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Labiaplasty, is it worth it?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have any of the women here had a labiaplasty? If so, how was your experience? And do you think it was worth it in the end, would you do it again if you had to make the choice a second time? |
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It has massively gained in popularity in recent years and achieves high satisfaction outcomes combined with low complication rates
Remember, elective surgical procedures for cosmetic purposes are largely about how the results make you feel rather than just the visual improvement aspect
Always consult with a reputable clinical aesthetics provider and 'shop around' to compare the advice given
Good luck and best wishes |
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I have, did it for myself no one else,50th birthday present.still recouping,so much hard to recover from than l ever imagined but that may be due to my age.
I’m sure l will be happy with the results in the end,ask me again in another month ,dury is out at them moment
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It has massively gained in popularity in recent years and achieves high satisfaction outcomes combined with low complication rates
Remember, elective surgical procedures for cosmetic purposes are largely about how the results make you feel rather than just the visual improvement aspect
Always consult with a reputable clinical aesthetics provider and 'shop around' to compare the advice given
Good luck and best wishes "
Of course, it's not something I'd do with at the first clinic I came across, there's no undoing it so quality care is my top priority. I just wondered about any cons after surgery from people that have had it done.
Thank you for the advice =) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have, did it for myself no one else,50th birthday present.still recouping,so much hard to recover from than l ever imagined but that may be due to my age.
I’m sure l will be happy with the results in the end,ask me again in another month ,dury is out at them moment
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Please let me know how you feel about it when it's all healed up, and I hope the rest of your recovery goes smoothly! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why would you want to?
Because I think I'd prefer it if my labia were smaller.
Is that why you hide them in all your photos?"
No, I just prefer to leave something to the imagination. |
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"Why would you want to?
Because I think I'd prefer it if my labia were smaller.
Is that why you hide them in all your photos?
No, I just prefer to leave something to the imagination."
It's working really well then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I used to dream about this when I was younger. I hated my vagina. I was 15 when I first got with my partner and I didn't let him have a good look at it for YEARS. I was petrified of giving birth one day knowing midwives would have to see my vagina.
It's so sad but society had made me feel so ashamed of my fucking fanny. I was so obsessed over it. Why doesn't it look like the ones in porn? Why is my labia bigger and why does it sticksl out? Why do all the boys go on about how ugly larger labia is?!
But now, I realise it really is just boys and narrow minded idiots who try to shame a woman for how her vagina looks. I think these days larger labia is more accepted by society and even in porn you see a huge variety of vaginas and they are all so different.
I wouldn't have it done now, not even if you paid me. I love my vagina. I'd only get it done if it was uncomfortable or if I was really down about it and it bothered me every day of my life. Sometimes it's worth having something like this done if it's really getting to you. It's a choice only you can make.  |
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"Why would you want to?
Because I think I'd prefer it if my labia were smaller.
Is that why you hide them in all your photos?
No, I just prefer to leave something to the imagination.
It's working really well then "
What is? |
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"I used to dream about this when I was younger. I hated my vagina. I was 15 when I first got with my partner and I didn't let him have a good look at it for YEARS. I was petrified of giving birth one day knowing midwives would have to see my vagina.
It's so sad but society had made me feel so ashamed of my fucking fanny. I was so obsessed over it. Why doesn't it look like the ones in porn? Why is my labia bigger and why does it sticksl out? Why do all the boys go on about how ugly larger labia is?!
But now, I realise it really is just boys and narrow minded idiots who try to shame a woman for how her vagina looks. I think these days larger labia is more accepted by society and even in porn you see a huge variety of vaginas and they are all so different.
I wouldn't have it done now, not even if you paid me. I love my vagina. I'd only get it done if it was uncomfortable or if I was really down about it and it bothered me every day of my life. Sometimes it's worth having something like this done if it's really getting to you. It's a choice only you can make. "
A post which has got me thinking about the Pot Noodle slurping again!! |
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"I have, did it for myself no one else,50th birthday present.still recouping,so much hard to recover from than l ever imagined but that may be due to my age.
I’m sure l will be happy with the results in the end,ask me again in another month ,dury is out at them moment
Please let me know how you feel about it when it's all healed up, and I hope the rest of your recovery goes smoothly!"
Thank you will do x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I used to dream about this when I was younger. I hated my vagina. I was 15 when I first got with my partner and I didn't let him have a good look at it for YEARS. I was petrified of giving birth one day knowing midwives would have to see my vagina.
It's so sad but society had made me feel so ashamed of my fucking fanny. I was so obsessed over it. Why doesn't it look like the ones in porn? Why is my labia bigger and why does it sticksl out? Why do all the boys go on about how ugly larger labia is?!
