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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Sometimes I find i fit someone’s preferences down to the last detail yet still no reply

Confusing much......any similar experiences ladies and gents?

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By *uicy jonesMan over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

All the time ,,, just have to move on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fitting the profile means nothing if they don't fancy you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"All the time ,,, just have to move on "

Yuppp

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get women messaging me all the time that don't meet mine mate, means the good ones miss out

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

"Fitting the profile means nothing if they don't fancy you. "

Lucky for you, I do!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fitting the profile means nothing if they don't fancy you. "

So whats the point of stating features that are preferred makes no sense

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"Sometimes I find i fit someone’s preferences down to the last detail yet still no reply

Confusing much......any similar experiences ladies and gents?

You're reading profiles, that's your first mistake.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sometimes I find i fit someone’s preferences down to the last detail yet still no reply

Confusing much......any similar experiences ladies and gents?

You're reading profiles, that's your first mistake."

How is that a mistake?

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

"Fitting the profile means nothing if they don't fancy you.

So whats the point of stating features that are preferred makes no sense

It makes perfect sense. Just because someone ticks a few boxes it doesn’t mean you want to fuck them. There has to be chemistry too. It’s fundamental.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fitting the profile means nothing if they don't fancy you.

So whats the point of stating features that are preferred makes no sense

Because then the pool to pick from is smaller.

I tend to go for dark haired men, it doesn't mean I fancy ALL dark haired men.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sometimes I find i fit someone’s preferences down to the last detail yet still no reply

Confusing much......any similar experiences ladies and gents?

You're reading profiles, that's your first mistake."

Defo this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fitting the profile means nothing if they don't fancy you.

So whats the point of stating features that are preferred makes no sense

Just because I have a preference for stocky men between 35 and 60 does not mean I'm going to sleep with every stocky man between the age of 35 and 60 that sends me a message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fitting the profile means nothing if they don't fancy you.

So whats the point of stating features that are preferred makes no sense

It makes perfect sense. Just because someone ticks a few boxes it doesn’t mean you want to fuck them. There has to be chemistry too. It’s fundamental. "

Is hard to get chemistry if you don't even get a reply

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fitting the profile means nothing if they don't fancy you.

So whats the point of stating features that are preferred makes no sense

It makes perfect sense. Just because someone ticks a few boxes it doesn’t mean you want to fuck them. There has to be chemistry too. It’s fundamental.

Is hard to get chemistry if you don't even get a reply

They have properly read you profile, seen your photos and thought not for me. So it would be pointless messaging you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fitting the profile means nothing if they don't fancy you.

So whats the point of stating features that are preferred makes no sense

It makes perfect sense. Just because someone ticks a few boxes it doesn’t mean you want to fuck them. There has to be chemistry too. It’s fundamental.

Is hard to get chemistry if you don't even get a reply

But they're not attracted to you so why would they waste time replying?

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By *enn68Man over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Or you're blocked for an unknown reason is that the filters in action ??.

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

"Fitting the profile means nothing if they don't fancy you.

So whats the point of stating features that are preferred makes no sense

It makes perfect sense. Just because someone ticks a few boxes it doesn’t mean you want to fuck them. There has to be chemistry too. It’s fundamental.

Is hard to get chemistry if you don't even get a reply

Just keep trying. (Not with the same person repeatedly- that’s just annoying) but good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fitting the profile means nothing if they don't fancy you.

So whats the point of stating features that are preferred makes no sense

Just because I have a preference for stocky men between 35 and 60 does not mean I'm going to sleep with every stocky man between the age of 35 and 60 that sends me a message. "

Yeh I'm talking about more than one feature your only stating 2 which are fairly broad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Or you're blocked for an unknown reason is that the filters in action ??."

Some people me included use the block button as a filter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fitting the profile means nothing if they don't fancy you.

So whats the point of stating features that are preferred makes no sense

It makes perfect sense. Just because someone ticks a few boxes it doesn’t mean you want to fuck them. There has to be chemistry too. It’s fundamental.

