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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A question - why do some people hide the fact that you’ve looked at a profile?
I get you’re not always looking because of interest and sometimes you’re just looking... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you.
Also I might get arrested if some people knew how often I looked at them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A question - why do some people hide the fact that you’ve looked at a profile?
I get you’re not always looking because of interest and sometimes you’re just looking... "
I never hide it, just because I look at a profile doesn't mean I'm trying to get somewhere with them. |
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"A question - why do some people hide the fact that you’ve looked at a profile?
I get you’re not always looking because of interest and sometimes you’re just looking... "
Because their inbox fills up with "I see you looked at my profile, fancy a fuck, here's a picture of my cock" messages.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you.
Also I might get arrested if some people knew how often I looked at them "
My phone twitches every time you look at me... it’s forever twitching...  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you.
Also I might get arrested if some people knew how often I looked at them "
Yep. There are a couple of profiles I look at far too often but luckily they have no idea. |
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Because people assume that looking at their profile means I'm about to drop my knickers. Sometimes I'm looking because the status is a thing of horror, or even I accidentally clicked profile B instead of A.
And then they abuse you because a look means a shag, right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A question - why do some people hide the fact that you’ve looked at a profile?
I get you’re not always looking because of interest and sometimes you’re just looking...
Because their inbox fills up with "I see you looked at my profile, fancy a fuck, here's a picture of my cock" messages...."
Exactly what Stingly says. I always view in stealth mode so if there's a particular profile I like then i don't come across as a stalker. |
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"A question - why do some people hide the fact that you’ve looked at a profile?
I get you’re not always looking because of interest and sometimes you’re just looking...
Because their inbox fills up with "I see you looked at my profile, fancy a fuck, here's a picture of my cock" messages....
Exactly what Stingly says. I always view in stealth mode so if there's a particular profile I like then i don't come across as a stalker. "
And yes, sometimes I appreciate some pictures a lot and... no I'm not admitting to that  |
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By *eeowlsMan
over a year ago
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"Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you.
Also I might get arrested if some people knew how often I looked at them "
I certainly wouldn’t mind you stalking my profile and me being able too see you are doing so!!
then gives me reason to keep viewing your profile And your hot sexy pics!!
Then hope you update with some more sexy pics   |
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"Stops messages saying"see you've looked at me" or similar."
This.
I get a fair number of messages from guys who clearly haven't bothered to even read the first 2 lines of my profile.
I am only looking to meet ladies.
I don't want to have to filter everyone else out, as the forums are great for leading to some interesting conversations. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Out of interest....if i stop hiding....do my historic/previous views all become active?!! Or just the views from that moment onwards..."
I don’t know, I wouldn’t have thought so... |
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"Out of interest....if i stop hiding....do my historic/previous views all become active?!! Or just the views from that moment onwards...
I don’t know, I wouldn’t have thought so... "
Wouldnt have thought which one lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you.
Also I might get arrested if some people knew how often I looked at them "
Made me snort - and totally accurate (for me at least, and probably for her ladyship too coz she's a total perv  )
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"A question - why do some people hide the fact that you’ve looked at a profile?
I get you’re not always looking because of interest and sometimes you’re just looking... "
I'm always in stealth mode...I stops the unsolicited messages from guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Out of interest....if i stop hiding....do my historic/previous views all become active?!! Or just the views from that moment onwards..."
All of them. Think of it as everyone having a log of who has viewed their profile. Ninja mode hides your entries on their log. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A question - why do some people hide the fact that you’ve looked at a profile?
I get you’re not always looking because of interest and sometimes you’re just looking... "
Saves more messages tbh |
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"Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you"
This. Also, sometimes it's nice to have a quiet fantasy about some of the gorgeous looking people on this site without having to worry about rejection etc |
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"Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you
This. Also, sometimes it's nice to have a quiet fantasy about some of the gorgeous looking people on this site without having to worry about rejection etc"
God so true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A question - why do some people hide the fact that you’ve looked at a profile?
I get you’re not always looking because of interest and sometimes you’re just looking... "
It's called stealth mode, the last time we unlocked this we were bombarded with messages asking why we'd not messaged, Jeez, we look at Argos but don't buy everything we view. |
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Stalkers, checking on ex's....who knows but I dont feel the need to hide who I'm looking at.
I look to see if we might get on, how to approach or reply to the type of person you are or just to have a look at your pics.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you.
Also I might get arrested if some people knew how often I looked at them
Yep. There are a couple of profiles I look at far too often but luckily they have no idea. "
Ohh.. I have a pretty good idea _eli and thankyou fee telling me I could change that setting, I would be embarrassed as hell if only people knew the levels of stalking I go to! Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you.
Also I might get arrested if some people knew how often I looked at them
Yep. There are a couple of profiles I look at far too often but luckily they have no idea.
Ohh.. I have a pretty good idea _eli and thankyou fee telling me I could change that setting, I would be embarrassed as hell if only people knew the levels of stalking I go to! Xxx"
I have an idea xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you.
Also I might get arrested if some people knew how often I looked at them
Yep. There are a couple of profiles I look at far too often but luckily they have no idea.
Ohh.. I have a pretty good idea _eli and thankyou fee telling me I could change that setting, I would be embarrassed as hell if only people knew the levels of stalking I go to! Xxx
I have an idea xxx"
Yeah!! You already know I look at your constantly, it would be pointless if I hid it now! xxx |
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"Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you.
Also I might get arrested if some people knew how often I looked at them
Yep. There are a couple of profiles I look at far too often but luckily they have no idea. "
Then tell them. Lol. Thanks |
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"A question - why do some people hide the fact that you’ve looked at a profile?
I get you’re not always looking because of interest and sometimes you’re just looking...
Because their inbox fills up with "I see you looked at my profile, fancy a fuck, here's a picture of my cock" messages...."
Exactly this. I never used to hide and got loads of these messages daily. So now I hide all the time. |
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"A question - why do some people hide the fact that you’ve looked at a profile?
I get you’re not always looking because of interest and sometimes you’re just looking...
Because their inbox fills up with "I see you looked at my profile, fancy a fuck, here's a picture of my cock" messages...."
. Exactly right |
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