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By *mileTogether69 OP   Man  over a year ago

Brighton

Hi guys,

Got a bit of a dilemma..

Involves the workplace tricky to begin with.

Female colleague ,who does nothing for me in banter has been moaning about having no sex in a couple of years.

Whether true or not...I don,t know . It all good natured banter along with my self and other male and female colleagues.

Says not looking for relationship just a bit of fun . Might just be trying to drop hints to someone who has,nt picked it up ( hopefully not me).

Not sure if I should mention Fab to her ....as not wishing to offend her.Equally would also let her know that i,m on there for which I wish to keep private and away from general knowledge from colleagues.

What do you think keep quiet or not ?

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS  over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS  over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Yep, definitely keep quiet.

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS  over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

...and definitely wouldn't advise you telling her you are on here.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman  over a year ago

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Don't mention fab, maybe suggest a popular dating site instead. If she joins here then yes you might get recognised

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

How is that a dilemma?

You state you want to keep your personal stuff private

So dont tell anyone!

Fab confuses me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You can mention there are certain 'no strings' sites but I would never tell a colleague I was on one. Sounds more like she is dropping hints rather than looking for suggestions though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldn't say anything, personally.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

Keep quiet. Her lack of a sex life isn't your problem.

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By *issmorganWoman  over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Say nothing,

I'm sure if she really wants to find some fun online she will.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No good deed goes unpunished.

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By *ervent_fervourMan  over a year ago

Halifax

Almost sounds like you might perhaps want her to know not only of the site but that you're on it? Maybe not if she does nothing for you.

I wouldn't mention anything, apart from maybe suggesting you all go out and see if you can hunt someone down for her!?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't tell her about Fab. I done that to help someone out, it backfired. Tell her to use Tinder, lots of casual sex on there

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS  over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"No good deed goes unpunished."

Yes it does, he could lose his job and his reputation.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Do not tell her that you are on FAB.

Don't suggest she tries a hook up site. As an adult she can make that decision herself.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"No good deed goes unpunished.

Yes it does, he could lose his job and his reputation. "

Uhmmmmmmmm that's what it means.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe she's on here already and has clocked you...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"How is that a dilemma?

You state you want to keep your personal stuff private

So dont tell anyone!

Fab confuses me"

No it doesn't. It's just the people.

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS  over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"No good deed goes unpunished.

Yes it does, he could lose his job and his reputation.

Uhmmmmmmmm that's what it means. "

Does it? I never could get double negatives!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi guys,

Got a bit of a dilemma..

Involves the workplace tricky to begin with.

Female colleague ,who does nothing for me in banter has been moaning about having no sex in a couple of years.

Whether true or not...I don,t know . It all good natured banter along with my self and other male and female colleagues.

Says not looking for relationship just a bit of fun . Might just be trying to drop hints to someone who has,nt picked it up ( hopefully not me).

Not sure if I should mention Fab to her ....as not wishing to offend her.Equally would also let her know that i,m on there for which I wish to keep private and away from general knowledge from colleagues.

What do you think keep quiet or not ?"

you answered your own question you dont want work colleagues to know you're on this internet domain and she is a work colleague

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By *mileTogether69 OP   Man  over a year ago

Brighton


"No good deed goes unpunished.

Yes it does, he could lose his job and his reputation. "

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By *mileTogether69 OP   Man  over a year ago

Brighton


"Maybe she's on here already and has clocked you...

"

theres a thought....hmmm feeling the anxiety levels going up..

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Don't mix Fab and work.

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By *mileTogether69 OP   Man  over a year ago

Brighton

Thanks for all your responses .....

Think it's a resounding " say nothing"

Probably the wise decision ..

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Omg no, no and no again!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don’t tell her you’re on here. You don’t want people in work knowing, some people wouldn’t understand. As for the horny colleague, tell her to get on a dating site as most guys on them are only looking for a fuck anyway.

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