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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I literally try to do as little planning as possible as I love being spontaneous and impulsive
This comes with a cost though its either really shit outcome or extremely good no in-between
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Planned for me. I like to be freshly showered, make sure I'm wearing nice underwear and done my hair and make up. Straight from work etc just wouldn't feel right for me. |
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Oh, I just can't do planning. My life twists and turns in all sorts of directions and I just can't do advance meet appointments. I like spontaneous I by that I mean the same day, not necessarily in the next hour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a planner. I like to have loose plans in place and then be flexible how I work round it.
I feel I can't relax without plans.
I remember one time with beast we were planning for some outside play (well secluded) and he laughed because I arrived with a blanket and wipes. I can't do spontaneous |
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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago
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"Planned if I need to look like this or can do spontaneous as long as you dont expect to see me in a dress or make up.
Depends on who with and distance as much as anything else."
I don't mean like that I would plan a meet so sabrina can dress but when I had a mistress she knew I didn't want to know what she had planned for me any time we met up.
But then I trusted her so much and she never ever let me down xx |
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I like to plan far enough in advance that I can take care of personal grooming, but I don't plan what exactly we should do as it varies depending on partner and mood - what works one day, with one person, may not be so great another day, or with someone else.
There's room for both planning and spontaneity. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I like to plan far enough in advance that I can take care of personal grooming, but I don't plan what exactly we should do as it varies depending on partner and mood - what works one day, with one person, may not be so great another day, or with someone else.
There's room for both planning and spontaneity."
That's part of what I was getting at - if we're talking Fab meet then I prefer to plan ahead and allow anticipation etc to build (as well as grooming etc) - but once there it's very much about spontaneity and going with the flow and seeing where it leads |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Planned in as much as a date and time of meeting is set. Everything else after that is spontaneous, just going with the flow and seeing where the mood leads you both "
Word! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I've a free day or evening, I just pop a meet up on here on the day. My best meets have been last minute ones to be honest. I'm rarely 100% sure who I'm meeting until an hour or so beforehand.
Last Saturday night I was free but had kinda given up on meeting and had a hot bath, got my jarmies on. An ex meet of mine popped up offering to come over and spoil me with a massage. Ended up having one of the best nights ever.
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