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over a year ago
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Ooh you meanies 
Vanilla is a term thats sometimes used for non swingers,so I guess if you're being asked to go on a vanilla meeting I would think it would just be a social meeting with no sex
Without knowing more thats all I can assume |
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"Ooh you meanies
Vanilla is a term thats sometimes used for non swingers,so I guess if you're being asked to go on a vanilla meeting I would think it would just be a social meeting with no sex
Without knowing more thats all I can assume"
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The term Vanilla is usual dished out on here by swingers who like to snub what they would call ordinary people in ordinary evry day lifes.
Always sounds to me to be thrown out in abit of an arrogant statement to be honest when I hear the term used. Its like as if every one who is not a swinger is like sooooooooooo beneath them and not worthy cos they are not swingers
lol I dont really like to hear the term vanilla to be honest but thats just my humble opinion tho of course  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The term Vanilla is usual dished out on here by swingers who like to snub what they would call ordinary people in ordinary evry day lifes.
Always sounds to me to be thrown out in abit of an arrogant statement to be honest when I hear the term used. Its like as if every one who is not a swinger is like sooooooooooo beneath them and not worthy cos they are not swingers
lol I dont really like to hear the term vanilla to be honest but thats just my humble opinion tho of course "
i currently back home in Ghana but back in uk august, a couple want a Vanilla meet and i didnt kno what it was ,thank you..Lamin |
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Vanilla meets are not meets without sex.
Vanilla means conventional sex/what is seen as socially acceptable sexual behaviour i.e nothing spicey , kinky or twisty ......
A social meet is a social meet whether it's vanilla's or swingers.
Swingers are filthy bastards ( no wink ) :P |
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I view it as a BDSM term for non-kinky sex. To me a social meet would be a meet without sex, a vanilla meet means I don't need to get the restraints and spanking paddle out! x |
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"I view it as a BDSM term for non-kinky sex. To me a social meet would be a meet without sex, a vanilla meet means I don't need to get the restraints and spanking paddle out! x"
Kinky biatch!
More ice cream anyone  |
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"I view it as a BDSM term for non-kinky sex. To me a social meet would be a meet without sex, a vanilla meet means I don't need to get the restraints and spanking paddle out! x
Kinky biatch!
More ice cream anyone "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I view it as a BDSM term for non-kinky sex. To me a social meet would be a meet without sex, a vanilla meet means I don't need to get the restraints and spanking paddle out! x
Kinky biatch!
More ice cream anyone "
I thought that was pretty tame!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I view it as a BDSM term for non-kinky sex. To me a social meet would be a meet without sex, a vanilla meet means I don't need to get the restraints and spanking paddle out! x
Kinky biatch!
More ice cream anyone
I thought that was pretty tame! "
Very tame! |
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Never heard of vanilla meet until this forum
Bdsm types use vanilla or 'nilla to describe non lifestyle or otherwise straight people or nilla sex ie straight sex with no kink. Swinging would be kinky to most nillas but fairly tame to some of the freaks that I know.
The term vanilla or nilla can also be used as derogatory or as an insult by some bdsm types |
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"The term Vanilla is usual dished out on here by swingers who like to snub what they would call ordinary people in ordinary evry day lifes.
Always sounds to me to be thrown out in abit of an arrogant statement to be honest when I hear the term used. Its like as if every one who is not a swinger is like sooooooooooo beneath them and not worthy cos they are not swingers
lol I dont really like to hear the term vanilla to be honest but thats just my humble opinion tho of course "
I join you in your opinion. |
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"The term Vanilla is usual dished out on here by swingers who like to snub what they would call ordinary people in ordinary evry day lifes.
Always sounds to me to be thrown out in abit of an arrogant statement to be honest when I hear the term used. Its like as if every one who is not a swinger is like sooooooooooo beneath them and not worthy cos they are not swingers
lol I dont really like to hear the term vanilla to be honest but thats just my humble opinion tho of course
I join you in your opinion. "
...as do I! |
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"The term Vanilla is usual dished out on here by swingers who like to snub what they would call ordinary people in ordinary evry day lifes.
Always sounds to me to be thrown out in abit of an arrogant statement to be honest when I hear the term used. Its like as if every one who is not a swinger is like sooooooooooo beneath them and not worthy cos they are not swingers
lol I dont really like to hear the term vanilla to be honest but thats just my humble opinion tho of course
I join you in your opinion.
...as do I! "
Me too...
We are all nilla to someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The term Vanilla is usual dished out on here by swingers who like to snub what they would call ordinary people in ordinary evry day lifes.
Always sounds to me to be thrown out in abit of an arrogant statement to be honest when I hear the term used. Its like as if every one who is not a swinger is like sooooooooooo beneath them and not worthy cos they are not swingers
lol I dont really like to hear the term vanilla to be honest but thats just my humble opinion tho of course
I join you in your opinion.
...as do I!
Me too...
We are all nilla to someone"
I don't
I use it often but not as a derogatory term just as a descriptive term, I don't do arrogance and never believe I'm better than anyone ever
When talking to swinging friends about non swinging friends I will refer to them as vanillas and when talking to vanilla friends about swinging friends I refer to them as swingers, now I'm sorry but I just don't understand how I'm being derogatory to either party 
Or is this all about the label bandwagon again? We all use them all the time without even realising we do it it doesn't have to mean we are getting ideas above our stations its just means we are lazy and can't be arsed to use more words than are needed to describe something or someone |
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Think of the term vanilla as in no added flavours. It doesn't mean a no sex meeting, just sex with nothing else added. Straight sex if you like. Or bi straight sex. Um... fuck it, just go with the flow. |
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