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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"then why expect someone else too!I
We don't expect it but as we don't accommodate ourselves we imagine that anyone who contacts us is prepared to, otherwise why contact us?"
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
Teenage children can't be trusted to stay away from your home so hell no when I'm with my partner that I swing with we can't accommodate. Generally we prefer to be in a hotel for that reason but if another couple can accommodate then fine. |
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"Your home is your castle.
I wouldn’t want anyone in my house. "
This..
No matter how well we get on with our swinging friends we would never invite them to our home.
We may not accommodate at home but we can in a hotel. X |
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"Fakes
What? You think just because we cannot accommodate we are fakes??? Says you who's got no public pictures or even a profile pic.. you're more of a fake!!!   "
Plus you're not a site supporter either...  |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
I would imagine having kids at home is the main reason.
I have no issues in accommodating couples or singles, much more friendly than hotel rooms. |
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"Teenage children can't be trusted to stay away from your home so hell no when I'm with my partner that I swing with we can't accommodate. Generally we prefer to be in a hotel for that reason but if another couple can accommodate then fine. "
This! We have a 17yo who says he's staying out but magically reappears and obviously has a key. Also we have a 3yo who interrupted us twice last night. If we'd have invited someone over, the mood would've died and the whole experience ruined. I'd rather pay for a hotel. |
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"Teenage children can't be trusted to stay away from your home so hell no when I'm with my partner that I swing with we can't accommodate. Generally we prefer to be in a hotel for that reason but if another couple can accommodate then fine.
This! We have a 17yo who says he's staying out but magically reappears and obviously has a key. Also we have a 3yo who interrupted us twice last night. If we'd have invited someone over, the mood would've died and the whole experience ruined. I'd rather pay for a hotel. "
Same, we won’t play with the kids at home and if we got a sitter we’d rather go up to Glasgow for a night out as well.
Used to think it meant one of the couple was married etc, seems people have the same concerns as us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could accommodate with some planning if I really wanted to
I don't want to though.
It's my choice, just as it is other people's. These choices should be respected. And if someone has difficulty with that, they wouldn't be someone I'd want to meet. |
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"I could accommodate with some planning if I really wanted to
I don't want to though.
It's my choice, just as it is other people's. These choices should be respected. And if someone has difficulty with that, they wouldn't be someone I'd want to meet."
A wise choice. I do not want Fab people knowing where i live let alone allow them into my house. Fab life and home life i will always keep seperate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are a couple living together, have our own place, no children but would still choose not to accommodate.
A club is neutral ground, no one is pressured to play, if you don't click there is others there that you might do with. Also if your meet doesn't turn up your not left sat around waiting on someone, feeling let down and disappointed as you can still socialise/play with others. |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
"I can and will accommodate I see it as personal choice for whatever reason if they fake that there loss not mine life is to short to be bothered with ppl that don't matter to me "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't accommodate, as my partners adult daughter lives at home with us, this being due to her having a condition.
I am also sure that people on here have legitimate reasons for not accommodating. Also, hotels are bit more neutral, so bit better for breaking the ice. |
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