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"Clutzy is the new sexy " Oh I do cluzy... I managed to fall in a bedroom and smash my head off the opposite door frame trying to be sexy | |||
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"Other people seem to think I can. I think you can. We're all our own harshest critics." I think maybe on photos etc we can appear sexy but in real life I'm far too clumsy to be sexy and I get the giggles during sex. | |||
"I think it’s certainly far easier for a woman to do “sexy”. So many options in terms of lingerie, clothing, make up, heels etc... Whereas us blokes just feel a bit daft if we try anything other than standing there in our best pants whilst sucking our stomach in!!!! " Completely agree.. Girls..? Is there anything that makes a guy look ‘sexy’ rather than ‘less of a knob’? And, please don’t say ‘a suit’ or ‘a uniform’. For most people in suits are cement salesmen and uniform make you look like an overgrown 8 year old on the way to a birthday party. | |||
"Can you do sexy? I can't I can pretend at it for about a minute and it all goes tits up. So I dressed on Wednesday in stockings and a sexy chemise. Within seconds I laddered one stocking. Changed it and then managed to ping off and break the suspender strap on the other stocking.... I've come to the conclusion I just can't do sexy " I hear you with the bloody laddering! You'd think someone would have invented a better item by now. I find it hard to be sexy with my walking stick and even harder if I'm using my slinky red wheelchair | |||
"I think it’s certainly far easier for a woman to do “sexy”. So many options in terms of lingerie, clothing, make up, heels etc... Whereas us blokes just feel a bit daft if we try anything other than standing there in our best pants whilst sucking our stomach in!!!! Completely agree.. Girls..? Is there anything that makes a guy look ‘sexy’ rather than ‘less of a knob’? And, please don’t say ‘a suit’ or ‘a uniform’. For most people in suits are cement salesmen and uniform make you look like an overgrown 8 year old on the way to a birthday party. " See I think sexy for a guy is all about his persona, a look he can give you, a confidence. Where as for woman it seems to be more about how she looks what she wears? | |||
"Other people seem to think I can. I think you can. We're all our own harshest critics. I think maybe on photos etc we can appear sexy but in real life I'm far too clumsy to be sexy and I get the giggles during sex. " I'm pretty sure we've met | |||
"I think it’s certainly far easier for a woman to do “sexy”. So many options in terms of lingerie, clothing, make up, heels etc... Whereas us blokes just feel a bit daft if we try anything other than standing there in our best pants whilst sucking our stomach in!!!! Completely agree.. Girls..? Is there anything that makes a guy look ‘sexy’ rather than ‘less of a knob’? And, please don’t say ‘a suit’ or ‘a uniform’. For most people in suits are cement salesmen and uniform make you look like an overgrown 8 year old on the way to a birthday party. " A wild and carefree dishevelled look looks sexy to me. Outdoorsy ruggedness. A man who looks like he could cut down trees with a pocketknife and not break out in a sweat. | |||
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"Other people seem to think I can. I think you can. We're all our own harshest critics. I think maybe on photos etc we can appear sexy but in real life I'm far too clumsy to be sexy and I get the giggles during sex. I'm pretty sure we've met " Well I'm even more amazed if you think I've pulled off sexy at those times.. I'm generally really self conscious, generally adjusting myself. At the last one suits had to slap my wrist because I kept adjusting my dress | |||
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"Other people seem to think I can. I think you can. We're all our own harshest critics. I think maybe on photos etc we can appear sexy but in real life I'm far too clumsy to be sexy and I get the giggles during sex. I'm pretty sure we've met Well I'm even more amazed if you think I've pulled off sexy at those times.. I'm generally really self conscious, generally adjusting myself. At the last one suits had to slap my wrist because I kept adjusting my dress " My adjustments probably get less attention (and Suits was, err, a little past his best when he and I spoke) but I feel much the same x | |||
"I think it’s certainly far easier for a woman to do “sexy”. So many options in terms of lingerie, clothing, make up, heels etc... Whereas us blokes just feel a bit daft if we try anything other than standing there in our best pants whilst sucking our stomach in!!!! " Too true | |||
