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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A friend challenged me to post a pic of me au naturel.
So here you go: raw lighting, no filter, no clever pose or camera angle, no tensing any part of me.
Just me and the worst ‘look at me’ thread ever.
So what do you think: are my usual pictures a misrepresentation of who I am? |
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I think we all post photos that we think show us at our best.
After all we want to attract people. I don't see anything wrong in that.
Though I do think everyone should have at least one brutally honest photo available, to show potential meets. |
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"A friend challenged me to post a pic of me au naturel.
So here you go: raw lighting, no filter, no clever pose or camera angle, no tensing any part of me.
Just me and the worst ‘look at me’ thread ever.
So what do you think: are my usual pictures a misrepresentation of who I am?"
Not at all, your pics are open to artistic interpretation, depth and hues all add to the meaning of what you are trying to convey in your pics, profiles are portfolios and we tend to show what we want others to see. Good on you for stepping outside of your comfortable zone  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think we all post photos that we think show us at our best.
After all we want to attract people. I don't see anything wrong in that.
Though I do think everyone should have at least one brutally honest photo available, to show potential meets."
Sorted! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It feels weirdly 'naked' being un black and white in pics, the filters add a bit of a protective barrier still to vulnerability.
You still look great no fear  |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
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Naturally gorgeous OP.
I have a few unfiltered in my pics.
Only when we meet though do we ever get the real deal. Cameras seem to filter out details even without us messing with pics. For the full natural experience we have to engage all the senses. Something to look forward to with people we first meet with online.
I like the not knowing the full picture.
Seeing skin, flaws, movement, sound, smell, sensing character and revealing the level of connection for the first time is alluring ... and also brings a vulnerability. |
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"I think we all post photos that we think show us at our best.
After all we want to attract people. I don't see anything wrong in that.
Though I do think everyone should have at least one brutally honest photo available, to show potential meets.
Sorted!"
Indeed.
Though your honest, natural photo is much better than most |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A friend challenged me to post a pic of me au naturel.
So here you go: raw lighting, no filter, no clever pose or camera angle, no tensing any part of me.
Just me and the worst ‘look at me’ thread ever.
So what do you think: are my usual pictures a misrepresentation of who I am?"
You should redo all your shots natural. Keep it real. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s a really good pic, very natural.
I went through a similar feeling posting my first video today. Filters off doing something I do every day. I felt quite vulnerable. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Naturally gorgeous OP.
I have a few unfiltered in my pics.
Only when we meet though do we ever get the real deal. Cameras seem to filter out details even without us messing with pics. For the full natural experience we have to engage all the senses. Something to look forward to with people we first meet with online.
I like the not knowing the full picture.
Seeing skin, flaws, movement, sound, smell, sensing character and revealing the level of connection for the first time is alluring ... and also brings a vulnerability. "
I love yours.
And LolaDaisy just posted a superb one too.
In both cases, ultra feminine pictures with no artifices. I’m a big fan. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hope we never meet. I don't think my pride could handle being in the same room as you
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Oh! That’s disappointing, I want to share a beer or two. And I’m quite low key. I’m the discreet one at socials, hiding in the corner. Almost unnoticeable. Certainly not a casting a shadow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hope we never meet. I don't think my pride could handle being in the same room as you
Oh! That’s disappointing, I want to share a beer or two. And I’m quite low key. I’m the discreet one at socials, hiding in the corner. Almost unnoticeable. Certainly not a casting a shadow."
Are you trying to get me d*unk?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All my photos are natural and just me I've never put a filter on tried to look skinny or any better than I am I'd hate to try to look great get a meet then the person think fuck no your fat and ugly covered in hair good bye with me what you see is what you get but OP u seem to be getting lots of love from the ladies on here very lucky you are |
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