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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
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Whoever you have seen on whatever site, you don't tell their partner.
You don't know what's going on in their respective lives; it may be a part they both know about. But it might not!
Blabbing about it, no matter how convoluted you try to make it, can only make things potentially worse now or in the future.
Problem is you've seen her, so that means she could see you in return, if she checks. Her knowing you too, could throw up all sorts of issues including anxiety or stress on her.
Thus, Block Her NOW, and say nothing. |
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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago
near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in |
Maybe message her , saying you know who she is , and say that is an idea you be more discreet or her husband may already ready know ,,, need to find out the full story possible ,,, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I have a dilemma, I've just found my mate from works wife on here, her profile says she's single....
Do I tell him or not?"
Yes but no. Is kinda show him this site. And let him see. |
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Exspose the hoe im sorry but love how these girls say dont say nothing but the moment the shoe on the other foot its diffrent story.. his your friend you said, some friend you are mate, if they into hotwife lifestyles who would be beter to trust than you, do the right thing he probs works his ass off why she bums about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had split from my now ex husband, but hardly anyone on the outside knew.
However, he was controlling as hell.. So when I first went on a site like this one.. a mutual (friend) told him they'd seen me on there.
He ended up cornering me about it? Called me all the names under the sun and threatened to take out kids off of me and go to the police about it.. which caused me all sorts of trauma and had me too scared to do anything online for years!!!
Now my point in telling you this.. is the fact that you don't know what any ones home life is like.
Maybe he knows she's on there and gets off on it. Maybe they've spoken about it and he allows her on there as long as he heard nothing about it, And is too embarrassed to tell his mates about his 'kink' (maybe he's a cuck???) Saying your wife is on a swing site isn't exactly something that's going to come up in polite conversation.
Maybe, speak to the wife about it when you get her on her own for a spare minute? If you absolutely must. See how she responds.
However, I've also been cheated on.. and would never have found out of I hadn't hhave been told by others... but.. if you speak to the husband... and they split up... how would you feel knowing you'd been the catalyst that ruined their marriage ???
But.. there's always the chance that your friend finds out you noticed her on here... and if their relationship spirals.. So will your friendship with him. He'll end up blaming you...
Or.. it's all consensual.. and he gets embarrassed you find out... or she asks you to join... there's a number of possibilities that can happen...
But ultimatly its up to you... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I have a dilemma, I've just found my mate from works wife on here, her profile says she's single....
Do I tell him or not?"
Difficult situation to be in. I wouldn't get involved if I were you, just block her profile & try to forget. Chances are if you recognised her someone else will too. Don't be the messenger. |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
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"So I have a dilemma, I've just found my mate from works wife on here, her profile says she's single....
Do I tell him or not?
Difficult situation to be in. I wouldn't get involved if I were you, just block her profile & try to forget. Chances are if you recognised her someone else will too. Don't be the messenger."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"9 times outa 10 women cheat for emtionals reasons.. men cheat because we can and want to, its sad but true"
I know many women who cheat because they can & want to.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd keep out of it. Block her and move on. I recognise people on here all the time who are married/attached. I have no right to meddle, nor would I want to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've come across people I know with partners. They've completely shit themselves when they've realised who I am. But their secrets safe with me. This is a site where I think number one rule is shut your mouth, close the curtains and move along x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I have a dilemma, I've just found my mate from works wife on here, her profile says she's single....
Do I tell him or not?"
Introduce youre mate to the site..   |
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"9 times outa 10 women cheat for emtionals reasons.. men cheat because we can and want to, its sad but true
I know many women who cheat because they can & want to.
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ye but no1 is talking about ur cirlce of friends hahaha im talking about the majority of women.. i belive we all equal but men and women aint the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I have a dilemma, I've just found my mate from works wife on here, her profile says she's single....
Do I tell him or not?"
Look at her profile every day. Then if you're in a social situation with your mate and his wife, pull out your erect cock and nod down so she looks at it. She'll recognise it from here as the one that's always noseying at her pics and the cats out the bag. Then you can let her decide the next move. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If he's actually a mate (as in, you are a significant part of each others lives) then yeh, obviously tell him. You'd want him to do the same and if he's aware of it then he can either own it or make his excuses.
If he's just some guy from work then no, there's no good reason to blunder in to his life after sharing not much more than a fag and a sandwich together and start telling him about his business. |
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A lot of womens profiles have men, not women, behind them, so it could be your mate.
Generally it's better not to interfere and to retain discretion. It's possibly different if it's a close relative or friends, where you find something dangerous that's happening. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How close are you?
If he's more of an acquaintance, I'd say leave it be.
If he's a really good mate, I think he should know. Like others have said, maybe he knows?!
Tricky one though... good luck in whatever you decide to do x Her  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had similar at work i found a colleagues missus on loads of different local slags sights lol.
We didnt tell him as for all we knew he might have known.
Its a difficult ennit mate ..him |
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Tricky one, I guess we'd all want to know if our other halves were cheating.
There's been alot of sound advice above, depends on the friendship, if it's a life long school friend you've known from childhood I'd be very tempted to have his back.
Most cheats eventually leave tell tale signs, he'll confide in you if he suspects and that's when you could bring it up.
Very tough one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had similar at work i found a colleagues missus on loads of different local slags sights lol.
We didnt tell him as for all we knew he might have known.
Its a difficult ennit mate ..him "
Just curious what’s a “slag site” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No its their business. Block & Leave her be."
This..you re damned if you do and damned if you don't if it's found out you know or knew or told them..blame is passed around too easily..stay out of it imo  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No its their business. Block & Leave her be.
This..you re damned if you do and damned if you don't if it's found out you know or knew or told them..blame is passed around too easily..stay out of it imo "
My thoughts exactly |
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