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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being a smoker I wouldn't dream of smoking in the house of a non smoker.
I also wouldn't dream of smoking in the house of a smoker until they invited me to, and only then if they smoked inside too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't smoke, but I've no problems in meeting people who do. While I respect people's preferences, excluding anyone on that basis alone I find unfair."
I don't mind being excluded because of it. I know it tastes grim. I mean, I'd exclude someone who didn't wipe their arse properly and wanted me to rim them.
I might meet them for pie n chips but there wouldn't be any rudies. What I'm trying to say is I wouldn't exclude someone as a human because of a habit, but I may exclude them as a play partner, I can totally understand it.
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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago
from the womb and tryout to get back |
"I am quitting but struggling.
Smoking indoors is horrible, even as a smoker/optimistic ex smoker I can’t stand it "
keep at it if you really want to quit you can do it just try and keep away from stressful situations  |
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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago
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I'm a smoker but never smoke when on a meet with a non smoker whether it's my place or there's, I've had some long meets 6+ hours so I can go for a long time without one. Maybe I should quit, althou I did have other things on my mind instead of a cigarette.  |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I don't smoke, but I've no problems in meeting people who do. While I respect people's preferences, excluding anyone on that basis alone I find unfair.
I don't mind being excluded because of it. I know it tastes grim. I mean, I'd exclude someone who didn't wipe their arse properly and wanted me to rim them.
I might meet them for pie n chips but there wouldn't be any rudies. What I'm trying to say is I wouldn't exclude someone as a human because of a habit, but I may exclude them as a play partner, I can totally understand it.
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I can see that perspective but I suppose that would be dependent on how much they smoke and if they do anything to minimize what you might find unpleasant re odours. |
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Ive just spent 8 months in a couples non smoking house.
While doing up there 2 propertys in scotland.
They knew I smoked but I wouldnt smoke in there house, As I fully respected there wishes even when on my own in there property.
always went outside for a smoke in all weathers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've stopped and started a few times but I dont smoke in the house and I'm happy to meet smokers. When I meet someone on here I dont smoke after I've showered before I meet until we've parted company after the meet |
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I don't mind meeting smokers so long as they make the effort not to be stinking of it. I don't smoke but grew up with it so I'm quite used to it but then I think it's just good manners not to be stinking of it |
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I think stinky smokers are much, much rarer than they used to be. Most are very considerate and mindful of their impact on others, and I've often been grateful for those who are willing to mitigate their impact on me (I'm a highly unusual case and don't expect to be entirely catered to). I'm definitely and permanently in the "no smokers, will never meet smokers" camp, but I feel no need to criticise. |
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Due to very weak will power, I try to avoid smokers. Fell off the wagon last year and gave up again end of March... every day I crave a ciggy, which is why I won't meet smokers. It's not a judgemental thing |
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