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Forgive me, fa- err, not father that's creepy. For I have sinned. I fail at girl. (with your lipstick collection, and your swing dresses?, I hear you cry)
Hair. Mine is the bane of my fucking existence.
Two years ago I began growing out a pixie cut, which took about nine months. In August, I began growing out my bob.
Today it's about an inch past my shoulders and it's pissing me off. And I don't know what the fuck to do with it. Hair baffles me. I do so much work and it looks bloody awful. Straighteners, I'm terrified I'll set my hair on fire.
I'm thinking about returning to the pixie.
To chop or not to chop? |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I always regret cutting my hair. And my hair takes ages to grow. The quickest growing part of my hair is my fringe! So bloody annoying!
I never have wonderful looking hair, whatever style. It always look slightly unkempt.
Meh. Bloody hair,
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"Would you miss it if you did chop it back to Pixie length?"
Honestly, these days I mostly worry when I go out and swear at it coming out of the ponytail when I'm in the gym (it's not quite long enough).
I look better with longer hair, but that would require competence and giving a fuck  |
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No!!! Keep at it, you're at the really annoying phase. Another inch or so and you're hair will behave lots more. I've gone from an undercut in the past to now currently the longest it's been as an adult. But growing it out was an absolute nightmare |
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"No!!! Keep at it, you're at the really annoying phase. Another inch or so and you're hair will behave lots more. I've gone from an undercut in the past to now currently the longest it's been as an adult. But growing it out was an absolute nightmare"
When I've had long hair in the past, it was in a ponytail unless I went to the hairdresser 
I can't do a bun, a plait, a braid, any of that shit, and when it's out I looked like I'd been dragged backwards through a bush.
I'd shave it off if I thought I could pull it off. |
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I chopped recently from long flowing locks..
For a valid reason ...
Its looks "fab"
Comfortable until it grow back.
I've a bob but instead of asymmetrical, I've low points at front,so can do stuff,bands clips. Just a suggestion.
Still Sassy  |
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"No!!! Keep at it, you're at the really annoying phase. Another inch or so and you're hair will behave lots more. I've gone from an undercut in the past to now currently the longest it's been as an adult. But growing it out was an absolute nightmare
When I've had long hair in the past, it was in a ponytail unless I went to the hairdresser
I can't do a bun, a plait, a braid, any of that shit, and when it's out I looked like I'd been dragged backwards through a bush.
I'd shave it off if I thought I could pull it off."
I often look like as M puts it as if I've been dragged through a hedge backwards. I've kind of started to embrace the wavy unkept look. I'm guilty of living in a pony tail when I'm in work though. But I've recently bought a few hair Barrettes so it looks a bit more showy than a hair tie |
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"I chopped recently from long flowing locks..
For a valid reason ...
Its looks "fab"
Comfortable until it grow back.
I've a bob but instead of asymmetrical, I've low points at front,so can do stuff,bands clips. Just a suggestion.
Still Sassy "
I had a graduated bob, but it was a sticky mess at the gym.
I think I either need shaved-pixie or long. Not in between. |
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"No!!! Keep at it, you're at the really annoying phase. Another inch or so and you're hair will behave lots more. I've gone from an undercut in the past to now currently the longest it's been as an adult. But growing it out was an absolute nightmare
When I've had long hair in the past, it was in a ponytail unless I went to the hairdresser
I can't do a bun, a plait, a braid, any of that shit, and when it's out I looked like I'd been dragged backwards through a bush.
I'd shave it off if I thought I could pull it off.
I often look like as M puts it as if I've been dragged through a hedge backwards. I've kind of started to embrace the wavy unkept look. I'm guilty of living in a pony tail when I'm in work though. But I've recently bought a few hair Barrettes so it looks a bit more showy than a hair tie "
I'm doing half up half down at the moment, to conceal my growing out fringe. But I'm *this* close to a real ponytail. |
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Mine goes from extremes, it was just touching my bum when I had it chopped really short, Bob style, its growing now & I'll let it grow until its so long it annoys me again.
The in between stage is annoying tho so I feel you, give the straighteners a go tho, you won't set your hair on fire but choose a low heat until you're comfortable x |
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"Mine goes from extremes, it was just touching my bum when I had it chopped really short, Bob style, its growing now & I'll let it grow until its so long it annoys me again.
