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"So I've been chatting to a friend who has said that my high sex drive could be "damaging to the male psyche" because a guy could think I'm never satisfied if I ask for round 2 or 3 after a great round 1. He said that me asking for more sex could "lower a mans self worth and make him think he isn't good enough for me long term". I've never told a guy that I'm unsatisfied and I am very vocal when I cum so let me ask you this. If you had spent the last 2 hours having mind blowing sex with a woman, would you feel like it wasn't good enough if she asked to go again half hour later?" Sounds like you’re friend has doubt he would be able to go round 2/3 but I’d say most guys would leap at the challenge! Besides, it’s not as if you would openly attempt to make someone feel as if they couldn’t step up to the challenge... | |||
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" Is a woman with a high sex drive emasculating" No, but he may struggle to keep up and so think/work a bit harder than he’s used to. Depends upon how fragile the male ego in question is. | |||
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"Rounds #1, #2, and #3 sound like fun It is round #4, however, that I usually particularly enjoy..." Why #4 particularly? | |||
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"In my experience yes it does seem to do damage. I am like the OP... but I can just finish an amazing sex session and want more pretty much straight away. It is for me no slur on the guys performance.. in fact if I dont want more afterwards.. is more likely to be a sign it was okay but not great. I am insatiable... and the more I get the more I want.... In most situations I find that over time guys egos seem to take a battering with the fact that they can have me climbing the walls... causing a tsunami. ... Orgasming over and over... yet I'm always ready for the next round almost immediately... Unfortunately... and is one of the reasons I choose to stay single and do so much group sex "I think it depends on someone's mindset. I have a FWB very much like yourself. On a Friday night we'll be busy (in one way or another) for 3-5 hours, and if she doesn't get into double figures is "disappointed". However, I am very much a pleaser, and the more pleasure I see her getting, the more pleasure I take from the experience. | |||
"So I've been chatting to a friend who has said that my high sex drive could be "damaging to the male psyche" because a guy could think I'm never satisfied if I ask for round 2 or 3 after a great round 1. He said that me asking for more sex could "lower a mans self worth and make him think he isn't good enough for me long term". I've never told a guy that I'm unsatisfied and I am very vocal when I cum so let me ask you this. If you had spent the last 2 hours having mind blowing sex with a woman, would you feel like it wasn't good enough if she asked to go again half hour later?" Sounds like bollocks. Your sex drive is no reflection on him - in fact, couldn't it be construed as a positive reflection on him? Mrs TMN x | |||
"So I've been chatting to a friend who has said that my high sex drive could be "damaging to the male psyche" because a guy could think I'm never satisfied if I ask for round 2 or 3 after a great round 1. He said that me asking for more sex could "lower a mans self worth and make him think he isn't good enough for me long term". I've never told a guy that I'm unsatisfied and I am very vocal when I cum so let me ask you this. If you had spent the last 2 hours having mind blowing sex with a woman, would you feel like it wasn't good enough if she asked to go again half hour later?" Not at all. I'd probably be asking first
I certainly have no issues with insatiability as that sums me up sexually. Even if a guy can't repeat as quickly as you'd like, there's so much he can do to pleasure you until he's ready to go again. Not everything is narrowed down to penetrative sex after all. | |||
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"Sounds like bollocks. Your sex drive is no reflection on him - in fact, couldn't it be construed as a positive reflection on him? Mrs TMN x" I’m reading between the lines but I’m guessing he wants to feel he can meet her needs, and frankly has more than met his match. I sort of get it, but there’s more to life than penetrative sex. | |||
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"Rounds #1, #2, and #3 sound like fun It is round #4, however, that I usually particularly enjoy... Why #4 particularly? " That's what I was wondering!! Lol | |||
"Rounds #1, #2, and #3 sound like fun It is round #4, however, that I usually particularly enjoy... Why #4 particularly? That's what I was wondering!! Lol" Normally by round four there’s no cum left, maybe why  | |||
"So I've been chatting to a friend who has said that my high sex drive could be "damaging to the male psyche" because a guy could think I'm never satisfied if I ask for round 2 or 3 after a great round 1. He said that me asking for more sex could "lower a mans self worth and make him think he isn't good enough for me long term". I've never told a guy that I'm unsatisfied and I am very vocal when I cum so let me ask you this. If you had spent the last 2 hours having mind blowing sex with a woman, would you feel like it wasn't good enough if she asked to go again half hour later?" I think a lot of guys here may be simply trying to appease with their comments, possibly trying to earn some brownie points, but I'll be very honest with you; After cumming, a man can sometimes struggle to get hard again. If he does get hard, it's generally not as vigouous. Sometimes, he has the stamina to continue, but sometimes not. Sometimes it's to do with the woman, and sometimes not. It's hard to explain, but sometimes, it just won't get hard again, even if you want it to. If the woman wants it and he's physically unable, then yes, absolutely, it can knock confidence in the man. He can feel 'unable', and yes, it can have undesirable effects. At the end of the day though, it is what it is. | |||
