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"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it. Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman. Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?" Action, or even genital photos at all are enough to put me off. | |||
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"I agree with you. I especially hate it when you've hit it off with someone, you get into the friends pics and there's loads of action shots, I feel so disappointed! " Same. Recently happened to me. Obviously for couples it’s different, you’d expect to see pics of them together. But as a single male who is trying to get the attention of a single female, why do they think having pictures of them shagging other women is going to appeal to another woman? Mind boggling. | |||
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"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it. Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman. Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?" I'm thinking everyone has got what they like ,as far as me doing chance.would be a good start, but live and let live.btw you are a real stunner xxx | |||
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"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it. Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman. Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?" I'm totally with you OP action shots put me right off. | |||
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"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it. Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman. Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?" I don’t do it but it is a swinging site and obviously works for the men in question (hence the photos). Why are you so apposed to it? It makes you sound a little bit insecure ?? ![]() | |||
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"Not keen either and tends to put me off. But the odd one or two can be overlooked sometimes. Depends who it is and how they are in honesty. But in general it's not my prefence. " This for me too. It depends also if it's what I deem to be a classy shot. | |||
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"Not keen on seeing them, especially if there is more of HER than there is of HIM. Some pics are an inch of cock that couldn't be quite shoved into a big fat vag..... ( and this is supposed to turn me on ? or be a pic of him ? )" A big fat vag ![]() | |||
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"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it. Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman. Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?" Instant turn off from anyone if they have pics of obviously different partners. We don’t mind seeing ones of the same couple, but we don’t want photo proof of every m_mber going bareback with the mrs. | |||
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"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it. Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman. Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?" The ladies are just as bad for the same photos. | |||
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"I agree with you. I especially hate it when you've hit it off with someone, you get into the friends pics and there's loads of action shots, I feel so disappointed! Same. Recently happened to me. Obviously for couples it’s different, you’d expect to see pics of them together. But as a single male who is trying to get the attention of a single female, why do they think having pictures of them shagging other women is going to appeal to another woman? Mind boggling. " Well I guess because it's a swinging site and people have multiple partners. Is it a jealousy thing from the women? | |||
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"I agree with you. I especially hate it when you've hit it off with someone, you get into the friends pics and there's loads of action shots, I feel so disappointed! Same. Recently happened to me. Obviously for couples it’s different, you’d expect to see pics of them together. But as a single male who is trying to get the attention of a single female, why do they think having pictures of them shagging other women is going to appeal to another woman? Mind boggling. Well I guess because it's a swinging site and people have multiple partners. Is it a jealousy thing from the women? " Absolutely it's jealousy, because of course we all only want to meet virgins. If I want porn, I'll go elsewhere. On a profile here I want to see who I'm meeting, not their random sexual partners that I'll never meet. | |||
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"I agree with you. I especially hate it when you've hit it off with someone, you get into the friends pics and there's loads of action shots, I feel so disappointed! Same. Recently happened to me. Obviously for couples it’s different, you’d expect to see pics of them together. But as a single male who is trying to get the attention of a single female, why do they think having pictures of them shagging other women is going to appeal to another woman? Mind boggling. Well I guess because it's a swinging site and people have multiple partners. Is it a jealousy thing from the women? Absolutely it's jealousy, because of course we all only want to meet virgins. If I want porn, I'll go elsewhere. On a profile here I want to see who I'm meeting, not their random sexual partners that I'll never meet. " In some ways I agree. It does feel more like a porn site now, then it did 10 years ago. But does this extend to videos too. Lots of couples have vids of meets etc. | |||
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"Seen plenty of women with action pictures. I avoid them. Couples aswell If different guys and occasionally ladies And it won’t stop anyone as it’s like there own porn. ![]() ![]() This.. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking? " It’s a turn off for many reasons: •The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy. •The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly. •Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman. •I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them. | |||
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"I agree with you. I especially hate it when you've hit it off with someone, you get into the friends pics and there's loads of action shots, I feel so disappointed! Same. Recently happened to me. Obviously for couples it’s different, you’d expect to see pics of them together. But as a single male who is trying to get the attention of a single female, why do they think having pictures of them shagging other women is going to appeal to another woman? Mind boggling. Well I guess because it's a swinging site and people have multiple partners. Is it a jealousy thing from the women? Absolutely it's jealousy, because of course we all only want to meet virgins. If I want porn, I'll go elsewhere. On a profile here I want to see who I'm meeting, not their random sexual partners that I'll never meet. In some ways I agree. It does feel more like a porn site now, then it did 10 years ago. But does this extend to videos too. Lots of couples have vids of meets etc." For me yes, it extends to videos too. I don't think anyone should be allowed in pics or videos that isn't part of the profile. | |||
