn't something I see that anyone would feel the need to keep private? Anyway once someone's dead? Urm she has family! I have had family die and we put the cause of death in the obit? Don't get that's something to hide." The cause of death in suicide is always treated delicately to prevent others from getting ideas on how to do it. It's standard practice across the board. | |||
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"He did ..the CPS refused to drop them Perhaps the CPS should only prosecute men for domestic abuse and just let the women off." Well Said!!! If she had been a male who had bettered his girlfriend with a lamp then people would be say lots of different things right now..... and it’s Mrs G here | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. Cause of death yet to be legally establish I suspect. " Exactly this. There is no cause of death until after a post mortem and even then when the inquest is opened it may not be known It will come out when the inquest is heard and if the family's solicitors (who have already asked the media to respect the family's right to privacy and neither contact or photograph them) pursue the human rights angle of a right to a private life I hope the tabloids get the mauling they deserve | |||
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" The cause of death in suicide is always treated delicately to prevent others from getting ideas on how to do it. It's standard practice across the board." I know. Bloody nanny state. | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. So people should have no right to privacy ? Cause of death isn't something I see that anyone would feel the need to keep private? Anyway once someone's dead? Urm she has family! I have had family die and we put the cause of death in the obit? Don't get that's something to hide. The cause of death in suicide is always treated delicately to prevent others from getting ideas on how to do it. It's standard practice across the board." That literally couldn't be any more wrong | |||
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"News is saying that ITV might have to cancel Love Island. Her death will not be in vain." Just when I thought you couldn't get any lower - you're using someone's death to celebrate the end of a TV programme?! | |||
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"I find the whole situation very strange. Blood turns brown when it oxygenates outside the body, so why was the blood on the bed bright red still?? The court said no contact so why has her bf gone against this by commenting on her friends posts with her in and declaring his love?. It’s documented she had mental health issues so would be an ideal target for someone manipulative who wanted the limelight and let’s face it she was popular " Does it really need to be speculated on and raked over though? A woman has died in very sad circumstances is all that really matters or needs to be acknowledged now - anything else is both irrelevant and insensitive | |||
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"News is saying that ITV might have to cancel Love Island. Her death will not be in vain. Just when I thought you couldn't get any lower - you're using someone's death to celebrate the end of a TV programme?! " Don't feed the troll. They get off on it. Vile behaviour. RIP Caroline. Thoughts and prayers to her family and friends. | |||
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"News is saying that ITV might have to cancel Love Island. Her death will not be in vain." Wow... really | |||
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"News is saying that ITV might have to cancel Love Island. Her death will not be in vain." Obvious troll is obvious | |||
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"I'm not trying to justify it. I'm asking for help to understand why everyone doesn't want to know the cause of death when someone dies. That's what I find bizzare. To me it's my instinctive reaction when I hear a death report..."I wonder what they died of" I simply don't get why that's wrong. " Unless you’re a Coroner your instinctive reaction should sit in a room... | |||
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"News is saying that ITV might have to cancel Love Island. Her death will not be in vain." Trollish behaviour! Enjoy your little giggle as no doubt you have been doing throughout this thread. Pfft! | |||
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"This thread folks Is why social media will end in tears Have some bloody respect people" Agreed! Just when you think social media may wake up and smell the coffee...some comments on a thread like this highlight all that’s gone wrong. Sadly, not just social media...media...people...society in general...the masses. There’s not enough love and thought in the world anymore... | |||
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" Well I thought I'd seen it all on fab, and unfortunately I haven't. The lack of respect and empathy on here is completely shocking. " So I'm told. Don't understand that but apparently I'm a freak [Quote] And knowing the cause of death isn't a science, unless you want to understand the biological and chemical pathways involved in their cause of death. [/Quote] I do want to understand them but for me it's about the pursuit of knowledge in of itself [Quote] Unfortunately for me I do understand such pathways and am fully aware of the suffering my friend went through when she took her own life. [/Quote] My boyfriend killed himself and I know his suffering in death was nothing compared to his suffering in life. " Guess there are always people in society to take pleasure in these things. I thought we'd moved on from the public spectacle of watching hangings and death masks etc, maybe this is the modern version " For me it's nothing to do with pleasure. I do think society in the West deals badly with death. However I don't support capital punishment so public hanging isn't my thing. | |||