Is hard to get chemistry if you don't even get a reply

Just keep trying. (Not with the same person repeatedly- that’s just annoying) but good luck. "

Yea never message more than 2 times i think lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fitting the profile means nothing if they don't fancy you.

So whats the point of stating features that are preferred makes no sense

Just because I have a preference for stocky men between 35 and 60 does not mean I'm going to sleep with every stocky man between the age of 35 and 60 that sends me a message.

Yeh I'm talking about more than one feature your only stating 2 which are fairly broad"

But it still boils down to the same thing. They don't fancy you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Or you're blocked for an unknown reason is that the filters in action ??.

Some people me included use the block button as a filter. "

I guess I should start using that lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fitting the profile means nothing if they don't fancy you.

So whats the point of stating features that are preferred makes no sense

Just because I have a preference for stocky men between 35 and 60 does not mean I'm going to sleep with every stocky man between the age of 35 and 60 that sends me a message.

Yeh I'm talking about more than one feature your only stating 2 which are fairly broad"

Even if you do tick all the boxes, if I read your profile and look at your photos and I don't fancy you, I'm going to message back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fitting the profile means nothing if they don't fancy you.

So whats the point of stating features that are preferred makes no sense

It makes perfect sense. Just because someone ticks a few boxes it doesn’t mean you want to fuck them. There has to be chemistry too. It’s fundamental.

Is hard to get chemistry if you don't even get a reply

But they're not attracted to you so why would they waste time replying?

I don't reply because I don't get the chance to lol

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By *enn68Man over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Or you're blocked for an unknown reason is that the filters in action ??.

Some people me included use the block button as a filter. "

I see now thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fitting the profile means nothing if they don't fancy you.

So whats the point of stating features that are preferred makes no sense

It makes perfect sense. Just because someone ticks a few boxes it doesn’t mean you want to fuck them. There has to be chemistry too. It’s fundamental.

Is hard to get chemistry if you don't even get a reply

But they're not attracted to you so why would they waste time replying?

I don't reply because I don't get the chance to lol "

Oh I give up... I tried.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Or you're blocked for an unknown reason is that the filters in action ??.

Some people me included use the block button as a filter.

I see now thanks "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fitting the profile means nothing if they don't fancy you.

So whats the point of stating features that are preferred makes no sense

It makes perfect sense. Just because someone ticks a few boxes it doesn’t mean you want to fuck them. There has to be chemistry too. It’s fundamental.

Is hard to get chemistry if you don't even get a reply

But they're not attracted to you so why would they waste time replying?

I don't reply because I don't get the chance to lol "

And they don't reply because they're not interested in you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fitting the profile means nothing if they don't fancy you.

So whats the point of stating features that are preferred makes no sense

It makes perfect sense. Just because someone ticks a few boxes it doesn’t mean you want to fuck them. There has to be chemistry too. It’s fundamental.

Is hard to get chemistry if you don't even get a reply

But they're not attracted to you so why would they waste time replying?

I don't reply because I don't get the chance to lol

And they don't reply because they're not interested in you! "

Yeah i know that however still doesn't make sense why you'd waste time making a profile with all these requirements I've seen people with a shopping list almost.... might aswell just put nothing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like crisps.. Many varieties and flavours.. But just cos you fit the brief doesn't mean I fancy munching your flavour or brand

Good luck

It's a fab world

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By *enn68Man over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Ego takes a bashing but soon as you lose you're ego it's fine

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

Are you still moaning OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I like crisps.. Many varieties and flavours.. But just cos you fit the brief doesn't mean I fancy munching your flavour or brand

Good luck

It's a fab world"

I like the terminology in this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fitting the profile means nothing if they don't fancy you.

So whats the point of stating features that are preferred makes no sense

It makes perfect sense. Just because someone ticks a few boxes it doesn’t mean you want to fuck them. There has to be chemistry too. It’s fundamental.

And everyone assumes that the profile is genuine

Is hard to get chemistry if you don't even get a reply

But they're not attracted to you so why would they waste time replying?

I don't reply because I don't get the chance to lol

And they don't reply because they're not interested in you! "

And everyone assumes that the profile is genuine!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Are you still moaning OP? "

No one is moaning its a simple question

what you on about mate?