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"Other people seem to think I can. I think you can. We're all our own harshest critics. I think maybe on photos etc we can appear sexy but in real life I'm far too clumsy to be sexy and I get the giggles during sex. " Let's face it, sex is often a faintly ridiculous thing to be doing at the best of times - getting the giggles shouldn't be too much of a surprise. And I like that attitude towards it But sexy? Me? Dear God, have you not seen my pictures? I just have a default setting of jeans, boots, an overly loud / patterned Joe Browns shirt and sometimes a jacket. It's what I'm most comfortable in, and that's as close as I can get to sexy Love stockings and suspenders on a lady, though.... | |||
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"I think it’s certainly far easier for a woman to do “sexy”. So many options in terms of lingerie, clothing, make up, heels etc... Whereas us blokes just feel a bit daft if we try anything other than standing there in our best pants whilst sucking our stomach in!!!! " , That's what most of us women do to be fair | |||
"Another observation.... I think lots of women think they can’t do sexy. Though if you talked to the man in your life they would probably tell you how incredibly sexy they find you. I think lots of men are guilty of not telling their partner just how attractive and sexy they are. Compliment her and make her feel like a Princess!!" Confidence comes from within. | |||
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"I dont think I'm sexy at all but I've been told I do sexy very well my personal opinion is I'm as sexy as a toad missing a leg " I'm an overgrown awkward little girl playing dress up and failing | |||
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"I think it’s certainly far easier for a woman to do “sexy”. So many options in terms of lingerie, clothing, make up, heels etc... Whereas us blokes just feel a bit daft if we try anything other than standing there in our best pants whilst sucking our stomach in!!!! " Oh, I thought that was being sexy. Must try harder. | |||
"I dont think I'm sexy at all but I've been told I do sexy very well my personal opinion is I'm as sexy as a toad missing a leg I'm an overgrown awkward little girl playing dress up and failing " | |||
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"Another observation.... I think lots of women think they can’t do sexy. Though if you talked to the man in your life they would probably tell you how incredibly sexy they find you. I think lots of men are guilty of not telling their partner just how attractive and sexy they are. Compliment her and make her feel like a Princess!!" Lots of women would never admit to thinking they can do sexy. | |||
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"Another observation.... I think lots of women think they can’t do sexy. Though if you talked to the man in your life they would probably tell you how incredibly sexy they find you. I think lots of men are guilty of not telling their partner just how attractive and sexy they are. Compliment her and make her feel like a Princess!! Lots of women would never admit to thinking they can do sexy. " That, and I think a lot of guys think that our self-perception is about what they think. It really, really isn't. | |||
"Another observation.... I think lots of women think they can’t do sexy. Though if you talked to the man in your life they would probably tell you how incredibly sexy they find you. I think lots of men are guilty of not telling their partner just how attractive and sexy they are. Compliment her and make her feel like a Princess!! Lots of women would never admit to thinking they can do sexy. That, and I think a lot of guys think that our self-perception is about what they think. It really, really isn't." Yes but when it comes to sexy I want my partner to think I'm sexy as well as thinking I'm sexy myself. The more I type sexy the more ridiculous the word sounds | |||
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"Another observation.... I think lots of women think they can’t do sexy. Though if you talked to the man in your life they would probably tell you how incredibly sexy they find you. I think lots of men are guilty of not telling their partner just how attractive and sexy they are. Compliment her and make her feel like a Princess!! Lots of women would never admit to thinking they can do sexy. That, and I think a lot of guys think that our self-perception is about what they think. It really, really isn't. Yes but when it comes to sexy I want my partner to think I'm sexy as well as thinking I'm sexy myself. The more I type sexy the more ridiculous the word sounds " Yes. But I think most of that is reflected from an internal state. If I'm self-conscious I'll look it, even if I'm dressed in a way that the person(s) I want to impress find(s) attractive. No amount of "you're gorgeous" will change that, at least on its own. I have the beginning of Liberty X - "Just a Little" in my head. Which is probably more ridiculous | |||
