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"Why would it be "ok" to see someone urinate, but not see them defecate? "
Well, you're a man, you're expected to share urinals with other men, so why shouldn't you see women do likewise? Equally, why should women be afforded such privacy when men are not? |
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"Why would it be "ok" to see someone urinate, but not see them defecate?
Well, you're a man, you're expected to share urinals with other men, so why shouldn't you see women do likewise? Equally, why should women be afforded such privacy when men are not?"
Most Male toilets also have cubicles. Sharing isnt enforced it's an option. |
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over a year ago
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Sadly no....because theres some dirty orrid perverts out there, who wouldn't be there for convenience of the toilets.
Secondly NO....the bloody queue would be massive. |
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" Sadly no....because theres some dirty orrid perverts out there, who wouldn't be there for convenience of the toilets.
Secondly NO....the bloody queue would be massive."
Well men of all sexual persuasions and perversions share our urinals, yet we seem to manage? |
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"Is it "ok" for all genders to be able to physically see each other going to "number ones". IE with no cubicles. If not, why not?"
Don't know about "number ones" but a change of tampon during heavy period should be fun to watch.
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"Is it "ok" for all genders to be able to physically see each other going to "number ones". IE with no cubicles. If not, why not?"
noooooo i cant have anyone watch me shit
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"No I wouldn't like anyone to be able to see me wee regardless of their sex.
Sounds a bit "old fashioned"?"
How old fashioned ?
I'd imagine that originally we pissed where ever we needed to.
Far from old fashioned it's just more civil to have privacy when piddlin'
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"Is it "ok" for all genders to be able to physically see each other going to "number ones". IE with no cubicles. If not, why not?noooooo i cant have anyone watch me shit"
Thought that was "number two" 
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"Is it "ok" for all genders to be able to physically see each other going to "number ones". IE with no cubicles. If not, why not?noooooo i cant have anyone watch me shit"
What on earth do you call a "number 2" then?! |
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By *ayRosesWoman
over a year ago
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Because I don't want to piss in front of other people. I don't piss in front of women, I'm sure as fuck not doing so in a room full of cocks, especially those that can't clean up after themselves.
I don't need a reason, it's part of the Equality Act 2010... |
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"Is it "ok" for all genders to be able to physically see each other going to "number ones". IE with no cubicles. If not, why not?"
a few venues i.e nightclubs local amusement park have unisex toilets down here as well as separate male and female loos and they function fine. All cubicles in the unisex however and that’s how it should be
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"Is it "ok" for all genders to be able to physically see each other going to "number ones". IE with no cubicles. If not, why not?"
No I'd like privacy and a same sex toilet.
And before you say anything about men having to share urinals, I'm not saying I agree with that either. But I'm not a man so I can't comment from that perspective. |
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"I wonder if people have different toilets for men and women at home"
I dont know, but my dog just ate the shit, the cat did in his litter tray. I think that is good evidence for segregation! |
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"Not to mention the kinky bastards on here who get turned on by it ....... fancy peeing infront of them.
Your local perv would forever be on the soddin office bog."
Men don't have separate urinals for homosexual men or anyone else. I don't see that as an excuse. There's nothing stopping a gay man standing at a urinal, just to look at dick is there? |
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"I wonder if people have different toilets for men and women at home
I dont know, but my dog just ate the shit, the cat did in his litter tray. I think that is good evidence for segregation!"
 You must be feeding the cat some damn good stuff. |
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"Not to mention the kinky bastards on here who get turned on by it ....... fancy peeing infront of them.
Your local perv would forever be on the soddin office bog.
Men don't have separate urinals for homosexual men or anyone else. I don't see that as an excuse. There's nothing stopping a gay man standing at a urinal, just to look at dick is there?"
A fist in the kisser sometimes moves oglers along. |
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"Not to mention the kinky bastards on here who get turned on by it ....... fancy peeing infront of them.
Your local perv would forever be on the soddin office bog.
Men don't have separate urinals for homosexual men or anyone else. I don't see that as an excuse. There's nothing stopping a gay man standing at a urinal, just to look at dick is there?
A fist in the kisser sometimes moves oglers along. "
True. But could be a hate crime these days. |
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"I wonder if people have different toilets for men and women at home"
No but I don't know about yours but mine doesn't have multiple toilets in that we use at the same time with no segregation . I have no issue with unisex toilet cubicles. A lot of bars and restaurants in Liverpool have them. |
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"I wonder if people have different toilets for men and women at home
No but I don't know about yours but mine doesn't have multiple toilets in that we use at the same time with no segregation . I have no issue with unisex toilet cubicles. A lot of bars and restaurants in Liverpool have them."