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"News is saying that ITV might have to cancel Love Island. Her death will not be in vain. Trollish behaviour! Enjoy your little giggle as no doubt you have been doing throughout this thread. Pfft!" I'm not giggling. I'm not a troll. I don't understand that's all | |||
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"News is saying that ITV might have to cancel Love Island. Her death will not be in vain. Trollish behaviour! Enjoy your little giggle as no doubt you have been doing throughout this thread. Pfft! I'm not giggling. I'm not a troll. I don't understand that's all" Fair enough. When you can see your comments are upsetting people maybe it's time to step away from this particular thread though? | |||
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"News is saying that ITV might have to cancel Love Island. Her death will not be in vain. Trollish behaviour! Enjoy your little giggle as no doubt you have been doing throughout this thread. Pfft! I'm not giggling. I'm not a troll. I don't understand that's all" The *only* thing you *need* to understand is that a woman in the public eye has died - anything beyond that is insensitive speculation and rather sick fascination. Now please do as I suggested a number of hours ago and show some respect and quit with what *is* effectively trolling, it may not be deliberate (although I very much suspect it is - it's been made clear a number of times why what you are saying and asking is not right and yet you carry on) but it is trolling. | |||
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"News is saying that ITV might have to cancel Love Island. Her death will not be in vain. Trollish behaviour! Enjoy your little giggle as no doubt you have been doing throughout this thread. Pfft! I'm not giggling. I'm not a troll. I don't understand that's all The *only* thing you *need* to understand is that a woman in the public eye has died - anything beyond that is insensitive speculation and rather sick fascination. Now please do as I suggested a number of hours ago and show some respect and quit with what *is* effectively trolling, it may not be deliberate (although I very much suspect it is - it's been made clear a number of times why what you are saying and asking is not right and yet you carry on) but it is trolling." | |||
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" Fair enough. When you can see your comments are upsetting people maybe it's time to step away from this particular thread though? Maybe but I'm trying to understand why they are upset." Can I suggest you go back and read through the thread from the top - it's been explained a number of times - if you still can't understand why having done so, then just accept that you have been nothing but insensitive throughout this thread and quit. | |||
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" Fair enough. When you can see your comments are upsetting people maybe it's time to step away from this particular thread though? Maybe but I'm trying to understand why they are upset. Can I suggest you go back and read through the thread from the top - it's been explained a number of times - if you still can't understand why having done so, then just accept that you have been nothing but insensitive throughout this thread and quit." | |||
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" Fair enough. When you can see your comments are upsetting people maybe it's time to step away from this particular thread though? Maybe but I'm trying to understand why they are upset. Can I suggest you go back and read through the thread from the top - it's been explained a number of times - if you still can't understand why having done so, then just accept that you have been nothing but insensitive throughout this thread and quit." | |||
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" Fair enough. When you can see your comments are upsetting people maybe it's time to step away from this particular thread though? Maybe but I'm trying to understand why they are upset." But your "her death will not be in vain" post really contradicts that ckaim doesn't it? And people are upset because your posts show a lack of respect for someone that died yesterday. Most people allow the dead at least some dignity | |||
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" Fair enough. When you can see your comments are upsetting people maybe it's time to step away from this particular thread though? Maybe but I'm trying to understand why they are upset. But your "her death will not be in vain" post really contradicts that ckaim doesn't it? And people are upset because your posts show a lack of respect for someone that died yesterday. Most people allow the dead at least some dignity " | |||
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"I wish newspapers/websites were legally obliged to print cause of death in all reports of death. Really annoying that they never say. So people should have no right to privacy ? Cause of death isn't something I see that anyone would feel the need to keep private? Anyway once someone's dead?" Really? So if you die by sexual misadventure you'd be happy for all your friends and family to find out because....you know ....it's not private or anything? It could be posted in your obituary in the local press for all to see? | |||
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