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By *urvySub87 OP Woman
over a year ago
Near Wellingborough |
To cuddle after a meet? I have a fwb who has offered to cuddle after sex as it's probably the only thing that I miss about a relationship but is it weird to cuddle up to someone you don't see as more than a friend? |
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over a year ago
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"To cuddle after a meet? I have a fwb who has offered to cuddle after sex as it's probably the only thing that I miss about a relationship but is it weird to cuddle up to someone you don't see as more than a friend? "
No way is that weird OP, snuggle in and enjoy the cuddle.  |
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By *urvySub87 OP Woman
over a year ago
Near Wellingborough |
"for me yes, but I'm not single and I'm not looking for intimacy of that sort."
But don't you find sex intimate anyway? Even if it's just a one night thing it's the most intimate thing you can do. I just want to collapse into a guys arms after hours of mind blowing sex. I have friends that I wouldn't dream of asking as it's not our thing but this particular friend is so sweet and has offered I just don't want it to be weird |
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No it's nice. Just to show some care & a little affection for someone who's been brave enough to meet up. I couldn't walk away without spending a little time cuddling up & being there for another lonely soul. There will always be different views tho. X |
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"for me yes, but I'm not single and I'm not looking for intimacy of that sort.
But don't you find sex intimate anyway? Even if it's just a one night thing it's the most intimate thing you can do. I just want to collapse into a guys arms after hours of mind blowing sex. I have friends that I wouldn't dream of asking as it's not our thing but this particular friend is so sweet and has offered I just don't want it to be weird"
If you don't feel its weird then it isn't  , that's why I said "for me" .
I do find lots of things about being sexual intimate for sure but cuddles are a type of intimacy I don't want from our casual partners. I suspect more people find me weird than you |
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"Nope. I had a fwb in the past who had never cuddled. Without the cuddles I wasn't getting what I needed from him so he learnt to cuddle
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yeah I think its about two or more people agreeing on what they need from a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My fwb doesn’t cuddle me and if I raise it he says ‘we are not in a relationship’...
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There's an option for you if you want something different. You don't have to tow the line! |
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"I’m glad you posted this I was wondering too, as I’m new I’m not sure on the etiquette so to speak x I love a cuddle just didn’t know if it was the norm lol "
you do what's normal for you and agreed between you and the people you meet ! There isn't an etiquette |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I don't think it's weird. It would be weirder if, after sex, they said 'ok you can go now', for me anyway. I enjoy being held for a bit afterwards. 20 mins max though otherwise I'm likely to fall asleep. |
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"To cuddle after a meet? I have a fwb who has offered to cuddle after sex as it's probably the only thing that I miss about a relationship but is it weird to cuddle up to someone you don't see as more than a friend? "
Always cuddle affection is part of it  |
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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago
Essex |
I love cuddles whether that's with or without sex, I'm just a cuddly person.
But with sex it makes the intimacy just so much better for me especially if we spoon cuddle after sex, my favourite cuddle position. X
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
Whitley Bay |
I love cuddles! Especially with my fwb's, were intimate. I cuddle my friends too. But then I'm tactile.
I have had situations where lingering cuddles are not really appropriate but I still like warmth and a hug x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To cuddle after a meet? I have a fwb who has offered to cuddle after sex as it's probably the only thing that I miss about a relationship but is it weird to cuddle up to someone you don't see as more than a friend? "
Cuddle is fine |
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By *urvySub87 OP Woman
over a year ago
Near Wellingborough |
Ive got one fwb who stops during sex to have a cuddle but as soon as it's done he's up and dressed. I'm hoping the other fwb gives me a cuddle after all is done so it's not quite so much "wham bam thank you mam" kinda thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to have cuddles with my FWB. Fell for him. He didn't want a relationship. We are a couple for over two years now so be careful who you have cuddles with |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to have cuddles with my FWB. Fell for him. He didn't want a relationship. We are a couple for over two years now so be careful who you have cuddles with "
I've had cuddles with all my meets in 8 years and never had it leading to issues.
I'd say don't only be careful about who you cuddle. Be truthful about what you want |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to have cuddles with my FWB. Fell for him. He didn't want a relationship. We are a couple for over two years now so be careful who you have cuddles with
I've had cuddles with all my meets in 8 years and never had it leading to issues.
I'd say don't only be careful about who you cuddle. Be truthful about what you want"
Neither of us was looking for a relationship when we first met. It just happened and we are happy it did |
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By *etite_RosyWoman
over a year ago
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"To cuddle after a meet? I have a fwb who has offered to cuddle after sex as it's probably the only thing that I miss about a relationship but is it weird to cuddle up to someone you don't see as more than a friend? "
Absolutely natural thing, nothing weird with it.
I have my partner but even if there is more than himself (FF or MM), cuddle always good
You may find it great experience after all the hot & steamy fun
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To cuddle after a meet? I have a fwb who has offered to cuddle after sex as it's probably the only thing that I miss about a relationship but is it weird to cuddle up to someone you don't see as more than a friend? "
I see no issues in it, I enjoy a little chill after |
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Cuddles are great, its all part of the mix and depends on the situation and the people. Had plenty of post meet cuddles and some cuddles only meets. Even a few FWC long term friends we know nothing else is ever going to happen but love a cuddle. |
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"To cuddle after a meet? I have a fwb who has offered to cuddle after sex as it's probably the only thing that I miss about a relationship but is it weird to cuddle up to someone you don't see as more than a friend? "
If you have a common understanding of your needs then I think a cuddle is a perfect way to conclude an amazing time you have just shared x |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Not in the slightest bit weird - in fact in the context of a one to one meet I'd find it weirder not to have cuddles and snuggling in between other stuff as part of the overall experience - the idea of turning up, getting naked, having sex, getting dressed and leaving leaves me cold personally - but appreciate others may feel differently, and if they do then in terms of meeting we wouldn't be a good match |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not weird at all. It's lovely to snuggle up in that post orgasm glow before the next round begins.
I dated someone for a while who suffered terribly with post orgasm regret. For that reason the snuggle time after was lacking, despite the most mind blowing fun. I really missed it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To cuddle after a meet? I have a fwb who has offered to cuddle after sex as it's probably the only thing that I miss about a relationship but is it weird to cuddle up to someone you don't see as more than a friend? "
i cuddle, sex is intimate and so are cuddles, cuddle away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot are saying they need cuddles, and is essential, so do you ask before meeting if cuddles are part of the deal?
I rarely cuddle. I never cuddle after sex with those I fuck, i just feel so awkward. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To cuddle after a meet? I have a fwb who has offered to cuddle after sex as it's probably the only thing that I miss about a relationship but is it weird to cuddle up to someone you don't see as more than a friend? "
Nothing is weird between two people,if they are both happy to do it |
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