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"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking? It’s a turn off for many reasons: •The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy. •The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly. •Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman. •I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them. " Damn, bullets points...they'll be a power point presentation next lol ![]() | |||
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"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking? It’s a turn off for many reasons: •The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy. •The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly. •Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman. •I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them. Damn, bullets points...they'll be a power point presentation next lol ![]() I can do pie charts, I’ve got a fucking lush pie. | |||
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"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking? It’s a turn off for many reasons: •The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy. •The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly. •Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman. •I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them. Damn, bullets points...they'll be a power point presentation next lol ![]() If it's anything like them amazing tits I bet it is Lush x | |||
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"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking? It’s a turn off for many reasons: •The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy. •The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly. •Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman. •I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them. " Yeah I agree with that ![]() | |||
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"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking? It’s a turn off for many reasons: •The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy. •The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly. •Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman. •I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them. Yeah I agree with that ![]() Mine confirm the guy was able to leave and is not strapped to a bed with his ankles smashed in ![]() | |||
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" Mine confirm the guy was able to leave and is not strapped to a bed with his ankles smashed in ![]() One of my ankles is broken, so half way there ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking? It’s a turn off for many reasons: •The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy. •The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly. •Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman. •I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them. Yeah I agree with that ![]() ![]() Scene from 'Misery' springs to mind! | |||
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"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking? It’s a turn off for many reasons: •The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy. •The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly. •Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman. •I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them. Yeah I agree with that ![]() ![]() Did he leave with a smile on his face though? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking? It’s a turn off for many reasons: •The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy. •The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly. •Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman. •I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them. " So in a nutshell, you come on a swinging site but only want to meet men who haven’t fucked other women? Are you sure you are on the right site ? | |||
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"It won't stop them. I use it as a filter." Exactly this. | |||
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"I have no words for double standards " I do, hypocrisy ![]() | |||
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"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it. Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman. Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?" Who likes these pics? The profile owner themselves. Oh and some other single guys. See the problem isn't that they don't care about which pics they put up...It's more that THEY view them as hot and are too blinkered to realise that not everyone, including the majority of their target audience, will do so. Still, for all we know, their main goal on Fab and reason for their joining may be to have other single guys message them saying "Cracking pics mate, that's one fittie you banged last May". As if so then tbf their pics are actually ideal. If their main goal is to appeal to women who want to have sex with them though...then they're pretty much a humungous fail. B | |||
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"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it. Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman. Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?" Omg me!!!!! Seriously wouldn’t consider meeting someone with previous meet photos on their profile - such a turn off! Why oh why would we want to see the whole body of some previous meet with three inches of his cock .., | |||
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"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking? It’s a turn off for many reasons: •The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy. •The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly. •Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman. •I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them. So in a nutshell, you come on a swinging site but only want to meet men who haven’t fucked other women? Are you sure you are on the right site ? " Did I say I wanted all the men I meet to be virgins or did I say it’s a turn off to see single guys with pictures of previous conquests on their profiles? | |||
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"Or....a simpler option... you should stop looking and then stop moaning about them?? Just sayin'" Hard to avoid when some men send these kind of pictures when they message you. | |||