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

Wasn't it pick up artist Mystery that said, attraction isn't logical? It's so true.

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

"Are you still moaning OP?

No one is moaning its a simple question

what you on about mate?"

So, are you seriously saying that if you had a list of criteria that you would fuck any woman that met the dozen or so items on your list?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fitting the profile means nothing if they don't fancy you.

So whats the point of stating features that are preferred makes no sense

It makes perfect sense. Just because someone ticks a few boxes it doesn’t mean you want to fuck them. There has to be chemistry too. It’s fundamental.

Is hard to get chemistry if you don't even get a reply

But they're not attracted to you so why would they waste time replying?

I don't reply because I don't get the chance to lol

And they don't reply because they're not interested in you!

Yeah i know that however still doesn't make sense why you'd waste time making a profile with all these requirements I've seen people with a shopping list almost.... might aswell just put nothing"

OK let's pretend I ONLY want to meet dark haired men over 6ft so I put it on my profile. I get 20 dark haired men over 6ft messaging me. I then can look at those and see if I fancy any.

If I don't state a preference I get 300 men of all hair colours and heights mailing me. I then have 15x more profiles to look through and the majority of them don't match what I'm looking for.

Now does it make sense?

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

"Fitting the profile means nothing if they don't fancy you.

So whats the point of stating features that are preferred makes no sense

It makes perfect sense. Just because someone ticks a few boxes it doesn’t mean you want to fuck them. There has to be chemistry too. It’s fundamental.

Is hard to get chemistry if you don't even get a reply

But they're not attracted to you so why would they waste time replying?

I don't reply because I don't get the chance to lol

And they don't reply because they're not interested in you!

Yeah i know that however still doesn't make sense why you'd waste time making a profile with all these requirements I've seen people with a shopping list almost.... might aswell just put nothing

OK let's pretend I ONLY want to meet dark haired men over 6ft so I put it on my profile. I get 20 dark haired men over 6ft messaging me. I then can look at those and see if I fancy any.

If I don't state a preference I get 300 men of all hair colours and heights mailing me. I then have 15x more profiles to look through and the majority of them don't match what I'm looking for.

Now does it make sense? "

It’s always made sense!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fitting the profile means nothing if they don't fancy you.

So whats the point of stating features that are preferred makes no sense

It makes perfect sense. Just because someone ticks a few boxes it doesn’t mean you want to fuck them. There has to be chemistry too. It’s fundamental.

Is hard to get chemistry if you don't even get a reply

But they're not attracted to you so why would they waste time replying?

I don't reply because I don't get the chance to lol

And they don't reply because they're not interested in you!

Yeah i know that however still doesn't make sense why you'd waste time making a profile with all these requirements I've seen people with a shopping list almost.... might aswell just put nothing

OK let's pretend I ONLY want to meet dark haired men over 6ft so I put it on my profile. I get 20 dark haired men over 6ft messaging me. I then can look at those and see if I fancy any.

If I don't state a preference I get 300 men of all hair colours and heights mailing me. I then have 15x more profiles to look through and the majority of them don't match what I'm looking for.

Now does it make sense?

It’s always made sense!

Thank god! I thought I was losing my mind there

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I don't reply because I don't get the chance to lol

And they don't reply because they're not interested in you!

Yeah i know that however still doesn't make sense why you'd waste time making a profile with all these requirements I've seen people with a shopping list almost.... might aswell just put nothing"

And those requirements may be very valid and hold good for anyone they *do* meet - but ultimately the thing that can't be defined in profile text is the subjective thing of attraction and if they don't find an attraction to you, you could meet every objective requirement they list but still not be what they are looking for.

To turn this around a little - are you saying that every single 18-55 year old woman (which appears to be your only listed requirement) you would want to meet? If you answer anything but "no" you're either lying or one of the "any hole's a goal" crowd - and if the answer is "no" (as it will be) what's the difference?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest. "

A few comments on here I would find rude tbh and it seems there's alot of people speaking to him as if he's an idiot.

A simple she don't fancy you move on there's plenty more fish in the sea from one person would suffice

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Are you still moaning OP?

