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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You go for a meal at a swanky restaurant, you look at the menu, you really want the mixed grill with ribs, but this a very big meal, and ribs are messy.....
Do you:
A) Go for what you want to hell with what the date thinks
B) Find a more delicate meal that only requires and knife and fork, no hands |
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If I were on a date I would want her to enjoy herself. I wouldn't be there to constrain her. I would hate to think she didn't have what she really wanted because she was trying to second-guess my reaction. Luke |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’d have the veggie option but be wondering if I could kiss her with bits of rotting meat stuck between her teeth. "
So you dont date meat eaters then? That must really limit your options... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would go for the latter until I know him better. Beast doesn't eat red meat so I found I would try to chose foods that were meat free too, I didn't later on when he got to know me 
I'll also always remember him trying to eat chicken wings without getting them everywhere too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd prefer they went with whatever they wanted. Being relaxed and comfortable is what I'd like as it makes me more relaxed and comfortable. "
You have to be yourself, order what you want to eat. Everyone knows you can only eat ribs with your hands ..well eat em properly  |
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I'd be really bothered if I thought she was eating light to try and appear delicate rather than eating what she wants to.
A girl who knows her appetites and makes sure she has them met is a damn fine thing  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A swanky restaurant probably wouldn't have a mixed grill on the menu
Problem solved and no dilemma to consider..."
Wait a minute, are you telling me a hungry horse isnt swanky  who knew haha.
Was more an example of a messy food though lol
Could easily be spaghetti bolognaise |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I normally take my 1st dates to a chineese where they do a 15 course meal lasting around 4 hours...
If she's not blown her spanx by the time the bill comes ...I'll take her to a hotel |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You go for a meal at a swanky restaurant, you look at the menu, you really want the mixed grill with ribs, but this a very big meal, and ribs are messy.....
Do you:
A) Go for what you want to hell with what the date thinks
B) Find a more delicate meal that only requires and knife and fork, no hands"
Afraid I have to say option B.
My hand OCD is too bad
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"Neither, I won't go for dinner on a first date. Coffee or a drink only. I don't like eating in front of people I don't know.
S x"
I prefer not to eat with people I know. I went to a Bills when it first opened in Brighton and was horrified when strangers were sat at the same table.  |
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"Neither, I won't go for dinner on a first date. Coffee or a drink only. I don't like eating in front of people I don't know.
S x I prefer not to eat with people I know. I went to a Bills when it first opened in Brighton and was horrified when strangers were sat at the same table. "
People I don’t know, I meant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Neither, I won't go for dinner on a first date. Coffee or a drink only. I don't like eating in front of people I don't know.
S x I prefer not to eat with people I know. I went to a Bills when it first opened in Brighton and was horrified when strangers were sat at the same table. "
Was it one of those long tables? I hate it when restaurants do that. Although I'm not a fan of Bills either |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"Neither, I won't go for dinner on a first date. Coffee or a drink only. I don't like eating in front of people I don't know.
S x"
Same, plus I can't think of anything worse than sitting through a meal with someone you don't find appealing. Just a coffee for me to! |
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"You go for a meal at a swanky restaurant, you look at the menu, you really want the mixed grill with ribs, but this a very big meal, and ribs are messy.....
Do you:
A) Go for what you want to hell with what the date thinks
B) Find a more delicate meal that only requires and knife and fork, no hands"
Id be ordering the mixed grill to so tell you to do same ivy  |
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"You go for a meal at a swanky restaurant, you look at the menu, you really want the mixed grill with ribs, but this a very big meal, and ribs are messy.....
Do you:
A) Go for what you want to hell with what the date thinks
B) Find a more delicate meal that only requires and knife and fork, no hands"
I would hope the lady in question would order the mixed grill what man doesn’t t to see how a woman uses her hands when she’s eating meat. Extra kudos if she keeps them by her sides. |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
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"Definitely A, if the date is going to go any further he as to know I eat like a pig
But seriously it would be A as I would be myself then if he doesn't like it then he's not the one for me. "
This!  |
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"Neither, I won't go for dinner on a first date. Coffee or a drink only. I don't like eating in front of people I don't know.
S x I prefer not to eat with people I know. I went to a Bills when it first opened in Brighton and was horrified when strangers were sat at the same table.
Was it one of those long tables? I hate it when restaurants do that. Although I'm not a fan of Bills either "
yes, it was a long table. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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B.
I have a problem eating infront of people I find attractive anyway.. nevermind if it's something that makes me look even more messy and pig like...
Anxiety is a 'wonderful' thing...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"B.
I have a problem eating infront of people I find attractive anyway.. nevermind if it's something that makes me look even more messy and pig like...
Anxiety is a 'wonderful' thing... "
It is indeed  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You go for a meal at a swanky restaurant, you look at the menu, you really want the mixed grill with ribs, but this a very big meal, and ribs are messy.....
Do you:
A) Go for what you want to hell with what the date thinks
B) Find a more delicate meal that only requires and knife and fork, no hands
Afraid I have to say option B.
My hand OCD is too bad
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How do you cope with foreplay then? |
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I think I’d go for B but still make it something I’d enjoy, so I look classy & refined.  esp if it’s in a formal setting.
And if there was fun to be had, don’t want full stomach or warming up the porcelain throne
If another date then maybe more casual food?
Millie |
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