"Sounds like bollocks. Your sex drive is no reflection on him - in fact, couldn't it be construed as a positive reflection on him? Mrs TMN x I’m reading between the lines but I’m guessing he wants to feel he can meet her needs, and frankly has more than met his match. I sort of get it, but there’s more to life than penetrative sex. " That there is. It sounds more like a communication issue, or a mismatch of sex drives. Framing it as "you are damaging him" is not at all helpful, to my mind. | |||
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"I'd never put a guy down for not being able to go a second round. It's just that for me, sex turns me on so I want to keep going until I can't anymore " It's a good thing too. Huge amounts of men are very keen to meet a woman who loves sex. It's just one of those things though. If you never out him down, if you go easy, you'll be fine! | |||
"So I've been chatting to a friend who has said that my high sex drive could be "damaging to the male psyche" because a guy could think I'm never satisfied if I ask for round 2 or 3 after a great round 1. He said that me asking for more sex could "lower a mans self worth and make him think he isn't good enough for me long term". I've never told a guy that I'm unsatisfied and I am very vocal when I cum so let me ask you this. If you had spent the last 2 hours having mind blowing sex with a woman, would you feel like it wasn't good enough if she asked to go again half hour later?" Love going again... several rounds.... starting again.... building back up to orgasm is best sex | |||
"I'd never put a guy down for not being able to go a second round. It's just that for me, sex turns me on so I want to keep going until I can't anymore " have you ever actually found the point where you cant | |||
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"Rounds #1, #2, and #3 sound like fun It is round #4, however, that I usually particularly enjoy... Why #4 particularly? That's what I was wondering!! Lol Normally by round four there’s no cum left, maybe why "like fuck i was still shooting the white stuff 14 rounds in on friday what a day | |||
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"So I've been chatting to a friend who has said that my high sex drive could be "damaging to the male psyche" because a guy could think I'm never satisfied if I ask for round 2 or 3 after a great round 1. He said that me asking for more sex could "lower a mans self worth and make him think he isn't good enough for me long term". I've never told a guy that I'm unsatisfied and I am very vocal when I cum so let me ask you this. If you had spent the last 2 hours having mind blowing sex with a woman, would you feel like it wasn't good enough if she asked to go again half hour later?" Not at all, like the majority in this thread I think I'd be happy with that but I find when a woman that knows what she wants and not afraid to say so very attractive. Confidence is attractive. | |||
"So I've been chatting to a friend who has said that my high sex drive could be "damaging to the male psyche" because a guy could think I'm never satisfied if I ask for round 2 or 3 after a great round 1. He said that me asking for more sex could "lower a mans self worth and make him think he isn't good enough for me long term". I've never told a guy that I'm unsatisfied and I am very vocal when I cum so let me ask you this. If you had spent the last 2 hours having mind blowing sex with a woman, would you feel like it wasn't good enough if she asked to go again half hour later? I think a lot of guys here may be simply trying to appease with their comments, possibly trying to earn some brownie points, but I'll be very honest with you; After cumming, a man can sometimes struggle to get hard again. If he does get hard, it's generally not as vigouous. Sometimes, he has the stamina to continue, but sometimes not. Sometimes it's to do with the woman, and sometimes not. It's hard to explain, but sometimes, it just won't get hard again, even if you want it to. If the woman wants it and he's physically unable, then yes, absolutely, it can knock confidence in the man. He can feel 'unable', and yes, it can have undesirable effects. At the end of the day though, it is what it is. " Absolutely no appeasing or brownie point seeking here, I can assure you, if you choose to think otherwise that is your prerogative. The *only* way that a guys psyche can be damaged by what the OP suggests is if *he* allows it to be damaged, or *if* the lady in question makes him feel bad somehow with derogatory comments etc (which the OP has made it clear she doesn't). As with anything great sex is about communication and being open and honest, along with being able to adapt - just because a guy cums and can't get hard again (either immediately or for a number of hours) it doesn't have to mean game over - as Chill said there are still plenty of things that can be done which are mutually satisfying. It's not all about the hard on
It ultimately comes down to how *both* people deal with that situation, and what their individual expectations are - if the lady *expects* a guy to stay hard all night and repeat and expresses displeasure when someone can't, then yes that could knock his confidence - but you have to question why that hadn't been discussed up front as there's clearly a compatability mismatch.
