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Don't talk about anything sexual. Have something to talk about that's interesting and doesn't show your goal is to shag somebody. Enjoy chatting with somebody and build up a rapport. Once you have done that and you get on well, you have a solid grounding on which you can take further steps.
All the best connections we have made have not involved talking about sex. They have all been with people whose company we enjoy. With any of them, if something sexual happens then that's great, but making it our objective might imply that really that's our motivation for talking with them in the first place, and that has never been the case. |
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over a year ago
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"I normally sneak up behind them and hang my cock over there forehead 
This is how D wakes me after an afternoon nap!  
Jo.Xx "
like chinese sandwiches its the future  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I listen to their voice and then try to sound just like them some times I will try to copy their facial expressions when I'm doing it. That's how I try my impressions |
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"Is it softly softly to get to know someone ...or just throw it out there that they look so hot ...."
Be yourself, do what you feel is best. If your first impression is based on a falsehood you won't be able to keep it up |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I don't try to make a good impression. I'm just me you either like or loathe me "
Exactly this - I don't "try" anything, I'm just me - no pretence, no trying to be something I'm not, what you see is what you get, take me or leave me - if we get on and people want to get to know me better, then great, if we don't then not a problem.
I think the problem *some* people here face is they do try too hard to be something to everyone, and end up being nothing to anybody as a result. Just be yourself, it's who and what you are |
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"I don't try to make a good impression. I'm just me you either like or loathe me
Exactly this - I don't "try" anything, I'm just me - no pretence, no trying to be something I'm not, what you see is what you get, take me or leave me - if we get on and people want to get to know me better, then great, if we don't then not a problem.
I think the problem *some* people here face is they do try too hard to be something to everyone, and end up being nothing to anybody as a result. Just be yourself, it's who and what you are "
I think there are so many threads complaining about how single men approach people that it must leave a lot of guys wondering if there's some special way you're supposed to do things.
I agree that being yourself is the best way forward though |
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