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"To be honest, the whole notion of taking pics during sex baffles me. I've never once been shagging someone and thought.... "Wait.... Where's my phone? I should photograph this...."" Oh my lord really you have never lived ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I used to have action shots on my profile, I liked them, I was having a great time when they were taken and I couldn’t give a fuck if anyone else liked them or not, it’s my profile after all ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"So on the whole then I’d say at least 90% of the women who commented on this thread share the same view. If guys insist on having them maybe they should keep them private and wait to see if anyone asks if they have action shots. ![]() ![]() 90% of thhe 1% of site users that use the forums......... The other 99% may feel differently. Why not just let them do as they please? It's their choice and their profile after all. A | |||
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"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it. Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman. Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?" As a single male my honest thoughts are that it's really off putting and even some single females do it as well | |||
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"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it. Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman. Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?" Absolutely hate it, but I hate censorship too so, meh | |||
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"So on the whole then I’d say at least 90% of the women who commented on this thread share the same view. If guys insist on having them maybe they should keep them private and wait to see if anyone asks if they have action shots. ![]() ![]() Not when you get unsolicited pics sent to you as well as when you’re browsing. Easy enough to scroll past those kind of profiles but when you’re chatting with someone and they send you a load of actions pics then its frustrating because it puts me off someone who could potentially be a match. Once something’s put me off in the early stages I can’t get back any former desire I previously had. | |||
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"So on the whole then I’d say at least 90% of the women who commented on this thread share the same view. If guys insist on having them maybe they should keep them private and wait to see if anyone asks if they have action shots. ![]() ![]() Then they aren't what you're looking for. Job done. What's the issue? | |||
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"So on the whole then I’d say at least 90% of the women who commented on this thread share the same view. If guys insist on having them maybe they should keep them private and wait to see if anyone asks if they have action shots. ![]() ![]() Exactly. If that behaviour puts you off then they've done you a favour in letting you know you're not compatible. Move on to the next potential. A | |||
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"I stick to a face pic to leave something to the imagination " I've a fantastic imagination. I doubt you'd live up to it then I'd be disappointed. That's the problem with that approach. | |||
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"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it. Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman. Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?" I see you really hate action shots! ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I stick to a face pic to leave something to the imagination " I did for a while then yeah I have 2 cock pics on my profile but the rest are either face or body pics | |||
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"I'm still looking for my first meet ![]() For the ladies, yes, most definitely if permission wasn't granted but suitors? | |||
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"I stick to a face pic to leave something to the imagination I've a fantastic imagination. I doubt you'd live up to it then I'd be disappointed. That's the problem with that approach. " I would for you as I'm not black. Imagination may have been the wrong word but I would wait a while to get in to the graphic stuff | |||
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"I've just thought of the perfect solution for any women that find particular things offensive in someone's profile, be that words or pictures. Block all incoming messages from anyone, do your own browsing and only contact those that meet your requirements and portray themselves in a manner acceptable to your standards and tastes. Hey presto. You'll never receive a message from someone you deem unsuitable again, you'll never have to wade through messages from those you have no interest in and as an added bonus......you're more likely to find the right match. Winner winner!! ![]() Is it the male or female half usually posting cos you come across quite condescending. Why should I have to sacrifice my ability to use the site to its full especially as I pay to support the site. I’ve already said many times the difficulty with blocking everyone. I can’t possibly search every area in South Wales or even the South West, I’d miss 100’s of potentials if I blocked every incoming message. Other woman share the same view on the subject so I’m not the only person who thinks it’s off putting. | |||
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"I've just thought of the perfect solution for any women that find particular things offensive in someone's profile, be that words or pictures. Block all incoming messages from anyone, do your own browsing and only contact those that meet your requirements and portray themselves in a manner acceptable to your standards and tastes. Hey presto. You'll never receive a message from someone you deem unsuitable again, you'll never have to wade through messages from those you have no interest in and as an added bonus......you're more likely to find the right match. Winner winner!! ![]() The clue is in the sign off initial but I suspect you already knew the answer. Condescending? I'm not the one telling people what they should and shouldn't do with their profile. Why should they have to sacrifice the way they choose to use the site? Equal rights and all that. ![]() | |||
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"I've just thought of the perfect solution for any women that find particular things offensive in someone's profile, be that words or pictures. Block all incoming messages from anyone, do your own browsing and only contact those that meet your requirements and portray themselves in a manner acceptable to your standards and tastes. Hey presto. You'll never receive a message from someone you deem unsuitable again, you'll never have to wade through messages from those you have no interest in and as an added bonus......you're more likely to find the right match. Winner winner!! ![]() What about the men who said they didn't like action shots? Or is it just the women that should block all messages? Also, I didn't see anyone complaining about "wading through messages", just saying that they don't like action shots. They're easily deleted. | |||