"I think it’s certainly far easier for a woman to do “sexy”. So many options in terms of lingerie, clothing, make up, heels etc... Whereas us blokes just feel a bit daft if we try anything other than standing there in our best pants whilst sucking our stomach in!!!! Completely agree.. Girls..? Is there anything that makes a guy look ‘sexy’ rather than ‘less of a knob’? And, please don’t say ‘a suit’ or ‘a uniform’. For most people in suits are cement salesmen and uniform make you look like an overgrown 8 year old on the way to a birthday party. A wild and carefree dishevelled look looks sexy to me. Outdoorsy ruggedness. A man who looks like he could cut down trees with a pocketknife and not break out in a sweat." I cut an old abandoned telegraph pole in half with a swiss army knife as a kid to make a raft. It took about a week to do and I'm pretty sure I sweated a little so not sure if that counts? | |||
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"Another observation.... I think lots of women think they can’t do sexy. Though if you talked to the man in your life they would probably tell you how incredibly sexy they find you. I think lots of men are guilty of not telling their partner just how attractive and sexy they are. Compliment her and make her feel like a Princess!!" Nope the man in question went no you can't | |||
"Nope the man in question went no you can't" He actually said that to you? Not sure if he’s brave or stupid | |||
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"Nope the man in question went no you can't He actually said that to you? Not sure if he’s brave or stupid " Well I met him at the door with the stocking issue and he laughed and I said sorry I try to do sexy but can't and he went no you cant | |||
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"Can you do sexy? I can't I can pretend at it for about a minute and it all goes tits up. So I dressed on Wednesday in stockings and a sexy chemise. Within seconds I laddered one stocking. Changed it and then managed to ping off and break the suspender strap on the other stocking.... I've come to the conclusion I just can't do sexy " Wouldn't know where to start. | |||
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"Can you do sexy? I can't I can pretend at it for about a minute and it all goes tits up. So I dressed on Wednesday in stockings and a sexy chemise. Within seconds I laddered one stocking. Changed it and then managed to ping off and break the suspender strap on the other stocking.... I've come to the conclusion I just can't do sexy " That’s cute sexy and bet it didn’t stop the fun at all | |||
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"Another observation.... I think lots of women think they can’t do sexy. Though if you talked to the man in your life they would probably tell you how incredibly sexy they find you. I think lots of men are guilty of not telling their partner just how attractive and sexy they are. Compliment her and make her feel like a Princess!!" And the same in return. Make him feel like a king and if he's any kind of man he'll fuck you like one. I think that's something I am good at, making guys feel sexy and hot. It often seems like they feel all the pressure is on them to perform and please and to me it's not like that. It's up to us both. | |||
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" I'll admit, I find women dutifully doing tasks to be a turn on. I find a woman washing dishes to be sexy, bending over and doing stuff with the oven, putting effort into cutting vegatables, etc, or even playing with her kids. Weird eh? ." Not weird AT ALL. And you identified the primal feelings underneath it. I seldom feel more feminine and attractive than when I'm looking after my partner and cooking for him and doing his laundry and being, as you say a dutiful, traditional woman. It makes me so peaceful and happy and content. And essentially it is me saying "look I can make a home, make a baby with me!!" even though we're both middle aged and done with parenthood. I loved reading your post, thanks for writing it | |||
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"I don’t dress sexily. I think sexiness is an aura you give you off and should be natural. If I’m sexy then I should be just as sexy in jeans and a jumper. Is what I think anyway. " Yep totally agree | |||
"Sexy for me means confidence and acceptance of oneself. Looks are a part of it, of course they are, but sexy is so much more. " And you, my dear, are very much more. Much, much more. | |||
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"I think I can pull of sexy. I love my sexy underwear and am confident when wearing it. I do struggle to fasten suspenders mind, I can work up into a right lather trying to get them fastened." . Chunky's stocking fitting service is available. | |||
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"Don't know why but I just want to shout I'M too sexy for my shirt too sexy for my shirt it hurts showing my age I guess " Fabric softener? | |||
