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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's your views on giving veris or not? Sorry if this subject has been done to death probably a 100 times before. I'm just curious."
they are or can be a major source of negativity and the green eyed monster keep what you do to yourself thats my very good advice    |
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By *Jstarsolo OP Woman
over a year ago
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"What's your views on giving veris or not? Sorry if this subject has been done to death probably a 100 times before. I'm just curious.they are or can be a major source of negativity and the green eyed monster keep what you do to yourself thats my very good advice "
Surely not. The green eyed monster shouldn't have a place on fab should it? It's not a relationship site. We all know what we're here for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's your views on giving veris or not? Sorry if this subject has been done to death probably a 100 times before. I'm just curious."
I was given a fake one. Of which I didn't Ask for. As they thought it would help me to get more meets.
I reported the user for it
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I don't mind veris if someone I meet is unveried I will give them one. Other than that I will give veris to people I have met and liked which luckily is most people I've met. I just keep mine hidden as that's my personal choice. All my veris are really nice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That seems a good approach. What about people who don't return veris? Is it expected that they will, or are some people just not bothered?"
I've met people and had nothing back and sent nothing myself, yet had some send me a verification before I've drove home! not sure it really matters, some people send particularly nice things so I do appreciate that.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like veris. I read through mine and they make me smile and make me think back to meeting "
 yup same here..
I've met some folks who just don't make a big thing of them and they are fine with that.. I personally like to give them x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's your views on giving veris or not? Sorry if this subject has been done to death probably a 100 times before. I'm just curious."
If I had anything negative to say I wouldn't put it in a veri, instead I would point out what I did like about the social/meet. Thinking about that though, I wonder how true a reflection of someone their veris are. Also,what's written is personal opinion. So if girl A writes about a guy being great in the sack or good looking, girl B might feel totally differnt about that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not a lover of the verification system.
Don't like how graphic some can be. There's also the green eyed monster. And I don't like it that it displays the name of who left the veri. I'd rather there was a bit more privacy to it to be honest. I've also heard stories of how people have contacted all of the people that have verified someone and caused lots of problems. Another reason why I think the name shouldn't be displayed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've also heard stories of how people have contacted all of the people that have verified someone and caused lots of problems. Another reason why I think the name shouldn't be displayed. "
We've had that. A guy purely sent us a verification as we spoke to him in a club, we had his girlfriend on kicking off a week later asking what he was doing in the club, ridiculous  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That seems a good approach. What about people who don't return veris? Is it expected that they will, or are some people just not bothered?"
i dont expect or want a veri and tell them that |
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I like them, and always write them - I find them fun to write. But we don’t always receive them in return. I don’t tend to write them when we know the other person/people well and meet fairly regularly. But otherwise yes. And it’s helpful for others to have a sense of who you are and what you’re like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only have the one.. but have met quite a few.. it's a grey area .. some ladies / couples won't meet without veris . It does help .. it's also a good way of reading other gents profiles and seeing how their approach is x |
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"What's your views on giving veris or not? Sorry if this subject has been done to death probably a 100 times before. I'm just curious."
I always leave veris when I had a good time and expect in return. If I don’t get any after a first meet I’d assume they don’t want to see me again and there it ends :D If my meets become regular with certain couples I might leave the second one maybe a year later x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's your views on giving veris or not? Sorry if this subject has been done to death probably a 100 times before. I'm just curious.they are or can be a major source of negativity and the green eyed monster keep what you do to yourself thats my very good advice
Surely not. The green eyed monster shouldn't have a place on fab should it? It's not a relationship site. We all know what we're here for."
I’ve never had any problems with jealous people in the years I’ve been here. I feel that veris are a useful indicator (when considered with other factors) if whether someone is likely to be worth meeting up with.
I prefer non graphing light hearted descriptions of the personality though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They are some strangers opinion of someone and may be far different than your own. Lets be honest its better to make your own mind up on someone rather than trusting a strangers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it all a bit cringey. I don't even tell my closest friends some of the things people put in veris nevermind display them for all to see.
I don't show mine, I like to keep my sex life private. |
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By *nRachCouple
over a year ago
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I don't think the site works without them, we wouldn't meet anyone without veris normally as we see them as a way of proving you are genuine. To us its not what they say it the fact your proven genuine and reliable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also the so called newbies that get verified straight are an instant block
Why?most of them are fake "
I was verified 3 times within 30 minutes of joining Fab.
I’d come from another site and had friends on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also the so called newbies that get verified straight are an instant block
Why?most of them are fake
I was verified 3 times within 30 minutes of joining Fab.
I’d come from another site and had friends on here. "
Thats how i got verified when i first joined |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm happy to give and receive a veri if we've met, though, I don't see it necessary to give a run down of what happened if it became more than a social as that's between those involved. |
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By *Jstarsolo OP Woman
over a year ago
Wombwell, Barnsley |
"What's your views on giving veris or not? Sorry if this subject has been done to death probably a 100 times before. I'm just curious.they are or can be a major source of negativity and the green eyed monster keep what you do to yourself thats my very good advice
Surely not. The green eyed monster shouldn't have a place on fab should it? It's not a relationship site. We all know what we're here for.some are here for relationships though, they see it as a more honest place to find a partner "
Fab, honest, really?? There are so many married men professing to be single, or part of a fictitious couple it's quite frightening really. Who do you trust amongst such blatant liers and cheats. |
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By *Jstarsolo OP Woman
over a year ago
Wombwell, Barnsley |
"Veris can be useful to help determine whether person is who they say they are ..what I'm not keen on is multiple veris from same person or graphic descriptive veris  "
I like repeat veris though with the same person. Don't have to be graphic. After all, we all know where the bits go and what to do! |
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