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"I think you have a point tho Clem. Specially in these times of heightened gender identity awareness. "
Exactly. Men are expected to expose their genitals to men of any sexual persuasion. How comfortable are some of the "110% straight" men on here at sharing urinals with men who might be a "willy watcher"?!  |
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"Not to mention the kinky bastards on here who get turned on by it ....... fancy peeing infront of them.
Your local perv would forever be on the soddin office bog.
Men don't have separate urinals for homosexual men or anyone else. I don't see that as an excuse. There's nothing stopping a gay man standing at a urinal, just to look at dick is there?"
Gay men can look at dick in lots of places,it is the closeted (hetero) ones that often stand at urinals, wishing and hoping. |
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"Not to mention the kinky bastards on here who get turned on by it ....... fancy peeing infront of them.
Your local perv would forever be on the soddin office bog.
Men don't have separate urinals for homosexual men or anyone else. I don't see that as an excuse. There's nothing stopping a gay man standing at a urinal, just to look at dick is there?
Gay men can look at dick in lots of places,it is the closeted (hetero) ones that often stand at urinals, wishing and hoping."
Even so, why should straight men be expected to expose themselves, when women are given individual privacy? |
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"Not to mention the kinky bastards on here who get turned on by it ....... fancy peeing infront of them.
Your local perv would forever be on the soddin office bog.
Men don't have separate urinals for homosexual men or anyone else. I don't see that as an excuse. There's nothing stopping a gay man standing at a urinal, just to look at dick is there?
Gay men can look at dick in lots of places,it is the closeted (hetero) ones that often stand at urinals, wishing and hoping.
Even so, why should straight men be expected to expose themselves, when women are given individual privacy?"
Couldn't men just wait for the cubicle  |
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"Not to mention the kinky bastards on here who get turned on by it ....... fancy peeing infront of them.
Your local perv would forever be on the soddin office bog.
Men don't have separate urinals for homosexual men or anyone else. I don't see that as an excuse. There's nothing stopping a gay man standing at a urinal, just to look at dick is there?
Gay men can look at dick in lots of places,it is the closeted (hetero) ones that often stand at urinals, wishing and hoping.
Even so, why should straight men be expected to expose themselves, when women are given individual privacy?
Couldn't men just wait for the cubicle "
Could be a long wait! And what about open changing rooms?! My gym has no privacy at all! Why isn't it unisex? Why the separation of sexes, but not sexual preference? |
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"Not to mention the kinky bastards on here who get turned on by it ....... fancy peeing infront of them.
Your local perv would forever be on the soddin office bog.
Men don't have separate urinals for homosexual men or anyone else. I don't see that as an excuse. There's nothing stopping a gay man standing at a urinal, just to look at dick is there?
Gay men can look at dick in lots of places,it is the closeted (hetero) ones that often stand at urinals, wishing and hoping.
Even so, why should straight men be expected to expose themselves, when women are given individual privacy?
Couldn't men just wait for the cubicle
Could be a long wait! And what about open changing rooms?! My gym has no privacy at all! Why isn't it unisex? Why the separation of sexes, but not sexual preference?"
Tradition? The changing rooms at my uni gym were unisex. |
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"Not to mention the kinky bastards on here who get turned on by it ....... fancy peeing infront of them.
Your local perv would forever be on the soddin office bog.
Men don't have separate urinals for homosexual men or anyone else. I don't see that as an excuse. There's nothing stopping a gay man standing at a urinal, just to look at dick is there?
Gay men can look at dick in lots of places,it is the closeted (hetero) ones that often stand at urinals, wishing and hoping.
Even so, why should straight men be expected to expose themselves, when women are given individual privacy?
Couldn't men just wait for the cubicle
Could be a long wait! And what about open changing rooms?! My gym has no privacy at all! Why isn't it unisex? Why the separation of sexes, but not sexual preference?
Tradition? The changing rooms at my uni gym were unisex."
Tradition could well be right. When most buildings were designed no onec was considering sexuality when designing toilets and changing facilities. |
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Having used all three, male, female and unisex i think that women should have the privacy of a cubicle.
The amount of clothing coming off and flesh on show is massive compared to a guy at a urinal where your hands are pretty much hiding everything plus what guys look left or right 
Half dont even look down to see where they're going judging by some of the messes some leave behind. |
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"Not to mention the kinky bastards on here who get turned on by it ....... fancy peeing infront of them.
Your local perv would forever be on the soddin office bog.
Men don't have separate urinals for homosexual men or anyone else. I don't see that as an excuse. There's nothing stopping a gay man standing at a urinal, just to look at dick is there?
Gay men can look at dick in lots of places,it is the closeted (hetero) ones that often stand at urinals, wishing and hoping.
Even so, why should straight men be expected to expose themselves, when women are given individual privacy?