No one is moaning its a simple question

what you on about mate?

So, are you seriously saying that if you had a list of criteria that you would fuck any woman that met the dozen or so items on your list? "

I would probably atleast reply seen as its so diluted down with so many requirements

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

A few comments on here I would find rude tbh and it seems there's alot of people speaking to him as if he's an idiot.

A simple she don't fancy you move on there's plenty more fish in the sea from one person would suffice

I agree I find a lot of people on the forums are into bullying but it doesn’t bother me tbh

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By *averockrockMan over a year ago

swindon

Let them be and move on I guess!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

A few comments on here I would find rude tbh and it seems there's alot of people speaking to him as if he's an idiot.

A simple she don't fancy you move on there's plenty more fish in the sea from one person would suffice

But he replies and asks more questions, are we just to ignore him then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I tend to like the same attributes in guys so I give loose criteria of beards, big arms and thighs. I'm kinda picturing Jason Momoa when I say that, but Pavarotti could just as easily tick those boxes

. It's not an exact science whether you're going to fancy someone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest. "

You blocked me for what reason? Yet your still here on the forum commenting?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

A few comments on here I would find rude tbh and it seems there's alot of people speaking to him as if he's an idiot.

A simple she don't fancy you move on there's plenty more fish in the sea from one person would suffice

I agree I find a lot of people on the forums are into bullying but it doesn’t bother me tbh"

I just think people like going with the crowd and jumping on the bandwagon mate good to see you don't take it to heart

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I tend to like the same attributes in guys so I give loose criteria of beards, big arms and thighs. I'm kinda picturing Jason Momoa when I say that, but Pavarotti could just as easily tick those boxes

. It's not an exact science whether you're going to fancy someone."

Hahah this tickled me ahhaah true true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

A few comments on here I would find rude tbh and it seems there's alot of people speaking to him as if he's an idiot.

A simple she don't fancy you move on there's plenty more fish in the sea from one person would suffice

But he replies and asks more questions, are we just to ignore him then? "

It seems so but them as this whole thread is about people not replying to him, that would be wrong to. I don't understand what the issue is. You asked a question and got perfectly decent replies.

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

"Are you still moaning OP?

No one is moaning its a simple question

what you on about mate?

So, are you seriously saying that if you had a list of criteria that you would fuck any woman that met the dozen or so items on your list?

I would probably atleast reply seen as its so diluted down with so many requirements

Maybe that’s because your a nice guy and you would even if you looked at their pictures and you thought they were minging. But maybe if you got 200 messages a day, which is what some women on here get, you might just not reply to all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

You blocked me for what reason? Yet your still here on the forum commenting? "

Just because I don't want messages from single men does not mean I can't comment on the forums!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

A few comments on here I would find rude tbh and it seems there's alot of people speaking to him as if he's an idiot.

A simple she don't fancy you move on there's plenty more fish in the sea from one person would suffice

I agree I find a lot of people on the forums are into bullying but it doesn’t bother me tbh

I just think people like going with the crowd and jumping on the bandwagon mate good to see you don't take it to heart "

Yep I see a lot of men doing it just trying to get popular with the ladies at someone else's expense I think.... ‘ooo yes if I with agree everything she says hopefully she will private message me after the forum ends’ lol pathetic people

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

You blocked me for what reason? Yet your still here on the forum commenting?

Just because I don't want messages from single men does not mean I can't comment on the forums! "

So you've blocked every single man on the site?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

A few comments on here I would find rude tbh and it seems there's alot of people speaking to him as if he's an idiot.

A simple she don't fancy you move on there's plenty more fish in the sea from one person would suffice

I agree I find a lot of people on the forums are into bullying but it doesn’t bother me tbh

I just think people like going with the crowd and jumping on the bandwagon mate good to see you don't take it to heart

Or maybe they just share the same opinion?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Are you still moaning OP?

No one is moaning its a simple question

what you on about mate?

So, are you seriously saying that if you had a list of criteria that you would fuck any woman that met the dozen or so items on your list?

