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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

The other day, asking " what has Fab done for you?"

Fab has quite possibly saved my life. The forums have got me through some very very dark days

Hopefully most of those are behind me.

Its time for the truth to be told.

And for those Fab people that have supported me, been there for me, made me see that glint of light

I want to say " I am forever indebted to you"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m the same, in a sort of way. My mental health has been on the decline, I can’t get out the house most days and fab sort of keeps me sane. I don’t need to focus on it, I can jump in and out when it suits, there’s no obligation to be here etc. It requires 3% concentration, but yep. Keeps me sane.

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By *uciyassMan over a year ago

sheffield

Ms Sappy. My heart and Best thoughts are with you as always and know this. We may take the piss and be total cunts at Times but there are some of us that use that as a wall to block out things.

Be safe, be careful and breath. Love ya loads Y

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Fab has helped me finalise the decades long work on my mental health. Give me the confidence to believe in myself, to believe that I'm good enough exactly as I am. All of me, including the unladylike sinful sexual side.

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By *uciyassMan over a year ago

sheffield

"Fab has helped me finalise the decades long work on my mental health. Give me the confidence to believe in myself, to believe that I'm good enough exactly as I am. All of me, including the unladylike sinful sexual side."

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By *affeine DuskMan over a year ago

Caerphilly

Well this is all really wonderful to read

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well this is all really wonderful to read

Agreed! Nice seeing the good people can do for others

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Same. Even though some people have actually made me cry in the past with their nastiness, on the whole it’s generally a good place.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fab has changed me, for sure.

And is a bit like a family member, in that you can love and hate them at the same time.

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By *uenevereWoman over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I have often been heartened by the support for others on here.

Yes, there are trolls and some bitchiness, but overall I have found the people of Fab to be lovely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well this is all really wonderful to read

There are some bloody awesome people on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well this is all really wonderful to read

There are some bloody awesome people on here.

There are in deed. Glad you’re doing better now

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Well this is all really wonderful to read

There are some bloody awesome people on here.

Indeed, I'm privileged to know some as online friends and have met a few of them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I met Mr through Fab and made some amazing friends. Had some really horrid experiences through it- the worst being stalked - but on the whole it’s been an awesome experience. Did I mention I met Mr? Haha, that there is why joining Fab is one of the best decisions I ever made xx

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS over a year ago

Stockport

I'd make a list of the amazing people. I don't need to though as you all know already.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

What a wonderful thing to say Sappster - sometimes just knowing others are there, even if you're not interacting with them, is that glint of hope that is needed.

So glad you're getting through it and may that long continue.

You're not the most prolific of posters, nor are you as in your face as some, but you're someone I admire and who makes me grin on a regular basis - you do you well, and don't ever change

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love this...

We've only been here a short while but I can honestly say, my confidence is in the up.

Whether that's down to fab, or whether it's down to sheer determination to get out of the very black hole. It has coincided with joining.

Wishing everyone a happy day.

Her xx

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By *ire_thornMan over a year ago

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This post shows that sometimes you dont necessarily have to know someone in real life to make a difference

The compliment threads are great for helping. You never really know when someone needs to hear something positive. Could be having a really down day and something as simple as.. Hey that color looks really good on you.. Honestly it can make the difference between life and death... Just regular conversation can be all it takes to shine a light on someones darkest day

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

Going from a really shitty place a few weeks ago, fab or should i say some of the people on the forums who I'm looking forward to meeting at some point have stopped me doing my usual and becoming a recluse.

It's given me a lot to look forward to so thankyou you lovely lot

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