I make it very clear to people that I meet that I can't go all night and that once I've cum I take a while to recover, but also make it clear I don't see it as game over either - that way everyone knows what to expect, and so far no complaints. | |||
"I'd never put a guy down for not being able to go a second round. It's just that for me, sex turns me on so I want to keep going until I can't anymore have you ever actually found the point where you cant "Yes, once I think. He took half a viagra pill and we had a 10 hour marathon. I was a bit sore after that lol | |||
"Rounds #1, #2, and #3 sound like fun It is round #4, however, that I usually particularly enjoy... Why #4 particularly? That's what I was wondering!! Lol Normally by round four there’s no cum left, maybe why like fuck i was still shooting the white stuff 14 rounds in on friday what a day"Was you playing with your water pistol but with milk in it | |||
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"Rounds #1, #2, and #3 sound like fun It is round #4, however, that I usually particularly enjoy... Why #4 particularly? That's what I was wondering!! Lol Normally by round four there’s no cum left, maybe why like fuck i was still shooting the white stuff 14 rounds in on friday what a day
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"So I've been chatting to a friend who has said that my high sex drive could be "damaging to the male psyche" because a guy could think I'm never satisfied if I ask for round 2 or 3 after a great round 1. He said that me asking for more sex could "lower a mans self worth and make him think he isn't good enough for me long term". I've never told a guy that I'm unsatisfied and I am very vocal when I cum so let me ask you this. If you had spent the last 2 hours having mind blowing sex with a woman, would you feel like it wasn't good enough if she asked to go again half hour later?" No, I would feel like a boss! She has just had mind blowing sex with me for two hours and she wants to go again! Where’s the lucozade?!
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"Have to disagree OP. It’s not all about how long the guy can be hard and penetration takes place and if you expect this you aren’t living in the natural world ! For me, as those that have met me know, I don’t have an off button. Does that mean it’s down to the guy to be physically active for hours with a hard on, definitely not. It’s a mutual two way experience, so much more you can do together without penetrative sex and still obtain mind blowing pleasure, whilst enjoying each other’s company If a guy feels ‘damaged’ by this then it is how the woman has made him feel, with her words or reaction. No one should feel inadequate and communication is key. " Yes, you could give the guy a break at some point. Give him a show with vibrator. Something to keep you ticking over, but let him have a chance to catch his breath! ;-) | |||
"So I've been chatting to a friend who has said that my high sex drive could be "damaging to the male psyche" because a guy could think I'm never satisfied if I ask for round 2 or 3 after a great round 1. He said that me asking for more sex could "lower a mans self worth and make him think he isn't good enough for me long term". I've never told a guy that I'm unsatisfied and I am very vocal when I cum so let me ask you this. If you had spent the last 2 hours having mind blowing sex with a woman, would you feel like it wasn't good enough if she asked to go again half hour later? I think a lot of guys here may be simply trying to appease with their comments, possibly trying to earn some brownie points, but I'll be very honest with you; After cumming, a man can sometimes struggle to get hard again. If he does get hard, it's generally not as vigouous. Sometimes, he has the stamina to continue, but sometimes not. Sometimes it's to do with the woman, and sometimes not. It's hard to explain, but sometimes, it just won't get hard again, even if you want it to. If the woman wants it and he's physically unable, then yes, absolutely, it can knock confidence in the man. He can feel 'unable', and yes, it can have undesirable effects. At the end of the day though, it is what it is. Absolutely no appeasing or brownie point seeking here, I can assure you, if you choose to think otherwise that is your prerogative. The *only* way that a guys psyche can be damaged by what the OP suggests is if *he* allows it to be damaged, or *if* the lady in question makes him feel bad somehow with derogatory comments etc (which the OP has made it clear she doesn't). As with anything great sex is about communication and being open and honest, along with being able to adapt - just because a guy cums and can't get hard again (either immediately or for a number of hours) it doesn't have to mean game over - as Chill said there are still plenty of things that can be done which are mutually satisfying. It's not all about the hard on
It ultimately comes down to how *both* people deal with that situation, and what their individual expectations are - if the lady *expects* a guy to stay hard all night and repeat and expresses displeasure when someone can't, then yes that could knock his confidence - but you have to question why that hadn't been discussed up front as there's clearly a compatability mismatch.