I would probably atleast reply seen as its so diluted down with so many requirements

Agreed I can accept its probably way more effort for women messaging than it is for men by the sheer volume alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

A few comments on here I would find rude tbh and it seems there's alot of people speaking to him as if he's an idiot.

A simple she don't fancy you move on there's plenty more fish in the sea from one person would suffice

I agree I find a lot of people on the forums are into bullying but it doesn’t bother me tbh

I just think people like going with the crowd and jumping on the bandwagon mate good to see you don't take it to heart

Or maybe they just share the same opinion?

Could be could be but I see it for to often....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Let them be and move on I guess!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

You blocked me for what reason? Yet your still here on the forum commenting?

Just because I don't want messages from single men does not mean I can't comment on the forums!

So you've blocked every single man on the site? "

I don't need to justify myself and yes Iv blocked every single man from this site messaging me.

I was trying to answer your question OP and you have turned this into something else.

I tried now I'm out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

A few comments on here I would find rude tbh and it seems there's alot of people speaking to him as if he's an idiot.

A simple she don't fancy you move on there's plenty more fish in the sea from one person would suffice

I agree I find a lot of people on the forums are into bullying but it doesn’t bother me tbh

I just think people like going with the crowd and jumping on the bandwagon mate good to see you don't take it to heart

Or maybe they just share the same opinion?

Could be could be but I see it for to often...."

People with similar values probably agree on a lot of issues.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

A few comments on here I would find rude tbh and it seems there's alot of people speaking to him as if he's an idiot.

A simple she don't fancy you move on there's plenty more fish in the sea from one person would suffice

I agree I find a lot of people on the forums are into bullying but it doesn’t bother me tbh

I just think people like going with the crowd and jumping on the bandwagon mate good to see you don't take it to heart

Or perhaps those men don't think that way at all, but just have a better idea about how the site works based on their own experience and are trying to impart some of that knowledge in a reasonable way to try and help you understand too

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

Well this escalated quickly!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

You blocked me for what reason? Yet your still here on the forum commenting?

Just because I don't want messages from single men does not mean I can't comment on the forums!

So you've blocked every single man on the site?

I don't need to justify myself and yes Iv blocked every single man from this site messaging me.

I was trying to answer your question OP and you have turned this into something else.

I tried now I'm out. "

Yeh right you've blocked every single male

dug yourself a hole to deep.... bye bye with your negativity

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

A few comments on here I would find rude tbh and it seems there's alot of people speaking to him as if he's an idiot.

A simple she don't fancy you move on there's plenty more fish in the sea from one person would suffice

I agree I find a lot of people on the forums are into bullying but it doesn’t bother me tbh

I just think people like going with the crowd and jumping on the bandwagon mate good to see you don't take it to heart

All opinions, experiences and constructive feedback is always welcome

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

You blocked me for what reason? Yet your still here on the forum commenting?

Just because I don't want messages from single men does not mean I can't comment on the forums!

So you've blocked every single man on the site?

I don't need to justify myself and yes Iv blocked every single man from this site messaging me.

I was trying to answer your question OP and you have turned this into something else.

I tried now I'm out.

Yeh right you've blocked every single male

dug yourself a hole to deep.... bye bye with your negativity "

Users can set their filters to prevent single men from messaging them - which is what LJ was saying she had done and is slightly different from blocking individuals from viewing her profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well this escalated quickly!"

Lol it did indeed and now its de-escalated ahah

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"Sometimes I find i fit someone’s preferences down to the last detail yet still no reply

Confusing much......any similar experiences ladies and gents?

You're reading profiles, that's your first mistake.

How is that a mistake? "

I was just being flippant. Go to clubs or even group Socials, save your time and don't bother trying to meet through fab. Not to start with anyway.

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By *ust cheerfulMan over a year ago

Nottingham

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

A few comments on here I would find rude tbh and it seems there's alot of people speaking to him as if he's an idiot.

A simple she don't fancy you move on there's plenty more fish in the sea from one person would suffice

I agree I find a lot of people on the forums are into bullying but it doesn’t bother me tbh

I just think people like going with the crowd and jumping on the bandwagon mate good to see you don't take it to heart

Frankly

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

You blocked me for what reason? Yet your still here on the forum commenting?

