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By *erynaughty OP   Man  over a year ago

Derby

I have a stronger draw to the amount of kink a meet involves more than meeting an expected criteria of attraction...am I alone?

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS  over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

I'll be honest, I don't understand the question. Others might.

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By *mberWoman  over a year ago

Preston


"I'll be honest, I don't understand the question. Others might. "

I think he means that it doesn't matter what someone looks like as long as they offer uber kink.

I think

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'll be honest, I don't understand the question. Others might.

I think he means that it doesn't matter what someone looks like as long as they offer uber kink.

I think"

Does uber kink come with a frequent user discount...

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS  over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"I'll be honest, I don't understand the question. Others might.

I think he means that it doesn't matter what someone looks like as long as they offer uber kink.

I think"

Really? Well done. I wouldn't have got that.

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Surely in the example you give though OP there is still an attraction - just not necessarily to a physical thing, but a mental stimulation i.e. the kink - and if all concerned are happy with that arrangement then what's the harm?

Unless of course the gratification is purely personal and you adopt an "any holes a goal" type approach where the kink is more important than the person you're indulging it with, or they are being kept under false pretences, in which case it's not weird, but is very wrong

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

I am also weird by many of the accepted standards and expectations on fab but not for the reasons that you feel you are. I need an equal amount of attraction and perceived kink

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By *erynaughty OP   Man  over a year ago

Derby

Maybe it’s just me then...I know what ‘my type’ is but I still get more drawn to the kinky side...at least I know it’s just me now

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By *heIcebreakersCouple  over a year ago

Cramlington


"I have a stronger draw to the amount of kink a meet involves more than meeting an expected criteria of attraction...am I alone?"

Yes since only you understand the question you are most certainly on your own

Ms Icebreaker

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"Maybe it’s just me then...I know what ‘my type’ is but I still get more drawn to the kinky side...at least I know it’s just me now"

It isn't just you. Many, many people who contribute to the forum say they are attracted to more than just looks

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By *erynaughty OP   Man  over a year ago

Derby

Maybe I had one gin too many last night

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like a bit of weirdness it makes a person more interesting for me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm weird and I like being weird ..it's great when you meet someone else who's the same kind of weird because you know you will have proper fun and laughter..

Weird can't be faked

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"Maybe I had one gin too many last night"
I

Maybe but it can be confusing on here. There's a perceived normal among many forum contributors which is fairly narrow considering the nature of the site we're on and often quite strongly expressed. If you're outside of that normal it might be easy to consider yourself weird but you're really not.

Embrace the variety I say and enjoy your normal

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What is someone's normal can be someone elses weird, and someones weird can be someone elses normal!!

Who defines which is which?

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By *heIcebreakersCouple  over a year ago

Cramlington


"Maybe I had one gin too many last night"
Possibly...

rem_mber the rule - if drink makes you do things you dont want to do, or things you regret doing, you have a drink problem.

Mr Icebreaker

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman  over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I think a lot of guys are like this, they find someone with the same kinks as them and they're obsessed with the kink more than the person.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For me no. I was involved in kink and fetish long before I was involved in swinging. I've met doms and it's just not worked. When I met beast he said to me I'm worried I can't give you what your needing. I said to him I'm needing someone who's willing to explore and push boundaries together and learn together.

We made love, we had intense sexual meets, we also had fun and sillyness and occasionally had a bit of kink thrown in.

On what was meant to be our last meet together he had me on my knees with my breasts pressed against the window and went to town on me using paddles and floggers and he said to me baby girl you may not be seeing me again but I'm going to make sure you feel me every time you sit down for at least a week. During that session he kissed me and rubbed my soreness away and then hugged me all night. I've never had that intensity, that care and that level of satisfaction from anyone I've just met for kink

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By *nabelle21Woman  over a year ago

B38


"I'll be honest, I don't understand the question. Others might. "

I thought this as I read it...I'll read on for clues

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By *nabelle21Woman  over a year ago

B38


"I'll be honest, I don't understand the question. Others might.

I think he means that it doesn't matter what someone looks like as long as they offer uber kink.

I think"

Oooh

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Si senor

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By *r MoriartyMan  over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I like good sex with hot women, call me old fashioned.

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By *nabelle21Woman  over a year ago

B38


"For me no. I was involved in kink and fetish long before I was involved in swinging. I've met doms and it's just not worked. When I met beast he said to me I'm worried I can't give you what your needing. I said to him I'm needing someone who's willing to explore and push boundaries together and learn together.

We made love, we had intense sexual meets, we also had fun and sillyness and occasionally had a bit of kink thrown in.

On what was meant to be our last meet together he had me on my knees with my breasts pressed against the window and went to town on me using paddles and floggers and he said to me baby girl you may not be seeing me again but I'm going to make sure you feel me every time you sit down for at least a week. During that session he kissed me and rubbed my soreness away and then hugged me all night. I've never had that intensity, that care and that level of satisfaction from anyone I've just met for kink "

Aww..that's great and sounds intensely hot x

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By *nabelle21Woman  over a year ago

B38


"Maybe I had one gin too many last nightI

Maybe but it can be confusing on here. There's a perceived normal among many forum contributors which is fairly narrow considering the nature of the site we're on and often quite strongly expressed. If you're outside of that normal it might be easy to consider yourself weird but you're really not.

Embrace the variety I say and enjoy your normal "

Embrace the variety I say and enjoy your normal....

This is what I say too

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By *mberWoman  over a year ago

Preston


"I'll be honest, I don't understand the question. Others might.

I think he means that it doesn't matter what someone looks like as long as they offer uber kink.

I think

Does uber kink come with a frequent user discount..."

You get a free ride if you introduce a friend

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Thumbs down to the 'confused' folk. The O.P. makes perfect sense.

O.P. You are not alone. What's more I'd hazard a guess that as you are putting out feelers suggesting you are some kind of strange being that you don't have a scooby what's out there or how far removed from the accepted 'norm' a LOT of folk are. I'm 100% tame btw.

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