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Do you ever wonder if your on anyone’s hotlist?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ever wonder if your on anyone’s hotlist??"
Every now and again I do.. |
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"Do you ever wonder if your on anyone’s hotlist??"
Not a chance in hell lol |
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I know I am on some as they've told me but I've never really given it much thought x |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
I'd rather be on someone's friends list. |
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"Do you ever wonder if your on anyone’s hotlist??
Not a chance in hell lol"
Would you not like to know?? |
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"I'd rather be on someone's friends list. "
Is there much difference between friends and hotlist?? |
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"Do you ever wonder if your on anyone’s hotlist??
Not a chance in hell lol
Would you not like to know??"
I doubt very much I’m on anyone’s. So no. I’d rather not have that confirmed.
Ignorance is bliss |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I'd rather be on someone's friends list.
Is there much difference between friends and hotlist?? "
For me yes. It's says to me that there's a mutual appreciation.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been lurking so very much doubt it |
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"I'd rather be on someone's friends list.
Is there much difference between friends and hotlist?? "
My hotlist is for people I've yet to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I do lol |
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I have to admit I'm curious about it. |
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"Do you ever wonder if your on anyone’s hotlist??
Not a chance in hell lol
Would you not like to know??
I doubt very much I’m on anyone’s. So no. I’d rather not have that confirmed.
I can’t imagine you wouldn’t be on anyone’s
Ignorance is bliss "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know I am on some as they've told me but I've never really given it much thought x"
You're on mine!! Xx |
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"I'd rather be on someone's friends list.
Is there much difference between friends and hotlist??
My hotlist is for people I've yet to meet."
Good way of doing it. Never thought of that. Might steal that idea |
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There's no way of finding out apart from asking people? |
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"I know I am on some as they've told me but I've never really given it much thought x
You're on mine!! Xx"
Bless you but we ain’t really lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP you have just been added to mine  |
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I'd rather be on someone's friend list.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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doubt if i am on any ones list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know I am on some as they've told me but I've never really given it much thought x
You're on mine!! Xx
Bless you but we ain’t really lol"
That was for Sparkle!! Lol. |
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"OP you have just been added to mine "
Thanks. Think we have spoke before haven’t we?? |
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"There's no way of finding out apart from asking people? "
True but that’s an awkward thing to ask |
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"There's no way of finding out apart from asking people? "
Didn’t think so. And it’s a bit vein if you do ask aswell lol |
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"I know I am on some as they've told me but I've never really given it much thought x
You're on mine!! Xx
Bless you but we ain’t really lol
That was for Sparkle!! Lol."
Haha lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know im on most of the regular people i talk to never gave it much thought about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't think i'd want to know tbh it's not always a good thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP you have just been added to mine
Thanks. Think we have spoke before haven’t we??"
Yes think I was chatting to mr? X |
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"Don't think i'd want to know tbh it's not always a good thing"
How could it be a bad thing? |
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I do wonder if profile visit triggered add but also for what reason... people use hot list for different reasons, don't they  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't think i'd want to know tbh it's not always a good thing
How could it be a bad thing?"
I don't want to meet everyone on mine |
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"OP you have just been added to mine
Thanks. Think we have spoke before haven’t we??
Yes think I was chatting to mr? X"
Yeah thought so |
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Seeing unread messages in my sent box is enough of a confidence knock.
Realising I’m not in anyone’s hot list would tip me over the edge lol |
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"Seeing unread messages in my sent box is enough of a confidence knock.
Realising I’m not in anyone’s hot list would tip me over the edge lol"
It’s a shame you didn’t live closer to us |
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"Seeing unread messages in my sent box is enough of a confidence knock.
Realising I’m not in anyone’s hot list would tip me over the edge lol
It’s a shame you didn’t live closer to us"
Awwww shucks |
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A few folk have messaged to tell me i am. Even couples which comes as a suprise. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"A few folk have messaged to tell me i am. Even couples which comes as a suprise."
