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The one that got away
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First buyer I met and the reason I got into purchasing - I just wanted to sit wherever he was and gaze at his magnificent perfection.
I was 22, he was 31. He wore pristine persil-white shirts, perfectly ironed, with a selection of lovely ties.
I wasn't sure whether I fancied him or his shirts.
Turned out he was living with his mum and she did his laundry, so really it was she that I fancied.
Three years ago he joined a company I was working with, and turned out to be a complete fuckwit. Honestly, I don't know what 22 year old me was thinking (although in fairness, I was making a shit-ton of terrible decisions when I was 22, fair play).
I was devastated by his fuckwittery because he'd become a staple of my masturbatory fantasies, even after all this time. Sigh. |
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over a year ago
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6ft 4 of rugby playing public schoolboy. Without question the most dangerous and powerful man I've ever met. With me so gentle and considerate and tentative, he wouldn't do anything until he'd made sure it was OK. I knew it was never going to happen but I wanted it so badly. He showed me some of his vulnerability and I knew how happy I could make him but I knew his life would take him abroad and it did. Not a regret because I'm still so glad I met him but a pang, for sure. He was something special. |
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The gorgeous lady I'm with now.
We fell for each other 18 years ago after fooling around with each other but didn't have the bollocks to say how I felt and ended up running away. She then got hold of me after 15 years of no contact! It took 3 days to answer that message as I knew it would change my life. We both had come out of failed marriages. But every aspect of my life changed answering that message and I've never looked back since.
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Sarah from Spain. She was beautiful.
She tried to show me she was really interested but I was very naïve and it was at a time of my life when I was convinced women had zero interested in me so I didn't notice her advances.
Luke |
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over a year ago
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Myself, sometimes I lose her to others who will take advantage of my submission and vulnerability but I always find her & we laugh & become used and vulnerable again  |
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My first crush, love, whatever you want to call her. Met her at the age of 10, I was always too scared to do anything about it and put her on a pedestal as you do when you’re at school.
Reconnected when we were both going through bad times, when possibly we shouldn’t have...but timing hasn’t been right since and although I’m single, it seems she’s really happy now. So that means more to me than getting back in touch for my own selfish reasons. |
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I was 15 or 16 and seeing this girl I had a crush on for ages at school .
We got on magnificently and one day her entire family moved almost overnight .
I've not heard a thing from her since and if course this was long before mobiles and Bookface  |
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over a year ago
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His name was Ace, he was such a bad boy, but I was a good girl so we didn’t do more than kiss, so he dumped me for a girl who would put out. Years later I saw him again, he’d become a dick! Tried chatting me up in a club, went on about regrets etc, as I was leaving he got all cringeworthy about how he was looking at my ass, so I told him to watch it as it walked away, haha x haven’t seen him since, so I guess he did xx |
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A girl called Stephanie I was with back in 2007-2008, my god she was gorgeous, funny, naughty, passionate, we totally clicked and I've never felt like that about anyone else before or since. Alas I was dumped when she went to work abroad for 8 months and met someone else. She's now living on the other side of the world and married with kids so that ship has fully sailed. |
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over a year ago
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A woman from Plymouth I got dealt close to we had 1 night of fun then she had to leave Plymouth a d get away as her older sister was an escorts and her pimp was trying to bully my ladie into it. I was going to kick off and tey to put a stop to it but she said that this person and his people are nasty people and it's better for everyone of she just got away. We stayed in touch for a couple of years but last time I spoke she was a model in london I havnt seen her or spoke in years but I often wonder what happened to her |
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over a year ago
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My church best friend and boyfriend at the age of 10. He was in the year above so when I started the same secondary school we reverted back to friends. At 15 he started seeing my best (girl) friend who was sexually active and things were never the same again |
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over a year ago
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A friend of mine, I split from my husband the first time, he came along for a few months, first other man id been with in 7yrs, feelings grew but I went back to my husband (silly me)
1 year later when we split for good, my friend no longer interested, he is now with someone and I still wonder what would have been if I had chosen him to start with |
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Was a childhood friend - back when I was reckless and careless towards women.
She was obsessed with me, but I treated her like a fun game, went on for 2-3 years. Perfect body, everything I liked.
But I was young & silly - she got fed up & is now engaged to a guy that she’s been with for a good few years now!
