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By *ub bbw OP Woman
over a year ago
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what do you do when you know someone is using someone else for what they can get out of them? Do you tell the person being used? Do you call the user out on it ? or do you just sit tight and stay out of it?
A "friend" of mine is blatently using someone i know for what she can get out of him as she seems to do with a few people he is a little blinded by her sexual prowess and empty promises she has admitted to me while a little d*unk that she actually just pick him up and drops him when she needs someone to take her out and pay for things for her i have dropped her as a "friend" but dont know what to say to the guy if anything what would you do?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what do you do when you know someone is using someone else for what they can get out of them? Do you tell the person being used? Do you call the user out on it ? or do you just sit tight and stay out of it?
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A very difficult situation due to the fact the person being used doesn't want to see that its happening. Best advice is to stay out and hope they don't get hurt and be there to pick up the pieces and not do the 'told you so' thing. Not easy but probably the bast way to go. I have seen it happen a few times now in swinging and you often end up despising the user. |
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By *ub bbw OP Woman
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"what do you do when you know someone is using someone else for what they can get out of them? Do you tell the person being used? Do you call the user out on it ? or do you just sit tight and stay out of it?
A very difficult situation due to the fact the person being used doesn't want to see that its happening. Best advice is to stay out and hope they don't get hurt and be there to pick up the pieces and not do the 'told you so' thing. Not easy but probably the bast way to go. I have seen it happen a few times now in swinging and you often end up despising the user. "
Thanks for the advice i am already starting to despise her to be honest hence why have distance myself from her but will now just sit back and wait |
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If the other person is a very close friend that I care about, then I would give him/her a piece of my mind, then I would stay out of it afterwards.
That is what he/she knows I would do and my action would not come as a surprise to him or her.
If he/she is merely an acquaintance, then I would stay out of it.
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