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is there really an excuse for not having a verification if you really want one?
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With so many people banging on about how hard it is to get verified, when there are so many social or club events happening dotted around the UK, have they got a valid excuse or is it down to laziness? |
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over a year ago
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"With so many people banging on about how hard it is to get verified, when there are so many social or club events happening dotted around the UK, have they got a valid excuse or is it down to laziness?"
Anyone that can make the effort to get to a club or social will get a verification, so it's not really difficult. |
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You're right, if it's that important to people, one night in a club and you could walk away with a dozen veris.
Not sure it's really laziness or not. A lot of people don't seem interested in the club scene, or really want an experienced person / couple to take them. And for single guys, obviously the price is high. So nerves, price, lack of interest.. they all come into it as well as potential laziness.
There's also socials, which happen all across the countries.
If it's important enough, it's easily remedied. It's moaning about something that's completely in their hands. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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Some people aren't interested in the club or organised social side of fab. I wouldn't have gone to one just to get verified. Then again I never complained about being unverified when I was. |
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I was in a club on Saturday night, and out of all the people I met in there, only one person has given me a veri, so just going to a club for veris isn’t guaranteed. It would be far easier to get in the chat rooms here, and gain a webcam veri  |
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"With so many people banging on about how hard it is to get verified, when there are so many social or club events happening dotted around the UK, have they got a valid excuse or is it down to laziness?"
Laziness and people expecting it to land o |
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I have verifications but what about people like myself that has children and runs a business?
I'm a single dad of 5 children and I know getting to a club or a party can be very difficult.
I've had a few invites and have had to turn them down as getting a babysitter is almost impossible.
Yes some people are lazy but it's not always black and white  |
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"I was in a club on Saturday night, and out of all the people I met in there, only one person has given me a veri, so just going to a club for veris isn’t guaranteed. It would be far easier to get in the chat rooms here, and gain a webcam veri "
But you did get one. So if someone had zero, that's a great first veri for em.
And most clubs will verify, especially newbies. |
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"I was in a club on Saturday night, and out of all the people I met in there, only one person has given me a veri, so just going to a club for veris isn’t guaranteed. It would be far easier to get in the chat rooms here, and gain a webcam veri "
The club owners are usually more than happy to verify people if they ask |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's too big a question.
Depending where you live, if you work shifts, if you can afford to, if you can get a babysitter/carer etc
It could simply be harder for other people "
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Those that tend to moan about not having a veri are those that expect them to land in their lap and who don't really "get" the site and the way it works, and so are unlikely to be the type to take the steps to get one.
Whilst veris *can* be an indicator of being genuine, they're not the be all and end all some people make them out to be either. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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I think if people really want verified then they'll put in the effort to get one whether that by going to a club or having a social.
I do think some also occasionally use the 'I need a verification' line as an attempt to get a meet.
As far as verifications go I think a couple of real life verifications, even if just from socials, are of far more value than dozens of veris via cam.
All that said, I am not verified. That's from choice though and for personal reasons.
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"With so many people banging on about how hard it is to get verified, when there are so many social or club events happening dotted around the UK, have they got a valid excuse or is it down to laziness?"
Yes, some men have valid excuses; some guys aren't interested in clubs. Clubs may work for a lot of women, but they don't work for a lot of men.
Some people just don't verify others. It just happens. A guy could meet 3 or 4 women and not get any verification. Some people simply don't consider it to be important. I've met loads who don't verify, and really, I don't expect them to!
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"I have verifications but what about people like myself that has children and runs a business?
I'm a single dad of 5 children and I know getting to a club or a party can be very difficult.
I've had a few invites and have had to turn them down as getting a babysitter is almost impossible.
Yes some people are lazy but it's not always black and white "
If you can't get out to a social how will you meet someone? |
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We won't meet unverified due to fakes,being verified really helps,why join a site and after months of being on moan of lack of meets,some can't be bothered to fill their profile in,like stated above many ways to do it so no excuse, |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I have verifications but what about people like myself that has children and runs a business?
I'm a single dad of 5 children and I know getting to a club or a party can be very difficult.
I've had a few invites and have had to turn them down as getting a babysitter is almost impossible.
Yes some people are lazy but it's not always black and white
If you can't get out to a social how will you meet someone?"
Organised socials are at set dates and times, I can arrange to meet an individual at a time convenient to me. |
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