Just because I don't want messages from single men does not mean I can't comment on the forums!

So you've blocked every single man on the site?

I don't need to justify myself and yes Iv blocked every single man from this site messaging me.

I was trying to answer your question OP and you have turned this into something else.

I tried now I'm out.

Yeh right you've blocked every single male

dug yourself a hole to deep.... bye bye with your negativity

Users can set their filters to prevent single men from messaging them - which is what LJ was saying she had done and is slightly different from blocking individuals from viewing her profile

No I specifically said ‘blocked’ and so did she which is pretty much impossible if you ask me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sometimes I find i fit someone’s preferences down to the last detail yet still no reply

Confusing much......any similar experiences ladies and gents?

You're reading profiles, that's your first mistake.

How is that a mistake?

I was just being flippant. Go to clubs or even group Socials, save your time and don't bother trying to meet through fab. Not to start with anyway."

Ive met people already through fab but I've been told this is the best way to meet more and more people

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"Sometimes I find i fit someone’s preferences down to the last detail yet still no reply

Confusing much......any similar experiences ladies and gents?

You're reading profiles, that's your first mistake.

How is that a mistake?

I was just being flippant. Go to clubs or even group Socials, save your time and don't bother trying to meet through fab. Not to start with anyway.

Ive met people already through fab but I've been told this is the best way to meet more and more people "

Yeah it's not impossible but it is more hard work to begin with.

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

You blocked me for what reason? Yet your still here on the forum commenting?

Just because I don't want messages from single men does not mean I can't comment on the forums!

So you've blocked every single man on the site?

I don't need to justify myself and yes Iv blocked every single man from this site messaging me.

I was trying to answer your question OP and you have turned this into something else.

I tried now I'm out.

Yeh right you've blocked every single male

dug yourself a hole to deep.... bye bye with your negativity

Users can set their filters to prevent single men from messaging them - which is what LJ was saying she had done and is slightly different from blocking individuals from viewing her profile

No I specifically said ‘blocked’ and so did she which is pretty much impossible if you ask me"

Honestly, you're being pretty rude to people now when they have only answered your question.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

You blocked me for what reason? Yet your still here on the forum commenting?

Just because I don't want messages from single men does not mean I can't comment on the forums!

So you've blocked every single man on the site?

I don't need to justify myself and yes Iv blocked every single man from this site messaging me.

I was trying to answer your question OP and you have turned this into something else.

I tried now I'm out.

Yeh right you've blocked every single male

dug yourself a hole to deep.... bye bye with your negativity

Users can set their filters to prevent single men from messaging them - which is what LJ was saying she had done and is slightly different from blocking individuals from viewing her profile

No I specifically said ‘blocked’ and so did she which is pretty much impossible if you ask me"

If you were blocked you wouldn't be able to see her profile at all.

Under "looking for" her profile states not looking for single men, that means she has blocked all single men from messaging her. You see it on quite a few profiles and it'll be the same, no single men can message.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

You blocked me for what reason? Yet your still here on the forum commenting?

Just because I don't want messages from single men does not mean I can't comment on the forums!

So you've blocked every single man on the site?

I don't need to justify myself and yes Iv blocked every single man from this site messaging me.

I was trying to answer your question OP and you have turned this into something else.

I tried now I'm out.

Yeh right you've blocked every single male

dug yourself a hole to deep.... bye bye with your negativity

Users can set their filters to prevent single men from messaging them - which is what LJ was saying she had done and is slightly different from blocking individuals from viewing her profile

No I specifically said ‘blocked’ and so did she which is pretty much impossible if you ask me"

Without wanting to get into semantics (but I will

) - what LJ actually said was "Iv blocked every single man from this site messaging me." - which is exactly as I described - as opposed to her saying "Iv blocked every single man from this site" which is how you took it

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

You blocked me for what reason? Yet your still here on the forum commenting?

Just because I don't want messages from single men does not mean I can't comment on the forums!

So you've blocked every single man on the site?

I don't need to justify myself and yes Iv blocked every single man from this site messaging me.

