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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I seem to be attracting alot of male attention since I rejoined fab. It was fine until I put a few photos on (not that anyones Fab'd them or anything!) nothing special, two money shots and a half a face. I can't have no pics as thats just silly, I can't have just private photos as no one will chat or pm me. I had at one point put a PLEASE READ on my profile but that didn't work. Some of them get pissed off when I tell them I don't suck dick or Some of them are straight according to themselves until they want to mount you. Others want to 'change' me with their power of knowing what I want better than I do, apparently. Some of it you just wouldn't adam and eve it. It's a Bloody crying shame I'm not gay or bi as I would be knee deep in cock. |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
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Next time a bloke messages you asking you if you want your dick sucked (the messages I get from blokes invariably have some variation on that theme) just reply:
Thanks, I think I'd probably like it, but every time I try I just end up with a bad back
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I seem to be attracting alot of male attention since I rejoined fab. It was fine until I put a few photos on (not that anyones Fab'd them or anything!) nothing special, two money shots and a half a face. I can't have no pics as thats just silly, I can't have just private photos as no one will chat or pm me. I had at one point put a PLEASE READ on my profile but that didn't work. Some of them get pissed off when I tell them I don't suck dick or Some of them are straight according to themselves until they want to mount you. Others want to 'change' me with their power of knowing what I want better than I do, apparently. Some of it you just wouldn't adam and eve it. It's a Bloody crying shame I'm not gay or bi as I would be knee deep in cock. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"have sorted my messages cheers guys and girls, can i do something similar in the chat room?
why are you bothered about who watches your cam so long as they do not message you...its not catching  "
It does bother me a bit that actually... dunno why. Maybe its different for women? |
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"have sorted my messages cheers guys and girls, can i do something similar in the chat room?
why are you bothered about who watches your cam so long as they do not message you...its not catching
It does bother me a bit that actually... dunno why. Maybe its different for women?"
no...its different for ppl with unresolved issues...men i know who are confident in their sexuality couldnt give a toss...Sir is straight and finds it both complimentary and amusing. |
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"have sorted my messages cheers guys and girls, can i do something similar in the chat room?
why are you bothered about who watches your cam so long as they do not message you...its not catching "
I'm a good cricketer and can catch anything, as long as it's not a cold.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"have sorted my messages cheers guys and girls, can i do something similar in the chat room?
why are you bothered about who watches your cam so long as they do not message you...its not catching
It does bother me a bit that actually... dunno why. Maybe its different for women?
no...its different for ppl with unresolved issues...men i know who are confident in their sexuality couldnt give a toss...Sir is straight and finds it both complimentary and amusing."
Well that's a bit of a generalisation and a tad insulting.
I'm confident in my sexuality. I've even tried things with men, but not found it of interest to me, and with people I know it is different... but the guys in chat who are supposedly 'straight' I don't like it. I guess I do know why then  |
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Ok, let's get almost serious here then shall we.
I receive mails from "straight" guys who are quite obviously playing away behind their partner's back. What do I do you might ask?
Message them back(sarcastically) or block them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It amuses me that guys with all these bending over bottom pics and rather homo erotic style pics are surprised to have messages from guys "
Never said I was surprised, and the messages, that's just standard |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It amuses me that guys with all these bending over bottom pics and rather homo erotic style pics are surprised to have messages from guys
Never said I was surprised, and the messages, that's just standard "
My comment wasn't aimed at you personally, it was in general |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just a thought.
If a guy is worried about some bloke 100 miles away watching him on cam what is he going to be like when the hubby / partner is stood there naked and wanting to see his partner pleasured? Stage Fright Syndrome? And what was he doing on cam to start the interest?
Personally I couldn't give a rats arse who watches me on the rare occasions I get led astray on cam. And when I get messages or PMs I just politely say thank you but no thanks.
Not too dificult surely?
Slightly off thread but it always amuses me how people treat blokes pleasuring themselves on cam differently to women doing the same thing. The guy is called a 'right wanker' or worse while the lady is lavished with praise ...  |
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"Just a thought.
If a guy is worried about some bloke 100 miles away watching him on cam what is he going to be like when the hubby / partner is stood there naked and wanting to see his partner pleasured? Stage Fright Syndrome? "
I was thinking this same thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My OH gets lots of his pics fabbed by gay/bi/bi curious guys and the odd message,must admit i find it amusing and call him my very own gay icon,it does'nt bother him or me at all.
Each to there own i say hence message filters and block buttons are in force but just enjoy the attention your making someone smile nowt wrong in that . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My OH gets lots of his pics fabbed by gay/bi/bi curious guys and the odd message,must admit i find it amusing and call him my very own gay icon,it does'nt bother him or me at all.
Each to there own i say hence message filters and block buttons are in force but just enjoy the attention your making someone smile nowt wrong in that . "
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"Just a thought.
If a guy is worried about some bloke 100 miles away watching him on cam what is he going to be like when the hubby / partner is stood there naked and wanting to see his partner pleasured? Stage Fright Syndrome? And what was he doing on cam to start the interest?
Personally I couldn't give a rats arse who watches me on the rare occasions I get led astray on cam. And when I get messages or PMs I just politely say thank you but no thanks.
Not too dificult surely?
Slightly off thread but it always amuses me how people treat blokes pleasuring themselves on cam differently to women doing the same thing. The guy is called a 'right wanker' or worse while the lady is lavished with praise ... "
i have always found that odd too,i dont watch many cock cams anymore, but i do find the rudeness towards men v childish and inconsistent. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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its more like telling a dog 'no' when your trying to eat, I can assure you I have tried fruitlessly. I don't mind guys watching me, that's not the issue. It's when they pm you and don't stop. you could tell them you are a alien sculpted out of cat shit with eyes made out of whale bollocks, and they still ask 'do you wana suck my cock' or best yet 'do you wana have a wank race' yeah coz thats what all guys like to do together. And why can't men except the fact that if you wana suck cock that makes you bi, not gay not straight, bi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can sets your private messaging chats to no one or friends only. it gives you the option just under where your cam is shown in a drop down tab with red text i think |
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