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It's happened. a great meet to be had by both with amazing times, both of you want to see each other again and boom.
A veri pops up from him/her explicitly describing your sexy fun times.
Do you A, show it as who cares who can see how you get your kicks...
Or B, keep it hidden and wish for a fab room 101...
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It all depends if it's comedy gold really. Most of the people leaving me a sex veri would ensure that it reads like a mucky poem from Jack Duckworth to Vera in the 80s.
Anything less than that wouldn't deserve a display. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I've usually made it clear I'm not a fan of explicit veris before we've met and tend to avoid those that have a string of them and leave them anyway, so chances of it happening are slim - if it did though I'd probably hide it unless it was tongue in cheek and humourous in nature |
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To me there is no need for an explicit veri.
Keep them clean.
If you want to reminisce about a particular highlight with someone then message them. There's no need for everyone to know.
Whether you want to post them or not is down to personal preference. I did like reading mine to remember the fun though  |
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over a year ago
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Hidden. I’m not a fan of veris. Ive only ever had/shown social ones. Don’t feel there’s a need for another one next time. To me they’re there to prove I’m genuine. I ask people not to leave them unless it’s a social one. I’m really private anyway. However, I always read other people’s  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hidden. I’m not a fan of veris. Ive only ever had/shown social ones. Don’t feel there’s a need for another one next time. To me they’re there to prove I’m genuine. I ask people not to leave them unless it’s a social one. I’m really private anyway. However, I always read other people’s "
I’m confused as though you had gone. Welcome back anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hidden. I’m not a fan of veris. Ive only ever had/shown social ones. Don’t feel there’s a need for another one next time. To me they’re there to prove I’m genuine. I ask people not to leave them unless it’s a social one. I’m really private anyway. However, I always read other people’s
I’m confused as though you had gone. Welcome back anyway "
No I’m here |
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By *arksxMan
over a year ago
Leicester / London |
"It's happened. a great meet to be had by both with amazing times, both of you want to see each other again and boom.
A veri pops up from him/her explicitly describing your sexy fun times.
Do you A, show it as who cares who can see how you get your kicks...
Or B, keep it hidden and wish for a fab room 101...
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Discuss it with the person the person who wrote the veri?
Rather than illicit opions from people who were not at the meet or in the persons mind when they wrote it
As for displaying it... Do what makes you feel good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hidden. I’m not a fan of veris. Ive only ever had/shown social ones. Don’t feel there’s a need for another one next time. To me they’re there to prove I’m genuine. I ask people not to leave them unless it’s a social one. I’m really private anyway. However, I always read other people’s
I’m confused as though you had gone. Welcome back anyway
No I’m here "
Your Verdi’s weren’t the only thing you were hiding  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hidden. I’m not a fan of veris. Ive only ever had/shown social ones. Don’t feel there’s a need for another one next time. To me they’re there to prove I’m genuine. I ask people not to leave them unless it’s a social one. I’m really private anyway. However, I always read other people’s
I’m confused as though you had gone. Welcome back anyway
No I’m here
Your Verdi’s weren’t the only thing you were hiding "
what’s Verdi got to do with it?  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Hidden. I’m not a fan of veris. Ive only ever had/shown social ones. Don’t feel there’s a need for another one next time. To me they’re there to prove I’m genuine. I ask people not to leave them unless it’s a social one. I’m really private anyway. However, I always read other people’s
I’m confused as though you had gone. Welcome back anyway
No I’m here
Your Verdi’s weren’t the only thing you were hiding "
Yeah she kept her Bach and Beethoven's hidden too |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"Hidden. I’m not a fan of veris. Ive only ever had/shown social ones. Don’t feel there’s a need for another one next time. To me they’re there to prove I’m genuine. I ask people not to leave them unless it’s a social one. I’m really private anyway. However, I always read other people’s
I’m confused as though you had gone. Welcome back anyway
No I’m here
Your Verdi’s weren’t the only thing you were hiding
Yeah she kept her Bach and Beethoven's hidden too "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hidden. I’m not a fan of veris. Ive only ever had/shown social ones. Don’t feel there’s a need for another one next time. To me they’re there to prove I’m genuine. I ask people not to leave them unless it’s a social one. I’m really private anyway. However, I always read other people’s
I’m confused as though you had gone. Welcome back anyway
No I’m here
Your Verdi’s weren’t the only thing you were hiding what’s Verdi got to do with it? "
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one."
Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.
Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro? "
Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hidden. I’m not a fan of veris. Ive only ever had/shown social ones. Don’t feel there’s a need for another one next time. To me they’re there to prove I’m genuine. I ask people not to leave them unless it’s a social one. I’m really private anyway. However, I always read other people’s
I’m confused as though you had gone. Welcome back anyway
No I’m here
Your Verdi’s weren’t the only thing you were hiding
Yeah she kept her Bach and Beethoven's hidden too
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I don’t mind that I rather Ravel her Bolero and play with her Rachmaninov |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hidden. I’m not a fan of veris. Ive only ever had/shown social ones. Don’t feel there’s a need for another one next time. To me they’re there to prove I’m genuine. I ask people not to leave them unless it’s a social one. I’m really private anyway. However, I always read other people’s
I’m confused as though you had gone. Welcome back anyway
No I’m here
Your Verdi’s weren’t the only thing you were hiding
Yeah she kept her Bach and Beethoven's hidden too
I don’t mind that I rather Ravel her Bolero and play with her Rachmaninov "
Ooooooh I say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.
Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro? "
Have you got a Shit Shag I can have? |
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"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.
Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?
Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?"
He said borrow not have |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I keep mine hidden.
I sometimes display my most recent for a while.
I dont often get left them or have mine displayed as I'm married and it would put others off playing with the guy!! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.
Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?
Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?"
Swap you for a shiny |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.
Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?
Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?
Swap you for a shiny "
Or if that's no good I've got a couple of Crap Cormorants going spare |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.
Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?
Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?
He said borrow not have "
Never a borrower or a lender be. I’ll have to find my own way to get a Shit Shag verification I just need to find someone to give me one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.
Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?
Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?
He said borrow not have
Never a borrower or a lender be. I’ll have to find my own way to get a Shit Shag verification I just need to find someone to give me one "
Damn wish I could help with that but I obviously can’t |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.
Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?
Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?
Swap you for a shiny
Or if that's no good I've got a couple of Crap Cormorants going spare "
It’s ok I’ll go Robin |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.
Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?
Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?
He said borrow not have
Never a borrower or a lender be. I’ll have to find my own way to get a Shit Shag verification I just need to find someone to give me one
Damn wish I could help with that but I obviously can’t "
That’s what they all say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.
Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?
Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?
He said borrow not have
Never a borrower or a lender be. I’ll have to find my own way to get a Shit Shag verification I just need to find someone to give me one
Damn wish I could help with that but I obviously can’t
That’s what they all say "
I only have amazing shags but seems you’re only looking for a shit one. Shame  |
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Verifications are helpful to hopefully enhance a profile... and show that you may be normal...ish
But they are also often a private thing and for your eyes only.
I would love a tripadvisor system which showed really crappy ones too...that would appeal to my sense of humour |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.
Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?
Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?
He said borrow not have
Never a borrower or a lender be. I’ll have to find my own way to get a Shit Shag verification I just need to find someone to give me one
Damn wish I could help with that but I obviously can’t
That’s what they all say
I only have amazing shags but seems you’re only looking for a shit one. Shame "
Oh no missed out on amazing sex again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's happened. a great meet to be had by both with amazing times, both of you want to see each other again and boom.
A veri pops up from him/her explicitly describing your sexy fun times.
Do you A, show it as who cares who can see how you get your kicks...
Or B, keep it hidden and wish for a fab room 101...
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keep it private   |
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"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.
Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?
Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?
He said borrow not have
Never a borrower or a lender be. I’ll have to find my own way to get a Shit Shag verification I just need to find someone to give me one "
You know you two could share, sharing is caring |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Somewhat wary of being in an inaccurate veri. Sometimes what is described is unrealistic or plain lies.
Also when getting the veri seems more important than the action, it can lead to some poor behaviour. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.
Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?
Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?
