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"Not many of us would meet someone on purely looks or personality, so what would you prefer:
Average looks with a great personality
Or
Average personality with great looks. "
Absolutely the first always
Some people grow more beautiful the more you get to know them and that's because of their personality. You see their kindness, humour, - their values that shape them - that shines through everytime
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By *hunky Gent OP Man
over a year ago
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"Average looks with great personality. I have odd taste in men anyway. Beautiful men have never done it for me, i like men who have their life experiences written on their faces.
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A bit knackered then?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends if I’m meeting them just for sex or meeting them to actually talk to them as well
If I think, “Fuck, take me now, you sex god” and they haven’t opened their mouth then great looks and mediocre personality wins but if I’m looking for a mental connection, then their personality has to be shit hot to me and their looks aren’t as important. |
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Absolutely the personality.
If we dont get on then no matter how attractive you are I'm not going to be into it and wont enjoy you so hardly likely to put any effort in at all.
I'd walk away to be honest and it wouldn't be the first time I had either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not many of us would meet someone on purely looks or personality, so what would you prefer:
Average looks with a great personality
Or
Average personality with great looks. "
Average personality with great looks! Can deal with that haha  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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The more attractive someone's personality, the more attractive I find them when I look at them. So the "average" looks I guess this dichotomy is an odd one. You can have a great personality and looks. Likewise you can be average in both. I don't tend to see people as average or not, just I really fancy x. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t look at the their personality when I’m pounding away 
What do you look at 
What I can nick when she’s in the bog  "
You’re terrible for doing that |
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"Average looks with great personality. I have odd taste in men anyway. Beautiful men have never done it for me, i like men who have their life experiences written on their faces.
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I’m the guy for you if that’s quality’s yr after  |
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By *hunky Gent OP Man
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Average looks with great personality. I have odd taste in men anyway. Beautiful men have never done it for me, i like men who have their life experiences written on their faces.
I’m the guy for you if that’s quality’s yr after "
You need a trip to Wales then. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"Average looks with great personality. I have odd taste in men anyway. Beautiful men have never done it for me, i like men who have their life experiences written on their faces.
I’m the guy for you if that’s quality’s yr after "
I’ve admired your quality arse a few times  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The more attractive someone's personality, the more attractive I find them when I look at them. So the "average" looks I guess this dichotomy is an odd one. You can have a great personality and looks. Likewise you can be average in both. I don't tend to see people as average or not, just I really fancy x."
Agree beautiful lady 100%. They need that spark to ignite my interest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've turned down ludicrously good looking men because they were thick or boring or immature. But I've never turned down anyone I really clicked and connected with because I didn't fancy them physically. My long term fwbs are mostly presentable guys who are amazing company and wonderful in bed and value me for completely non sexual reasons. |
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"Anyone that’s met me would strongly argue that I offer very little in both categories
Not from what heard.
You're a decent fella - I'm told. "
Cheers fellow gent. From what I’ve heard of yourself you’re absolutely the better man |
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By *hunky Gent OP Man
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Anyone that’s met me would strongly argue that I offer very little in both categories
Not from what heard.
You're a decent fella - I'm told.
Cheers fellow gent. From what I’ve heard of yourself you’re absolutely the better man "
But you've had the pleasure of actually them.
So that puts you higher.
(tips hat to the fine gentleman) |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
Basingstoke |
"Anyone that’s met me would strongly argue that I offer very little in both categories
Bollocks
Now, that’s the 3rd secret category where I shiiiiiiine"
Youre welcome
You are nice to look at and a good friend so have a great personality so I'm being nice (just for today)
Dont get used to it |
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By *hunky Gent OP Man
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Anyone that’s met me would strongly argue that I offer very little in both categories
Bollocks
Now, that’s the 3rd secret category where I shiiiiiiine
Youre welcome
You are nice to look at and a good friend so have a great personality so I'm being nice (just for today)
Dont get used to it "
You can't fool us - you're always nice. X |
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There has to be something initially, it doesn't have to be stunning looks and for me it's often a friendly smile.
And then it's chats and banter hopefully leasing to more, stunning looks but dull as dishwater might challenge me but there's always doggy so you can pull faces or still watch the tv  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Average looks with a fantastic personality would win every time for me.
Me too.
Been out with a couple of very handsome men who were as boring as hell.
And crap shags also "
On the flip side... I've mostly met extremely handsome men who are awesome fucks and great guys too. It is possible if you choose wisely  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
What's an average personality? I like having a laugh with someone, but I don't really want to compromise on what I like physically. So I'll choose neither and stay at home til someone better arrives  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You got to remember you can't shag a personality....
But you can for what is inside - what makes their personality so good. "
Fit body...pretty face...you can see that on the 1st meet ...it could take you months of meeting to find out she's an unhinged physio... it's not a dating site |
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By *hunky Gent OP Man
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"You got to remember you can't shag a personality....
But you can for what is inside - what makes their personality so good.