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"I think it’s certainly far easier for a woman to do “sexy”. So many options in terms of lingerie, clothing, make up, heels etc... Whereas us blokes just feel a bit daft if we try anything other than standing there in our best pants whilst sucking our stomach in!!!! Completely agree.. Girls..? Is there anything that makes a guy look ‘sexy’ rather than ‘less of a knob’? And, please don’t say ‘a suit’ or ‘a uniform’. For most people in suits are cement salesmen and uniform make you look like an overgrown 8 year old on the way to a birthday party. See I think sexy for a guy is all about his persona, a look he can give you, a confidence. Where as for woman it seems to be more about how she looks what she wears? " Men are visual creatures, I enjoy dressing up, not so good with stockings now. I get hot probably due to my age ! | |||
"The thing is, is "sexy" something you can consciously "do"? For me I know if I "try" to be sexy I just look like more of a bumbling gurning idiot than usual. It also comes down to the definition of "sexy" which again is very subjective (if you put aside social stereotypes) and that plays into my above point that you can't make yourself "be" sexy, you just are, it's a natural thing in it's purest form. Sure there are some people who learn how to "portray" the stereotype sexy - but that is very different from the more natural form. I can find the simplest things to be sexy - for example a woman subconsciously tucking a lock of hair behind her ear can make me melt, or someone putting a stocking on is an incredibly alluring sight - but they're natural and instinctive things more than attempts to be sexy. So for those saying they can't do it - you can, you just don't do it consciously and for me that is far sexier than trying to do so." I've sent you some horrific selfies and been amazed by the response back | |||
" I'll admit, I find women dutifully doing tasks to be a turn on. I find a woman washing dishes to be sexy, bending over and doing stuff with the oven, putting effort into cutting vegatables, etc, or even playing with her kids. Weird eh? . Not weird AT ALL. And you identified the primal feelings underneath it. I seldom feel more feminine and attractive than when I'm looking after my partner and cooking for him and doing his laundry and being, as you say a dutiful, traditional woman. It makes me so peaceful and happy and content. And essentially it is me saying "look I can make a home, make a baby with me!!" even though we're both middle aged and done with parenthood. I loved reading your post, thanks for writing it " Yeah, it's interesting isn't it? I've noticed it myself... On many occasions, I've become hot with desire when a woman has been in her kitchen. Sometimes, so much so that I've acted on it from time to time! Ha! What's also interesting; there's a woman called Nigella. Have a look at her programmes. She makes full use of this "dutiful woman" phenomenon. I could probably wank to her cookery programmes. Regarding women with children, last week I was out. I took my kids to a forest. There was a woman there who had two kids also. She was smiling, laughing and playing with them, etc. I gravitated towards her. I got messed up inside and got hard simply because of her demeanor - she was sexy! I think it's because it screams out "I'll be great with your kids! Choose me!". Complicated really... But yes, it all seems to boil down to very raw, natural factors. | |||
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"If you think a cross between Bob Hoskins and Danny Devito is sexy then I guess so. " I've found Danny DeVito sexy since watching him play with his date's toes under the table at a dinner party in the War of the Roses | |||
"If you think a cross between Bob Hoskins and Danny Devito is sexy then I guess so. I've found Danny DeVito sexy since watching him play with his date's toes under the table at a dinner party in the War of the Roses " Eeeek | |||
"There is no try, there is only do. I dont try to be sexy, I try to feel sexy, if that makes sense, but for me. And men, well fitting jeans or trousers, good leather shoes, and a nice shirt can do it, with a waft of subtle aftershave, a smile and a twinkle in the eye.. so so sexy!" Oh and wanted to say, it's not the clothes, it's the attitude, the charisma, I was just giving an example of something other than a suit or uniform x | |||
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"I don’t do sexy couldn’t do it I tried. I have attitude and presence. " You’re mysterious and enigmatic - that’s sexy | |||
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"I've given up on sexy ha ha now I'm just happy and rather glorious me " You are glorious!!! xx | |||