Couldn't men just wait for the cubicle
Could be a long wait! And what about open changing rooms?! My gym has no privacy at all! Why isn't it unisex? Why the separation of sexes, but not sexual preference?"
Go to a different gym.
And it's sex segregated to protect women I'm sure. |
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"Not to mention the kinky bastards on here who get turned on by it ....... fancy peeing infront of them.
Your local perv would forever be on the soddin office bog.
Men don't have separate urinals for homosexual men or anyone else. I don't see that as an excuse. There's nothing stopping a gay man standing at a urinal, just to look at dick is there?
Gay men can look at dick in lots of places,it is the closeted (hetero) ones that often stand at urinals, wishing and hoping.
Even so, why should straight men be expected to expose themselves, when women are given individual privacy?
Couldn't men just wait for the cubicle
Could be a long wait! And what about open changing rooms?! My gym has no privacy at all! Why isn't it unisex? Why the separation of sexes, but not sexual preference?
Go to a different gym.
And it's sex segregated to protect women I'm sure. "
Why don’t we protect the men? |
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"Not to mention the kinky bastards on here who get turned on by it ....... fancy peeing infront of them.
Your local perv would forever be on the soddin office bog.
Men don't have separate urinals for homosexual men or anyone else. I don't see that as an excuse. There's nothing stopping a gay man standing at a urinal, just to look at dick is there?
Gay men can look at dick in lots of places,it is the closeted (hetero) ones that often stand at urinals, wishing and hoping.
Even so, why should straight men be expected to expose themselves, when women are given individual privacy?
Couldn't men just wait for the cubicle
Could be a long wait! And what about open changing rooms?! My gym has no privacy at all! Why isn't it unisex? Why the separation of sexes, but not sexual preference?
Go to a different gym.
And it's sex segregated to protect women I'm sure. "
Protect them from what? |
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"Not to mention the kinky bastards on here who get turned on by it ....... fancy peeing infront of them.
Your local perv would forever be on the soddin office bog.
Men don't have separate urinals for homosexual men or anyone else. I don't see that as an excuse. There's nothing stopping a gay man standing at a urinal, just to look at dick is there?
Gay men can look at dick in lots of places,it is the closeted (hetero) ones that often stand at urinals, wishing and hoping.
Even so, why should straight men be expected to expose themselves, when women are given individual privacy?
Couldn't men just wait for the cubicle
Could be a long wait! And what about open changing rooms?! My gym has no privacy at all! Why isn't it unisex? Why the separation of sexes, but not sexual preference?
Go to a different gym.
And it's sex segregated to protect women I'm sure.
Why don’t we protect the men?"
From what? |
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"Not to mention the kinky bastards on here who get turned on by it ....... fancy peeing infront of them.
Your local perv would forever be on the soddin office bog.
Men don't have separate urinals for homosexual men or anyone else. I don't see that as an excuse. There's nothing stopping a gay man standing at a urinal, just to look at dick is there?
Gay men can look at dick in lots of places,it is the closeted (hetero) ones that often stand at urinals, wishing and hoping.
Even so, why should straight men be expected to expose themselves, when women are given individual privacy?
Couldn't men just wait for the cubicle
Could be a long wait! And what about open changing rooms?! My gym has no privacy at all! Why isn't it unisex? Why the separation of sexes, but not sexual preference?
Go to a different gym.
And it's sex segregated to protect women I'm sure.
Why don’t we protect the men?
From what? "
Whatever we’re protecting women from |
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"Not to mention the kinky bastards on here who get turned on by it ....... fancy peeing infront of them.
Your local perv would forever be on the soddin office bog.
Men don't have separate urinals for homosexual men or anyone else. I don't see that as an excuse. There's nothing stopping a gay man standing at a urinal, just to look at dick is there?
Gay men can look at dick in lots of places,it is the closeted (hetero) ones that often stand at urinals, wishing and hoping.
Even so, why should straight men be expected to expose themselves, when women are given individual privacy?
Couldn't men just wait for the cubicle
Could be a long wait! And what about open changing rooms?! My gym has no privacy at all! Why isn't it unisex? Why the separation of sexes, but not sexual preference?
Go to a different gym.
And it's sex segregated to protect women I'm sure.
Protect them from what?"
Men... assault/ r*pe etc. |
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"Not to mention the kinky bastards on here who get turned on by it ....... fancy peeing infront of them.
Your local perv would forever be on the soddin office bog.
Men don't have separate urinals for homosexual men or anyone else. I don't see that as an excuse. There's nothing stopping a gay man standing at a urinal, just to look at dick is there?
Gay men can look at dick in lots of places,it is the closeted (hetero) ones that often stand at urinals, wishing and hoping.