I make it very clear to people that I meet that I can't go all night and that once I've cum I take a while to recover, but also make it clear I don't see it as game over either - that way everyone knows what to expect, and so far no complaints."I feel the exact same way. I'm also clear... "Ok, so what are you expecting?", type thing. I think one of the huge problems we face is that a lot of men talk the talk, but then when it comes down to it, they can't deliver - but that's subject matter for a different debate I guess. But essentially, I agree with your comment. | |||
"A great thread for guys to say how amazing they are and can cum like a cow "It’s so not about that though ! | |||
"A great thread for guys to say how amazing they are and can cum like a cow
It’s so not about that though ! "Tell others that  | |||
"A great thread for guys to say how amazing they are and can cum like a cow
It’s so not about that though !
Tell others that " u either got it or ya dont  | |||
"A great thread for guys to say how amazing they are and can cum like a cow
It’s so not about that though !
Tell others that u either got it or ya dont "I’m a man of actions not words | |||
"So I've been chatting to a friend who has said that my high sex drive could be "damaging to the male psyche" because a guy could think I'm never satisfied if I ask for round 2 or 3 after a great round 1. He said that me asking for more sex could "lower a mans self worth and make him think he isn't good enough for me long term". I've never told a guy that I'm unsatisfied and I am very vocal when I cum so let me ask you this. If you had spent the last 2 hours having mind blowing sex with a woman, would you feel like it wasn't good enough if she asked to go again half hour later?" No, I love repeat performances if I can manage .. go girl  | |||
"A great thread for guys to say how amazing they are and can cum like a cow
It’s so not about that though !
Tell others that "There is one, maybe two, that have said that. The majority though are not and pointing out there are so many other ways you can please each other | |||
" If a guy feels ‘damaged’ by this then it is how the woman has made him feel, with her words or reaction. No one should feel inadequate and communication is key. " I disagree here. I always try to make the guy aware it's a positive.. if it's someone I'm meeting regular I am always reassuring and complimenting.. I just find its the fact that I have no off switch and the fact I can go from having an amazing session .. and then wander off and have an experience with someone else.. and then maybe someone else. However I'm always up front about this.. Its not about a guy not being enough or not satisfying me.. its about the high I reach after great sex actually keeping my sexual desires fuelled.. be it for the one guy in a rare 121.... or a club night where I will have multiple encounters. But I've had guys I meet regularly eventually tell me that they feel inadequate despite my reassurances. X | |||
"A great thread for guys to say how amazing they are and can cum like a cow
It’s so not about that though !