The in between stage is annoying tho so I feel you, give the straighteners a go tho, you won't set your hair on fire but choose a low heat until you're comfortable x"
I got some recently and it won't stay straight on low settings but I don't dare do higher  And I want to embrace my wave, not have my hair in ways that other people say are attractive... but then it's frizzy.
*bangs head against wall* |
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"Mine goes from extremes, it was just touching my bum when I had it chopped really short, Bob style, its growing now & I'll let it grow until its so long it annoys me again.
The in between stage is annoying tho so I feel you, give the straighteners a go tho, you won't set your hair on fire but choose a low heat until you're comfortable x
I got some recently and it won't stay straight on low settings but I don't dare do higher And I want to embrace my wave, not have my hair in ways that other people say are attractive... but then it's frizzy.
*bangs head against wall*"
I've debated getting mine permed again, last time I did it lasted about 6 months before I shaved it off as it peed me off so much
Stick with letting it grow a bit more, your wave will get better as it gets a bit longer x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Forgive me, fa- err, not father that's creepy. For I have sinned. I fail at girl. (with your lipstick collection, and your swing dresses?, I hear you cry)
Hair. Mine is the bane of my fucking existence.
Two years ago I began growing out a pixie cut, which took about nine months. In August, I began growing out my bob.
Today it's about an inch past my shoulders and it's pissing me off. And I don't know what the fuck to do with it. Hair baffles me. I do so much work and it looks bloody awful. Straighteners, I'm terrified I'll set my hair on fire.
I'm thinking about returning to the pixie.
To chop or not to chop?"
Go for the chop! |
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"Forgive me, fa- err, not father that's creepy. For I have sinned. I fail at girl. (with your lipstick collection, and your swing dresses?, I hear you cry)
Hair. Mine is the bane of my fucking existence.
Two years ago I began growing out a pixie cut, which took about nine months. In August, I began growing out my bob.
Today it's about an inch past my shoulders and it's pissing me off. And I don't know what the fuck to do with it. Hair baffles me. I do so much work and it looks bloody awful. Straighteners, I'm terrified I'll set my hair on fire.
I'm thinking about returning to the pixie.
To chop or not to chop?
Go for the chop! "
The waves are effortless and frizz free in a pixie. *sigh* |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Are you happier with shorter hair? If you are, then I'd say get it cut. But it you prefer the longer hair and it's just annoying you I'd stick with it. Have you tried plaits? It does take some practice but it is simple enough once you've mastered it! You don't get much movement like you do with just normal ponytails and they don't really loosen or come undone as easily which will be good for when you're working out! |
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"Are you happier with shorter hair? If you are, then I'd say get it cut. But it you prefer the longer hair and it's just annoying you I'd stick with it. Have you tried plaits? It does take some practice but it is simple enough once you've mastered it! You don't get much movement like you do with just normal ponytails and they don't really loosen or come undone as easily which will be good for when you're working out! "
I don't know. I'm told I look better with longer hair, but I worry about it and I feel desperately incompetent with it. Short hair is just wash, ruffle and go. There's no fucking it up. There are a million ways to fuck up long hair.
It's also more work and... fuck enough already.
I feel like the learning curve with hair is too high, but I felt that way about makeup too |
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I totally get you. Im pretty fed up of my long thick hair but need to resist the temptation to get it all chopped off as I'll only regret it. Im going for a haircut tomorrow so have been checking out various styles.... came across a new one today.... have you heard of the Lob? A layered lob looks pretty nice i think. |
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Ooh.
I've always had a weak spot for alternative ladies. Butch. Short hair.
I tried spiked hair in my teens and looked fucking ridiculous.
Now baby got guns, and her give a shit has broken.
Maybe it's time to spike the hair, see if I can pull it off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you happier with shorter hair? If you are, then I'd say get it cut. But it you prefer the longer hair and it's just annoying you I'd stick with it. Have you tried plaits? It does take some practice but it is simple enough once you've mastered it! You don't get much movement like you do with just normal ponytails and they don't really loosen or come undone as easily which will be good for when you're working out!
I don't know. I'm told I look better with longer hair, but I worry about it and I feel desperately incompetent with it. Short hair is just wash, ruffle and go. There's no fucking it up. There are a million ways to fuck up long hair.
It's also more work and... fuck enough already.