It shouldn't be such a surprise. You are gorgeous xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are some who repeatedly view my profile, so perhaps I'm on theirs lol |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"There are some who repeatedly view my profile, so perhaps I'm on theirs lol "
Or they like your bum.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who knows  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are some who repeatedly view my profile, so perhaps I'm on theirs lol "
Yeah you can tell when they repeatedly view your page deffo on their hotlist |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are some who repeatedly view my profile, so perhaps I'm on theirs lol
Yeah you can tell when they repeatedly view your page deffo on their hotlist "
Really? I wonder why some of them never message me then? Just there for a perve I guess  |
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"There are some who repeatedly view my profile, so perhaps I'm on theirs lol
Yeah you can tell when they repeatedly view your page deffo on their hotlist
Really? I wonder why some of them never message me then? Just there for a perve I guess "
Yeah we get that too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are some who repeatedly view my profile, so perhaps I'm on theirs lol
Yeah you can tell when they repeatedly view your page deffo on their hotlist
Really? I wonder why some of them never message me then? Just there for a perve I guess
Yeah we get that too"
I also have a group of repeated winkers (yes, I did spell that correctly ) who never message either lol |
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It would of still made sense if you did spell it wrong lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would of still made sense if you did spell it wrong lol"
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"There are some who repeatedly view my profile, so perhaps I'm on theirs lol
Yeah you can tell when they repeatedly view your page deffo on their hotlist
Really? I wonder why some of them never message me then? Just there for a perve I guess
Yeah we get that too"
So do I. There's a particular couple that view often. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, I've just added one or two new people to my hotlist  |
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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago
Your wildest Dreams |
"There are some who repeatedly view my profile, so perhaps I'm on theirs lol "
Same or as soon as I come online, I get a message off same people asking how am I x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well, I've just added one or two new people to my hotlist "
Me too |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Well, I've just added one or two new people to my hotlist "
You naughty girl. Lol |
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"Well, I've just added one or two new people to my hotlist "
Is one of them us lol |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
Friend requests are more fun.
Just saying. |
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It would be fun to know. So if I am, come show yourself |
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I like to imagine that I am at least on someone's lukewarm list... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to imagine that I am at least on someone's lukewarm list... "
Oh fab should sooo do this.
I need a lukewarm list. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would be fun to know. So if I am, come show yourself "
You were but I upgraded you to friends list. |
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"I like to imagine that I am at least on someone's lukewarm list...
Oh fab should sooo do this.
I need a lukewarm list.
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Let's all nip over to the site feedback forum and lobby for this... |
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By *Marvel-Man
over a year ago
In The Gym |
"There's no way of finding out apart from asking people? "
I message people telling them I've added them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to imagine that I am at least on someone's lukewarm list...
Oh fab should sooo do this.
I need a lukewarm list.
Let's all nip over to the site feedback forum and lobby for this... "
Ohhh let's do this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The site needs a to-do list "
Iv done mine! |
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This thread had done a lot better then I thought it would. Normally get 1-2 reply’s lol thanks for taking a interest lol |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
Well, a certain Couple in Milan and Brum, won't be on my Hot List.
Don't ask me why?? Just a hunch! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure I'm not on my hotlists |
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"I'm sure I'm not on my hotlists"
I'm sure you are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure I'm not on my hotlists
I'm sure you are "
Well if I am I wish they would come and say hello |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Do you ever wonder if your on anyone’s hotlist??"
When I see people who aren't on friends list consistently fab my photos my spidey sense gets all tingly |
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"Do you ever wonder if your on anyone’s hotlist??
When I see people who aren't on friends list consistently fab my photos my spidey sense gets all tingly "
I bet you are on a lot of lists |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Do you ever wonder if your on anyone’s hotlist??
When I see people who aren't on friends list consistently fab my photos my spidey sense gets all tingly
I bet you are on a lot of lists "
Spider man was on a lot of people's hit lists  |
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We don't care. We have a hotlist and those people are sexy to look at but never going to contact us.
Fantasy. |
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"We don't care. We have a hotlist and those people are sexy to look at but never going to contact us.
Fantasy. "
It's a pitty you guys have a filter |
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I think a couple more may be needed to add onto mine |
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Is anyone going to be brave enough and say who’s on theirs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is anyone going to be brave enough and say who’s on theirs"
Nope |
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By *Marvel-Man
over a year ago
In The Gym |
"Is anyone going to be brave enough and say who’s on theirs"
Too many to list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know I'm on 3. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No not really and I don't think I'm on anyone's |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
"Is anyone going to be brave enough and say who’s on theirs"
Nope! I'm a coward by profession! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is anyone going to be brave enough and say who’s on theirs"
No one that uses the forums is on mine |
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We use it as a hot list but also to keep track of people, like people who have used our photos in their profile when they never met us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ever wonder if your on anyone’s hotlist??"
no not really, why do you feel you need to be Op? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't know not bothered |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ever wonder if your on anyone’s hotlist??"