Tell others that
There is one, maybe two, that have said that. The majority though are not and pointing out there are so many other ways you can please each other "I got the thread. I’m not sure what the issue is? | |||
"So I've been chatting to a friend who has said that my high sex drive could be "damaging to the male psyche" because a guy could think I'm never satisfied if I ask for round 2 or 3 after a great round 1. He said that me asking for more sex could "lower a mans self worth and make him think he isn't good enough for me long term". I've never told a guy that I'm unsatisfied and I am very vocal when I cum so let me ask you this. If you had spent the last 2 hours having mind blowing sex with a woman, would you feel like it wasn't good enough if she asked to go again half hour later?" If I’d just had an amazing time with Someone as sexy as you and you wanted to go again I’d take that as a massive compliment xxx | |||
" I feel the exact same way. I'm also clear... "Ok, so what are you expecting?", type thing. I think one of the huge problems we face is that a lot of men talk the talk, but then when it comes down to it, they can't deliver - but that's subject matter for a different debate I guess. But essentially, I agree with your comment." Oh I think it ties into the debate to an extent - because it *does* come down to clear communication and expectations on both sides, something which is often overlooked here. There's also the thing that a lot of (mainly) men think that's because it's a "sex site" they think they have to be able to perform like porn stars and then feel they have been a let down when in reality they can't. So to an extent they end up emasculating themselves as a result. I don't deny there are *some* women who have false expectations too and who behave badly when they don't get what they want which can knock a guys confidence but again it comes back to open and honest communication being the key, along with a little respect and consideration and not to mention compassion. To come back to the OPs point though, if a lady wants more then so long as she expresses it in the right way, with the right expectations of me and understanding of my limitations then I don't see it as emasculating in the slightest - more a sign that we've had a great time so far and she would like more of the same (or similar) | |||
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"Simple biology dictates that women are more likely to be able to indulge in sex for longer/multiple times. If any men don't recognise that, even if they claim to be 'repeaters', able to stay hard for hours (naturally or chemically) or make statements that 'I can go all night' - then they're deluding themselves. Can it damage a guys ego? I'm sure it can - if they let it. But most sensible men will be well aware that women got the advantage when mother nature decided on anatomy and acknowledge the fact that we'll always be unable to keep up with some women. That's life guys. Deal with it.
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" If a guy feels ‘damaged’ by this then it is how the woman has made him feel, with her words or reaction. No one should feel inadequate and communication is key. I disagree here. I always try to make the guy aware it's a positive.. if it's someone I'm meeting regular I am always reassuring and complimenting.. I just find its the fact that I have no off switch and the fact I can go from having an amazing session .. and then wander off and have an experience with someone else.. and then maybe someone else. However I'm always up front about this.. Its not about a guy not being enough or not satisfying me.. its about the high I reach after great sex actually keeping my sexual desires fuelled.. be it for the one guy in a rare 121.... or a club night where I will have multiple encounters. But I've had guys I meet regularly eventually tell me that they feel inadequate despite my reassurances. X" I read your comment as relating to time in clubs and a situation that is the ideal for those with no off button. I think most are talking of 1-2-1 experiences though and that does come down to effective communication & interaction between the two people. If that isn’t there then yes I can see how they could feel down about the situation. If they did however, I would feel responsible for their feelings as I’d obviously not been clear with them | |||
" I feel the exact same way. I'm also clear... "Ok, so what are you expecting?", type thing. I think one of the huge problems we face is that a lot of men talk the talk, but then when it comes down to it, they can't deliver - but that's subject matter for a different debate I guess. But essentially, I agree with your comment. Oh I think it ties into the debate to an extent - because it *does* come down to clear communication and expectations on both sides, something which is often overlooked here. There's also the thing that a lot of (mainly) men think that's because it's a "sex site" they think they have to be able to perform like porn stars and then feel they have been a let down when in reality they can't. So to an extent they end up emasculating themselves as a result. I don't deny there are *some* women who have false expectations too and who behave badly when they don't get what they want which can knock a guys confidence but again it comes back to open and honest communication being the key, along with a little respect and consideration and not to mention compassion. To come back to the OPs point though, if a lady wants more then so long as she expresses it in the right way, with the right expectations of me and understanding of my limitations then I don't see it as emasculating in the slightest - more a sign that we've had a great time so far and she would like more of the same (or similar)" Again, this is how I feel about it. On one or two occasions, I've "delivered", but then felt embarrassed about it not taking longer, etc. It can be the man, simply over-thinking it. It's a type of performance anxiety. But at the same time, the woman in question can have a huge influence. A lady before said about the way she handles it. I remember one time lasting hours, cumming 5 or 6 times in one night, but it wasn't me, it was the way she encouraged me and the way she made me feel. It's a difficult one.. | |||
"A great thread for guys to say how amazing they are and can cum like a cow
It’s so not about that though !
Tell others that u either got it or ya dont
I’m a man of actions not words "like mohammed ali im both | |||
"A great thread for guys to say how amazing they are and can cum like a cow
It’s so not about that though !