Even so, why should straight men be expected to expose themselves, when women are given individual privacy?
Couldn't men just wait for the cubicle
Could be a long wait! And what about open changing rooms?! My gym has no privacy at all! Why isn't it unisex? Why the separation of sexes, but not sexual preference?
Go to a different gym.
And it's sex segregated to protect women I'm sure.
Why don’t we protect the men?
From what?
Whatever we’re protecting women from"
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"Not to mention the kinky bastards on here who get turned on by it ....... fancy peeing infront of them.
Your local perv would forever be on the soddin office bog.
Men don't have separate urinals for homosexual men or anyone else. I don't see that as an excuse. There's nothing stopping a gay man standing at a urinal, just to look at dick is there?
Gay men can look at dick in lots of places,it is the closeted (hetero) ones that often stand at urinals, wishing and hoping.
Even so, why should straight men be expected to expose themselves, when women are given individual privacy?
Couldn't men just wait for the cubicle
Could be a long wait! And what about open changing rooms?! My gym has no privacy at all! Why isn't it unisex? Why the separation of sexes, but not sexual preference?
Go to a different gym.
And it's sex segregated to protect women I'm sure.
Protect them from what?
Men... assault/ r*pe etc."
Shouldn't men be given the same protection? |
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"Not to mention the kinky bastards on here who get turned on by it ....... fancy peeing infront of them.
Your local perv would forever be on the soddin office bog.
Men don't have separate urinals for homosexual men or anyone else. I don't see that as an excuse. There's nothing stopping a gay man standing at a urinal, just to look at dick is there?
Gay men can look at dick in lots of places,it is the closeted (hetero) ones that often stand at urinals, wishing and hoping.
Even so, why should straight men be expected to expose themselves, when women are given individual privacy?
Couldn't men just wait for the cubicle
Could be a long wait! And what about open changing rooms?! My gym has no privacy at all! Why isn't it unisex? Why the separation of sexes, but not sexual preference?
Go to a different gym.
And it's sex segregated to protect women I'm sure.
Why don’t we protect the men?
From what?
Whatever we’re protecting women from"
I'm not sure you can protect men from male violence by splitting the toilets/ changing rooms. |
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"Not to mention the kinky bastards on here who get turned on by it ....... fancy peeing infront of them.
Your local perv would forever be on the soddin office bog.
Men don't have separate urinals for homosexual men or anyone else. I don't see that as an excuse. There's nothing stopping a gay man standing at a urinal, just to look at dick is there?
Gay men can look at dick in lots of places,it is the closeted (hetero) ones that often stand at urinals, wishing and hoping.
Even so, why should straight men be expected to expose themselves, when women are given individual privacy?
Couldn't men just wait for the cubicle
Could be a long wait! And what about open changing rooms?! My gym has no privacy at all! Why isn't it unisex? Why the separation of sexes, but not sexual preference?
Go to a different gym.
And it's sex segregated to protect women I'm sure.
Protect them from what?
Men... assault/ r*pe etc.
Shouldn't men be given the same protection?"
See my comment above |
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"Not to mention the kinky bastards on here who get turned on by it ....... fancy peeing infront of them.
Your local perv would forever be on the soddin office bog.
Men don't have separate urinals for homosexual men or anyone else. I don't see that as an excuse. There's nothing stopping a gay man standing at a urinal, just to look at dick is there?
Gay men can look at dick in lots of places,it is the closeted (hetero) ones that often stand at urinals, wishing and hoping.
Even so, why should straight men be expected to expose themselves, when women are given individual privacy?
Couldn't men just wait for the cubicle
Could be a long wait! And what about open changing rooms?! My gym has no privacy at all! Why isn't it unisex? Why the separation of sexes, but not sexual preference?
Go to a different gym.
And it's sex segregated to protect women I'm sure.
Why don’t we protect the men?
From what?
Whatever we’re protecting women from
I'm not sure you can protect men from male violence by splitting the toilets/ changing rooms."
What about female violence? |
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"I wonder if people have different toilets for men and women at home"
I don't understand this one. Surely you don't invite unfamiliar m_mbers of the public into your house to use your toilet on a day-to-day basis do you? Effectively, you personally know pretty much everyone who uses your toilet. A public toilet where more than one person at a time can enter a toilet-block with no discrimination between sexes is surely a very different situation. |
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"I wonder if people have different toilets for men and women at home
I don't understand this one. Surely you don't invite unfamiliar m_mbers of the public into your house to use your toilet on a day-to-day basis do you? Effectively, you personally know pretty much everyone who uses your toilet. A public toilet where more than one person at a time can enter a toilet-block with no discrimination between sexes is surely a very different situation. "
I’ll let anyone shit in my home. Anyone!!! |
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"Not to mention the kinky bastards on here who get turned on by it ....... fancy peeing infront of them.
