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Don't you wish fab had a dating feature built into it?
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over a year ago
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"Where you could search profiles looking for fwbs and open dating with an extra profile section dedicated to it.
Please tell me I'm not the only one!"
Yep totally agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I do, I want to find someone but they need to be a swinger and that is so difficult on normal dating sites, the abuse I recieve once non-monogomous is mentioned is ridiculous x |
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"Nope sorry, not for me "
I’ll quantify this ^
Open dating, surely this is what socials are, two people out enjoying a drink, coffee, meal
FWB - it might be something most of us wish for, one or more regular hook ups, but you don’t know that from day one that you’re going to be compatible. You only know this after spending time with someone and let it develop naturally.
Therefore, everyone you meet is a potential FWB |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes I do, I want to find someone but they need to be a swinger and that is so difficult on normal dating sites, the abuse I recieve once non-monogomous is mentioned is ridiculous x"
I think a conversation is already difficult to find on normal dating sites from my perspective.
OKC is probably best for non monogamous dating but it has a very very small userbase.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No not on here as it's a swinging site. there's already enough dating sites.
We are here for casual sex and fantasy fulfilment not to chat with people who want to go to the cinema and for dinner!"
You wouldn't have to use the feature so why would it bother you?
And the regular dating sites are an absolute joke. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I do, I want to find someone but they need to be a swinger and that is so difficult on normal dating sites, the abuse I recieve once non-monogomous is mentioned is ridiculous x"
Come live with me in my cabin..we can swing all day, every day. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope sorry, not for me
I’ll quantify this ^
Open dating, surely this is what socials are, two people out enjoying a drink, coffee, meal
FWB - it might be something most of us wish for, one or more regular hook ups, but you don’t know that from day one that you’re going to be compatible. You only know this after spending time with someone and let it develop naturally.
Therefore, everyone you meet is a potential FWB "
Well not quite as a lot of people look for one offs too.
It's just a way to find more compatible people easier.
It wouldn't take away anything from the site, it would add to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some guys would just use it like dating sites. Say they wanna fwb,swinging partner but in reality just want a one off.
Plenty of profiles stats what they are looking for in terms of fwb etc so target them |
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"Where you could search profiles looking for fwbs and open dating with an extra profile section dedicated to it.
Please tell me I'm not the only one!"
Why can't you use the Meet section and just put out a request on that making it clear you are looking for a regular date. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No not on here as it's a swinging site. there's already enough dating sites.
We are here for casual sex and fantasy fulfilment not to chat with people who want to go to the cinema and for dinner!"
What about the singletons that want a partner for swinging?
Go on a normal dating site, mention you're into the idea of swinger they run a mile. So ideally looking for a partner on a dating part of a swinging site makes more sense doesn't it???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No not on here as it's a swinging site. there's already enough dating sites.
We are here for casual sex and fantasy fulfilment not to chat with people who want to go to the cinema and for dinner!"
There are dating sites for cinemas and dinners but I’m looking for a swinging partner as well as the more everyday stuff. I didn’t meet any swingers on match or eharmony!
So yes OP I agree with you |
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"No not on here as it's a swinging site. there's already enough dating sites.
We are here for casual sex and fantasy fulfilment not to chat with people who want to go to the cinema and for dinner!
You wouldn't have to use the feature so why would it bother you?
And the regular dating sites are an absolute joke."
It's not that.
By adding this feature it's going to attract more and more singles looking for love.
To the point that couples and " others" will be marginalized and pushed outof course I wouldn't have to use the feature but why come on a swinging site looking for Mr or Mrs right?
Aren't there enough post's regards fake profiles and fakers.
These people are just going to exploit probably emotionally vulnerable people who maybe susceptible to being lied to.
Perhaps a separate part of the site like the fab guys.
Fab singles dating perhaps then hopefully you will be in the right place and the two won't get confused???
Just my thoughts not wrong or right . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No not on here as it's a swinging site. there's already enough dating sites.
We are here for casual sex and fantasy fulfilment not to chat with people who want to go to the cinema and for dinner!"
You are already in a couple so dont need it.
I was in a swinging couple and now single, but i want to be in 1 again, so therefore would use it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No not on here as it's a swinging site. there's already enough dating sites.
We are here for casual sex and fantasy fulfilment not to chat with people who want to go to the cinema and for dinner!
You are already in a couple so dont need it.
I was in a swinging couple and now single, but i want to be in 1 again, so therefore would use it"
I'd like similar. Someone to meet up with regularly but without being exclusive |
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"No not on here as it's a swinging site. there's already enough dating sites.
