"It depends what the message is. If it is someone being nice I always reply. If it is someone expecting me to drop everything and meet them straight away then no I do t reply "
I'm like that sometimes I read a message and think IL reply to them, other people I think we'll you clearly didn't bother to read my profile so why waste my time replying |
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When visible my profile clearly states what I'm looking for and offering. It also states I won't respond to anyone outwith what I'm looking for: and I don't!
There's more of my life behind me than ahead and I certainly don't intend wasting a minute repeating myself to people I've already made clear I wouldn't be meeting. |
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As above we try to put in our profile what we are looking for but 80% of men don’t read it so when I reply and I always reply I just thank them tell them that they are not a good fit for us and wish them luck!!!!
By me doing this it frees my wife up to reply to only the blokes that she wants to and stops her getting the jump with fab.
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Messages on here are like the flyers you get through the door from takeaways.
You wouldn’t phone every takeaway to say that you’re sorry you don’t like pizza or that they’re too far away, so why would you do it for every unsolicited message on here?
People get far too butthurt at not getting a reply, no answer is an answer, just accept it and move on. |
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I hardly ever reply to anyone unless they're already friends or it's to do with forum chat. It's blatantly obvious when people haven't read my profile or even the header, so I'm not going to waste my time. |
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"I hardly ever reply to anyone unless they're already friends or it's to do with forum chat. It's blatantly obvious when people haven't read my profile or even the header, so I'm not going to waste my time. "
Is it true that for every message, you reply by sending loads of sexy pictures back to them and a guarantee to fuck whenever they happen to be passing?
How many messages will you get today?  |
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"I hardly ever reply to anyone unless they're already friends or it's to do with forum chat. It's blatantly obvious when people haven't read my profile or even the header, so I'm not going to waste my time.
Is it true that for every message, you reply by sending loads of sexy pictures back to them and a guarantee to fuck whenever they happen to be passing?
How many messages will you get today? "
Oh yes, absolutely 
4 messages so far today, it's a slow one. All deleted with no reply, 3 I've blocked. Fucking people. |
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"If someone messages and you aren’t interested. Do you always still reply and do you tell them why ? "
No, sometimes I just delete.
It would take ages for me to reply to everyone. |
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