Tell others that u either got it or ya dont "If your that good lordy share it | |||
"A great thread for guys to say how amazing they are and can cum like a cow
It’s so not about that though !
Tell others that u either got it or ya dont
If your that good lordy share it "nope iv done with sharing time to be selfish | |||
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" If a guy feels ‘damaged’ by this then it is how the woman has made him feel, with her words or reaction. No one should feel inadequate and communication is key. I disagree here. I always try to make the guy aware it's a positive.. if it's someone I'm meeting regular I am always reassuring and complimenting.. I just find its the fact that I have no off switch and the fact I can go from having an amazing session .. and then wander off and have an experience with someone else.. and then maybe someone else. However I'm always up front about this.. Its not about a guy not being enough or not satisfying me.. its about the high I reach after great sex actually keeping my sexual desires fuelled.. be it for the one guy in a rare 121.... or a club night where I will have multiple encounters. But I've had guys I meet regularly eventually tell me that they feel inadequate despite my reassurances. X I read your comment as relating to time in clubs and a situation that is the ideal for those with no off button. I think most are talking of 1-2-1 experiences though and that does come down to effective communication & interaction between the two people. If that isn’t there then yes I can see how they could feel down about the situation. If they did however, I would feel responsible for their feelings as I’d obviously not been clear with them " Its the reason I rarely do 121. As I have found that over time no matter what... his ego feels a little dented. I'm quite happy at just being tactile. I do not expect it to be hours of just sex but the fact I can manage that..seems to be the issue. Irony is I've been seeing a guy in the real world who actually has issues In that department and he seems okay with things.. because I've worked hard on showing him it's not an issue.. result has been hes actually surprised himself and been relaxed and enjoying things x | |||
" If a guy feels ‘damaged’ by this then it is how the woman has made him feel, with her words or reaction. No one should feel inadequate and communication is key. I disagree here. I always try to make the guy aware it's a positive.. if it's someone I'm meeting regular I am always reassuring and complimenting.. I just find its the fact that I have no off switch and the fact I can go from having an amazing session .. and then wander off and have an experience with someone else.. and then maybe someone else. However I'm always up front about this.. Its not about a guy not being enough or not satisfying me.. its about the high I reach after great sex actually keeping my sexual desires fuelled.. be it for the one guy in a rare 121.... or a club night where I will have multiple encounters. But I've had guys I meet regularly eventually tell me that they feel inadequate despite my reassurances. X I read your comment as relating to time in clubs and a situation that is the ideal for those with no off button. I think most are talking of 1-2-1 experiences though and that does come down to effective communication & interaction between the two people. If that isn’t there then yes I can see how they could feel down about the situation. If they did however, I would feel responsible for their feelings as I’d obviously not been clear with them Its the reason I rarely do 121. As I have found that over time no matter what... his ego feels a little dented. I'm quite happy at just being tactile. I do not expect it to be hours of just sex but the fact I can manage that..seems to be the issue. Irony is I've been seeing a guy in the real world who actually has issues In that department and he seems okay with things.. because I've worked hard on showing him it's not an issue.. result has been hes actually surprised himself and been relaxed and enjoying things x" You’ve hit it on the head.... it’s hard work getting them to believe you it’s not an issue. When they realise that though, relax, enjoy the time together and don’t worry about their ‘performance’ it can be amazing how it turns out. As I always say, there is no check list let’s just go with the flow and see where the mood takes us | |||
" You’ve hit it on the head.... it’s hard work getting them to believe you it’s not an issue. When they realise that though, relax, enjoy the time together and don’t worry about their ‘performance’ it can be amazing how it turns out. As I always say, there is no check list let’s just go with the flow and see where the mood takes us "
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"I think it might if he can't keep up. I have this a little bit with my regular squeeze. He worries he's letting me down if he can't do round 3 or 3. It doesn't stop him pleasing me in other ways though. " he doesn't ever reach round 4 or 4 then? | |||
"It’s when your wife rejects you regularly it affects the psyche, wanting more would surely give most guys a boost, it would me. We’re all different I suppose." It would give wives a boost to. I always wished my husbands sex drive was as high as mine. We were just incompatible sexually, best friends but incompatible | |||
