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Can Veris b a turn off
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have read a few veris on people’s profiles and sometimes I think you fucked that idiot can veris put you off someone can they be a bad thing your opinions welcomed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do not find them a turn off, because I am a swinger and do not like to judge who others have slept with.
The only instance a veri would have a negative reaction is if it stated or implied bareback happened... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some will say yes they do, most will say no they don’t. Depends what you’re looking for I guess. There is so much that could put me off just from a profile. I just move on. |
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I have been told by a few I have too many. I'm very active in the club scene and go to big socials so I have lots of social veris as well as play ones and I've been on the scene for just over 2 years now. If someone judges me on that then I don't think they are the type of person I'd want to meet x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes, they can for us.
It isn't about who they've met but how they describe the meet. What the person writes and what they're prepared to display can show that we're not compatible."
Exactly this |
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"I do not find them a turn off, because I am a swinger and do not like to judge who others have slept with.
The only instance a veri would have a negative reaction is if it stated or implied bareback happened..."
Another situation to not use one is when gives away a real name rather than sticking with pseudonyms.
I have also heard of them being used in another bad way I won't go into here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do not find them a turn off, because I am a swinger and do not like to judge who others have slept with.
The only instance a veri would have a negative reaction is if it stated or implied bareback happened...
Another situation to not use one is when gives away a real name rather than sticking with pseudonyms.
I have also heard of them being used in another bad way I won't go into here. "
Yes but you can choose to show |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest I rarely look at verifications. "
....I dont read them. I value peoples privacy and discretion as well as my own first off. Secondly, if people want to talk to me on cam before meeting I am more than happy to. I have a really expensive phone as dies everyone now that allows me to walk and talk and cam at the same time. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"I have read a few veris on people’s profiles and sometimes I think you fucked that idiot can veris put you off someone can they be a bad thing your opinions welcomed "
Your opinion of someone isnt shared by everyone though, just because you consider a person to be an idiot, doesn't mean that the other does.
Everyone finds different things about different people attractive and what is a deal breaker for you, won't be for them.
I find that following the veri trail can be quite destructive at times and I generally don't get involved in it all. I try and respect other people's motives for the people that they met and just focus on myself. |
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No.. not really. I may use it like others have said if it suggests bareback.. but that's my only reason I'd not meet on a veri. Just because someone isnt my cuppa tea...doesn't mean others think the same x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, I've read some that have made me feel a bit sick in my mouth, although it says more about who wrote it rather than who they are verifying..."
I think it also says something about those who choose to display them |
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Some veris can leave a little to be desired in the way they are written and can almost sound like bragging but that's down to the person writing them.
As long as they verify the person is genuine and it shows that they dont engage in bare back then I'll make my own mind up about the person if I was to meet them.
No two meets are the same and many are often not sexual either, most of mine are purely social. |
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"Yes, I've read some that have made me feel a bit sick in my mouth, although it says more about who wrote it rather than who they are verifying..."
I've got some that were left for me a bit like that... so they stay hidden x
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"Yes, I've read some that have made me feel a bit sick in my mouth, although it says more about who wrote it rather than who they are verifying... I've got some that were left for me a bit like that... so they stay hidden x "
I read one last week that was along the lines of "she made daddy happy and took daddy's dick like a good girl" and it
just made me cringe  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The thing is, what someone does like then another doesnt.
I love a descriptive veri, I am nosey and like the details.
I go to clubs and like to have sex infront of others, so if it puts you off reading the details of my sexual encounters I am not so sure we would be a match anyway |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The thing is, what someone does like then another doesnt.
I love a descriptive veri, I am nosey and like the details.
I go to clubs and like to have sex infront of others, so if it puts you off reading the details of my sexual encounters I am not so sure we would be a match anyway"
I’m gutted now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do not find them a turn off, because I am a swinger and do not like to judge who others have slept with.
The only instance a veri would have a negative reaction is if it stated or implied bareback happened..."
100% this answer. This puts us off instantly. Just our preference |
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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago
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Not really. We dont judge people by the company they keep. As long as they verify that person is genuine then they have served their purpose. We don't understand people being put off by lots of veris. We just think good on them!
Gem |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes, I've read some that have made me feel a bit sick in my mouth, although it says more about who wrote it rather than who they are verifying... I've got some that were left for me a bit like that... so they stay hidden x
I read one last week that was along the lines of "she made daddy happy and took daddy's dick like a good girl" and it
just made me cringe "
Yes that kind of thing would put me off. I'm quite easily put off actually, I'm clearly a rubbish swinger. |
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"I have read a few veris on people’s profiles and sometimes I think you fucked that idiot can veris put you off someone can they be a bad thing your opinions welcomed "
According to many people here they are but then they make the mistake of thinking they are truthful, accurate and the only place and time anyone ever has sex is via this site.
T. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. I’ve seen some that make me cringe, and some that make me pity their poor partner. I get that couples swing separately, but why show ones that would make me want to rip them a new one, if I was their partner. I couldn’t do it, be too jealous. |
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"Yes. I’ve seen some that make me cringe, and some that make me pity their poor partner. I get that couples swing separately, but why show ones that would make me want to rip them a new one, if I was their partner. I couldn’t do it, be too jealous."
I'm sure for those couples that it adds to it for them. I know when I was on as a couple,I loved seeing a veri where it was clear a lady had really enjoyed his company x no jealousy
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. I’ve seen some that make me cringe, and some that make me pity their poor partner. I get that couples swing separately, but why show ones that would make me want to rip them a new one, if I was their partner. I couldn’t do it, be too jealous. I'm sure for those couples that it adds to it for them. I know when I was on as a couple,I loved seeing a veri where it was clear a lady had really enjoyed his company x no jealousy "
I guess it does for some, I just know I’d be too jealous, and would put me off meeting them. Each to their own though |
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