Your local perv would forever be on the soddin office bog.
Men don't have separate urinals for homosexual men or anyone else. I don't see that as an excuse. There's nothing stopping a gay man standing at a urinal, just to look at dick is there?
Gay men can look at dick in lots of places,it is the closeted (hetero) ones that often stand at urinals, wishing and hoping.
Even so, why should straight men be expected to expose themselves, when women are given individual privacy?
Couldn't men just wait for the cubicle
Could be a long wait! And what about open changing rooms?! My gym has no privacy at all! Why isn't it unisex? Why the separation of sexes, but not sexual preference?
Go to a different gym.
And it's sex segregated to protect women I'm sure.
Why don’t we protect the men?
From what?
Whatever we’re protecting women from
I'm not sure you can protect men from male violence by splitting the toilets/ changing rooms.
What about female violence?"
It's pretty rare, comparatively for women to assault men in a public bathroom... |
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"I wonder if people have different toilets for men and women at home
I don't understand this one. Surely you don't invite unfamiliar m_mbers of the public into your house to use your toilet on a day-to-day basis do you? Effectively, you personally know pretty much everyone who uses your toilet. A public toilet where more than one person at a time can enter a toilet-block with no discrimination between sexes is surely a very different situation.
I’ll let anyone shit in my home. Anyone!!!"
You, young lady, are a SAINT!! |
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"I wonder if people have different toilets for men and women at home
I don't understand this one. Surely you don't invite unfamiliar m_mbers of the public into your house to use your toilet on a day-to-day basis do you? Effectively, you personally know pretty much everyone who uses your toilet. A public toilet where more than one person at a time can enter a toilet-block with no discrimination between sexes is surely a very different situation.
I’ll let anyone shit in my home. Anyone!!!"
But would you let a random stranger - hypothetically, a 45 y/o male wearing a long gaberdine raincoat, go into the toilet at the same time as your hypothetical 13 y/o daughter is defecating? |
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"What if a gender fluid man suddenly becomes a gender fluid woman while she's got her cock out in the gents?! "
Nothing, if they've got a penis, the gents would be the right place for them |
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"I wonder if people have different toilets for men and women at home
I don't understand this one. Surely you don't invite unfamiliar m_mbers of the public into your house to use your toilet on a day-to-day basis do you? Effectively, you personally know pretty much everyone who uses your toilet. A public toilet where more than one person at a time can enter a toilet-block with no discrimination between sexes is surely a very different situation.
I’ll let anyone shit in my home. Anyone!!!
But would you let a random stranger - hypothetically, a 45 y/o male wearing a long gaberdine raincoat, go into the toilet at the same time as your hypothetical 13 y/o daughter is defecating?"
I only have one toilet |
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"I wonder if people have different toilets for men and women at home
I don't understand this one. Surely you don't invite unfamiliar m_mbers of the public into your house to use your toilet on a day-to-day basis do you? Effectively, you personally know pretty much everyone who uses your toilet. A public toilet where more than one person at a time can enter a toilet-block with no discrimination between sexes is surely a very different situation.
I’ll let anyone shit in my home. Anyone!!!
You, young lady, are a SAINT!! "
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"Not to mention the kinky bastards on here who get turned on by it ....... fancy peeing infront of them.
Your local perv would forever be on the soddin office bog.
Men don't have separate urinals for homosexual men or anyone else. I don't see that as an excuse. There's nothing stopping a gay man standing at a urinal, just to look at dick is there?
Gay men can look at dick in lots of places,it is the closeted (hetero) ones that often stand at urinals, wishing and hoping.
Even so, why should straight men be expected to expose themselves, when women are given individual privacy?
Couldn't men just wait for the cubicle
Could be a long wait! And what about open changing rooms?! My gym has no privacy at all! Why isn't it unisex? Why the separation of sexes, but not sexual preference?
Go to a different gym.
And it's sex segregated to protect women I'm sure.
Why don’t we protect the men?
From what?
Whatever we’re protecting women from
I'm not sure you can protect men from male violence by splitting the toilets/ changing rooms.
What about female violence?
It's pretty rare, comparatively for women to assault men in a public bathroom..."
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"What if a gender fluid man suddenly becomes a gender fluid woman while she's got her cock out in the gents?!
Nothing, if they've got a penis, the gents would be the right place for them "
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"What if a gender fluid man suddenly becomes a gender fluid woman while she's got her cock out in the gents?!
Nothing, if they've got a penis, the gents would be the right place for them
Women can have penises too. "
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"I wonder if people have different toilets for men and women at home
I don't understand this one. Surely you don't invite unfamiliar m_mbers of the public into your house to use your toilet on a day-to-day basis do you? Effectively, you personally know pretty much everyone who uses your toilet. A public toilet where more than one person at a time can enter a toilet-block with no discrimination between sexes is surely a very different situation.