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"I've just thought of the perfect solution for any women that find particular things offensive in someone's profile, be that words or pictures. Block all incoming messages from anyone, do your own browsing and only contact those that meet your requirements and portray themselves in a manner acceptable to your standards and tastes. Hey presto. You'll never receive a message from someone you deem unsuitable again, you'll never have to wade through messages from those you have no interest in and as an added bonus......you're more likely to find the right match. Winner winner!! ![]() It was a sarcastic response to a suggestion that men should change how they choose to use the site. Apologies if that wasn't obvious. Why can't people just concentrate on their own profiles and leave other to theirs? As you say - not too hard to delete after all? Not interested or put off by something? Move on to the next and see it for what it is - an obvious sign you're not compatible despite any initial feelings. A | |||
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"I've just thought of the perfect solution for any women that find particular things offensive in someone's profile, be that words or pictures. Block all incoming messages from anyone, do your own browsing and only contact those that meet your requirements and portray themselves in a manner acceptable to your standards and tastes. Hey presto. You'll never receive a message from someone you deem unsuitable again, you'll never have to wade through messages from those you have no interest in and as an added bonus......you're more likely to find the right match. Winner winner!! ![]() It was obvious, I'm just stirring it a bit ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I've just thought of the perfect solution for any women that find particular things offensive in someone's profile, be that words or pictures. Block all incoming messages from anyone, do your own browsing and only contact those that meet your requirements and portray themselves in a manner acceptable to your standards and tastes. Hey presto. You'll never receive a message from someone you deem unsuitable again, you'll never have to wade through messages from those you have no interest in and as an added bonus......you're more likely to find the right match. Winner winner!! ![]() ![]() ![]() Phew. Thought I was losing my touch for a second. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"OP I'm not entirely sure this is the right site for you." She's gorgeous. It definitely is. ![]() | |||
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"And yet there are tons of women's profiles with photos of dick-sucking and penetration. Presumably these are OK? " Its a one way street ![]() | |||
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"And yet there are tons of women's profiles with photos of dick-sucking and penetration. Presumably these are OK? Its a one way street ![]() Much like the anus (to most women I've met). | |||
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"OP I'm not entirely sure this is the right site for you. She's gorgeous. It definitely is. ![]() Oh it's ok because she's gorgeous... right. | |||
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"And yet there are tons of women's profiles with photos of dick-sucking and penetration. Presumably these are OK? Its a one way street ![]() Kiss my ass hah... now stop at the lights... | |||
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"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it. Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman. Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?" "Hanging out of a bird" ![]() | |||
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"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking? It’s a turn off for many reasons: •The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy. •The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly. •Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman. •I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them. " Wow! Just avoid those men - delete, block and move on. Calling women buzzards is just plain nasty. Those ladies are human beings - try seeing them as such and there will always be people hotter than you. It's the nature of the world. | |||
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"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking? It’s a turn off for many reasons: •The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy. •The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly. •Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman. •I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them. " So you don't like men fucking munters and you don't like men fucking hot women? Are you insane? | |||
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"I've just thought of the perfect solution for any women that find particular things offensive in someone's profile, be that words or pictures. Block all incoming messages from anyone, do your own browsing and only contact those that meet your requirements and portray themselves in a manner acceptable to your standards and tastes. Hey presto. You'll never receive a message from someone you deem unsuitable again, you'll never have to wade through messages from those you have no interest in and as an added bonus......you're more likely to find the right match. Winner winner!! ![]() ![]() I’d have known if I’d looked at your profile which I should have done before asking I suppose. Well I’ve got my answers anyway and I’m not the only woman on here who is turned off by action shots. It would be entirely different if I was looking for couples or interested in threesomes, but as my target audience is single men and what I’m looking for is single men only, it’s only pictures of the guy I could potentially be meeting that I want to see. | |||
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"I've just thought of the perfect solution for any women that find particular things offensive in someone's profile, be that words or pictures. Block all incoming messages from anyone, do your own browsing and only contact those that meet your requirements and portray themselves in a manner acceptable to your standards and tastes. Hey presto. You'll never receive a message from someone you deem unsuitable again, you'll never have to wade through messages from those you have no interest in and as an added bonus......you're more likely to find the right match. Winner winner!! ![]() ![]() Surely that makes it easier for you to narrow it down then? | |||
