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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
There are many lovely people to be found here, each with their own unique charm.
Have you ever come across a profile where everything resonates (pics, bio, vibe) and then you observe the person on the forums and makes you think "they're the complete package"?
If so, have you seized the initiative as to messaging them with the intent of more than just chit chat? And if so, were you successful? |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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I've had the first bit, with the perfect profile, but those geographically close enough to me that I would want want to meet don't tend to use the forums.
Those forum users that fit the other criteria, I just admire from afar  |
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"There are many lovely people to be found here, each with their own unique charm.
Have you ever come across a profile where everything resonates (pics, bio, vibe) and then you observe the person on the forums and makes you think "they're the complete package"?
If so, have you seized the initiative as to messaging them with the intent of more than just chit chat? And if so, were you successful?"
Yes. But they were the other side of the country. And also taken.  |
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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"The only way to tell that someone is the complete package is to spend a few weeks in their company. Nobody is perfect and we all have faults."
While I tend to agree with this the question is more of an impression of being it. |
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over a year ago
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"There are many lovely people to be found here, each with their own unique charm.
Have you ever come across a profile where everything resonates (pics, bio, vibe) and then you observe the person on the forums and makes you think "they're the complete package"?
If so, have you seized the initiative as to messaging them with the intent of more than just chit chat? And if so, were you successful?"
Yes, and no. |
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"There are many lovely people to be found here, each with their own unique charm.
Have you ever come across a profile where everything resonates (pics, bio, vibe) and then you observe the person on the forums and makes you think "they're the complete package"?
If so, have you seized the initiative as to messaging them with the intent of more than just chit chat? And if so, were you successful?"
Yes, there's a guy we've been messaging. He doesn't log on that often but God damn I want him! Of all the guys we've messaged, I'd travel anywhere to have him  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are 2 profiles within 30 miles of me that just blow my socks off, would give my left arm for a social with them but they are well out of my league so I just stay silent and appreciate their awesomeness. |
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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"What craziness is this?! 
The lazy saturday afternoon kind when you've too much free time on your hands
Free time? I thought your dance card was always full.  "
Even a dancer needs a break |
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"There are 2 profiles within 30 miles of me that just blow my socks off, would give my left arm for a social with them but they are well out of my league so I just stay silent and appreciate their awesomeness."
If you don't try, you'll never know...... |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"What craziness is this?!
The lazy saturday afternoon kind when you've too much free time on your hands
Free time? I thought your dance card was always full.
Even a dancer needs a break "
A Chillout _hillout.  |
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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"There are 2 profiles within 30 miles of me that just blow my socks off, would give my left arm for a social with them but they are well out of my league so I just stay silent and appreciate their awesomeness."
How do you know unless you try? Unless they have specific criteria you don't meet? |
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Not necessarily the ‘complete package’ I’m not sure I’m comfortable with that phrase.. but I’ve seen and admired people here as beautiful humans, sometimes that I also find attractive in some way. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"There are 2 profiles within 30 miles of me that just blow my socks off, would give my left arm for a social with them but they are well out of my league so I just stay silent and appreciate their awesomeness."
No harm in trying though! |
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"There are many lovely people to be found here, each with their own unique charm.
Have you ever come across a profile where everything resonates (pics, bio, vibe) and then you observe the person on the forums and makes you think "they're the complete package"?
If so, have you seized the initiative as to messaging them with the intent of more than just chit chat? And if so, were you successful?
Yes. But they were the other side of the country. And also taken. "
I feel your pain! 
They are always so far away! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. Timing and logistics are the only obstacles to be overcome, which is easier said than done in my case."
Although it is only through messaging for me that they can get to the complete package stage. And even then there is absolutely no substitute for actually meeting to determine it experientially. |
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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"There are many lovely people to be found here, each with their own unique charm.
Have you ever come across a profile where everything resonates (pics, bio, vibe) and then you observe the person on the forums and makes you think "they're the complete package"?
If so, have you seized the initiative as to messaging them with the intent of more than just chit chat? And if so, were you successful?
Yes. But they were the other side of the country. And also taken.
I feel your pain!
They are always so far away!"
Curious how often people see distance as an insurmountable obstacle  |
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"There are many lovely people to be found here, each with their own unique charm.
