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Was loosing your virginty a special moment in your life and puts a smile on your face when you reminisce, or are you like me and wish you had waited and lost it to someone else?
Mine was a god dam disaster and a total let down.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine was horrible .... ok , a disappointment not horrible
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No under 18s.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine was ok, for me anyway  |
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"No under 18s. "
I was very careful not to mention age. |
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By *awk90Man
over a year ago
Amsterdam |
I really wish it had been different for me. Sweden can be an odd place, with lots of pressure! |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
Preston |
Mine was the most 'meh' thing I've ever done I think! |
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Mine was age 19 with my future husband. It wasn't as marvellous as I had hoped. |
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I’m happy with with when and whom I was with when I lost my virginity. I didn’t wait until I thought I’d met “The One” but I also didn’t jump into it like most of my mates first chance they got!
Only regret is I was so damn nervous and didn’t know what I was doing that I started slapping my hard on against her belly and had one leg up on the sofa like a Yoga practicing Cowboy. Couldn’t even blame Porn for the ridiculous  |
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Probably the worst sex I’ve ever experienced  |
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I was very lucky to bag my longterm crush that I had married so many times in my head and imprinted our initials in heart shapes on books. A very special encounter.
Till he met his to be real life wife two weeks later 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah it was lovely, in a romantic sense, as we were both virgins, had been dating for a year or two, the sun was streaming through partially closed curtains on a warm summer afternoon. Bowie's Low was on the stereo. If I smell the pefume Poison ever again it will take me straight back to those times.
I rem_mber my overwhelming thought at the time was "I'm actually doing it at last" and of course the sex was poor, but I treasure the memory... |
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"Wish I had waited  "
.yep, me too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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(Miss) that bad that i didnt do it again for 4 yrs 
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"(Miss) that bad that i didnt do it again for 4 yrs
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Awwww no. Hope you've made up for it now though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine was a disappointment, she came I didn’t and I thought oh is that it then  |
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I was 16. She was 33. It was my first ever night out. I thought “Great, this must happen every week!!”
It was a 18 months before my next encounter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It wasn't a disaster, but given my time again I'd choose not to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wish I had waited .yep, me too."
I actually waited until I was 21 and it was still a huge disappointment.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"(Miss) that bad that i didnt do it again for 4 yrs
Awwww no. Hope you've made up for it now though."
Oh yes for sure but still got lots more making up to do 
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"(Miss) that bad that i didnt do it again for 4 yrs
Awwww no. Hope you've made up for it now though.
Oh yes for sure but still got lots more making up to do
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We were both virgins, both quite naive and it was a disaster.
I don't regret it though, I don't wish I'd waited, I don't attach that much importance to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was so quick I thought I’d that it. X |
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It was a let down for me. My mum told me it was painful the first. It wasn't for me.
Now I got have pain or its no good to vanilla for me. |
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I did marry him. Then it went downhill. But T has made up for it |
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By *antrelWoman
over a year ago
Birmingham/Cardiff |
It wasn’t great but we’re still good friends 20+ years later. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine was everything I'd want it to be. |
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It wasn't great and there was some laughter.
I don't regret it or wish I had waited. |
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It wasn't absolutely terrible...I dumped him a week later because he'd gone bragging to his friends about it  |
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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago
Near Wellingborough |
A one night stand when I turned 23, I didn't even ask his name I just wanted to know what all the hype was about. It took me over a year to start actually enjoying sex. Now I'm kinda addicted lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was loosing your virginty a special moment in your life and puts a smile on your face when you reminisce, or are you like me and wish you had waited and lost it to someone else?
Mine was a god dam disaster and a total let down.
Mrs"
I waited and wish I hadn't, the reality didn't live up to the expectations. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was horrible and traumatic and I'm glad to have moved on from it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looking back at the experience I can see it wasn't the greatest night for either of us. I can't put all the blame on the guy, I didn't have a sodding clue about what I was going to experience and what I should / could do to enjoy the experience for myself and to help him enjoy it more. So it was a very awkward encounter and didn't get repeated.
Sex with a more experienced lover (2 yes older than myself) opened my mind and taught me so much about myself and pleasuring my lover .... including eventually introducing me to swinging.
I dont regret losing my virginity in an awkward encounter, looking back I think it's all quite endearing.... my innocence towards sex. |
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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon tyne |
Amazingly underwhelming. Neither of us knew what we were doing. I don't treasure the memory. I don't hate it either. It was more a 'should we get this over with then?' experience.
Gem |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine was the most 'meh' thing I've ever done I think!"
Mine too.
Then I lost it with a man.... better but took a while to get used to it.
Third time lucky later this year |
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Mine was very mediocre, quick and didn't live up to the expectations that I had. Thankfully it did get better  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It was horrible and traumatic and I'm glad to have moved on from it."
Mine too
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"Mine was everything I'd want it to be. "
That's good to hear. Seems most of us, it wasn't the greatest of experiences. |
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I wish I hadn't bought into the concept. |
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Just you raising the subject makes me shudder........
No. It was vile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wish I had waited .yep, me too."
Me 3 |
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"Just you raising the subject makes me shudder........
No. It was vile. "
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By *etite_RosyWoman
over a year ago
Now in MALAGA (SPAIN) |
We have both planned it for a long time. Kinda romantic way No regrets at all. We both have been virgins. He suppose to be my future hubby but we split a few years after. He married a lovely shy girl, I've married a lovely Spaniard man. Hubby was 10 years older than me and gave me a wonderful daughter.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely hideous....he looked like he was going to internally combust, I found it horrific....took me 2yrs before I tried it again...I was 17 first time round. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meh! That's it really.
Still together 30 years later |
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I don't really get this concept of "losing" your virginity. When I had sex for the first time it didn't feel like I "lost" anything. I had an experience that I hadn't had before.
I've never done a bungee jump, performed open-heart surgery or worn contact lenses. There's no word to describe me as a person who hasn't done those things and I doubt anybody would say I've lost anything for the rest of my life if I did them.
So why do we consider having sex for the first time a loss? I much prefer having a sex life to not having one. If anything, I've gained something. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was loosing your virginty a special moment in your life and puts a smile on your face when you reminisce, or are you like me and wish you had waited and lost it to someone else?
Mine was a god dam disaster and a total let down.
Mrs"
Mine was a d*unken mess , lost my snail virginity first ha |
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Admin have asked us to shut these types of thread as they inevitably lead to discussion of under 18s and underage.
I've removed certain posts. |
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