I’ll let anyone shit in my home. Anyone!!!
But would you let a random stranger - hypothetically, a 45 y/o male wearing a long gaberdine raincoat, go into the toilet at the same time as your hypothetical 13 y/o daughter is defecating?
I only have one toilet "
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"What if a gender fluid man suddenly becomes a gender fluid woman while she's got her cock out in the gents?!
Nothing, if they've got a penis, the gents would be the right place for them
Women can have penises too.
Sure... "
Of course they can! Have you never heard of "trans women"? As soon as they identify as female, they are a woman. Penis or not! |
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"What if a gender fluid man suddenly becomes a gender fluid woman while she's got her cock out in the gents?!
Nothing, if they've got a penis, the gents would be the right place for them
Women can have penises too.
Sure...
Of course they can! Have you never heard of "trans women"? As soon as they identify as female, they are a woman. Penis or not!"
Okay.... |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
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I have no issue with unisex cubicles. I have no issue with weeing in front of a good friend.
I don't want to wee in front of strangers. I definitely don't want to empty my menstrual cup in from of them either.
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"What if a gender fluid man suddenly becomes a gender fluid woman while she's got her cock out in the gents?!
Nothing, if they've got a penis, the gents would be the right place for them
Women can have penises too.
Sure...
Of course they can! Have you never heard of "trans women"? As soon as they identify as female, they are a woman. Penis or not!
Okay.... "
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"What if a gender fluid man suddenly becomes a gender fluid woman while she's got her cock out in the gents?!
Nothing, if they've got a penis, the gents would be the right place for them
Women can have penises too.
Sure...
Of course they can! Have you never heard of "trans women"? As soon as they identify as female, they are a woman. Penis or not!
Okay....
Don't you agree?"
I don't, but you can think whatever you like. As can I. |
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"What if a gender fluid man suddenly becomes a gender fluid woman while she's got her cock out in the gents?!
Nothing, if they've got a penis, the gents would be the right place for them
Women can have penises too.
Sure...
Of course they can! Have you never heard of "trans women"? As soon as they identify as female, they are a woman. Penis or not!
Okay....
Don't you agree?
I don't, but you can think whatever you like. As can I."
Well the law is on my side, not yours. |
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"What if a gender fluid man suddenly becomes a gender fluid woman while she's got her cock out in the gents?!
Nothing, if they've got a penis, the gents would be the right place for them
Women can have penises too.
Sure...
Of course they can! Have you never heard of "trans women"? As soon as they identify as female, they are a woman. Penis or not!
Okay....
Don't you agree?
I don't, but you can think whatever you like. As can I.
Well the law is on my side, not yours. "
And common sense is on mine, as is science.
But we'll leave it there. |
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"What if a gender fluid man suddenly becomes a gender fluid woman while she's got her cock out in the gents?!
Nothing, if they've got a penis, the gents would be the right place for them
Women can have penises too.
Sure...
Of course they can! Have you never heard of "trans women"? As soon as they identify as female, they are a woman. Penis or not!
Okay....
Don't you agree?
I don't, but you can think whatever you like. As can I.
Well the law is on my side, not yours.
And common sense is on mine, as is science.
But we'll leave it there."
That sounds like hate speech to me.. |
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"What if a gender fluid man suddenly becomes a gender fluid woman while she's got her cock out in the gents?!
Nothing, if they've got a penis, the gents would be the right place for them
Women can have penises too.
Sure...
Of course they can! Have you never heard of "trans women"? As soon as they identify as female, they are a woman. Penis or not!
Okay....
Don't you agree?
I don't, but you can think whatever you like. As can I.
Well the law is on my side, not yours.
And common sense is on mine, as is science.
But we'll leave it there.
That sounds like hate speech to me.."
So you can say what you think but I can't... Okay ... |
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By *ayRosesWoman
over a year ago
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"UNESCO recognise single-sex provision of toilet facilities as a priority in achieving equality.
There you go then! It's important we all see each other piss! "
No - single SEX provision. You misunderstand. Provision for females. |
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over a year ago
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"What if a gender fluid man suddenly becomes a gender fluid woman while she's got her cock out in the gents?!
Nothing, if they've got a penis, the gents would be the right place for them
Women can have penises too.
Sure...
Of course they can! Have you never heard of "trans women"? As soon as they identify as female, they are a woman. Penis or not!
Okay....
Don't you agree?
I don't, but you can think whatever you like. As can I.