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"I've given up on sexy ha ha now I'm just happy and rather glorious me You are glorious!!! xx" you are too kind my lovely chum x x | |||
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"I dont think sexy depends on what you wear or even what you look like. Some people just have an aura about them" Totally agree, that’s the first thing I noticed about AJ when I first laid eyes on her that she ouzed sexiness even though she was just in normal day wear, certainly an aura, think it comes with being comfortable with your self also | |||
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"I'm glad it's not just me that can't do it... I think I fit more under the cute clutz umbrella " You perfectly fine and damn sexy to me | |||
"Can you do sexy? I can't I can pretend at it for about a minute and it all goes tits up. So I dressed on Wednesday in stockings and a sexy chemise. Within seconds I laddered one stocking. Changed it and then managed to ping off and break the suspender strap on the other stocking.... I've come to the conclusion I just can't do sexy " Yeah, I know I shouldn’t really be here. I just came on to say though. Yes you’re a clutz but even with the laddered stockings and broken suspenders you’re still one of the sexiest women I’ve ever seen. X | |||
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"Can you do sexy? I can't I can pretend at it for about a minute and it all goes tits up. So I dressed on Wednesday in stockings and a sexy chemise. Within seconds I laddered one stocking. Changed it and then managed to ping off and break the suspender strap on the other stocking.... I've come to the conclusion I just can't do sexy Yeah, I know I shouldn’t really be here. I just came on to say though. Yes you’re a clutz but even with the laddered stockings and broken suspenders you’re still one of the sexiest women I’ve ever seen. X" | |||
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"I do sexy very badly, more of clumsy hippo in real life " *Looks at your pictures* Suuurrre. | |||
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"I do sexy very badly, more of clumsy hippo in real life *Looks at your pictures* Suuurrre. " That’s just pictures | |||
"I do sexy very badly, more of clumsy hippo in real life *Looks at your pictures* Suuurrre. That’s just pictures " My pictures are totally me doing goofy shit when no one can see me | |||
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"I ain't the greatest. I'm pretty sure I'm heading down the route of Catherine Tate's "Nan" character P" UGH, that profile picture. | |||
"I do sexy very badly, more of clumsy hippo in real life *Looks at your pictures* Suuurrre. That’s just pictures My pictures are totally me doing goofy shit when no one can see me " | |||
"I do sexy very badly, more of clumsy hippo in real life " Errrrrrm. Yeah. Right. Pffffft. (smacks arse) | |||
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"Yeah I can work it, suspenders are a nightmare to fasten though " Oh God yeah. Sexiness doesn't live in stocking and suspenders! | |||
"Can you do sexy? I can't I can pretend at it for about a minute and it all goes tits up. So I dressed on Wednesday in stockings and a sexy chemise. Within seconds I laddered one stocking. Changed it and then managed to ping off and break the suspender strap on the other stocking.... I've come to the conclusion I just can't do sexy " Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!! But get the feeling of being feeling sexy as I’m more in touch with my feminine side more than most, and have the clothes and lingerie to feel more sexy in my feminine personality and more lucky than most having a wife that treats me as two personalities and even have girly nights out even to the point of her buying me feminine things from lingerie to boots heels But a lot harder to feel as sexy in a male role while out with a lot less clothing makeup etc to work with Looking at your initial post, babe you look sexy, all about the feeling s you portray and the positive attitude you put out As I’ve got older it’s how you feel and don’t care about what other people think, took a long time to accept this Feel good in your self not others !!! | |||
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"The last time I tried sexy, I fell off the bed " That’s me. I flung my heel off in what I thought was a sexy way and it went straight through the hotel patio doors . | |||
"I don’t dress sexily. I think sexiness is an aura you give you off and should be natural. If I’m sexy then I should be just as sexy in jeans and a jumper. Is what I think anyway. " Totally agree with this....some can do sexy in a black bag! | |||
"The last time I tried sexy, I fell off the bed That’s me. I flung my heel off in what I thought was a sexy way and it went straight through the hotel patio doors . " At least you didn't take his eye out. | |||