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"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know.. -On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots." Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know.. -On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots. Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome ![]() ![]() ![]() Prefer to keep mine private and send upon request though ![]() | |||
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"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know.. -On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots. Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome ![]() ![]() ![]() Depends on the face really. | |||
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"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking? It’s a turn off for many reasons: •The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy. •The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly. •Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman. •I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them. So you don't like men fucking munters and you don't like men fucking hot women? Are you insane? " Mate people can fuck who they want that’s not what I’m saying. Why is this being twisted into me trying to dictate who people meet? I was asked to explain why it’s a turn off for me to see action shots and I stated my own personal reasons as to why I find it a turn off. Just as every other woman on this thread has stated their reasons for finding it a turn off. | |||
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"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking? It’s a turn off for many reasons: •The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy. •The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly. •Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman. •I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them. So you don't like men fucking munters and you don't like men fucking hot women? Are you insane? Mate people can fuck who they want that’s not what I’m saying. Why is this being twisted into me trying to dictate who people meet? I was asked to explain why it’s a turn off for me to see action shots and I stated my own personal reasons as to why I find it a turn off. Just as every other woman on this thread has stated their reasons for finding it a turn off. " You go on about the guy having low standards, then in the next breath you say you have a pot belly. So it's low standards to fuck certain women, but not you? What makes you so special? | |||
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"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know.. -On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots. Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome ![]() ![]() ![]() Face shot wins for me every time. I'm always far more interested in whether I'd like to see their smile or look into their eyes, the rest is window dressing | |||
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"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know.. -On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots. Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome ![]() ![]() ![]() Sophie...you have a gorgeous face. It definitely draws me in ![]() | |||
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"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking? It’s a turn off for many reasons: •The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy. •The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly. •Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman. •I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them. So you don't like men fucking munters and you don't like men fucking hot women? Are you insane? Mate people can fuck who they want that’s not what I’m saying. Why is this being twisted into me trying to dictate who people meet? I was asked to explain why it’s a turn off for me to see action shots and I stated my own personal reasons as to why I find it a turn off. Just as every other woman on this thread has stated their reasons for finding it a turn off. You go on about the guy having low standards, then in the next breath you say you have a pot belly. So it's low standards to fuck certain women, but not you? What makes you so special? " Because I was trying to relate to people and doing that thing that everyone loves when you put yourself down, some people don’t like it when you’re confident ![]() | |||
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"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking? It’s a turn off for many reasons: •The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy. •The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly. •Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman. •I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them. So you don't like men fucking munters and you don't like men fucking hot women? Are you insane? Mate people can fuck who they want that’s not what I’m saying. Why is this being twisted into me trying to dictate who people meet? I was asked to explain why it’s a turn off for me to see action shots and I stated my own personal reasons as to why I find it a turn off. Just as every other woman on this thread has stated their reasons for finding it a turn off. You go on about the guy having low standards, then in the next breath you say you have a pot belly. So it's low standards to fuck certain women, but not you? What makes you so special? Because I was trying to relate to people and doing that thing that everyone loves when you put yourself down, some people don’t like it when you’re confident ![]() And going by your logic, someone will look at you and think that a guy has low standards for fucking you because of your pot belly. And before you say that's cruel, this is what you think about other women by your own admission. 'Pot', kettle, black, so to speak (pardon the pun). | |||
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"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know.. -On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots. Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Now I'm blushing ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know.. -On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots. Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() We all need those special occasions in our life...to go with the ropes and piercings ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm not bothered about it? I don't see why it offends others either? So long as the people in the pics have given consent for them to be used all is good :- I agree this is not a dating site where u just put your best face pic. D" | |||