Well the law is on my side, not yours. "
It's not actually - and if you actually knew anything about the Equality Act 2010, you'd know that. But hey-ho, you've made your point. |
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We had unisex toilets at uni, no problems whatsoever. The local swimming pool has a unisex changing room, also no issue. It doesn't bother me one bit, everyone gets their own cubicle, so nobody sees anyone else. And it must be nicer for trans people to not have to deal with people commenting that they're in the 'wrong' toilets. |
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"What if a gender fluid man suddenly becomes a gender fluid woman while she's got her cock out in the gents?!
Nothing, if they've got a penis, the gents would be the right place for them
Women can have penises too.
Sure...
Of course they can! Have you never heard of "trans women"? As soon as they identify as female, they are a woman. Penis or not!
Okay....
Don't you agree?
I don't, but you can think whatever you like. As can I.
Well the law is on my side, not yours.
It's not actually - and if you actually knew anything about the Equality Act 2010, you'd know that. But hey-ho, you've made your point."
Are you saying women can't be women if they have a penis? |
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"We had unisex toilets at uni, no problems whatsoever. The local swimming pool has a unisex changing room, also no issue. It doesn't bother me one bit, everyone gets their own cubicle, so nobody sees anyone else. And it must be nicer for trans people to not have to deal with people commenting that they're in the 'wrong' toilets. "
Cubicles?! That's cheating! That's just lots of separate changing rooms that any sex can use. Hardly the same thing at all.. |
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over a year ago
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"What if a gender fluid man suddenly becomes a gender fluid woman while she's got her cock out in the gents?!
Nothing, if they've got a penis, the gents would be the right place for them
Women can have penises too.
Sure...
Of course they can! Have you never heard of "trans women"? As soon as they identify as female, they are a woman. Penis or not!
Okay....
Don't you agree?
I don't, but you can think whatever you like. As can I.
Well the law is on my side, not yours.
It's not actually - and if you actually knew anything about the Equality Act 2010, you'd know that. But hey-ho, you've made your point.
Are you saying women can't be women if they have a penis?"
I'm saying the protected characteristics in the EA that are relevant here are Sex and Gender Reassignment. |
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"What if a gender fluid man suddenly becomes a gender fluid woman while she's got her cock out in the gents?!
Nothing, if they've got a penis, the gents would be the right place for them
Women can have penises too.
Sure...
Of course they can! Have you never heard of "trans women"? As soon as they identify as female, they are a woman. Penis or not!
Okay....
Don't you agree?
I don't, but you can think whatever you like. As can I.
Well the law is on my side, not yours.
It's not actually - and if you actually knew anything about the Equality Act 2010, you'd know that. But hey-ho, you've made your point.
Are you saying women can't be women if they have a penis?
I'm saying the protected characteristics in the EA that are relevant here are Sex and Gender Reassignment. "
So women can be protected from other women with cocks? Or straight men should be protected from transmen without? You'll have to explain how it all works. |
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I think all toilets should be in cubicles.
I’d never have been happy to pee publicly.
As for ladies privacy, we sometimes have to pretty much get naked to pee. If I wear a playsuit without a bra I have to take it off, and have it pulled down with my knickers. I’m then naked from the knees up. |
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"I think all toilets should be in cubicles.
I’d never have been happy to pee publicly.
As for ladies privacy, we sometimes have to pretty much get naked to pee. If I wear a playsuit without a bra I have to take it off, and have it pulled down with my knickers. I’m then naked from the knees up. "
Now you're talking!! |
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(Female half here)
I believe that the fascination/appeal/anticipation of whatever gender appeals to you is partly due to the desire and mystery that surrounds them.
I may be an old romantic but the passion and excitement of decades ago feels like it’s slipping away with every step towards us being so familiar with each other.
I’m all for privacy wherever possible.
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over a year ago
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"What if a gender fluid man suddenly becomes a gender fluid woman while she's got her cock out in the gents?!
Nothing, if they've got a penis, the gents would be the right place for them
Women can have penises too.
Sure...
Of course they can! Have you never heard of "trans women"? As soon as they identify as female, they are a woman. Penis or not!
Okay....
Don't you agree?
I don't, but you can think whatever you like. As can I.
Well the law is on my side, not yours.
It's not actually - and if you actually knew anything about the Equality Act 2010, you'd know that. But hey-ho, you've made your point.
Are you saying women can't be women if they have a penis?
I'm saying the protected characteristics in the EA that are relevant here are Sex and Gender Reassignment.
So women can be protected from other women with cocks? Or straight men should be protected from transmen without? You'll have to explain how it all works. "
Why, are you incapable of reading the Act, or are you just trying to make a point?