Will see each other in the shop every few months she comes back to visit family - chemistry is still the same as it was. |
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over a year ago
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"We were awesome together but he didn't want a steady relationship, he wasnt ready 
So he turned me down. "
I had one of those not so long ago, totally spoiled me rotten, knew what he was doing but when I admitted my feelings he slammed the door in my face... soul destroying at the time.
Thankfully that ship has now sailed and I sank the fucker 
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over a year ago
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Gorgeous bloke, amazing lover, for whom the attraction of living on the Med was stronger than that of living with me. I played it too cool.
He's unhappily living with a woman he met whilst abroad, but with three small children so can't escape even though he says he'd like to.
Oh well. C'est la vie... |
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"A friend of mine, I split from my husband the first time, he came along for a few months, first other man id been with in 7yrs, feelings grew but I went back to my husband (silly me)
1 year later when we split for good, my friend no longer interested, he is now with someone and I still wonder what would have been if I had chosen him to start with "
Men hey |
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Her name was Ruth, a teacher I met 10 years ago. We went out for 6 months which is the longest I've ever dated anyone. She was lovely and it was my mistake it ended, but it must not have been meant to be(is what I tell myself)  |
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Laurence, a 34 year old personal fitness trainer in Paris. She was the size of Kylie and fucking gorgeous. 13 years younger than me. We dated for a year. She was desperate for a child as at 34 her body clock was ticking. I wasn’t in a position for more kids so we split up. 14 years on I still miss her, think of her lots and whenever I’m back in Paris I fantasise that we bump into each other. Lovely memories of someone very special indeed. |
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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago
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For the last 3 years in my old job I had the biggest crush on this Asian woman on my team. She did not like me very much. Or she did like me but that made her shy around me. Thats what a colleague told me. This woman became my muse. I've written an albums worth songs and slowly writing a novel; no one else has ever inspired me. I saw an interview with Donovan on Jules Holland and he spoke of his wife as his'muse for the last 35 years.' I guess thats what I wanted.
Last year we got made redundant. She was the last person I saw on our last day, we took the same train home but I couldnt bring myself to go talk to her. When I got off at Oxford Circus i ran down to where she was sitting by the train door, quickly said good bye and walked away. I had one last chance that day and she was actually being nice to me and now I cant find her anywhere. |
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Hmmm,well I'm just so glad that Mrs. Bawtry didn't get away and that I was lucky enough for me to be the one she wanted to be with.
I've had a couple of get aways over the years.
In '75/'76 a girl from Scunthorpe called Claire who was friends with my best (girl) friend from art college, and the best looking girl in our Junior School, a young lady called Susan.
I bumped into her 29 years after we'd left Junior school and was too tongue tied to go up and say hello to her, and she'd matured into an incredibly sexy 40 year old. |
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When I (Mr) first went to live in Spain (before I met Mrs H) I worked up in Benidorm for a while.
I worked quite closely with a girl and we became good friends but nothing sexual at all happened between us. She was quite a bit younger than me and drop dead gorgeous.
When the job came to an end she was returning to the UK and I was going back down the coast. We said our goodbyes a few days before she left and I thought that would be that.
A few days later I woke up after a quite boozy night out and when I checked my phone there was a text from her. She asked me if I would like to join her for her last evening in Spain.
My first reaction was "oh fucking yes" but then I was pole axed when I realised she had sent it the night before and was by now on her way back to the UK.
I tried to phone her nearly all day and even a few times in the following days. All I can assume is that she must have switched off her Spanish phone at the airport and I never spoke to her or heard from her again. Or maybe she was just a bit pissed off with me thinking I had ignored her.
Whichever way around it was I still think of her as the one that got away, Maybe it would have only been a one night stand, or maybe not. Who knows?
If you are reading this (C) I really wasn't ignoring you. |
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The girl I met in college who was a partner of a friend of mine at the time.
He let me bring her home on the bus one evening to keep her company while he was still at work.
She was very insistent on showing me the stuff she brought home from the adult shop for her partner.
Nothing happened from it but I enjoyed the time with her. Maybe it was a test? |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
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"We were awesome together but he didn't want a steady relationship, he wasnt ready
So he turned me down.
I had one of those not so long ago, totally spoiled me rotten, knew what he was doing but when I admitted my feelings he slammed the door in my face... soul destroying at the time.
Thankfully that ship has now sailed and I sank the fucker
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Take the control back, I like that! Xx |
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Seriously though, the one I wanted to keep, I still have 
