"Best way to deal with them? Site seems to be plagued by them
What’s your definition of a time waster?"
Someone who says they want to meet you suggest a day/time in keeping with the other person's schedule but they never reply and now the day/time has passed. Messages read but not replied to. Only time wasted is in chatting but still... Then there's people who don't turn up to agreed meets..... |
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"Best way to deal with them? Site seems to be plagued by them
What’s your definition of a time waster?"
someone who agrees to meet then just goes off line is one, countless questions saying they want to meet, the list is endless really. |
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"A time waster is someone who arranges to meet and doesn’t turn up and doesn’t give a reason why.
Stopping talking online is not a time waster."
like I've explained when they arrange to meet exchange details then nothing that's wasting someone's time.. |
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What is a time waster to you op?
If you have a fully agreed date, time and place for meeting, after an agreed final contact between you and they don't turn up, use the report button on Fab, to notify Admin.
Take full responsibility yourself for communicating and agreeing final checks for confurmation.
Don't unduly pressure people to meet, but offer an open ended invitation. Too much perceived pressure can mean that their reluctance and uncertainty is not noticed.
Have reasonable expectations. Most people you talk with will not meet you ad you are not mutually matched. It's vital to understand this. |
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"A time waster is someone who arranges to meet and doesn’t turn up and doesn’t give a reason why.
Stopping talking online is not a time waster.like I've explained when they arrange to meet exchange details then nothing that's wasting someone's time.. "
people have other priorities.
They are also open to alter their interest and want something different. Swapping contact information allows further communication but is not a 100% agreement to have sex.
It is unrealistic to assume that everyone who chats here or offsite is compatible and right to meet, let alone have some form of sex. People also have differing sexual needs, so you will get people who are not matched or who have different needs afterwards, possibly as they will often have other partners and not just you who is potentially providing some sexual interaction. If they decide someone else is their choice for something, you become persona non grata. And, as longer term partners are in great sopply, they will have priority over you. |
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