I feel like the learning curve with hair is too high, but I felt that way about makeup too "
I think once you find something that works for the length you have now you will be happy with it. I think you are just unsure and unfamiliar with what will work for you hair right now.
I've never had shorter hair but I do think it's so much more easier to handle!
I'd say before you do decide to get your hair chopped, have a really good play around with it. Don't be afraid to blow dry, straighten etc to see what you can come up with. And have a look online for accessories. |
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"I chopped recently from long flowing locks..
For a valid reason ...
Its looks "fab"
Comfortable until it grow back.
I've a bob but instead of asymmetrical, I've low points at front,so can do stuff,bands clips. Just a suggestion.
Still Sassy
I had a graduated bob, but it was a sticky mess at the gym.
I think I either need shaved-pixie or long. Not in between."
Dnt forget can add afake bit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've come this far why not finish the job. Starting again would be a bloody mission. You've done the hard work. The chop is an essy option at any time...
I can't imagine myself with short hair again personally. |
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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
so near and yet so far.... |
Have your girlfriends come over and swap tips??
Let them straighten one side and then you straighten the other..
My hair gets wavier the longer it gets, if I didn’t brush it it’d be fab, but if I do it goes frizzy....  |
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"Have your girlfriends come over and swap tips??
Let them straighten one side and then you straighten the other..
My hair gets wavier the longer it gets, if I didn’t brush it it’d be fab, but if I do it goes frizzy.... "
Have this issue too, which is why I don't brush it very often. |
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"Have your girlfriends come over and swap tips??
Let them straighten one side and then you straighten the other..
My hair gets wavier the longer it gets, if I didn’t brush it it’d be fab, but if I do it goes frizzy.... "
My hair started waving, unfortunately it was waving goodbye  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Paul Mitchell leave in conditioner and only brush it when wet and after application. Don't blow dry.
Typing that has set my toxic masculinity off no end. So I'm going outside to saw a plank of wood in half and have a fight before watching the FA Cup 4th round replay later... |
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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
so near and yet so far.... |
"Have your girlfriends come over and swap tips??
Let them straighten one side and then you straighten the other..
My hair gets wavier the longer it gets, if I didn’t brush it it’d be fab, but if I do it goes frizzy....
My hair started waving, unfortunately it was waving goodbye "
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"Paul Mitchell leave in conditioner and only brush it when wet and after application. Don't blow dry.
Typing that has set my toxic masculinity off no end. So I'm going outside to saw a plank of wood in half and have a fight before watching the FA Cup 4th round replay later..."
I love you. |
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Almost all my female non-swinging friends have very short hair or, like I have been, throw it up in a bushy ponytail and don't worry unless it's clean.
I suppose, as I'm at the point where it's really exasperating me, I'm trying to find out if I should stick it out, if I can improve it, or I'm destined to have either super short hair or have it be a massive pain in my arse.
And I'm torn on aesthetics. I so dig the butch look but suspect I look better femme. But femme is ugh work |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
What does it do of you let it dry naturally? I've got quite fine, naturally wavy hair I find if I faff with it too much it goes frizzy unless I straighten it, which I cba to do.
If I put a sea salt type spray through it and leave it it looks good!
I've had a short crop before, hated it, grew it out, chopped it off, grew it etc. I like short hair on other women, just not me! |
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"What does it do of you let it dry naturally? I've got quite fine, naturally wavy hair I find if I faff with it too much it goes frizzy unless I straighten it, which I cba to do.
If I put a sea salt type spray through it and leave it it looks good!
I've had a short crop before, hated it, grew it out, chopped it off, grew it etc. I like short hair on other women, just not me!"
More waves, less frizzy (but not frizz free) but it takes an age to dry. Like I'd want to wash in the afternoon to sleep with dry hair, or wet hair until lunch time.