"The last time I tried sexy, I fell off the bed That’s me. I flung my heel off in what I thought was a sexy way and it went straight through the hotel patio doors . " Sometimes it’s not too bad as the shared laughter makes a meet, other times it’s not so good | |||
"The last time I tried sexy, I fell off the bed That’s me. I flung my heel off in what I thought was a sexy way and it went straight through the hotel patio doors . At least you didn't take his eye out. " I’ve scratched a face with them though. And I nearly broke a cock in half getting carried away doing reverse cowgirl. I’m a liability. Best avoided | |||
"The last time I tried sexy, I fell off the bed That’s me. I flung my heel off in what I thought was a sexy way and it went straight through the hotel patio doors . At least you didn't take his eye out. I’ve scratched a face with them though. And I nearly broke a cock in half getting carried away doing reverse cowgirl. I’m a liability. Best avoided " I'd risk it. But I may wear body armour. | |||
"The last time I tried sexy, I fell off the bed That’s me. I flung my heel off in what I thought was a sexy way and it went straight through the hotel patio doors . At least you didn't take his eye out. I’ve scratched a face with them though. And I nearly broke a cock in half getting carried away doing reverse cowgirl. I’m a liability. Best avoided " | |||
"The last time I tried sexy, I fell off the bed That’s me. I flung my heel off in what I thought was a sexy way and it went straight through the hotel patio doors . At least you didn't take his eye out. I’ve scratched a face with them though. And I nearly broke a cock in half getting carried away doing reverse cowgirl. I’m a liability. Best avoided I'd risk it. But I may wear body armour. " It’s highly advisable | |||
"The last time I tried sexy, I fell off the bed That’s me. I flung my heel off in what I thought was a sexy way and it went straight through the hotel patio doors . At least you didn't take his eye out. I’ve scratched a face with them though. And I nearly broke a cock in half getting carried away doing reverse cowgirl. I’m a liability. Best avoided I'd risk it. But I may wear body armour. It’s highly advisable " Just be gentle with me. I'm quite shy. | |||
"The last time I tried sexy, I fell off the bed That’s me. I flung my heel off in what I thought was a sexy way and it went straight through the hotel patio doors . At least you didn't take his eye out. I’ve scratched a face with them though. And I nearly broke a cock in half getting carried away doing reverse cowgirl. I’m a liability. Best avoided I'd risk it. But I may wear body armour. It’s highly advisable Just be gentle with me. I'm quite shy. " Hey I can do gentle! At first | |||
"The last time I tried sexy, I fell off the bed That’s me. I flung my heel off in what I thought was a sexy way and it went straight through the hotel patio doors . At least you didn't take his eye out. I’ve scratched a face with them though. And I nearly broke a cock in half getting carried away doing reverse cowgirl. I’m a liability. Best avoided I'd risk it. But I may wear body armour. It’s highly advisable Just be gentle with me. I'm quite shy. Hey I can do gentle! At first " Just for the first hour or two. | |||
"The last time I tried sexy, I fell off the bed That’s me. I flung my heel off in what I thought was a sexy way and it went straight through the hotel patio doors . At least you didn't take his eye out. I’ve scratched a face with them though. And I nearly broke a cock in half getting carried away doing reverse cowgirl. I’m a liability. Best avoided I'd risk it. But I may wear body armour. It’s highly advisable Just be gentle with me. I'm quite shy. Hey I can do gentle! At first Just for the first hour or two. " Oooooh are we talking hours? My kind of man | |||
"The last time I tried sexy, I fell off the bed That’s me. I flung my heel off in what I thought was a sexy way and it went straight through the hotel patio doors . At least you didn't take his eye out. I’ve scratched a face with them though. And I nearly broke a cock in half getting carried away doing reverse cowgirl. I’m a liability. Best avoided I'd risk it. But I may wear body armour. It’s highly advisable Just be gentle with me. I'm quite shy. Hey I can do gentle! At first Just for the first hour or two. Oooooh are we talking hours? My kind of man " Taxi to paradise please. Xx | |||
"The last time I tried sexy, I fell off the bed That’s me. I flung my heel off in what I thought was a sexy way and it went straight through the hotel patio doors . At least you didn't take his eye out. I’ve scratched a face with them though. And I nearly broke a cock in half getting carried away doing reverse cowgirl. I’m a liability. Best avoided I'd risk it. But I may wear body armour. It’s highly advisable Just be gentle with me. I'm quite shy. Hey I can do gentle! At first Just for the first hour or two. Oooooh are we talking hours? My kind of man Taxi to paradise please. Xx" | |||