Have you ever come across a profile where everything resonates (pics, bio, vibe) and then you observe the person on the forums and makes you think "they're the complete package"?
If so, have you seized the initiative as to messaging them with the intent of more than just chit chat? And if so, were you successful?
Yes. But they were the other side of the country. And also taken.
I feel your pain!
They are always so far away!
Curious how often people see distance as an insurmountable obstacle "
As a single parent who doesn't drive? Maybe not insurmountable but certainly too much of a challenge to be feasible |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I did, kind of, once with the help of a little star and a couple of times when I put on my big girl pants. I never really message with the intent of wanting more, I know that might sound odd but I don't like that sort of pressure, it's nice seeing how things naturally flow.
They were all very successful and they still mean a lot to me now.
Also, OP, I really love that opening. So cutesy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had the first bit, with the perfect profile, but those geographically close enough to me that I would want want to meet don't tend to use the forums.
Those forum users that fit the other criteria, I just admire from afar "
I have to agree with this.
The forums are a useful way of seeing a bit more of a personality, sadly the majority of forum users are further south. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok to answer the question, no. I can’t make that decision or even think that may be the case until I’ve met them, but having said that I usually know within 60 seconds if I do or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would HATE for someone I’m interested in to use the forums. I like my meets and the forums to stay separate.
Fair enough. Any particular reason why?"
I’m not a swinger and don’t do the whole sharing thing too well. Would rather just meet them and be done with it and not have to see them around. |
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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I would HATE for someone I’m interested in to use the forums. I like my meets and the forums to stay separate.
Fair enough. Any particular reason why?
I’m not a swinger and don’t do the whole sharing thing too well. Would rather just meet them and be done with it and not have to see them around. "
An opinion that's actually more common than I once thought. |
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"There are many lovely people to be found here, each with their own unique charm.
Have you ever come across a profile where everything resonates (pics, bio, vibe) and then you observe the person on the forums and makes you think "they're the complete package"?
If so, have you seized the initiative as to messaging them with the intent of more than just chit chat? And if so, were you successful?"
Truth be told it’s normally once I’ve seen them posting on the forums that makes me think they most definitely aren’t the full package |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"There are many lovely people to be found here, each with their own unique charm.
Have you ever come across a profile where everything resonates (pics, bio, vibe) and then you observe the person on the forums and makes you think "they're the complete package"?
If so, have you seized the initiative as to messaging them with the intent of more than just chit chat? And if so, were you successful?
Truth be told it’s normally once I’ve seen them posting on the forums that makes me think they most definitely aren’t the full package "
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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"There are many lovely people to be found here, each with their own unique charm.
Have you ever come across a profile where everything resonates (pics, bio, vibe) and then you observe the person on the forums and makes you think "they're the complete package"?
If so, have you seized the initiative as to messaging them with the intent of more than just chit chat? And if so, were you successful?
Truth be told it’s normally once I’ve seen them posting on the forums that makes me think they most definitely aren’t the full package "
It definitely can be a double edged sword!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would HATE for someone I’m interested in to use the forums. I like my meets and the forums to stay separate. "
Totally agree with this. Far too much drama on the forums with relationships starting and ending. |
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"There are many lovely people to be found here, each with their own unique charm.
Have you ever come across a profile where everything resonates (pics, bio, vibe) and then you observe the person on the forums and makes you think "they're the complete package"?
If so, have you seized the initiative as to messaging them with the intent of more than just chit chat? And if so, were you successful?"
I’ve met several people in my time on fab who’ve been the ‘complete package’ - you being one of them my lovely - never a cross word in 2 years as friends!
I know several guys i’ve met/still meet who are incredible company both in and out of bed - and their profile reflects that!
Not all of them have been forumites though - and the most recent being the Male half of a couple I met last night - a wonderful guy!
And do/would I message them first? Of course! I think everyone on here knows I’m far from shy! |
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Oh yes, but it's actually been the conversation we have had that really clinched it. We sent an initial message not because we were excited by the things you list, OP, but she seemed nice and something else brought about our chatting.
We chat about all sorts of stuff pretty regurly, virtually nothing sexual. We get on really well and are on a wavelength socially. She's just lovely (and very easy on the eye) and we want to meet her. We have no idea what meeting her socially might lead to but we don't have an agenda. Whatever it turns out to be, we have good reason to believe knowing her will be a good thing for us all. |
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