"So I've been chatting to a friend who has said that my high sex drive could be "damaging to the male psyche" because a guy could think I'm never satisfied if I ask for round 2 or 3 after a great round 1. He said that me asking for more sex could "lower a mans self worth and make him think he isn't good enough for me long term". I've never told a guy that I'm unsatisfied and I am very vocal when I cum so let me ask you this. If you had spent the last 2 hours having mind blowing sex with a woman, would you feel like it wasn't good enough if she asked to go again half hour later?" No, I'd probably be pestering before that... Cuddling and hugs and stroking while chatting would be getting more amarous. | |||
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"I think also there are some men that like to leave their woman satisfied as it gives them a security that the woman won't want anyone else. A woman that can keep going or want more may want more partners or go elsewhere and this can make the guy feel insecure and like he can't keep her when really he wants to be the one she goes to and sticks with. " I agree with this to an extent but I dont get why a woman wanting more than one man says anything about a mans sexual prowess | |||
"I think also there are some men that like to leave their woman satisfied as it gives them a security that the woman won't want anyone else. A woman that can keep going or want more may want more partners or go elsewhere and this can make the guy feel insecure and like he can't keep her when really he wants to be the one she goes to and sticks with. " omg never thought of it like that....... are their any women on who only want it once a fortnight? | |||
"I think also there are some men that like to leave their woman satisfied as it gives them a security that the woman won't want anyone else. A woman that can keep going or want more may want more partners or go elsewhere and this can make the guy feel insecure and like he can't keep her when really he wants to be the one she goes to and sticks with. I agree with this to an extent but I dont get why a woman wanting more than one man says anything about a mans sexual prowess " I think that is more about insecurity and the male ego, not to mention society's norms. | |||
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"I think also there are some men that like to leave their woman satisfied as it gives them a security that the woman won't want anyone else. A woman that can keep going or want more may want more partners or go elsewhere and this can make the guy feel insecure and like he can't keep her when really he wants to be the one she goes to and sticks with. I agree with this to an extent but I dont get why a woman wanting more than one man says anything about a mans sexual prowess " Someone with insecurities or a level of possessiveness would be like this imo. It's just how the would take it personally if they a jealous streak or insecurity. | |||
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"I think also there are some men that like to leave their woman satisfied as it gives them a security that the woman won't want anyone else. A woman that can keep going or want more may want more partners or go elsewhere and this can make the guy feel insecure and like he can't keep her when really he wants to be the one she goes to and sticks with. omg never thought of it like that....... are their any women on who only want it once a fortnight? "Bah! Like 90% of non fab women in my experience! Ha! | |||
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"I think also there are some men that like to leave their woman satisfied as it gives them a security that the woman won't want anyone else. A woman that can keep going or want more may want more partners or go elsewhere and this can make the guy feel insecure and like he can't keep her when really he wants to be the one she goes to and sticks with. omg never thought of it like that....... are their any women on who only want it once a fortnight?
Bah! Like 90% of non fab women in my experience! Ha!"are fab women different from normal women then, are you saying theyre not normal? | |||
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"I had an ex who was definitely threatened by my sex drive, he couldn't keep up and resorted to making snide comments Hence why he's an ex "I did have that from one ex actually who told me that my constant wanting sex was off putting | |||
"I found rejection was the killer in a relationship not high drive (Hmmm WTF am I doing FAB then !!) "I agree | |||
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"I think also there are some men that like to leave their woman satisfied as it gives them a security that the woman won't want anyone else. A woman that can keep going or want more may want more partners or go elsewhere and this can make the guy feel insecure and like he can't keep her when really he wants to be the one she goes to and sticks with. omg never thought of it like that....... are their any women on who only want it once a fortnight?
Bah! Like 90% of non fab women in my experience! Ha!are fab women different from normal women then, are you saying theyre not normal? "  | |||
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"In my experience some men think they'd love a partner with a high sex drive until they get one. I've been shamed for it in the past and even had a boyfriend complain about me wanting sex every time we met up as part of his break up speech. I can take the rejections if someone isn't feeling it too but some people sure like to make you feel like something is wrong with you if you want sex more than them." It's true... I think it's because most women are super boring, the guy is constantly desperate, and wants someone who is fun. Meets fun girl who is fun and is like woahhhh lady, I can't cope with this. Ha! | |||
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