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if I’ve sent a couple of messages out to women I like the sound of and they haven’t read it after a couple of days, should I just delete them from my sent box and assume they won’t ever read them?
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over a year ago
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"if I’ve sent a couple of messages out to women I like the sound of and they haven’t read it after a couple of days, should I just delete them from my sent box and assume they won’t ever read them?
When is a sensible time to delete unread sent messages ?"
i delete mine straight away    |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"6 minutes. If they don’t reply in that time they’re obviously fake. "
 6 mins that’s harsh, got some 6 hours not opened but will at some point.
Don’t think it deletes their end so they won’t be aware you have deleted but if they have been online a few times since you sent and not bothered to open then I probably would delete if you keep checking it and it bothers you. |
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"6 minutes. If they don’t reply in that time they’re obviously fake.
6 mins that’s harsh, got some 6 hours not opened but will at some point.
Don’t think it deletes their end so they won’t be aware you have deleted but if they have been online a few times since you sent and not bothered to open then I probably would delete if you keep checking it and it bothers you."
ive never sent you a message and it bothers me  |
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"if I’ve sent a couple of messages out to women I like the sound of and they haven’t read it after a couple of days, should I just delete them from my sent box and assume they won’t ever read them?
When is a sensible time to delete unread sent messages ?"
I never check sent messages |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
"6 minutes. If they don’t reply in that time they’re obviously fake.
6 mins that’s harsh, got some 6 hours not opened but will at some point.
Don’t think it deletes their end so they won’t be aware you have deleted but if they have been online a few times since you sent and not bothered to open then I probably would delete if you keep checking it and it bothers you.ive never sent you a message and it bothers me "
Why’s that Mrwhistleandflute? |
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"6 minutes. If they don’t reply in that time they’re obviously fake.
6 mins that’s harsh, got some 6 hours not opened but will at some point.
Don’t think it deletes their end so they won’t be aware you have deleted but if they have been online a few times since you sent and not bothered to open then I probably would delete if you keep checking it and it bothers you.ive never sent you a message and it bothers me
Why’s that Mrwhistleandflute? "
youre gorgeous |
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"Sometimes it takes me weeks to get to messages. I have to build myself up to reading some of them!
Why is that Lacey?
Because some of them are bloody horrible.
Oh no "
yeah some of them are absolutely horrible and just aren't needed |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Simple solution.
Stop worrying about sent messages (whether unread, read or deleted) as you can't control what happens to them once sent and just focus on any incoming messages as you can control what happens to those.
Things beyond your control are just that - there's feck all you can do to change them.
A happier life you will find.
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"Simple solution.
Stop worrying about sent messages (whether unread, read or deleted) as you can't control what happens to them once sent and just focus on any incoming messages as you can control what happens to those.
Things beyond your control are just that - there's feck all you can do to change them.
A happier life you will find.
A"
This perfectly. Nice to see you back by the way.
Blade |
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"Simple solution.
Stop worrying about sent messages (whether unread, read or deleted) as you can't control what happens to them once sent and just focus on any incoming messages as you can control what happens to those.
Things beyond your control are just that - there's feck all you can do to change them.
A happier life you will find.
A"
Thank you for that |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Simple solution.
Stop worrying about sent messages (whether unread, read or deleted) as you can't control what happens to them once sent and just focus on any incoming messages as you can control what happens to those.
Things beyond your control are just that - there's feck all you can do to change them.
A happier life you will find.
A
This perfectly. Nice to see you back by the way.
Blade"
Jeez. They give anyone a couples profile these days.
Nice to be back. If only for the forums at present.
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Simple solution.
Stop worrying about sent messages (whether unread, read or deleted) as you can't control what happens to them once sent and just focus on any incoming messages as you can control what happens to those.
Things beyond your control are just that - there's feck all you can do to change them.
A happier life you will find.
A
Thank you for that "
No worries.
Trust me. You can go mad wondering what happened to a sent message.
Not worth the stress and always a nice surprise when one is responded to.
Happy hunting.
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"if I’ve sent a couple of messages out to women I like the sound of and they haven’t read it after a couple of days, should I just delete them from my sent box and assume they won’t ever read them?
When is a sensible time to delete unread sent messages ?"
I'd have liked to have joined in on this thread but to be honest I deleted it as soon as I saw it  |
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