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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i have had an outdoor meet this morning. Meet went well. No drama. Got home. did him a nice verify. Later was going to thank him and wow am blocked.i think am too nice at times for my own good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have had an outdoor meet this morning. Meet went well. No drama. Got home. did him a nice verify. Later was going to thank him and wow am blocked.i think am too nice at times for my own good."
awwww thats really quite sad maybe he didnt like veri and blocking is only way to get rid of it  |
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"i have had an outdoor meet this morning. Meet went well. No drama. Got home. did him a nice verify. Later was going to thank him and wow am blocked.i think am too nice at times for my own good."
Yup. I’ve had this. Actually went on to do a veri and noticed I was blocked, unblocked month or so later and he’s asking for round 2 hmmm let me think about that  |
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"i have had an outdoor meet this morning. Meet went well. No drama. Got home. did him a nice verify. Later was going to thank him and wow am blocked.i think am too nice at times for my own good."
What is being "too nice" mean?
He was horny, you scratched an itch, got home and he probably felt ashamed...we'll never know.
Block him and forget him.
On to the next one hey!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have had an outdoor meet this morning. Meet went well. No drama. Got home. did him a nice verify. Later was going to thank him and wow am blocked.i think am too nice at times for my own good.awwww thats really quite sad maybe he didnt like veri and blocking is only way to get rid of it "
That's not true, he simply doesn't have to publish it. You're getting confused with blocking someone so that your veri to them doesn't show. |
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Has happened to me once, great meet and I did her a great veri but she refused to do one in return stating she didn't want others to know who she's met ?. Looking back the whole thing was a little off, she was utterly false and I was left feeling used in some way. |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
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We only have one side of the story, he might have seen things very differently and have what he considers a perfectly good reason for blocking her. Bit harsh to judge him just on one person's account of things. |
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"We only have one side of the story, he might have seen things very differently and have what he considers a perfectly good reason for blocking her. Bit harsh to judge him just on one person's account of things."
I made a judgement based on the info available.
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"We only have one side of the story, he might have seen things very differently and have what he considers a perfectly good reason for blocking her. Bit harsh to judge him just on one person's account of things. I made a judgement based on the info available. "
Which is one person’s side of it.
Comes back to if a guy posted something similar, the responses would be oh so different |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
The Land that time forgot (Norfolk) |
"We only have one side of the story, he might have seen things very differently and have what he considers a perfectly good reason for blocking her. Bit harsh to judge him just on one person's account of things. I made a judgement based on the info available. "
Yes, that is what you did |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm guessing it wasn't just a social, thats poor from the guy. Gives decent guys a bad name. "
How does one man blocking have any effect on any other men on here, decent or otherwise? |
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"I'm guessing it wasn't just a social, thats poor from the guy. Gives decent guys a bad name.
How does one man blocking have any effect on any other men on here, decent or otherwise?"
Don't understand that concept either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have had an outdoor meet this morning. Meet went well. No drama. Got home. did him a nice verify. Later was going to thank him and wow am blocked.i think am too nice at times for my own good."
I'm more interested why you'd want to air you view on the forum? Sorry I am a bit different from the norm..... |
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"I'm guessing it wasn't just a social, thats poor from the guy. Gives decent guys a bad name.
Not really"
So a meet that's good enough to go further (foreplay or sex or both) then a block straight after?
Sorry but i wouldnt wanna be associated with such shit behaviour. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm guessing it wasn't just a social, thats poor from the guy. Gives decent guys a bad name.
Not really
So a meet that's good enough to go further (foreplay or sex or both) then a block straight after?
Sorry but i wouldnt wanna be associated with such shit behaviour. "
You have no idea what happened when they met, immediately after they met, what the op put in his verification, or his reasons for blocking though. |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
The Land that time forgot (Norfolk) |
"I'm guessing it wasn't just a social, thats poor from the guy. Gives decent guys a bad name.
Not really
So a meet that's good enough to go further (foreplay or sex or both) then a block straight after?
Sorry but i wouldnt wanna be associated with such shit behaviour. "
How are you associated? |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"I'm guessing it wasn't just a social, thats poor from the guy. Gives decent guys a bad name.
Not really
So a meet that's good enough to go further (foreplay or sex or both) then a block straight after?
Sorry but i wouldnt wanna be associated with such shit behaviour.
You have no idea what happened when they met, immediately after they met, what the op put in his verification, or his reasons for blocking though. "
And even if he was an utter dick and had no good reason for his behaviour, how does that reflect on any other man? |
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"I'm guessing it wasn't just a social, thats poor from the guy. Gives decent guys a bad name.
Not really
So a meet that's good enough to go further (foreplay or sex or both) then a block straight after?
Sorry but i wouldnt wanna be associated with such shit behaviour.
You have no idea what happened when they met, immediately after they met, what the op put in his verification, or his reasons for blocking though. "
I'm taking the comment 'the meet went very well' to mean it went beyond a social Pepsi (Maybe it didnt).
If it did, I'm just saying the op was treated pretty poorly by whoever it was she met.
And by association, it's not the way I'd treat someone I'd been intimate with, and i wouldn't want every guy tarred with the same brush - me included. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"I'm guessing it wasn't just a social, thats poor from the guy. Gives decent guys a bad name.
Not really
So a meet that's good enough to go further (foreplay or sex or both) then a block straight after?
Sorry but i wouldnt wanna be associated with such shit behaviour.
You have no idea what happened when they met, immediately after they met, what the op put in his verification, or his reasons for blocking though.
I'm taking the comment 'the meet went very well' to mean it went beyond a social Pepsi (Maybe it didnt).
If it did, I'm just saying the op was treated pretty poorly by whoever it was she met.
And by association, it's not the way I'd treat someone I'd been intimate with, and i wouldn't want every guy tarred with the same brush - me included. "
That's only her interpretation though. And only an idiot would assume because one man does something all men will do the same, so I wouldn't worry about those folk  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's rude same as people who read messages an dont reply or block you
Must remember this emoji.
And he can have one from me
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Could do with a "go read FAQ" emoji |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have had an outdoor meet this morning. Meet went well. No drama. Got home. did him a nice verify. Later was going to thank him and wow am blocked.i think am too nice at times for my own good.awwww thats really quite sad maybe he didnt like veri and blocking is only way to get rid of it
That's not true, he simply doesn't have to publish it. You're getting confused with blocking someone so that your veri to them doesn't show. "
if he were the type to show them publicly i meant  |
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"What a prick!
Counter block and forget him!
You cant as you dont get to the profile page to block"
You don't need to get as far as their profile page. Once you get to the bit where it says you've been blocked, click on the top right button and you can block from there. |
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Fuck him. Actually dont. But you know what I mean. 'NEXT, PLEASE!'. 