But now, I realise it really is just boys and narrow minded idiots who try to shame a woman for how her vagina looks. I think these days larger labia is more accepted by society and even in porn you see a huge variety of vaginas and they are all so different.
I wouldn't have it done now, not even if you paid me. I love my vagina. I'd only get it done if it was uncomfortable or if I was really down about it and it bothered me every day of my life. Sometimes it's worth having something like this done if it's really getting to you. It's a choice only you can make. "
I'm really not sure if I'll go ahead with it or not, I was always self conscious of it, from a young age, but then my husband made me feel much better about it.
But I think hearing the way men talk about larger labia and vulvas in general on here has just brought all of my old insecurities to the surface :/ |
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How is a successful Labiaplasty affected as your Oestrogen levels deplete in menopausal years? ( yes I know you’re way off that OP)
It’s well known that Labia decrease in size in later years and if you have had this procedure how does it then affect?
Or does it at all? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How is a successful Labiaplasty affected as your Oestrogen levels deplete in menopausal years? ( yes I know you’re way off that OP)
It’s well known that Labia decrease in size in later years and if you have had this procedure how does it then affect?
Or does it at all?"
I'd be interested to know this too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why would you want to?
Because I think I'd prefer it if my labia were smaller.
Is that why you hide them in all your photos?
No, I just prefer to leave something to the imagination.
It's working really well then
What is?"
Leaving something to the imagination |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm really not sure if I'll go ahead with it or not, I was always self conscious of it, from a young age, but then my husband made me feel much better about it.
But I think hearing the way men talk about larger labia and vulvas in general on here has just brought all of my old insecurities to the surface :/"
I know where you're coming from.I really do. But please remember a man worth your time and vagina won't care about how it looks. If you have it done have it done for YOU and nobody else. I'm sure it is absolutely fine.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm really not sure if I'll go ahead with it or not, I was always self conscious of it, from a young age, but then my husband made me feel much better about it.
But I think hearing the way men talk about larger labia and vulvas in general on here has just brought all of my old insecurities to the surface :/
I know where you're coming from.I really do. But please remember a man worth your time and vagina won't care about how it looks. If you have it done have it done for YOU and nobody else. I'm sure it is absolutely fine. "
Absolutely all this. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I'm really not sure if I'll go ahead with it or not, I was always self conscious of it, from a young age, but then my husband made me feel much better about it.
But I think hearing the way men talk about larger labia and vulvas in general on here has just brought all of my old insecurities to the surface :/
I know where you're coming from.I really do. But please remember a man worth your time and vagina won't care about how it looks. If you have it done have it done for YOU and nobody else. I'm sure it is absolutely fine.
Absolutely all this. Xx"
Thank you both |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to dream about this when I was younger. I hated my vagina. I was 15 when I first got with my partner and I didn't let him have a good look at it for YEARS. I was petrified of giving birth one day knowing midwives would have to see my vagina.
It's so sad but society had made me feel so ashamed of my fucking fanny. I was so obsessed over it. Why doesn't it look like the ones in porn? Why is my labia bigger and why does it sticksl out? Why do all the boys go on about how ugly larger labia is?!
But now, I realise it really is just boys and narrow minded idiots who try to shame a woman for how her vagina looks. I think these days larger labia is more accepted by society and even in porn you see a huge variety of vaginas and they are all so different.
I wouldn't have it done now, not even if you paid me. I love my vagina. I'd only get it done if it was uncomfortable or if I was really down about it and it bothered me every day of my life. Sometimes it's worth having something like this done if it's really getting to you. It's a choice only you can make. "
Well said, and perfectly presented.
I'm a massive lover of large labia, have been for years. It's such a sexy look. Some lips are even, some are longer on one side than the other, some dark, some lighter, I love them all.
Please think carefully before you go ahead! Xx |
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I have always been conscious of mine because of how big they are and felt ugly because of it. I dreaded giving birth the first time too because I thought I was abnormal. Turns out they didn't bat an eyelid, obviously. 
I have a scar down one side now due to tearing at birth with my last child.
I still have my moments now about the size but I'm more accepting of what I have.
And actually quite thankful.
Jo.Xx |
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Have a look at artist Jamie McCartney's Great Wall of Vagina. It is all about combating Vagina shaming and shows just how many different shapes/sizes/looks there are & all are perfectly normal.
Only you can decide what is right for you, but surgery is a big step. |
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"Have a look at artist Jamie McCartney's Great Wall of Vagina. It is all about combating Vagina shaming and shows just how many different shapes/sizes/looks there are & all are perfectly normal.
Only you can decide what is right for you, but surgery is a big step. "
And can’t be undone ... |
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