FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > Obey my every command
Obey my every command
Jump to: Newest in thread
"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc "
Fucking good luck with that one... I don’t even get a polite reply never mind a meet and a bit of don  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc "
So you want a sub? You do realise that you have to earn that right? You have to prove she can trust you, in order to give herself over in such a way.
I’m not going to go into the whole true Dom, true sub stuff, as one woman’s Dom is another woman’s abuser- there is no hard and fast rule, but you’re tapping into someone’s subconscious need, so what do they get from it?
Fantasy is one thing, reality is a whole lot more complicated than that x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Submission is earned and is always, always conditional."
I'll agree with that 100%
Trust is also a HUGE factor.
A sub is going to need to be able to totally trust you.
I didn't get to my situation right from the outset. It's only come about in the last week, and after a lot of communication, and pretty much by happy accident. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc
So you want a sub? You do realise that you have to earn that right? You have to prove she can trust you, in order to give herself over in such a way.
I’m not going to go into the whole true Dom, true sub stuff, as one woman’s Dom is another woman’s abuser- there is no hard and fast rule, but you’re tapping into someone’s subconscious need, so what do they get from it?
Fantasy is one thing, reality is a whole lot more complicated than that x"
Absolutely... to have a woman let go completely to you is an be one of the most erotic things if done right. It’s based massively on trust... it’s about pushing boundaries and you can’t do that without complete trust. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Submission is earned and is always, always conditional."
Not everyone seems to understand that. If it’s not symbiotic it’s not an equal relationship, and inequality can lead to the abuse of the other as they not shown they’re valued xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc
So you want a sub? You do realise that you have to earn that right? You have to prove she can trust you, in order to give herself over in such a way.
I’m not going to go into the whole true Dom, true sub stuff, as one woman’s Dom is another woman’s abuser- there is no hard and fast rule, but you’re tapping into someone’s subconscious need, so what do they get from it?
Fantasy is one thing, reality is a whole lot more complicated than that x"
Are you looking for a one off or regular? If a one off you may find someone, who wants to simply submit for the night- be careful though, as what you’re asking could lead to issues if you don’t establish firm boundaries from the onset- for both of you! xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc
Wow. I get the feeling thats not happening on here. "
Only if she doesn’t mind not establishing trust and boundaries first! You wouldn’t believe the people who think that total submission on the first/second meet is the way to go. How can you trust someone you’ve only chatted to, or met once! Nowt strange as folk I guess xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc
Wow. I get the feeling thats not happening on here. "
I'd hope it wouldn't happen anywhere. It's not just basic self-respect, it's basic self-preservation. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc
So you want a sub? You do realise that you have to earn that right? You have to prove she can trust you, in order to give herself over in such a way.
I’m not going to go into the whole true Dom, true sub stuff, as one woman’s Dom is another woman’s abuser- there is no hard and fast rule, but you’re tapping into someone’s subconscious need, so what do they get from it?
Fantasy is one thing, reality is a whole lot more complicated than that x"
Couldn't agree with you more  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc
So you want a sub? You do realise that you have to earn that right? You have to prove she can trust you, in order to give herself over in such a way.
I’m not going to go into the whole true Dom, true sub stuff, as one woman’s Dom is another woman’s abuser- there is no hard and fast rule, but you’re tapping into someone’s subconscious need, so what do they get from it?
Fantasy is one thing, reality is a whole lot more complicated than that x
Absolutely... to have a woman let go completely to you is an be one of the most erotic things if done right. It’s based massively on trust... it’s about pushing boundaries and you can’t do that without complete trust. "
And yet so many think it’s instantaneous. The level of trust needed isn’t established, that then leads to problems as people don’t understand the boundaries xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc
So you want a sub? You do realise that you have to earn that right? You have to prove she can trust you, in order to give herself over in such a way.
I’m not going to go into the whole true Dom, true sub stuff, as one woman’s Dom is another woman’s abuser- there is no hard and fast rule, but you’re tapping into someone’s subconscious need, so what do they get from it?
Fantasy is one thing, reality is a whole lot more complicated than that x
Absolutely... to have a woman let go completely to you is an be one of the most erotic things if done right. It’s based massively on trust... it’s about pushing boundaries and you can’t do that without complete trust.
And yet so many think it’s instantaneous. The level of trust needed isn’t established, that then leads to problems as people don’t understand the boundaries xx"
I’m not knocking anyone who does feel they have an instant trust btw, but it’s not something that I, personally, get xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *verdalesCouple
over a year ago
felpham and Rotterdam |
Found mine , kitten is the best sub I could have , but it's all about trust and at the end of the day it's the sub who has all the power even tho they have given themselves over to you .
She needs treating like a queen with care and compassion |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc "
So if you tell me to fuck and suck 2 obese smelly old men i have to obey cos you said so?. Pass |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *eliWoman
over a year ago
. |
It's a hot fantasy, isn't it OP? I'm sure that a few people would like to find someone similar to how you describe. I think that you need to build some sort of "relationship" (and I use that term loosely) with another before you find that. People still want, to some extent, to be treated like a person. There are women on here who enjoy that sort of thing and don't necessarily require much more but most do require a good level of trust, communication and mutual pleasure - it's as much about your enjoyment as it is theirs. I hope you find what you're looking for OP. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Found mine , kitten is the best sub I could have , but it's all about trust and at the end of the day it's the sub who has all the power even tho they have given themselves over to you .
She needs treating like a queen with care and compassion"
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