Fit body...pretty face...you can see that on the 1st meet ...it could take you months of meeting to find out she's an unhinged physio... it's not a dating site"
Crikey. Sorry to hear that.  |
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I've been lucky enough to only meet people with both (in my opinion - both attributes are, of course, very subjective). I'd rather not meet if it meant not having both.... shoot me for being fussy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You got to remember you can't shag a personality....
But you can for what is inside - what makes their personality so good.
Fit body...pretty face...you can see that on the 1st meet ...it could take you months of meeting to find out she's an unhinged physio... it's not a dating site
Crikey. Sorry to hear that. "
It works both ways...it's the blokes with six packs and big Cocks that are getting most of the single action on here... |
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By *hunky Gent OP Man
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"You got to remember you can't shag a personality....
But you can for what is inside - what makes their personality so good.
Fit body...pretty face...you can see that on the 1st meet ...it could take you months of meeting to find out she's an unhinged physio... it's not a dating site
Crikey. Sorry to hear that.
It works both ways...it's the blokes with six packs and big Cocks that are getting most of the single action on here... "
Not all though.
If a guy with a party 7 can get meets then anyone can. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You got to remember you can't shag a personality....
But you can for what is inside - what makes their personality so good.
Fit body...pretty face...you can see that on the 1st meet ...it could take you months of meeting to find out she's an unhinged physio... it's not a dating site
Crikey. Sorry to hear that.
It works both ways...it's the blokes with six packs and big Cocks that are getting most of the single action on here...
Not all though.
If a guy with a party 7 can get meets then anyone can. "
if it's only a meet your after then all is good.. but if your looking to get get your willy wet it's another story |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You got to remember you can't shag a personality....
But you can for what is inside - what makes their personality so good.
Fit body...pretty face...you can see that on the 1st meet ...it could take you months of meeting to find out she's an unhinged physio... it's not a dating site"
I'm so sorry but early wet myself ... unhinged physio!! Have we met? Hahahahahahahaha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personality every single time, even if it's just for sex. You can look like Margot Robbie for all I care, but if you have a shite personality, I'll stick with the imaginary Margot Robbie in my head and just have a wank. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You got to remember you can't shag a personality....
But you can for what is inside - what makes their personality so good.
Fit body...pretty face...you can see that on the 1st meet ...it could take you months of meeting to find out she's an unhinged physio... it's not a dating site
I'm so sorry but early wet myself ... unhinged physio!! Have we met? Hahahahahahahaha "
Your arse does look familiar... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personality every single time, even if it's just for sex. You can look like Margot Robbie for all I care, but if you have a shite personality, I'll stick with the imaginary Margot Robbie in my head and just have a wank."
Really you expect any sane person to believe that...Margot Robbie!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personality every single time, even if it's just for sex. You can look like Margot Robbie for all I care, but if you have a shite personality, I'll stick with the imaginary Margot Robbie in my head and just have a wank.
Really you expect any sane person to believe that...Margot Robbie!!
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A turd coated in glitter is still a turd. Not the prettiest way to describe it, but it's accurate. I'd sooner sleep with a five who's humble as fuck than a 10 who thinks they're the shit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personality every single time, even if it's just for sex. You can look like Margot Robbie for all I care, but if you have a shite personality, I'll stick with the imaginary Margot Robbie in my head and just have a wank.
Really you expect any sane person to believe that...Margot Robbie!!
A turd coated in glitter is still a turd. Not the prettiest way to describe it, but it's accurate. I'd sooner sleep with a five who's humble as fuck than a 10 who thinks they're the shit. "
Fair enough... I'd be balls deep in a Margot Robbie lookalike....and maybe considering her personality traits as I'm wiping my dick on the duvet after... |
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"Personality every single time, even if it's just for sex. You can look like Margot Robbie for all I care, but if you have a shite personality, I'll stick with the imaginary Margot Robbie in my head and just have a wank.
Really you expect any sane person to believe that...Margot Robbie!!
A turd coated in glitter is still a turd. Not the prettiest way to describe it, but it's accurate. I'd sooner sleep with a five who's humble as fuck than a 10 who thinks they're the shit. "
what about a humble 10?
What about a 5 who thinks they're the shit? |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Personality every single time, even if it's just for sex. You can look like Margot Robbie for all I care, but if you have a shite personality, I'll stick with the imaginary Margot Robbie in my head and just have a wank.
Really you expect any sane person to believe that...Margot Robbie!!
A turd coated in glitter is still a turd. Not the prettiest way to describe it, but it's accurate. I'd sooner sleep with a five who's humble as fuck than a 10 who thinks they're the shit.
Fair enough... I'd be balls deep in a Margot Robbie lookalike....and maybe considering her personality traits as I'm wiping my dick on the duvet after... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You got to remember you can't shag a personality....
I think considerate people are also considerate when fucking. At least I (hope) I am. "
I think your looking too deep... it's a swinging site.. great to get on with someone, but are you telling me if a sexy as fuck woman, who is a bit of a bitch, gives you the nod....your going to need asking twice ? |
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