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"My profile is full of them. Sorry! ![]() Dont apologise it's not tinder lol x | |||
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"I used to have action shots on my profile, I liked them, I was having a great time when they were taken and I couldn’t give a fuck if anyone else liked them or not, it’s my profile after all ![]() Yehhhh u go girl let the rest of em go and swipe right lol x | |||
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"Doesn't offend me. People can display what pictures they like. The nature of the site means that many pictures will be sexually explicit. Don't like it? Use a regular dating site. " Well said x | |||
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"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking? It’s a turn off for many reasons: •The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy. •The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly. •Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman. •I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them. So you don't like men fucking munters and you don't like men fucking hot women? Are you insane? Mate people can fuck who they want that’s not what I’m saying. Why is this being twisted into me trying to dictate who people meet? I was asked to explain why it’s a turn off for me to see action shots and I stated my own personal reasons as to why I find it a turn off. Just as every other woman on this thread has stated their reasons for finding it a turn off. You go on about the guy having low standards, then in the next breath you say you have a pot belly. So it's low standards to fuck certain women, but not you? What makes you so special? Because I was trying to relate to people and doing that thing that everyone loves when you put yourself down, some people don’t like it when you’re confident ![]() I’m a size 6/8 so I’m hardly breaking the scales, plus I dirty bulk in winter and like to shred in March when the first signs of spring are around me. You’re getting a bit personal in your responses now rather than just participating with the original topic. I’m sensing a little something something in your comments. Now If you don’t mind, I have to return some video tapes. | |||
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"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know.. -On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots. Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yes we do...any idea where one might find these special occasions ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know.. -On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots. Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() They are like magic..they appear when one is least looking for them ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know.. -On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots. Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I'm awful at seeing what could be right in front of me so definitely need things to be crystal clear ![]() | |||
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"OP, I'd message you in person but I'm blocked...." Sent you a message, should be able to get through the filters now x | |||
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"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it. Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman. Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?" In that scenario, instant turn off Tastefully done pics can be hella sexy | |||
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"Presumably all such action shots are waiting in the friends only section? " You’d think but sometimes guys just send them to you without you asking for them. | |||
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"Doesn't bother me either way really. As long as the other person has given permission and the photos are not breaking any rules or really hardcore. " Me neither ![]() | |||
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"Bet those triggered by these photos watch porn. Same thing, If you are triggered by it find yourself a safespace ![]() ![]() Not triggered by it just put off by it. And yes I watch porn, quite a lot actually but I only watch gay porn, forced male orgasm compilations mainly. | |||
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"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know.. -On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots. Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() It's very clear you're beautiful in your pics to me too, if only I could be sure of what you were looking for as I'm a cd and when I look at your profile, it's the one thing I cannot see ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm not bothered either way, I've seen countless nudes, it's the substance within the pics/nudes that makes the difference and I'm equally or more so turned on by a powerful mind, so well laid out text (spoken in truth without a off putting self righteous ego) can equally stir the mind also and will probably excite me more. I'm more a fan of fetish pics personally,erotic garments etc And couples post pics of themselves up to no good regularly, so is it not a bit double standard ish of couples who post them type of pics, to pull someone up who has posted pics (with full mutual consent) of them having fun times with people the they've met on here? I'm totally on the fence with it I'm just thinking of the variables" Good point ![]() | |||
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"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know.. -On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots. Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I'll pm you..I haven't been looking for cd's x | |||
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"I'm not bothered either way, I've seen countless nudes, it's the substance within the pics/nudes that makes the difference and I'm equally or more so turned on by a powerful mind, so well laid out text (spoken in truth without a off putting self righteous ego) can equally stir the mind also and will probably excite me more. I'm more a fan of fetish pics personally,erotic garments etc And couples post pics of themselves up to no good regularly, so is it not a bit double standard ish of couples who post them type of pics, to pull someone up who has posted pics (with full mutual consent) of them having fun times with people the they've met on here? I'm totally on the fence with it I'm just thinking of the variables Good point ![]() I like to think I have one braincell left somewhere, hopefully lol | |||
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"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know.. -On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots. Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Get your coat Sophie luv, you've pulled! Jammy so & so.X ![]() | |||
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