if its any consolation the lady of your couple looks hot  |
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"Do you ever wonder if your on anyone’s hotlist??if its any consolation the lady of your couple looks hot "
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont think i am, but if I am then they dont talk to me much |
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How does one find out if one is on someone's hotlist? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldn’t care less tbh.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Added someone from this thread, eye candy in the morning |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive never been told I am tbh x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know who they are as they frequently spy on my profile and fan the same pic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m always surprised if people tell me I’m on their hotlist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and it would be awesome to know if we’re on someone’s hot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Now 2 people added |
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I'm not given it any thought but I've been told I'm on a few.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes and it would be awesome to know if we’re on someone’s hot. "
That would be a great feature like
"You've been added on someone's hotlist"
And of course
"You've been removed on someone's hotlist"
Or "you have 10 fab fans" |
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I know I'm not, but I do have several who may be shocked that they are on mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Id much rather be in them than there hotlist |
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I know that I'm on a lot of people's hotlist because they pounce on me with messages literally as soon as I come online or do a status update. It's like some big alarm must go off
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"How does one find out if one is on someone's hotlist?"
One can't |
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I would rather be on someone's "to do " list.
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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
Had a couple pic fabbers tell me id been hotlisted supprised and flattered |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can anyone tell us if we’re on their hot list? |
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"Can anyone tell us if we’re on their hot list?"
No you can't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm on so many women's hot list i mean who'd have thought |
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Not put to much thought tbh if I'm on someone's hot list but a tinder style feature of both users who "hotlisted" eachother could be a nice conversation starter.
Most women browse profiles in ninja mode so us men might not even know they visited .
If shyness is a factor on woman's side ,she might not message her crush .
Just a thought .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No |
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There is a few from my Hotlist on this thread though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No i think its pretty obvious if u know what to look for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I don't x |
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If I am that’s good but I am not loosing sleep over it! ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nah |
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Just out of curiosity are we on anyone’s from this forum. Private msg please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do! Please make yourself known |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just added someone from this thread though |
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"Just added someone from this thread though
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Ah, thanks... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just added someone from this thread though
Ah, thanks... "
More cock pics please |
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"Just added someone from this thread though
Ah, thanks...
More cock pics please "
Are the 65 on my profile not enough? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just added someone from this thread though
Ah, thanks...
More cock pics please
Are the 65 on my profile not enough? "
I was edging as I scrolled through the pics and was of the cusp of orgasm when I ran out of pics to look at, another 2 would have done the job |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ever wonder if your on anyone’s hotlist??"
Not until I read this lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know of a couple that have me on their hotlist |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do sometimes but would it be good if you knew whos hot list your on. Im sure in most cases if men knew they would hound ladies even more |
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I hope we are, I’d like to think we are! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, though I doubt I'm actually on anyones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ever wonder if your on anyone’s hotlist??
Not until I read this lol"
Well it would be a lovely little ego rub to know that we are, but does it ever matter. Fuck the hotlist |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would be a nice thought but its not the end of the world.. |
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"It would be a nice thought but its not the end of the world..
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Well, you certainly are now. Though I am sure you were already, many times over! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you upload a new pic you can kind of tell how many hotlists you’re on. I can get around 60 fabs within 10 minutes of uploading a new pic which suggests to me I’m on quite a few people’s lists.
Happy to be on more! |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
People use their hot lists for many different reasons so to be on one may not be that good
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was never sure if the person was notified about being on someone's hot list. I just assumed I wasn't. Would be kinda nice to know but I'll not worry about It |
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"Is anyone going to be brave enough and say who’s on theirs"
It's a bit big to list all .
But not all I want to meet , some are just there for example for artsy pictures and hotlisted so I get updates .
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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago
Your wildest Dreams |
"Is anyone going to be brave enough and say who’s on theirs
It's a bit big to list all .
But not all I want to meet , some are just there for example for artsy pictures and hotlisted so I get updates .
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exactly this x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s too many on mine to list. I use mine for people I find hot but haven’t got round to messaging yet.
I have people on there that have weird am wonderful pictures.
I have grotesque looking people on there.
Have people on there from the forums that I enjoy their posts so like to see when they’re online.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Is always nice to be told (when it's for the right reasons of course) but it's not something I spend time wondering about |
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Not particularly, although it's nice to be told you are on someone's hotlist for a positive reason.
