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over a year ago
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I need opinions..... I think I’m being too nice, as many ladies do I get a lot of messages. But been on here a couple of months now and think perhaps I’m being too nice.
If someone messages me and I don’t like look of them or not attracted to how they look or what they say, should I just delete and not message back? Is that really harsh or am I too nice?! I actually feel really bad even saying it but I am also fed up with having to send a message saying “hi thank you for your message bla bla bla but you are not what I’m looking for bla bla bla” and then having to explain in a 2nd message as 9/10 I get a “why?”
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I need opinions..... I think I’m being too nice, as many ladies do I get a lot of messages. But been on here a couple of months now and think perhaps I’m being too nice.
If someone messages me and I don’t like look of them or not attracted to how they look or what they say, should I just delete and not message back? Is that really harsh or am I too nice?! I actually feel really bad even saying it but I am also fed up with having to send a message saying “hi thank you for your message bla bla bla but you are not what I’m looking for bla bla bla” and then having to explain in a 2nd message as 9/10 I get a “why?”
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look if you are nice you are nice, if it feels rude not to reply then reply but if time is precious then be rude delete and block  |
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"I need opinions..... I think I’m being too nice, as many ladies do I get a lot of messages. But been on here a couple of months now and think perhaps I’m being too nice.
If someone messages me and I don’t like look of them or not attracted to how they look or what they say, should I just delete and not message back? Is that really harsh or am I too nice?! I actually feel really bad even saying it but I am also fed up with having to send a message saying “hi thank you for your message bla bla bla but you are not what I’m looking for bla bla bla” and then having to explain in a 2nd message as 9/10 I get a “why?”
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I think it’s fair enough to be honest... I’m informed that women get kids of messages so it’s a lot to ask to reply to them all. When I get a message I get excited and can’t sleep. It’s all relative  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I need opinions..... I think I’m being too nice, as many ladies do I get a lot of messages. But been on here a couple of months now and think perhaps I’m being too nice.
If someone messages me and I don’t like look of them or not attracted to how they look or what they say, should I just delete and not message back? Is that really harsh or am I too nice?! I actually feel really bad even saying it but I am also fed up with having to send a message saying “hi thank you for your message bla bla bla but you are not what I’m looking for bla bla bla” and then having to explain in a 2nd message as 9/10 I get a “why?”
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The world is a harsh place, the world of Fab is harsher... just bulk delete every Friday...I wouldn't even bother to read them...they will message you again anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's up to you, there's no right or wrong, you could always set your filters so you get minimal messages, and just message the people you like the look of."
Good advice although if I do that can people message me back despite filters? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's up to you, there's no right or wrong, you could always set your filters so you get minimal messages, and just message the people you like the look of.
Good advice although if I do that can people message me back despite filters? "
Pop a note on your profile 'if I don't reply, it's a not interested' block the no's so they cant pester you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When women delete my messages without reading them I report them to admins as fake
If I was fake I’d definitely pick better pictures!!!  "
Sounds like something a fake would say |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's up to you, there's no right or wrong, you could always set your filters so you get minimal messages, and just message the people you like the look of.
Good advice although if I do that can people message me back despite filters?
Pop a note on your profile 'if I don't reply, it's a not interested' block the no's so they cant pester you. "
Thank you. That’s a good plan XX |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When women delete my messages without reading them I report them to admins as fake
If I was fake I’d definitely pick better pictures!!!
Sounds like something a fake would say"
Oh I’m definitely Fake, I have no verifications too. Add that to your list! |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"It's up to you, there's no right or wrong, you could always set your filters so you get minimal messages, and just message the people you like the look of.
Good advice although if I do that can people message me back despite filters? "
If you've messaged, winked or friended someone, they can message you no matter what. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's up to you, there's no right or wrong, you could always set your filters so you get minimal messages, and just message the people you like the look of.
Good advice although if I do that can people message me back despite filters?
If you've messaged, winked or friended someone, they can message you no matter what. "
Thank you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When women delete my messages without reading them I report them to admins as fake
If I was fake I’d definitely pick better pictures!!!
Sounds like something a fake would say
Oh I’m definitely Fake, I have no verifications too. Add that to your list! "
Oh God I didnt even notice that 
My fakedar is acting up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I usually just delete, if they have made an effort with their message I just say sorry your not for me, it may seem harsh but easier"
your knees are for me  |
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