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By *lackdom1 OP   Man  over a year ago

Ripley

I don’t understand why people can’t just say “ sorry your not my type”

How come I get a wink,, I wink back ,,, they send friends invite...., I accept. I send a well written hello

It gets deleted ????????

I’m so confused

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

They just wanted to be nosey

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By *lackdom1 OP   Man  over a year ago

Ripley

But it ruins self esteem

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By *ark ph0enixWoman  over a year ago

Teesside

Id suggest chat before invite. Saves hurt feelings and nor everyone can be a match x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"They just wanted to be nosey"

Why wink then?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm not sure. Maybe they see your friends photos and decide you are not for them, there could be lots of reasons.

Don't take to heart OP.

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate

They didn't like what they saw in your friends pics.

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"They just wanted to be nosey

Why wink then? "

To get a friend invite so they could see the private pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But it ruins self esteem "

Don’t take it to heart. There’s weird folk everywhere. Don’t let them bother you, or affect your self esteem

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By *lackdom1 OP   Man  over a year ago

Ripley


"They just wanted to be nosey

Why wink then? "

Exactly

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"They didn't like what they saw in your friends pics. "

Delete them from your friends list if you haven't already.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan  over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Welcome to fab and the single male.

Onwards and upwards OP

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But it ruins self esteem "

If it is ruining your self esteem I would say you are approaching it wrong.

It's not personal towards you, most are looking for a very specific type of person.

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By *lackdom1 OP   Man  over a year ago

Ripley


"They didn't like what they saw in your friends pics. "

But they stay there fabbing away????

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It’s not over till they block you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Welcome to fab and the single male.

Onwards and upwards OP"

Just as difficult for women! Just coz we get lots of messages doesn’t mean they are decent ones!!!

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By *lackdom1 OP   Man  over a year ago

Ripley


"But it ruins self esteem

If it is ruining your self esteem I would say you are approaching it wrong.

It's not personal towards you, most are looking for a very specific type of person. "

It’s making me wonder why they stay tho??

If I don’t like someone I say so

Then I delete them as a friend

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"They didn't like what they saw in your friends pics.

But they stay there fabbing away????"

Some people just like to collect friends with no intention of chatting to or meeting them for some reason.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But it ruins self esteem

If it is ruining your self esteem I would say you are approaching it wrong.

It's not personal towards you, most are looking for a very specific type of person.

It’s making me wonder why they stay tho??

If I don’t like someone I say so

Then I delete them as a friend "

How often does this happen OP?

Also maybe more selective of who you accept invites from.

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By *lackdom1 OP   Man  over a year ago

Ripley


"Id suggest chat before invite. Saves hurt feelings and nor everyone can be a match x"

I try that too .......

My mail is still unread lol

Now I don’t mail them first but still it happens???

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By *lackdom1 OP   Man  over a year ago

Ripley


"But it ruins self esteem

Don’t take it to heart. There’s weird folk everywhere. Don’t let them bother you, or affect your self esteem "

I’m not letting it bother me

It’s just so confusing

I’m probably not renewing this time round. Lol

I’m just gonna chill n go clubs

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By *educedWoman  over a year ago

Birmingham

Cos we want to check you out and be sure.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But it ruins self esteem

Don’t take it to heart. There’s weird folk everywhere. Don’t let them bother you, or affect your self esteem

I’m not letting it bother me

It’s just so confusing

I’m probably not renewing this time round. Lol

I’m just gonna chill n go clubs "

That sounds like a brilliant plan.

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By *lackdom1 OP   Man  over a year ago

Ripley


"They didn't like what they saw in your friends pics.

Delete them from your friends list if you haven't already. "

It my circle of fab life that Is it alway ends in deletion and blocking unfortunately

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By *lackdom1 OP   Man  over a year ago

Ripley


"Welcome to fab and the single male.

Onwards and upwards OP

Just as difficult for women! Just coz we get lots of messages doesn’t mean they are decent ones!!! "

I think the decent ones are missed that’s why I only reply or sent an introduction after I’ve accepted their invite but no it just sits for years unread or just gets deleted lol,

I reckon most are men too

Pretending to be couples

Asking me for more videos of me in action???? Strange

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By *lackdom1 OP   Man  over a year ago

Ripley


"But it ruins self esteem

If it is ruining your self esteem I would say you are approaching it wrong.

It's not personal towards you, most are looking for a very specific type of person.

It’s making me wonder why they stay tho??

If I don’t like someone I say so

Then I delete them as a friend

How often does this happen OP?

Also maybe more selective of who you accept invites from. "

It happens every day /week

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By *lackdom1 OP   Man  over a year ago

Ripley


"Cos we want to check you out and be sure. "

Then they should tell me if I’m not their type

Like I do every time too

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By *JsandstockingsCouple  over a year ago

warwickshire


"I don’t understand why people can’t just say “ sorry your not my type”

How come I get a wink,, I wink back ,,, they send friends invite...., I accept. I send a well written hello

It gets deleted ????????

I’m so confused "

Absolutely no excuse for rudeness on here .

We always chat for a while with someone before sending or receiving a FR and even if they’re not our sexual cup of tea we do keep them as friends if we all want to x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don’t understand why people can’t just say “ sorry your not my type”

How come I get a wink,, I wink back ,,, they send friends invite...., I accept. I send a well written hello

It gets deleted ????????

I’m so confused

Absolutely no excuse for rudeness on here .

We always chat for a while with someone before sending or receiving a FR and even if they’re not our sexual cup of tea we do keep them as friends if we all want to x "

It's not rude to delete a message.

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By *agneto.Man  over a year ago

Bham

Probably a guy just wanting to see your friends pics.

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By *lackdom1 OP   Man  over a year ago

Ripley

No it’s not rude to delete a message but if you sent an invite and someone says “thanks “ it’s nice to acknowledge them at least

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By *lackdom1 OP   Man  over a year ago

Ripley


"Probably a guy just wanting to see your friends pics. "

My thoughts exactly

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman  over a year ago

kinky land


"No it’s not rude to delete a message but if you sent an invite and someone says “thanks “ it’s nice to acknowledge them at least "

Is it a couple? Has only 1 half seen it?

Has it been minutes or hours?

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By *lackdom1 OP   Man  over a year ago

Ripley


"No it’s not rude to delete a message but if you sent an invite and someone says “thanks “ it’s nice to acknowledge them at least

Is it a couple? Has only 1 half seen it?

Has it been minutes or hours?"

Weeks n months but last on line 3mins or less

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