Jo.Xx |
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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago
from the womb and tryout to get back |
Some people use there hot list as a not list I'll probably be on there somewhere |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
"Some people use there hot list as a not list I'll probably be on there somewhere "
Ahhhhhhhh buttercup |
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"Some people use there hot list as a not list I'll probably be on there somewhere "
Well you are on mine and I don’t use it as a not list |
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over a year ago
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"Do you ever wonder if your on anyone’s hotlist??
Not until I read this lol
Well it would be a lovely little ego rub to know that we are, but does it ever matter. Fuck the hotlist "
Oh yes it would be a nice ego boost there’s no lie there |
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"Do you ever wonder if your on anyone’s hotlist??"
By chance you’re on ours! |
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Would be nice to think we are, nicer if we actually got to meet someone though x storm x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm like Tom from MySpace, I just get added to everyone's as soon as they join |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm like Tom from MySpace, I just get added to everyone's as soon as they join"
Showing your age there Lorenzo. MySpace???
As some have said on here, I'd rather be on someone's friend list. However, having said that...it is always nice knowing someone finds you attractive. |
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The immediate fabs when I upload a new picture give some of them away. And I got a fair few responses when I did the "am I on your hotlist?" status update |
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By *dinMan
over a year ago
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"The immediate fabs when I upload a new picture give some of them away. And I got a fair few responses when I did the "am I on your hotlist?" status update"
guess the lack of immediate fabs on my pics and videos then suggests I am on very few hotlists   lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good few beautiful people here from my hotlist  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t really think about it. I don’t use my hotlist so I have no idea who uses it and why. I know some use it as a not list though and sometimes I wonder if I’m on any of those  |
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"Do you ever wonder if your on anyone’s hotlist??"
I would like to think they would tell me if I was |
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"There's no way of finding out apart from asking people? "
Not as far as we know |
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"There's no way of finding out apart from asking people?
Not as far as we know "
Oh there’s ways |
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"I don’t really think about it. I don’t use my hotlist so I have no idea who uses it and why. I know some use it as a not list though and sometimes I wonder if I’m on any of those "
We wonder about it. But it’s not a big thing. We use ours as a way of marking the profiles we like, not just because we fancy them. Some people always put up funny updates or take great photos. |
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"There's no way of finding out apart from asking people?
Not as far as we know
Oh there’s ways "
I suppose we could just ask you |
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"Is anyone going to be brave enough and say who’s on theirs"
2 on this thread were already on mine and I guarantee I wont be on theirs |
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I think people should spill who they have on there hotlist |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t really think about it. I don’t use my hotlist so I have no idea who uses it and why. I know some use it as a not list though and sometimes I wonder if I’m on any of those "
Was just thinking the same kinda thing tbh. What's the point in the hotlist? Anybody you want to stay in touch with you obviously keep the message thread and anybody you dont want to know, you just simply block. I never use it myself. Why? |
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I’ve listed more than I realised. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ever wonder if your on anyone’s hotlist??"
Nah. Not really. Chances are veeeeery slim indeed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How does one find out if one is on someone's hotlist?"
Start the "you're on my hotlist" game... I forget how it goes otherwise I'd do it |
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I've been pleasantly surprised by whose I'm on when the 'am I on your hotlist' game is on in the forum. Some we've ended up as fab friends and upgraded each other x |
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"I think people should spill who they have on there hotlist"
Hahaaaa nope, I've read other posts elsewhere and I know they'd be horrified to find out so I'm keeping quiet this time. |
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I'd not really given it much thought until now. My hotlist tends to be people I want to meet at some point more than anything else, but I know people use them for a whole variety of purposes.
I know I'm on the hotlist of one of my fab friends because he told me so, no idea beyond that. |
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There is one guy, one lady, and one couple who have posted on this thread on our hotlist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ever wonder if your on anyone’s hotlist??"
Wishful thinking lol but probably not lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know I am on some as they've told me but I've never really given it much thought x"
Yes you’ve been on mine for a while now |
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I think I’m on a few people’s hot lists. Whilst it’s undoubtedly flattering (as long as you’re there because they fancy you and nothing else) it’s only really interesting if there’s a mutual interest.
What would be great would be if you got some kind of alert if two people/couples are on each other’s hotlist - then you could really do something about it with the likelihood of not getting a knock back (water off a duck’s back to me but I know many are less self confident).
Many dating sites use programs like this so I’m sure it’s possible - though might necessitate a more up to date site/subscription increase.
It’d make the site far more useful for those of us who actually meet though! X |
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