We are here for casual sex and fantasy fulfilment not to chat with people who want to go to the cinema and for dinner!
You are already in a couple so dont need it.
I was in a swinging couple and now single, but i want to be in 1 again, so therefore would use it
I'd like similar. Someone to meet up with regularly but without being exclusive "
I’d like 7. Like them day of the week Socks you can buy |
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"Nope sorry, not for me
I’ll quantify this ^
Open dating, surely this is what socials are, two people out enjoying a drink, coffee, meal
FWB - it might be something most of us wish for, one or more regular hook ups, but you don’t know that from day one that you’re going to be compatible. You only know this after spending time with someone and let it develop naturally.
Therefore, everyone you meet is a potential FWB
Well not quite as a lot of people look for one offs too.
It's just a way to find more compatible people easier.
It wouldn't take away anything from the site, it would add to it."
Everyone is a one off to start with though, even if you state looking for a FWB. As you can’t start anything saying you are going to be FWBs as that needs to develop over time
I just see it as one more thing to complain about.... I met this guy/lass last week, I thought it went great but now I haven’t heard from them. WTF they said they wanted a FWB
It’s what your profile options are for, put them there. Plus when talking to see if compatible to meeting have that chat there
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope sorry, not for me
I’ll quantify this ^
Open dating, surely this is what socials are, two people out enjoying a drink, coffee, meal
FWB - it might be something most of us wish for, one or more regular hook ups, but you don’t know that from day one that you’re going to be compatible. You only know this after spending time with someone and let it develop naturally.
Therefore, everyone you meet is a potential FWB
Well not quite as a lot of people look for one offs too.
It's just a way to find more compatible people easier.
It wouldn't take away anything from the site, it would add to it.
Everyone is a one off to start with though, even if you state looking for a FWB. As you can’t start anything saying you are going to be FWBs as that needs to develop over time
I just see it as one more thing to complain about.... I met this guy/lass last week, I thought it went great but now I haven’t heard from them. WTF they said they wanted a FWB
It’s what your profile options are for, put them there. Plus when talking to see if compatible to meeting have that chat there
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This is what I said but have been ignored  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These people are just going to exploit probably emotionally vulnerable people who maybe susceptible to being lied to.
Perhaps a separate part of the site like the fab guys.
Fab singles dating perhaps then hopefully you will be in the right place and the two won't get confused???
Just my thoughts not wrong or right ."
I agree with most of that, except I’m not vulnerable or susceptible to lies! There are many singles here that can hold their own on fab |
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So hypothetically speaking, if you found someone you liked but they're in a swinging lifestyle and you had no idea at all that they would also like some kind of relationship as you only ever thought they wanted to be single.
How the hell would you broach the subject? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some guys would just use it like dating sites. Say they wanna fwb,swinging partner but in reality just want a one off.
Plenty of profiles stats what they are looking for in terms of fwb etc so target them "
You can't really search for an FWB/open dating/swinging. You have to manually go through profiles, hoping you find one and are compatible with one. |
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"Some guys would just use it like dating sites. Say they wanna fwb,swinging partner but in reality just want a one off.
Plenty of profiles stats what they are looking for in terms of fwb etc so target them "
I didn’t see this as was busy typing. I’d add though not just the guys, the lasses too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No not on here as it's a swinging site. there's already enough dating sites.
We are here for casual sex and fantasy fulfilment not to chat with people who want to go to the cinema and for dinner!
You wouldn't have to use the feature so why would it bother you?
And the regular dating sites are an absolute joke.
It's not that.
By adding this feature it's going to attract more and more singles looking for love.
To the point that couples and " others" will be marginalized and pushed outof course I wouldn't have to use the feature but why come on a swinging site looking for Mr or Mrs right?
Aren't there enough post's regards fake profiles and fakers.
These people are just going to exploit probably emotionally vulnerable people who maybe susceptible to being lied to.
Perhaps a separate part of the site like the fab guys.
Fab singles dating perhaps then hopefully you will be in the right place and the two won't get confused???
Just my thoughts not wrong or right ."
People are already tricked and used on other sites, that's the part you would still have to deal with.
And you're already in a couple, don't you think others might want that too and still swing and see others?
It would simply allow to search for those with dating interests easier.
Making a sister site to run along would require a lot more resources and a lot of time to built a userbase. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No not on here as it's a swinging site. there's already enough dating sites.
We are here for casual sex and fantasy fulfilment not to chat with people who want to go to the cinema and for dinner!
You are already in a couple so dont need it.