As the Act stands to your question about whether women who have a GRC can be excluded legally from a single sex female space, the answer is yes. This can be to protect women who have another protected characteristic such as religion, or for other reasons. |
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"What if a gender fluid man suddenly becomes a gender fluid woman while she's got her cock out in the gents?!
Nothing, if they've got a penis, the gents would be the right place for them
Women can have penises too.
Sure...
Of course they can! Have you never heard of "trans women"? As soon as they identify as female, they are a woman. Penis or not!
Okay....
Don't you agree?
I don't, but you can think whatever you like. As can I.
Well the law is on my side, not yours.
It's not actually - and if you actually knew anything about the Equality Act 2010, you'd know that. But hey-ho, you've made your point.
Are you saying women can't be women if they have a penis?
I'm saying the protected characteristics in the EA that are relevant here are Sex and Gender Reassignment.
So women can be protected from other women with cocks? Or straight men should be protected from transmen without? You'll have to explain how it all works.
Why, are you incapable of reading the Act, or are you just trying to make a point?
As the Act stands to your question about whether women who have a GRC can be excluded legally from a single sex female space, the answer is yes. This can be to protect women who have another protected characteristic such as religion, or for other reasons."
It would be a cold day in hell before I'd want to read that, i can assure you. |
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"I think all toilets should be in cubicles.
I’d never have been happy to pee publicly.
As for ladies privacy, we sometimes have to pretty much get naked to pee. If I wear a playsuit without a bra I have to take it off, and have it pulled down with my knickers. I’m then naked from the knees up.
Now you're talking!! "
Lol. It’s a nightmare in a pub loo with no heating. |
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I’d never have been happy to pee publicly.
As for ladies privacy, we sometimes have to pretty much get naked to pee. If I wear a playsuit without a bra I have to take it off, and have it pulled down with my knickers. I’m then naked from the knees up.
Now you're talking!!
Lol. It’s a nightmare in a pub loo with no heating. "
Pub!! Chance would be a fine thing!! |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
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"I think all toilets should be in cubicles.
I’d never have been happy to pee publicly.
As for ladies privacy, we sometimes have to pretty much get naked to pee. If I wear a playsuit without a bra I have to take it off, and have it pulled down with my knickers. I’m then naked from the knees up.
Now you're talking!!
Lol. It’s a nightmare in a pub loo with no heating. "
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Slightly off topic but this week at work the disabled toilet has become gender neutral, the men’s are still for men and the women’s are still for the women, but for some reason the disabled single toilet with a lockable door is now for everyone, made me go a bit |
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"I think all toilets should be in cubicles.
I’d never have been happy to pee publicly.
As for ladies privacy, we sometimes have to pretty much get naked to pee. If I wear a playsuit without a bra I have to take it off, and have it pulled down with my knickers. I’m then naked from the knees up.
Now you're talking!!
Lol. It’s a nightmare in a pub loo with no heating.
Agreed, or if some grubber has peed on the floor before you."
Oh ffs yes!
It’s a mare trying to keep a dress or a skirt down far enough to pee, while keeping it off the floor and hovering above the seat, if it even has one. |
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"I think all toilets should be in cubicles.
I’d never have been happy to pee publicly.
As for ladies privacy, we sometimes have to pretty much get naked to pee. If I wear a playsuit without a bra I have to take it off, and have it pulled down with my knickers. I’m then naked from the knees up.
Now you're talking!!
Lol. It’s a nightmare in a pub loo with no heating.
Agreed, or if some grubber has peed on the floor before you.
Oh ffs yes!
It’s a mare trying to keep a dress or a skirt down far enough to pee, while keeping it off the floor and hovering above the seat, if it even has one. "
That's progress for ya! |
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"I avoid any public toilets.. I have a wee if desperate.. definatly not a poo..
Don't you have toilets where you work?"
I never used work toilets when I was employed. |
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"I avoid any public toilets.. I have a wee if desperate.. definatly not a poo..
Don't you have toilets where you work?
I never used work toilets when I was employed. "
Some of us don't have a choice. |
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"I avoid any public toilets.. I have a wee if desperate.. definatly not a poo..
Don't you have toilets where you work?
I never used work toilets when I was employed.
Some of us don't have a choice. "
I caused myself a lot of discomfort by not. |
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Why do we all have to do everything together all the time, invest in a few more bricks and porcelein and we can all have our own little sealed in room for pooping in peace. |
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"Why do we all have to do everything together all the time, invest in a few more bricks and porcelein and we can all have our own little sealed in room for pooping in peace. "
No! We must be as one! No differences! Gowd knows why. Cheaper to design new buildings with only one loo? |
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"I wonder if people have different toilets for men and women at home"
I wish! Between two small boys who don't even attempt to aim straight, & a dog who thinks the toilet is a great place to get a drink, I have learned to always wipe the seat before sitting down! |
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