I was trying to answer your question OP and you have turned this into something else.

I tried now I'm out.

Yeh right you've blocked every single male

dug yourself a hole to deep.... bye bye with your negativity

Users can set their filters to prevent single men from messaging them - which is what LJ was saying she had done and is slightly different from blocking individuals from viewing her profile

No I specifically said ‘blocked’ and so did she which is pretty much impossible if you ask me

If you were blocked you wouldn't be able to see her profile at all.

Unless she has messaged them! Just to be accurate!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

You blocked me for what reason? Yet your still here on the forum commenting?

Just because I don't want messages from single men does not mean I can't comment on the forums!

So you've blocked every single man on the site?

I don't need to justify myself and yes Iv blocked every single man from this site messaging me.

I was trying to answer your question OP and you have turned this into something else.

I tried now I'm out.

Yeh right you've blocked every single male

dug yourself a hole to deep.... bye bye with your negativity

Users can set their filters to prevent single men from messaging them - which is what LJ was saying she had done and is slightly different from blocking individuals from viewing her profile

No I specifically said ‘blocked’ and so did she which is pretty much impossible if you ask me

If you were blocked you wouldn't be able to see her profile at all.

Nono I cant even look at her profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

You blocked me for what reason? Yet your still here on the forum commenting?

Just because I don't want messages from single men does not mean I can't comment on the forums!

So you've blocked every single man on the site?

I don't need to justify myself and yes Iv blocked every single man from this site messaging me.

I was trying to answer your question OP and you have turned this into something else.

I tried now I'm out.

Yeh right you've blocked every single male

dug yourself a hole to deep.... bye bye with your negativity

Users can set their filters to prevent single men from messaging them - which is what LJ was saying she had done and is slightly different from blocking individuals from viewing her profile

No I specifically said ‘blocked’ and so did she which is pretty much impossible if you ask me

If you were blocked you wouldn't be able to see her profile at all.

Nono I cant even look at her profile

But you could before, when this conversation started. I assume she has now actually blocked you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Eye candy welcome to fab mate where everyone has a go at you for asking a question

now you know what it's like here

Noboby has had a go at the OP we have tried to explain the reasons but he's not getting it. Nobody has been rude in the slightest.

You blocked me for what reason? Yet your still here on the forum commenting?

Just because I don't want messages from single men does not mean I can't comment on the forums!

So you've blocked every single man on the site?

I don't need to justify myself and yes Iv blocked every single man from this site messaging me.

I was trying to answer your question OP and you have turned this into something else.

I tried now I'm out.

Yeh right you've blocked every single male

dug yourself a hole to deep.... bye bye with your negativity

Users can set their filters to prevent single men from messaging them - which is what LJ was saying she had done and is slightly different from blocking individuals from viewing her profile

No I specifically said ‘blocked’ and so did she which is pretty much impossible if you ask me

If you were blocked you wouldn't be able to see her profile at all.

Nono I cant even look at her profile

But you could before, when this conversation started. I assume she has now actually blocked you. "

No never seen or met the women before I suppose she blocked me based on my questions or answer who knows.. don't really care tbh

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

A simple she don't fancy you move on there's plenty more fish in the sea from one person would suffice

Threads on the forum would all be empty if only one person was allowed to answer for fear of upsetting someone who isn't getting what is being said

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By *orbidden eastMan over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"Fitting the profile means nothing if they don't fancy you. "

Exactly what she said and also distance. two major factors

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If you were blocked you wouldn't be able to see her profile at all.

Nono I cant even look at her profile

Yeah but she didn't say that she hadn't blocked you individually from viewing her profile also - just that she had blocked all men from messaging her.

But this is going way off track - to come back to your OP - the simple answer, as I said earlier, is that no matter how much you *think* you might be a good match for someone, it ultimately comes down to whether *they* agree that you are and find an attraction also - if they don't there's no obligation to reply, or offer a justification for it

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

To the OP....people have tried to explain to you that even if you tick all boxes on a persons profile, they still may look at your profile and not fancy you , so won't reply.

Move on and choose another profile to mail

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