I was in a swinging couple and now single, but i want to be in 1 again, so therefore would use it
I'd like similar. Someone to meet up with regularly but without being exclusive
I’d like 7. Like them day of the week Socks you can buy "
Exactly, rent an 8 bedroom mansion and hop beds every so often  |
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"No not on here as it's a swinging site. there's already enough dating sites.
We are here for casual sex and fantasy fulfilment not to chat with people who want to go to the cinema and for dinner!
You are already in a couple so dont need it.
I was in a swinging couple and now single, but i want to be in 1 again, so therefore would use it
I'd like similar. Someone to meet up with regularly but without being exclusive
I’d like 7. Like them day of the week Socks you can buy
Exactly, rent an 8 bedroom mansion and hop beds every so often "
Buys silk dressing gown and sailor hat |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So hypothetically speaking, if you found someone you liked but they're in a swinging lifestyle and you had no idea at all that they would also like some kind of relationship as you only ever thought they wanted to be single.
How the hell would you broach the subject? "
Ermmm what? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab can't be everything to everyone. It is what it is.
As already said, just make the most of your profile and make it work for you; detail what you're looking for and interested in.
You need to appeal to someone that way inclined anyway so if they want to find you, they will. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It has one and you posted in the post.
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/968790
But its near valentines day so many wont post in it until after valentines day.
As it happens yearly. "
It's just a post on the forums, which is seen by maybe 1% of the site users. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No not on here as it's a swinging site. there's already enough dating sites.
We are here for casual sex and fantasy fulfilment not to chat with people who want to go to the cinema and for dinner!
You are already in a couple so dont need it.
I was in a swinging couple and now single, but i want to be in 1 again, so therefore would use it
I'd like similar. Someone to meet up with regularly but without being exclusive
I’d like 7. Like them day of the week Socks you can buy "
I'm struggling to find just the one  |
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"So hypothetically speaking, if you found someone you liked but they're in a swinging lifestyle and you had no idea at all that they would also like some kind of relationship as you only ever thought they wanted to be single.
How the hell would you broach the subject?
Ermmm what?"
Text them? |
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"Some guys would just use it like dating sites. Say they wanna fwb,swinging partner but in reality just want a one off.
Plenty of profiles stats what they are looking for in terms of fwb etc so target them "
I've found that there are a lot of people on here that are the opposite..they say they're looking for one-offs, then get all clingy because they actually want an FWB or dating.
I personally don't believe that you can "look" for someone to date, it's something that just happens naturally when you meet someone and click... I just approach every new person I meet with an open mind, and if we enjoy it we'll meet again. Some dalliances last longer than others, but that's life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think its a good idea you can still usually work out the fakes etc and you would take things with a pinch of salt. I would love to see single only date nights in clubs as well perhaps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some guys would just use it like dating sites. Say they wanna fwb,swinging partner but in reality just want a one off.
Plenty of profiles stats what they are looking for in terms of fwb etc so target them
I've found that there are a lot of people on here that are the opposite..they say they're looking for one-offs, then get all clingy because they actually want an FWB or dating.
I personally don't believe that you can "look" for someone to date, it's something that just happens naturally when you meet someone and click... I just approach every new person I meet with an open mind, and if we enjoy it we'll meet again. Some dalliances last longer than others, but that's life."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope sorry, not for me
I’ll quantify this ^
Open dating, surely this is what socials are, two people out enjoying a drink, coffee, meal
FWB - it might be something most of us wish for, one or more regular hook ups, but you don’t know that from day one that you’re going to be compatible. You only know this after spending time with someone and let it develop naturally.
Therefore, everyone you meet is a potential FWB
Well not quite as a lot of people look for one offs too.
It's just a way to find more compatible people easier.
It wouldn't take away anything from the site, it would add to it.
Everyone is a one off to start with though, even if you state looking for a FWB. As you can’t start anything saying you are going to be FWBs as that needs to develop over time
I just see it as one more thing to complain about.... I met this guy/lass last week, I thought it went great but now I haven’t heard from them. WTF they said they wanted a FWB
It’s what your profile options are for, put them there. Plus when talking to see if compatible to meeting have that chat there
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But not all is confident enough to have that chat. Last time I date was 1998 and I can just about tell if a guy is actually interested in me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope sorry, not for me
I’ll quantify this ^
Open dating, surely this is what socials are, two people out enjoying a drink, coffee, meal
FWB - it might be something most of us wish for, one or more regular hook ups, but you don’t know that from day one that you’re going to be compatible. You only know this after spending time with someone and let it develop naturally.