I want to embrace my hair's natural texture if I can, at whatever length. |
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Be grateful for any hair...several years ago I lost every hair on my head and body due to stress. It was awful. I have extensions now on what I had grow back on my head but, still have no underarm hair, leg hair and only sparse pubes. |
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Honestly I'd say if it's easier for you go for it or you just end up not making the most of your hair in any way. Mine is currently past my waist and loads of people love it. They're sad that I'm about to get about 8 inches cut off it on Friday. It will still be to my chest though! It's just annoying me now so I end up just throwing it in a ponytail most of the time. I wore it down so much more when it wasn't as insanely long and even ponytails looked better as it was more bouncy as it wasn't so heavy. I'm excited! Everyone else is just going to have to deal with it  . |
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"Honestly I'd say if it's easier for you go for it or you just end up not making the most of your hair in any way. Mine is currently past my waist and loads of people love it. They're sad that I'm about to get about 8 inches cut off it on Friday. It will still be to my chest though! It's just annoying me now so I end up just throwing it in a ponytail most of the time. I wore it down so much more when it wasn't as insanely long and even ponytails looked better as it was more bouncy as it wasn't so heavy. I'm excited! Everyone else is just going to have to deal with it ."
Yeah, other people's reactions is way worse than omg what did I do |
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"Forgive me, fa- err, not father that's creepy. For I have sinned. I fail at girl. (with your lipstick collection, and your swing dresses?, I hear you cry)
Hair. Mine is the bane of my fucking existence.
Two years ago I began growing out a pixie cut, which took about nine months. In August, I began growing out my bob.
Today it's about an inch past my shoulders and it's pissing me off. And I don't know what the fuck to do with it. Hair baffles me. I do so much work and it looks bloody awful. Straighteners, I'm terrified I'll set my hair on fire.
I'm thinking about returning to the pixie.
To chop or not to chop?"
We are in the midst of winter and we haven't even got properly cold yet. Get a bobble hat and wear that, then as spring descends you'll have a bit more length. |
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"How about a nice tousled bob.. Or a sharp asymmetric bob? "
I had a graduated bob, but it gets sticky on my neck and flies everywhere in the gym. I think anywhere between pixie and "easily tied into a ponytail" is out, haha. |
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"Forgive me, fa- err, not father that's creepy. For I have sinned. I fail at girl. (with your lipstick collection, and your swing dresses?, I hear you cry)
Hair. Mine is the bane of my fucking existence.
Two years ago I began growing out a pixie cut, which took about nine months. In August, I began growing out my bob.
Today it's about an inch past my shoulders and it's pissing me off. And I don't know what the fuck to do with it. Hair baffles me. I do so much work and it looks bloody awful. Straighteners, I'm terrified I'll set my hair on fire.
I'm thinking about returning to the pixie.
To chop or not to chop?
We are in the midst of winter and we haven't even got properly cold yet. Get a bobble hat and wear that, then as spring descends you'll have a bit more length."
And when I'm indoors? |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
Preston |
"No!!! Keep at it, you're at the really annoying phase. Another inch or so and you're hair will behave lots more. I've gone from an undercut in the past to now currently the longest it's been as an adult. But growing it out was an absolute nightmare
When I've had long hair in the past, it was in a ponytail unless I went to the hairdresser
I can't do a bun, a plait, a braid, any of that shit, and when it's out I looked like I'd been dragged backwards through a bush.
I'd shave it off if I thought I could pull it off."
That's me. It looked like rats tails and I hated it. Had it cropped off and I love it. I'll never have it long again. |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
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"Honestly I'd say if it's easier for you go for it or you just end up not making the most of your hair in any way. Mine is currently past my waist and loads of people love it. They're sad that I'm about to get about 8 inches cut off it on Friday. It will still be to my chest though! It's just annoying me now so I end up just throwing it in a ponytail most of the time. I wore it down so much more when it wasn't as insanely long and even ponytails looked better as it was more bouncy as it wasn't so heavy. I'm excited! Everyone else is just going to have to deal with it ."
Are you donating it to locks of love? (I think that's what it's called) |
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"Forgive me, fa- err, not father that's creepy. For I have sinned. I fail at girl. (with your lipstick collection, and your swing dresses?, I hear you cry)
Hair. Mine is the bane of my fucking existence.
Two years ago I began growing out a pixie cut, which took about nine months. In August, I began growing out my bob.
Today it's about an inch past my shoulders and it's pissing me off. And I don't know what the fuck to do with it. Hair baffles me. I do so much work and it looks bloody awful. Straighteners, I'm terrified I'll set my hair on fire.
I'm thinking about returning to the pixie.
To chop or not to chop?
We are in the midst of winter and we haven't even got properly cold yet. Get a bobble hat and wear that, then as spring descends you'll have a bit more length.
And when I'm indoors? "
Keep it on. If your too warm, take off something else 
Or turn the heating off. See I'm saving you money as well! |
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