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D*unk mouths speak sober thoughts?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have a friend who gets d*unk and insults me. I can brush it off and I refuse to insult back so instead I will end the conversation.
A one off you can forgive, but what if its more? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a friend who gets d*unk and insults me. I can brush it off and I refuse to insult back so instead I will end the conversation.
A one off you can forgive, but what if its more? "
I think I'd be asking just what sort of friend they are... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do find this to be partly true OP. Though in the past I have been able to express my feelings just as well sober.
At least you can blame it on the drink is feelings arnt reciprocated |
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"I have a friend who gets d*unk and insults me. I can brush it off and I refuse to insult back so instead I will end the conversation.
A one off you can forgive, but what if its more? "
Some people get like that when they're d*unk. I'd speak to them about it when they're sober. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have a friend who gets d*unk and insults me. I can brush it off and I refuse to insult back so instead I will end the conversation.
A one off you can forgive, but what if its more?
Some people get like that when they're d*unk. I'd speak to them about it when they're sober."
I'm just going to wait to see if I get an apology. If she doesn't recognise her actions then it says so much. |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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I’m sure sometimes a little less inhibition can bring out a bit more honesty. But similarly if someone is really d*unk they probably aren’t thinking straight.
I wonder if it can be like Freudian slips. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think the first response got to the heart of it - d*unk people do say things they won't back up when sober.
There is something to be said for alcohol giving people an easier route to get things off their chest though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think alcohol helps some people speak more, not necessarily honestly or lies. Its like anything else, some people react in very different ways. I never quite get how it makes some people angry, I just can’t relate to that  |
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"I have a friend who gets d*unk and insults me. I can brush it off and I refuse to insult back so instead I will end the conversation.
A one off you can forgive, but what if its more?
Some people get like that when they're d*unk. I'd speak to them about it when they're sober.
I'm just going to wait to see if I get an apology. If she doesn't recognise her actions then it says so much. "
Does she remember? Sometimes of you say nothing they think it's ok. |
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"It's WhatsApp... She can see
It's not the first time either "
In my opinion once can be put down to a d*unken mistake but twice is just inexcusable. But as I said if you're appearing to let it go by saying nothing she probably thinks you're ok with it.
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