Therefore, everyone you meet is a potential FWB
Well not quite as a lot of people look for one offs too.
It's just a way to find more compatible people easier.
It wouldn't take away anything from the site, it would add to it.
Everyone is a one off to start with though, even if you state looking for a FWB. As you can’t start anything saying you are going to be FWBs as that needs to develop over time
I just see it as one more thing to complain about.... I met this guy/lass last week, I thought it went great but now I haven’t heard from them. WTF they said they wanted a FWB
It’s what your profile options are for, put them there. Plus when talking to see if compatible to meeting have that chat there
But not all is confident enough to have that chat. Last time I date was 1998 and I can just about tell if a guy is actually interested in me."
If he’s cocks hard...he’s game |
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Yes. I don't know if the post suggesting this is still open but was started a few weeks ago.
A few more profile interests and user data that would be searchable would be great.
And group interests into priority levels, such as essential, ideal, curious or insignificant etc. |
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"Nope sorry, not for me
I’ll quantify this ^
Open dating, surely this is what socials are, two people out enjoying a drink, coffee, meal
FWB - it might be something most of us wish for, one or more regular hook ups, but you don’t know that from day one that you’re going to be compatible. You only know this after spending time with someone and let it develop naturally.
Therefore, everyone you meet is a potential FWB
Well not quite as a lot of people look for one offs too.
It's just a way to find more compatible people easier.
It wouldn't take away anything from the site, it would add to it.
Everyone is a one off to start with though, even if you state looking for a FWB. As you can’t start anything saying you are going to be FWBs as that needs to develop over time
I just see it as one more thing to complain about.... I met this guy/lass last week, I thought it went great but now I haven’t heard from them. WTF they said they wanted a FWB
It’s what your profile options are for, put them there. Plus when talking to see if compatible to meeting have that chat there
But not all is confident enough to have that chat. Last time I date was 1998 and I can just about tell if a guy is actually interested in me."
You wouldn’t be comfortable in a PM saying you are looking for dating / FWB when having initial ‘getting to you know’ messages |
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"Some guys would just use it like dating sites. Say they wanna fwb,swinging partner but in reality just want a one off.
Plenty of profiles stats what they are looking for in terms of fwb etc so target them
I've found that there are a lot of people on here that are the opposite..they say they're looking for one-offs, then get all clingy because they actually want an FWB or dating.
I personally don't believe that you can "look" for someone to date, it's something that just happens naturally when you meet someone and click... I just approach every new person I meet with an open mind, and if we enjoy it we'll meet again. Some dalliances last longer than others, but that's life."
This is pretty much what I have found |
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"Some guys would just use it like dating sites. Say they wanna fwb,swinging partner but in reality just want a one off.
Plenty of profiles stats what they are looking for in terms of fwb etc so target them
I've found that there are a lot of people on here that are the opposite..they say they're looking for one-offs, then get all clingy because they actually want an FWB or dating.
I personally don't believe that you can "look" for someone to date, it's something that just happens naturally when you meet someone and click... I just approach every new person I meet with an open mind, and if we enjoy it we'll meet again. Some dalliances last longer than others, but that's life."
Spot on |
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"Nope sorry, not for me
I’ll quantify this ^
Open dating, surely this is what socials are, two people out enjoying a drink, coffee, meal
FWB - it might be something most of us wish for, one or more regular hook ups, but you don’t know that from day one that you’re going to be compatible. You only know this after spending time with someone and let it develop naturally.
Therefore, everyone you meet is a potential FWB
Well not quite as a lot of people look for one offs too.
It's just a way to find more compatible people easier.
It wouldn't take away anything from the site, it would add to it.
Everyone is a one off to start with though, even if you state looking for a FWB. As you can’t start anything saying you are going to be FWBs as that needs to develop over time
I just see it as one more thing to complain about.... I met this guy/lass last week, I thought it went great but now I haven’t heard from them. WTF they said they wanted a FWB
It’s what your profile options are for, put them there. Plus when talking to see if compatible to meeting have that chat there
But not all is confident enough to have that chat. Last time I date was 1998 and I can just about tell if a guy is actually interested in me."
I cant tell at all if someone likes me so I know how you feel. |
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"Where you could search profiles looking for fwbs and open dating with an extra profile section dedicated to it.
Please tell me I'm not the only one!"
100% would like this. I think sex is easy to come by especially on here, but a connection and actual dating not so. I also have tried other dating sites and as soon as you mention anything about swinging you are labelled a different type of person or get inundated with losers!!  |
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