He said borrow not have
Never a borrower or a lender be. I’ll have to find my own way to get a Shit Shag verification I just need to find someone to give me one
You know you two could share, sharing is caring "
Always more than happy to share in the right circumstances  |
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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago
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I know that verifications are there to prove that you're authentic but I find them a bit embarrassing, basically getting rated on how you are in the sac. Plus I never know what to write for someone else that I've met. It's just awkward personally |
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I don't see or feel the problem with explicit veris, way more interesting to read than some of the, 'she floated across the room as if carried by angels' bs some people spew out...yawn.
Im here to connect, but it's ultimately about sex for most here, so if I read a veri I don't want tons of tedious hyperbole...id like to know that they turned up, were friendly, funny, respectful, safe and sexy as hell...whyd you hide something about your sexual self when you're primarily here to find and meet people for sex?! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I don't see or feel the problem with explicit veris, way more interesting to read than some of the, 'she floated across the room as if carried by angels' bs some people spew out...yawn.
Im here to connect, but it's ultimately about sex for most here, so if I read a veri I don't want tons of tedious hyperbole...id like to know that they turned up, were friendly, funny, respectful, safe and sexy as hell...whyd you hide something about your sexual self when you're primarily here to find and meet people for sex?! "
Because sadly some people make more of a veri than there really needs to be - or make judgements about who people have met etc - ultimately the purpose of a veri is to verify that you are genuine and nothing more really.
I certainly don't want to read about someone's capabilities in bed - for starters if I'm interested in someone enough to want to meet them I'd rather explore and find out for myself, and just because someone was amazing with one person doesn't mean it will be the same with me - sexual chemistry and comparability vary from person to person and even individual encounters with the same person - so a veri that says "Gave the best blow job ever" is pretty pointless and irrelevant to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I display wether social or naughty, never had any dramas from them and some enjoy the naughty ones, it is a site that enables sex after all.
Each to their own though as is the way with everything on here |
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"I display wether social or naughty, never had any dramas from them and some enjoy the naughty ones, it is a site that enables sex after all.
Each to their own though as is the way with everything on here"
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"Verifications are helpful to hopefully enhance a profile... and show that you may be normal...ish
But they are also often a private thing and for your eyes only.
I would love a tripadvisor system which showed really crappy ones too...that would appeal to my sense of humour "
That very wicked sense of humour |
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over a year ago
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"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.
Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?
Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?
He said borrow not have
Never a borrower or a lender be. I’ll have to find my own way to get a Shit Shag verification I just need to find someone to give me one
You know you two could share, sharing is caring "
Now that kind of sharing is very caring |
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"I use veris as mementos and keep them hidden. I prefer to keep who I see and what we do private. However if an ever get that elusive ‘shit shag verification’ I’ll publish that one.
Want a lend of some till you get some of your own bro?
Have you got a Shit Shag I can have?
He said borrow not have
Never a borrower or a lender be. I’ll have to find my own way to get a Shit Shag verification I just need to find someone to give me one
You know you two could share, sharing is caring
Always more than happy to share in the right circumstances "
I wonder how these circumstances happen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only show social veris. I had one guy leave a Veri that named the road I lived on!
how does that even manage to be slipped into a veri?!
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I'd met him several times and this time he picked me up from mine. He had trouble finding my road and though he'd tell the funny story! |
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"I only show social veris. I had one guy leave a Veri that named the road I lived on!
how does that even manage to be slipped into a veri?!
I'd met him several times and this time he picked me up from mine. He had trouble finding my road and though he'd tell the funny story! "
That really isn't funny at all, despite how funny a story it may have been, there is absolutely no need to put personal details into a veri like that.
What is funny is he probably thought you would actually choose to display it to all & sundry. |
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"I only show social veris. I had one guy leave a Veri that named the road I lived on!
how does that even manage to be slipped into a veri?!
I'd met him several times and this time he picked me up from mine. He had trouble finding my road and though he'd tell the funny story!
That really isn't funny at all, despite how funny a story it may have been, there is absolutely no need to put personal details into a veri like that.
What is funny is he probably thought you would actually choose to display it to all & sundry. "
Exactly.
Iv never really had any other issues though.
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