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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Of late, I’ve really been thinking about what my sexuality would be classed as.
Honestly, I don’t find men appealing to look at. When I’m out and about, I’ll never look at another man in that way. Girls on the other hand, I’ll be trying to catch eyes with all the time.
But here’s where it gets tough. I love cock. Like actually love it. When I have some alone time, I always put on shemale or gay porn. Never do I watch straight porn.
I’ve met a couple of guys in my time but I’m never really interested in kissing or talking. I just want to get on my knees and either suck them off or have them slide into me.
Now my ultimate fantasy is to have a hot, top, shemale as my regular fuck buddy, but does that make me straight, bi or even gay?
Who knows?! |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I don't really think it matters but if it's important to you I would say you are bi.
I understand you don't want to have a loving relationship with a man, but as you are attracted to men, I feel that makes you bi. Whatever you are enjoy! |
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Sexuality is a spectrum and you're somewhere in the middle of it. I wouldn't worry too much about putting a label to it. I use bisexual but I don't think it explains the full complexity of my sexuality. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Does it matter do you need a label?
Exactly what I was going to say. "
No, I guess not. I just always think “I would never come out as not straight because I don’t feel like I do fancy ‘men’” |
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By (user no longer on site)
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In real terms you're a heterosexual man who likes having sex with men. If you couldn't have a relationship with a man you're not bisexual. In terms of Fab you're bi. It's just shorthand. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just for the purpose of being honest on here and letting others know, I'd say you are past the curious stage and now bi.
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Yeah, I’d say I’m past the curious stage because I’ve had sex with both males and ts/tv/cds and know I enjoy that feeling. It’s just the not fancying a man’s face that I always find strange. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In real terms you're a heterosexual man who likes having sex with men. If you couldn't have a relationship with a man you're not bisexual. In terms of Fab you're bi. It's just shorthand. "
I like this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Like my Uncle Fredrick used to say, no such thing as chicks with dicks, just guys with tits.
He was a different generation though"
And yet he wasn't wrong 
You're bi OP =) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In real terms you're a heterosexual man who likes having sex with men. If you couldn't have a relationship with a man you're not bisexual. In terms of Fab you're bi. It's just shorthand.
I like this "
My partner and I are the same. It's so much more common than people think especially in men. I love having sex with women but I could never imagine falling in love with a woman. But here it just means you have sex with both. And hopefully have a better time for it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In real terms you're a heterosexual man who likes having sex with men. If you couldn't have a relationship with a man you're not bisexual. In terms of Fab you're bi. It's just shorthand.
I like this
My partner and I are the same. It's so much more common than people think especially in men. I love having sex with women but I could never imagine falling in love with a woman. But here it just means you have sex with both. And hopefully have a better time for it "
Amen to that. Thanks for your words |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just for the purpose of being honest on here and letting others know, I'd say you are past the curious stage and now bi.
Yeah, I’d say I’m past the curious stage because I’ve had sex with both males and ts/tv/cds and know I enjoy that feeling. It’s just the not fancying a man’s face that I always find strange. "
I'm the same as you, as are plenty of other men. I don't fancy men, I just play with them every now and again.
I feel straight. I don't feel the need to come out or identify myself as anything. But on here a label is needed I think so technically I'm bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Like my Uncle Fredrick used to say, no such thing as chicks with dicks, just guys with tits.
He was a different generation though"
Your uncle Fredrick nicked that saying from Ted  |
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"In real terms you're a heterosexual man who likes having sex with men. If you couldn't have a relationship with a man you're not bisexual. In terms of Fab you're bi. It's just shorthand. "
I wouldn't say not wanting a romantic relationship with the opposite sex means you're not bisexual. Lots of bisexual women don't date other women. Sexual attraction and romantic attraction don't always align. You can get asexual people who still experience romantic attraction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Like my Uncle Fredrick used to say, no such thing as chicks with dicks, just guys with tits.
He was a different generation though
Your uncle Fredrick nicked that saying from Ted "
Ssshhhhh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Of late, I’ve really been thinking about what my sexuality would be classed as.
Honestly, I don’t find men appealing to look at. When I’m out and about, I’ll never look at another man in that way. Girls on the other hand, I’ll be trying to catch eyes with all the time.
But here’s where it gets tough. I love cock. Like actually love it. When I have some alone time, I always put on shemale or gay porn. Never do I watch straight porn.
I’ve met a couple of guys in my time but I’m never really interested in kissing or talking. I just want to get on my knees and either suck them off or have them slide into me.
Now my ultimate fantasy is to have a hot, top, shemale as my regular fuck buddy, but does that make me straight, bi or even gay?
Who knows?! "
It makes you you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In real terms you're a heterosexual man who likes having sex with men. If you couldn't have a relationship with a man you're not bisexual. In terms of Fab you're bi. It's just shorthand.
I wouldn't say not wanting a romantic relationship with the opposite sex means you're not bisexual. Lots of bisexual women don't date other women. Sexual attraction and romantic attraction don't always align. You can get asexual people who still experience romantic attraction."
I'm not bisexual because I have romantic or emotional attraction to women. Identifying as one in society wouldn't feel right. Society recognises who you love, marry etc. Not who you fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In real terms you're a heterosexual man who likes having sex with men. If you couldn't have a relationship with a man you're not bisexual. In terms of Fab you're bi. It's just shorthand.
I wouldn't say not wanting a romantic relationship with the opposite sex means you're not bisexual. Lots of bisexual women don't date other women. Sexual attraction and romantic attraction don't always align. You can get asexual people who still experience romantic attraction.
I'm not bisexual because I have romantic or emotional attraction to women. Identifying as one in society wouldn't feel right. Society recognises who you love, marry etc. Not who you fuck. "
No* attraction |
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