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over a year ago
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Is it nerves op? If so would you feel anymore settled by going with someone you've never met before? I'm not having a dig but something like that me personally i would only ask of a friend on here or at least someone I had already been chatting with. |
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over a year ago
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"Go alone
Although I do know how you feel. I wouldn’t like to go alone either! Not the first time anyway"
I just didn’t know if a single guy is welcomed that much I don’t know just me I guess
It’s not nerves just want to sorta know some that are doing too |
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"Go alone
Although I do know how you feel. I wouldn’t like to go alone either! Not the first time anyway
I just didn’t know if a single guy is welcomed that much I don’t know just me I guess
It’s not nerves just want to sorta know some that are doing too "
Single guys is where they make their money |
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I've been asking folk recently about clubs and how it goes for a single chap. The most recent person I spoke to told me to phone before going and ask any pertinent questions, also that particular club will have a regular member take a newbie around the place on their first night to help ease them in and show them about ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Go alone
Although I do know how you feel. I wouldn’t like to go alone either! Not the first time anyway
I just didn’t know if a single guy is welcomed that much I don’t know just me I guess
It’s not nerves just want to sorta know some that are doing too "
Most clubs will have designated times where single men are welcome, some will limit the number of single men in each of these times though, do ring the club and speak to them they will talk you through any questions you have and the rules of the club.
If you are a social guy irl you'll be fine in a club, you may find going solo is better for you, it took me a while to learn how I enjoy a club the best but solo is best for me....and yes I walked in alone the very first club I went to
Try looking in the meets section for ppl with club meets posted, swingers are friendly ppl and most will happily stop to chat on the night if you've made contact with them before |
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Seriously go alone. I attend many many clubs and often see when walking in alone and they are always made to feel very welcome. For first timers it's the nerves of walking through the door for the first time but once you've conquered that you'll wonder what all the fuss was about and you'll be hooked. |
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I shall be at chameleons darlaston 7th-9th feb, wont be going with anyone but anybody is welcome to say hi and chat with me, I will be booking a room for the 2 nights x |
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