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over a year ago
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We all have those pitiful poor me moments, where you feel taken for granted, then wise up and get back to reality.
What do you think people take you for granted most? |
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"My forgiveness.
Oh this too.
I think sometimes I should put all my walls back up but then I'd not be me? You know? Xx"
Oh I know all too well. It's a hard balance. Being yourself, being kind, being understanding, bending over fucking backwards again and again.
I've just accepted that sometimes I'm going to get burnt occasionally  |
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"Oh I know all too well. It's a hard balance. ....... bending over fucking backwards again and again.
I've just accepted that sometimes I'm going to get burnt occasionally "
It would be hard not to take advantage of these qualities  |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
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"My forgiveness.
Oh this too.
I think sometimes I should put all my walls back up but then I'd not be me? You know? Xx
Oh I know all too well. It's a hard balance. Being yourself, being kind, being understanding, bending over fucking backwards again and again.
I've just accepted that sometimes I'm going to get burnt occasionally "
Absolutely. I'm me, I'm going to get hurt, I know that so ill deal with it  xx |
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"My forgiveness.
Oh this too.
I think sometimes I should put all my walls back up but then I'd not be me? You know? Xx
Oh I know all too well. It's a hard balance. Being yourself, being kind, being understanding, bending over fucking backwards again and again.
I've just accepted that sometimes I'm going to get burnt occasionally
Absolutely. I'm me, I'm going to get hurt, I know that so ill deal with it xx"
Sigh |
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"My forgiveness.
Oh this too.
I think sometimes I should put all my walls back up but then I'd not be me? You know? Xx
Oh I know all too well. It's a hard balance. Being yourself, being kind, being understanding, bending over fucking backwards again and again.
I've just accepted that sometimes I'm going to get burnt occasionally "
We get burnt & we learn, sometimes for the better sometimes not. It's hard sometimes to not let things change you as a person |
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" We all have those pitiful poor me moments, where you feel taken for granted, then wise up and get back to reality.
What do you think people take you for granted most?"
I am far too suspicious and actually selfish to be taken for granted, yes I help people but it is because I gain something from it, which is mainly pleasure.
My walls are where I want them to be and my inner circle friends love me too much to hurt me and
everyone one else is at arms reach where they belong.
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
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" We all have those pitiful poor me moments, where you feel taken for granted, then wise up and get back to reality.
What do you think people take you for granted most?
I am far too suspicious and actually selfish to be taken for granted, yes I help people but it is because I gain something from it, which is mainly pleasure.
My walls are where I want them to be and my inner circle friends love me too much to hurt me and
everyone one else is at arms reach where they belong.
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I'm actually quite envious of having that ability. My mum always said to me that not everyone has the heart you do and feels like you.
I think she was trying to tell me I feel too much, that I give myself too freely to people. I consider them friends or close and so far bar 1 friend I've a 100% success rate of being trampled over.
I need to learn how to give less fucks  |
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My work ethic... I go the extra mile time and time again, and it just becomes expected after a while 
I don't take any shit in personal relationships, I'm quite happy to walk away if people think they can treat me like crap |
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My children take me for granted sometimes. I know they don't mean it but it does get to me every once in a while. I am expected to be wonderwoman by doing everything. I know a lot of Mums feel the same way too. |
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"My forgiveness.
Oh this too.
I think sometimes I should put all my walls back up but then I'd not be me? You know? Xx
Oh I know all too well. It's a hard balance. Being yourself, being kind, being understanding, bending over fucking backwards again and again.
I've just accepted that sometimes I'm going to get burnt occasionally
We get burnt & we learn, sometimes for the better sometimes not. It's hard sometimes to not let things change you as a person "
I hear that. |
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"My children take me for granted sometimes. I know they don't mean it but it does get to me every once in a while. I am expected to be wonderwoman by doing everything. I know a lot of Mums feel the same way too."
Its easy to take our children for granted at times too |
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"My work ethic... I go the extra mile time and time again, and it just becomes expected after a while
I don't take any shit in personal relationships, I'm quite happy to walk away if people think they can treat me like crap"
This too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My kindness.
Though I did man up the other day. A girl at work keeps asking for lifts into work, fair enough. Done it for a while, the other week cheeky cow is sat in my car adding up how much money I am saving her 
I just said "wow are you seriously taking the piss??? Saving you how much??? You seen the cost of diesal mate"
Last week she left £20 in the ashtray |
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My kindness and humility they seem to judge me based on my age and not the person that I am. Or make assumptions that are completely wrong but only see me that way. A number of my exes have done that and quiet a few people on here have done that as well. People don't see me for me they see me as something that i'm not and will never be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My kindness.
I'm definitely too nice, which makes me vulnerable to being walked all over.
I am trying to be a bit more selfish at times though, when needed. |
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Nothing no more as I left that all behind, work, colleagues, friends
This year is about me and I’ll be stubborn about it. The friends I want in my life, I’ll be there for them 100%, the others (the leeches, the me, me, me people) are forgotten and it feels great. |
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